Do your parents stil blame you for something?

Lau2976 · 01-04-2015 09:59AM #1

Did you do something that you think your parents still blame you for?

My parents house is full of books, nearly every wall has bookcases, including the stairway now :eek: and every month they organize them because they're constantly buying more. Because of that books often pile up until they are alphabetized by authors last name. When I was 8 I spilt Rubens in a stack of relatively rear psychology books, my dad only found the last one yesterday.

He says he doesn't but I know he still blames me! Anything you've done you still feel blamed for?

whiskeyman · 01-04-2015 10:05AM

being born

kylith · 01-04-2015 10:05AM

My dad still blames me for pulling the releases on the champagne he was brewing and ruining the batch, in 1988! And I didn't even do it!

L.Jenkins · 01-04-2015 10:05AM

Genital warts!

One eyed Jack · 01-04-2015 10:07AM

Everything that's gone wrong in their lives :rolleyes:

You'd imagine they'd be over it by now :pac:

The Peanut · 01-04-2015 10:07AM

Lau2976 wrote: »

When I was 8 I spilt Rubens in a stack of relatively rear psychology books, my dad only found the last one yesterday.

"Know your own arse" by Phil McRackin.

Effects · 01-04-2015 10:08AM

kylith wrote: »

My dad still blames me for pulling the releases on the champagne he was brewing and ruining the batch, in 1988! And I didn't even do it!

Time to tell him it wasn't Champagne he was 'brewing' and to get over it.

unjedilike · 01-04-2015 10:08AM

Tried to clear the home pc of all it's problems about twelve years ago. I hadn't a clue and ended up deleting the family tree that my Dad had worked so hard on.

Mr. CooL ICE · 01-04-2015 10:38AM

My sister was born on the same day Munster beat the All Blacks. My dad hasn't forgiven her and never will

01-04-2015 10:58AM

Nicolas Cage wrote: »

My sister was born on the same day Munster beat the All Blacks. My dad hasn't forgiven her and never will

On the other hand, no one cared about Munster during the 80s.

So she must have had a good 10 or 20 years until the 2000s and some play written during the Celtic Tiger, when suddenly it became a Really Big Deal.

anncoates · 01-04-2015 11:01AM

Planning my son's party the day of the All Ireland so he had to miss it.

libelula · 01-04-2015 11:02AM

anncoates wrote: »

Planning my son's party the day of the All Ireland so he had to miss it.

The party, I hope? :eek:

anncoates · 01-04-2015 11:04AM

libelula wrote: »

The party, I hope? :eek:

The final.

To be fair, it was a genuine logistical mistake. Out of my hands

galljga1 · 01-04-2015 11:05AM

Itzy wrote: »

Genital warts!

Your parents??

angeldelight · 01-04-2015 11:05AM

I was born on Christmas Day so my mam didn't get a Christmas dinner that year... Still going on about it!

libelula · 01-04-2015 11:06AM

anncoates wrote: »

The final.

To be fair, it was a genuine logistical mistake. Out of my hands

I'd burst ya :pac:

Pumpkinseeds · 01-04-2015 11:07AM

Yep, my mother still blames me for her and my dad not splitting up 30 years ago. Dafuq was she thinking asking a sick 12 year old kid who she wanted to live with

She should have made that decision herself and left if she wanted to.:mad:

The Peanut · 01-04-2015 11:07AM

anncoates wrote: »

The final.

To be fair, it was a genuine logistical mistake. Out of my hands

I was born the on the day of a hurling all-Ireland involving my home county. My dad was playing and they lost. Guess what I'm associated with?:o

anncoates · 01-04-2015 11:10AM

libelula wrote: »

I'd burst ya :pac:

It was herself. Even I'd notice that. I'm just waiting for a surprise revenge cup final wrecking anniversary party some November in the future.

dinorebel · 01-04-2015 11:10AM

My sister blames me for my mother dying while giving birth to me bitch is sleeping with my brother though so it's hard to take her seriously.

