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Scumbag punches 3 year old in the face.

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,353 ✭✭✭Cold War Kid


    If a violent person grew up in a violent household, this is likely the reason for their violence, but it doesn't take any responsibility away from them.
    And there are also people who grow up in violent households who are determined not to put their children through what they went through, and don't.

    (Not watching it either).


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,014 ✭✭✭eamonnq


    FFS, am not watching the video as I know I will be sorry I saw it, but some of the comments on this thread already are a disgrace too.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,245 ✭✭✭myshirt


    @Coldwarkid, it doesn't, I agree. He is fully culpable.

    My concern now is that kid. Someone let his father down very, very bad before he went on to let himself down in such an appalling way. I'm asking, is there anything that can be done now to support a good outcome for the toddler?

    Or is it a case of as long as it's not on my doorstep or doesn't hit my pocket. Because that is exactly what goes on in this country, no one gives a sh!t as long as it's scumbags killing scumbags, or it's not your children growing up in that environment. Yes they are most likely facing a life of misery, immense challenge, mental health difficulties, suicide, and unemployment, but hey, as long as it doesn't hit my pocket!

    That's what I find to be the sickening element here.


  • Posts: 22,384 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I opened the thread thinking it was a bit pointless, a lot of handflapping where everyone tut tuts.

    Then I saw the video.

    Jesus. It's appalling. The fear that child must live in. Was brought up in a house where my parents treated all 7 of us like royalty, and as the youngest I was like the Second Coming. You see that and realise that so much in life is down to chance and matters outside your control, like the circumstances into which you are born.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 893 ✭✭✭PLL


    As the mother of a 3 year old, I don't even want to look at that article/video. Judging from peoples comments here about the mother not giving a damn and as a child of abuse myself I pray to God that child is taken away from them. A care home might sound bad, but it will never be as bad as growing up knowing your parents don't give two fúcks about you.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,925 ✭✭✭✭anncoates


    theboy1 wrote: »
    The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.

    Another AH shock merchant. Ten a penny at this stage.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,398 ✭✭✭whatdoicare


    myshirt wrote: »
    What a lot of you fail to realise is that this chap was likely himself punched in the face as a three year old.

    And potentially this three year old may go on to punch a few toddlers in the face when he grows up.

    That's the issue to be repulsed about. Not this. Though I am very, very angry he done that, and struggling to hold my nerve.

    Locking them up in jail on a cyclical basis seems to be a great strategy to eradicating the issue, doesn't it...

    My father was beaten on a regular basis by his dad and never once laid a finger on us - which is very lucky for us as he's a huge man and he would have probably killed us. He never once in my whole life slapped or raised his voice to me, no matter what I did.

    My husband was also beaten mercilessly by his absolute drunken scumbag of a father and he has never raised a hand to me or his toddler child and it wouldn't even occur to him to do so - although he did ask me after seeing the video what I would have done if I was that kids mother and I calmly told him that he'd go to sleep that night but he wouldn't be waking up ever again.

    Anyway, my point being that just because a toddler was hit by his dad does not mean that he will be doomed to repeat history nor does it mean that his father was beaten as a child.

    The father is a grown man with a brain all of his own - he made the decision to hit his son, nothing made him do it. He's a scumbag and he deserves to be punished harshly, that idiot mother doesn't deserve her beautiful children and should also be punished and that poor baby deserves a much better home. I really hope he is in a loving home now and that his nightmare is over :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,345 ✭✭✭doolox


    ...and be assaulted by some anonymous care worker or fellow inmate and end up not being able to have any intimate relationship after all the abuse he may suffer in state "care".

    As a child 45 yrs ago I was often beaten around the head, kicked in the arse and "chastised" like in the video and nothing was done about it by the state.

    Just as well when you hear and see about all the abuse and other abominations commited and allowed to be commited by "carers" and other inmates in care centres.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,353 ✭✭✭Cold War Kid


    myshirt wrote: »
    What a lot of you fail to realise is that this chap was likely himself punched in the face as a three year old.

    And potentially this three year old may go on to punch a few toddlers in the face when he grows up.

    That's the issue to be repulsed about. Not this.
    "Not this"? People can and will be repulsed by this, and can easily be repulsed by the other issue simultaneously.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 643 ✭✭✭Geniass


    myshirt wrote: »
    Someone let his father down very, very bad before ...

    You're assuming an awful lot there.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 959 ✭✭✭MonsterCookie


    What an absolute scrote.

    I'm sure this is not the first time he has assaulted to poor little fella. Hopefully, the kid has been saved further harm.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,285 ✭✭✭Summer wind


    It makes me sick to my stomach to think of what that poor baby has suffered. What a total scumbag this "man" is.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,937 ✭✭✭galljga1


    Cuddling with my six year old watching some mind numbing rubbish on TV. Sometimes I even get to cuddle with my grown up 11 year old. Love it. Can't understand sh1t like this.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,266 ✭✭✭3rdDegree


    galljga1 wrote: »
    First and last time I ever hit anyone since I was about 10. It did not sort out his kid's problem but may have given him some idea that beating the sh1t out of kids is not the right thing to do, probably not.

    Probably not....


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