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Singles thread.

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,768 ✭✭✭✭tomwaterford


    heyday30 wrote: »
    If your just meeting someone tbh there has to be looks involved to some extent.

    There Deffo needs to be chemistry. Or it just won't last.

    Ya....I guess....though this chemistry thing....would that not come in a bit as you get to know people better/relax in there company.....I know I'd want to know someone right well before I could be comfortable around them (this goes for either sex!!)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy


    I couldn't see how wanting to be attracted to someone your with is shallow :confused:
    Surly it should be an absolute minimum requirement

    Though a really good looking person with a vile personality I dunno....I couldn't handle it....but I haven't it in me to handle stress I'm bad enough without bringing hassle/ horribleness into my life....I dunno if ye can follow that?? :/

    no cudnt be with a good looking guy if he had a horrible personality, though i have a history for attracting bad boys, but please god that will stay in the past. I think i deserve a nice guy this time


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,768 ✭✭✭✭tomwaterford


    Trebor176 wrote: »
    Question: What do you all look for in a person?

    Being honest I've never taught out a list
    (Maybe I should???)
    Just someone who you can have a laugh/get on with and that I find attractive I guess


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,435 ✭✭✭Trebor176


    To be honest, sex wouldn't be top of my agenda. Not too early on anyway, should things go well. I'd want us to get to know one another a bit before jumping in the sack. I'd prefer to just take things nice n' easy.

    For me, I'd go for looks, but more importantly, she must have a nice sense of humour, be genuine, caring and kind. I guess anything else is a bonus :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,768 ✭✭✭✭tomwaterford


    eternal wrote: »
    I like loads of people but it's not exactly returned so I give up. Don't know what men expect anymore at this stage. Isn't it enough to be educated, alright looking and ok to talk to? Obviously not.

    Dont give up anyway :(
    Though I'm not adversed to taking a break from dating etc (have kinda neglected that side of my life if I'm honest...going to change though)

    You do seem sound enough though


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    Dont give up anyway :(
    Though I'm not adversed to taking a break from dating etc (have kinda neglected that side of my life if I'm honest...going to change though)

    You do seem sound enough though

    I'm not going on dating sites again. I will just meet people when I'm out or whatever. It's not worth the crap on them. One guy asked me would I have anal without a condom after like five minutes then went completely psycho when I asked him what his problem was.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,768 ✭✭✭✭tomwaterford


    no cudnt be with a good looking guy if he had a horrible personality, though i have a history for attracting bad boys, but please god that will stay in the past. I think i deserve a nice guy this time

    Agh Jesus you will.....there must surly be some chap around the Midlands to be a good fit????
    I'm fcuked if I know how to go about finding/meeting new people outside of nights out/dating site
    Maybe macra....I know a few who got together through that!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,877 ✭✭✭heyday30


    I need someone who's kind and understanding. I'm a complex person.
    :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy


    eternal wrote: »
    I'm not going on dating sites again. I will just meet people when I'm out or whatever. It's not worth the crap on them. One guy asked me would I have anal without a condom after like five minutes then went completely psycho when I asked him what his problem was.

    gosh! He asked you this in person!? :O


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,768 ✭✭✭✭tomwaterford


    eternal wrote: »
    I'm not going on dating sites again. I will just meet people when I'm out or whatever. It's not worth the crap on them. One guy asked me would I have anal without a condom after like five minutes then went completely psycho when I asked him what his problem was.

    :eek:
    Jesus that escalated rapidly....would you not have blocked/ignored him and move onto the next person???


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy


    Agh Jesus you will.....there must surly be some chap around the Midlands to be a good fit????
    I'm fcuked if I know how to go about finding/meeting new people outside of nights out/dating site
    Maybe macra....I know a few who got together through that!!

    yeah i heard about Marca but tbh i'm too lazy too venture it, guess im getting more used to being single and perhaps more comfortable with it


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 177 ✭✭oceanstreet


    Gotta be attracted to a person, nothing shallow about it. As much as we like to deny it relationships combine the emotional with the physical


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,768 ✭✭✭✭tomwaterford


    yeah i heard about Marca but tbh i'm too lazy too venture it, guess im getting more used to being single and perhaps more comfortable with it

    Jesus don't end up like me anyway....I've kinda neglected that side of my life and ended at my age with being permentantly single :/

    Though I will say that if its anything like around here you'll do well to avoid the macra.....they don't really like non farmers (assuming your not a farmer!!)


