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  • #2462
    heyday30
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,877 ✭✭✭heyday30


    tomwaterford wrote: »
    Lock her in the cupboard....emm I dunno I kinda like whatsapp though I'm actually awlful for replying in the group....I'm even more of a lurker in real life :rolleyes:

    I like WhatsApp too. Great for the aul free texts :)


  • #2463
    Trebor176
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,435 ✭✭✭Trebor176


    I don't quite get the Whatsapp malarkey, nor do I intend on downloading it. I'm behind on the various chat sites as well. I'll stick to what I know ;)


  • #2464
    Aint Eazy Being Cheezy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,634 ✭✭✭Aint Eazy Being Cheezy


    eternal wrote: »
    I never thought anyone adding me on Facebook meant that ever.

    Fair enough. But saying that kinda contradicts this:
    eternal wrote: »
    Why are you friends with him on Facebook. It sounds like you may have led him on tbh.


  • #2465
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    [Deleted User] wrote: »
    If only it did. I'd send Facebook friend requests to EVERYONE.

    To be fair I get a lot of strange men adding me and I would question it. But it's not like I think there's a specific reason or anything. Usually I'd wait until I've had previous contact with them.


  • #2466
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    eternal wrote: »
    To be fair I get a lot of strange men adding me and I would question it. But it's not like I think there's a specific reason or anything. Usually I'd wait until I've had previous contact with them.

    Is that what people do? How would they know who you are? I'd never think of adding random people!


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  • #2467
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    The Cunning Linguist wrote: »
    Fair enough. But saying that kinda contradicts this:

    All I was saying is that going back a bit that poster said the guy was annoying her and wouldn't accept she didn't want to date him so I thought maybe engaging them on Facebook might not be ideal but then what would I know.


  • #2468
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    [Deleted User] wrote: »
    Is that what people do? How would they know who you are? I'd never think of adding random people!

    I ask them how they know me and they don't reply. I post a lot in article comments, maybe that's what it is.


  • #2469
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    eternal wrote: »
    I ask them how they know me and they don't reply. I post a lot in article comments, maybe that's what it is.

    Would you consider beefing up your privacy settings so only friends of friends, which I believe is the deepest you can go, can send you invites?


  • #2470
    Aint Eazy Being Cheezy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,634 ✭✭✭Aint Eazy Being Cheezy


    eternal wrote: »
    All I was saying is that going back a bit that poster said the guy was annoying her and wouldn't accept she didn't want to date him so I thought maybe engaging them on Facebook might not be ideal but then what would I know.

    Victim-blaming. Tut tut.


  • #2471
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    The Cunning Linguist wrote: »
    Victim-blaming. Tut tut.

    Ah yeah. Hope you had a nice Easter anyway.


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  • #2472
    oceanstreet
    Closed Accounts Posts: 177 ✭✭oceanstreet


    Run for the hills, Tom boy, if a person does that it isn't going anywhere!

    Tinder is just an extention of our spoiled, choice-laden current existence (if ya know what I mean :p )


  • #2473
    Trebor176
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,435 ✭✭✭Trebor176


    Why are opening messages so hard? I'm trying to put together a decent message to a girl, who has a longish profile, and shares a couple of interests (maybe more) with me. I tend to struggle putting the words together at times.


  • #2474
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    Trebor176 wrote: »
    Why are opening messages so hard? I'm trying to put together a decent message to a girl, who has a longish profile, and shares a couple of interests (maybe more) with me. I tend to struggle putting the words together at times.

    Just go with the guy who told me that he'd like to smash my back doors in. Works a treat.


  • #2475
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    eternal wrote: »
    Just go with the guy who told me that he'd like to smash my back doors in. Works a treat.

    That made me laugh quite hard.


  • #2476
    oceanstreet
    Closed Accounts Posts: 177 ✭✭oceanstreet


    Trebor176 wrote: »
    Why are opening messages so hard? I'm trying to put together a decent message to a girl, who has a longish profile, and shares a couple of interests (maybe more) with me. I tend to struggle putting the words together at times.