Your Superior · 01-04-2015 11:11AM

dinorebel wrote: »

My sister blames me for my mother dying while giving birth to me bitch is sleeping with my brother though so it's hard to take her seriously.

WTF?

Frynge · 01-04-2015 11:12AM

dinorebel wrote: »

My sister blames me for my mother dying while giving birth to me bitch is sleeping with my brother though so it's hard to take her seriously.

Tyrion, is that you.

galljga1 · 01-04-2015 11:18AM

dinorebel wrote: »

My sister blames me for my mother dying while giving birth to me bitch is sleeping with my brother though so it's hard to take her seriously.

Doe this one top Itzy giving his parents genital warts?

Wacker The Attacker · 01-04-2015 11:39AM

Nicolas Cage wrote: »

My sister was born on the same day Munster beat the All Blacks. My dad hasn't forgiven her and never will

Dont worry. There was 775,000 people in the stadium that day. Not the 12,000 the stadium could hold.

Larbre34 · 01-04-2015 11:51AM

Nicolas Cage wrote: »

My sister was born on the same day Munster beat the All Blacks. My dad hasn't forgiven her and never will

In those days it shouldn't have mattered, he would have gone to the game anyway and seen your sister the day after, hardly would have scared her for life.

Ask him if he honestly, genuinely thought that Munster had a hope of beating them that day, that he wouldn't have gone to the match regardless.

Vowel Movement · 01-04-2015 12:31PM

I was a bad little shít as a child/teen. At home when something bad happened i'd always get the blame

01-04-2015 12:53PM

Wacker The Attacker wrote: »

Dont worry. There was 775,000 people in the stadium that day. Not the 12,000 the stadium could hold.

Larbre34 wrote: »

In those days it shouldn't have mattered, he would have gone to the game anyway and seen your sister the day after, hardly would have scared her for life.

Ask him if he honestly, genuinely thought that Munster had a hope of beating them that day, that he wouldn't have gone to the match regardless.

It didn't matter and that story has ex post facto attribution of importance to it.

As you said, back in the 70s many fathers skipped births anyway. And no one, no one would blame their child for missing it because at the time it wasn't imbued with the significance that all the new fans of rugby attach to it. In the 80s and 90s, no one really remembered it as affectionately as the new wave of Munster rugby fans do. I mean, one man and his dog went to most of the Munster games during the 80s and 90s. They just...didn't...care.

01-04-2015 01:02PM

Lau2976 wrote: »

Did you do something that you think your parents still blame you for?

My parents house is full of books, nearly every wall has bookcases, including the stairway now :eek: and every month they organize them because they're constantly buying more. Because of that books often pile up until they are alphabetized by authors last name. When I was 8 I spilt Rubens in a stack of relatively rear psychology books, my dad only found the last one yesterday.

He says he doesn't but I know he still blames me! Anything you've done you still feel blamed for?

As an adult you are being blamed for something you did aged 8, your parents house is stuffed with book which they constantly sort out and they keep adding too ?

ronjo · 01-04-2015 01:18PM

I was due on April 3rd and arrived on April 7th.

Supposedly I cost them a years childrens allowance of something being born after the end of the tax year.

WoollyRedHat · 01-04-2015 01:42PM

ronjo wrote: »

I was due on April 3rd and arrived on April 7th.

Supposedly I cost them a years childrens allowance of something being born after the end of the tax year.

You despicable child, I hope it resulted in you going to the trenches early?

Lau2976 · 01-04-2015 02:29PM

mariaalice wrote: »

As an adult you are being blamed for something you did aged 8, your parents house is stuffed with book which they constantly sort out and they keep adding too ?

No, like I said he doesn't blame me necessarily, but I feel like he blames me , I suppose it's more to do with the fact that I would blame me. Yes it is. They read a lot. Like all the time and my dad switches books out between our home and his office based on the patients he's seeing. So their books are in constant rotation and then there's new journals and editions that replace old ones.

Do your parents stil blame you for something?

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