    Though I dunno I wouldn't like to recommend anyone to do courses Etc to meet people as that just struck me as a waste unless your interested in the course


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    Well you wouldn't want to 'just go off with anything' would you? I mean that would be horrendous especially if the person according to some individuals is so horrific looking.
    (They know who they are)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,330 ✭✭✭deise08


    Jesus don't end up like me anyway....I've kinda neglected that side of my life and ended at my age with being permentantly single :/

    Though I will say that if its anything like around here you'll do well to avoid the macra.....they don't really like non farmers (assuming your not a farmer!!)


    Though I dunno I wouldn't like to recommend anyone to do courses Etc to meet people as that just struck me as a waste unless your interested in the course


    ya I couldn't crack the macra :(:(:(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy


    Jesus don't end up like me anyway....I've kinda neglected that side of my life and ended at my age with being permentantly single :/

    Though I will say that if its anything like around here you'll do well to avoid the macra.....they don't really like non farmers (assuming your not a farmer!!)


    Though I dunno I wouldn't like to recommend anyone to do courses Etc to meet people as that just struck me as a waste unless your interested in the course

    Theres nothing wrong with being single and focusing on other aspects of your life. And tom ur too sound to be permanently single, when the times right, it will happen, i know it sounds corny, but im a strong believer in the universe and angels granting us what we want and we can't be helped by them if we don't ask :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,877 ✭✭✭heyday30


    Hey tom how's the lambing?
    Couldn't resist sorry :pac


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,768 ✭✭✭✭tomwaterford


    heyday30 wrote: »
    I need someone who's kind and understanding. I'm a complex person.
    :)

    Where to find said person though???


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    They might be closer than you know, a few Waterford men on here?!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,768 ✭✭✭✭tomwaterford


    deise08 wrote: »
    ya I couldn't crack the macra :(:(:(

    Your not miss much as I know of two members of macra my own age who wouldn't go out with a wan who was sound as hell and really pretty but wouldn't go out because she wasn't from a farm....imagine that happening in 2014???


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy


    Your not miss much as I know of two members of macra my own age who wouldn't go out with a wan who was sound as hell and really pretty but wouldn't go out because she wasn't from a farm....imagine that happening in 2014???

    haha that's hilarious, sure of course, it would be forbidden, lol


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,877 ✭✭✭heyday30


    . I'm not much of a catch at the moment. few health issues.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy


    eternal wrote: »
    I am sorry but I don't think it's fair for someone to judge what another person looks like and insults them and then refuses to show what they look like. I think it's ignorant and they obviously have something to hide. A real man doesn't insult attractive women.

    i def agree, the person clearly has issues of their own


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy


    heyday30 wrote: »
    . I'm not much of a catch at the moment. few health issues.

    aww dnt say that, hope ur ok xxxx


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    i def agree, the person clearly has issues of their own

    I need to stay quiet before I blow up. Just ignore me right now. Sorry.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,768 ✭✭✭✭tomwaterford


    Theres nothing wrong with being single and focusing on other aspects of your life. And tom ur too sound to be permanently single, when the times right, it will happen, i know it sounds corny, but im a strong believer in the universe and angels granting us what we want and we can't be helped by them if we don't ask :)
    Thanks yere too nice!!

    I know I shouldn't complain....it's as much my own fault for neglecting it/being in a really bad mess when I was younger and then just concentrating maybe too much on work etc then the last year or two
    Though the one person who stopped me from being a mess was also the reason a wan gave for not going out with me....seemingly you can't be best friends with a young wan


    Edit: you are wicked sound PM...you just maybe need to as eternal said cast your horizons a bit farther...though I'm not sure what to suggest


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,280 ✭✭✭✭Autosport


    Trebor176 wrote: »
    Question: What do you all look for in a person?

    Number one for me is definitely Sense of humour, I love to laugh and he has to be able to make me laugh. Life is too short to be serious all the time. I'm also a sucker for Eyes, he has to have nice eyes :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,768 ✭✭✭✭tomwaterford


    Autosport wrote: »
    Number one for me is definitely Sense of humour, I love to laugh and he has to be able to make me laugh. Life is too short to be serious all the time. I'm also a sucker for Eyes, he has to have nice eyes :)

    Your a burd !!! :eek:

    Edit....or possibly gay man???:)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,280 ✭✭✭✭Autosport


    Your a burd !!! :eek:

    Edit....or possibly gay man???:)

    Ahem Female :D it's written in my location teehee :D


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy


    eternal wrote: »
    I need to stay quiet before I blow up. Just ignore me right now. Sorry.

    No need to apologise, just forget about those rude idiots coz their either looking for attention or projecting their issues on to you, silly ppl


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