    I think they're hard in part because of the forced, almost unnatural aspect of the message. It's like no matter what's said it ends up coming out as sounding kinda shallow. Keep it on the light side is my advice!

    Thats my wisdom for day :D


  • #2477
    stop animal cruelty
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,012 ✭✭✭stop animal cruelty


    Eternal I didn't led anyone one. I made it clear to the guy I wasn't interested in him, be friends. I don't engage anything with him. He asked again, when was my next night off. Didn't reply. ...and he still sending snaps of himself etc! I do not reply. He just won't stop!

    He doesn't get it......i feel like iv to tell him f off...remove him from all social networks for the only way for this to stop. I can't help but feel like a bitch n rude.....he's a plague tbh


  • #2478
    stop animal cruelty
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,012 ✭✭✭stop animal cruelty


    Tom sorry to hear bout your date! Fingers crossed something might work out!


  • #2479
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    stop animal cruelty wrote: »
    Eternal I didn't led anyone one. I made it clear to the guy I wasn't interested in him, be friends. I don't engage anything with him. He asked again, when was my next night off. Didn't reply. ...and he still sending snaps of himself etc! I do not reply. He just won't stop!

    He doesn't get it......i feel like iv to tell him f off...remove him from all social networks for the only way for this to stop. I can't help but feel like a bitch n rude.....he's a plague tbh

    Alright, I apologise. I obviously got it wrong.


  • #2480
    heyday30
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,877 ✭✭✭heyday30


    Trebor176 wrote: »
    Why are opening messages so hard? I'm trying to put together a decent message to a girl, who has a longish profile, and shares a couple of interests (maybe more) with me. I tend to struggle putting the words together at times.

    Just say sup biatch. I would much like to get it on. Giggidy.


  • #2481
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    What dating sites/apps are people using, if any?


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  • #2482
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    eternal wrote: »
    Just go with the guy who told me that he'd like to smash my back doors in. Works a treat.

    While I wouldn't want to word it that way, "smashing someone's back doors in" is something I need to do again... been far too long!


  • #2483
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    Karsini wrote: »
    While I wouldn't want to word it that way, "smashing someone's back doors in" is something I need to do again... been far too long!

    Break into many houses, then?


  • #2484
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    Just say 'Hello' and something about them being pretty. That's the usual I thought.


  • #2485
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    Deleted User wrote: »
    Break into many houses, then?

    I'm from Ballyfermot, what do you think? :p :pac:


  • #2486
    Trebor176
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,435 ✭✭✭Trebor176


    Ah, I just went with the usual taking something from her profile that we have a mutual interest in. I'd like to get to know her, etc.


  • #2487
    oceanstreet
    Closed Accounts Posts: 177 ✭✭oceanstreet


    eternal wrote: »
    Just say 'Hello' and something about them being pretty. That's the usual I thought.

    Only if they're a bit of a perv!


  • #2488
    heyday30
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,877 ✭✭✭heyday30


    Karsini wrote: »
    While I wouldn't want to word it that way, "smashing someone's back doors in" is something I need to do again... been far too long!

    :O :O


  • #2489
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    oceanstreet wrote: »
    Only if they're a bit of a perv!

    How is that pervy? They're just saying what is.


  • #2490
    oceanstreet
    Closed Accounts Posts: 177 ✭✭oceanstreet


    stop animal cruelty wrote: »
    Eternal I didn't led anyone one. I made it clear to the guy I wasn't interested in him, be friends. I don't engage anything with him. He asked again, when was my next night off. Didn't reply. ...and he still sending snaps of himself etc! I do not reply. He just won't stop!

    He doesn't get it......i feel like iv to tell him f off...remove him from all social networks for the only way for this to stop. I can't help but feel like a bitch n rude.....he's a plague tbh

    If you want it to stop I suggest you do exactly that.


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  • #2491
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    eternal wrote: »
    How is that pervy? They're just saying what is.

    You'd be surprised how many women react to that badly.


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