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  • #842
    heyday30
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,877 ✭✭✭heyday30


    tomwaterford wrote: »
    10 for 10...im going to give it a right go....have a bit of time again now:)

    now to try find a descent photo....whats that app that you block/scrath others out of your photo.....no point in having a photo with me friends and no one knowing me:rolleyes:

    erm there's one on my phone called fotor it's what I use.

    Ah hope you find someone nice :)


  • #843
    tomwaterford
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,768 ✭✭✭✭tomwaterford


    Pissy Missy wrote: »
    photohide is the best imo :)

    I remember it being named before....couldn't remember the name though :)

    Hay day: thNks aswell


    Ya...hopefully il find someone nice as being honest I don't fancy being miserable....though I was msging a wan earlier on tinder...,from like Lithuania???
    I dunno never went on a date with someone from abroad....have any of ye??


  • #844
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    I went out with people from all over, France, Spain, Italy, Lithuania.


  • #845
    tomwaterford
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    eternal wrote: »
    I went out with people from all over, France, Spain, Italy, Lithuania.

    Jesus....most exotic I went with was a wan from Wicklow and once with a wan from Derry when I was in Dublin for a few months
    Dated that is :)


  • #846
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    I like tasting foreign climes :)


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  • #847
    heyday30
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    tomwaterford wrote: »
    Jesus....most exotic I went with was a wan from Wicklow and once with a wan from Derry when I was in Dublin for a few months

    Nah they've been local any one I've got with.

    Maybe that was where I fcuked up lol!


  • #848
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    You should try to maybe meet more varied people then.


  • #849
    tomwaterford
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,768 ✭✭✭✭tomwaterford


    heyday30 wrote: »
    Nah they've been local any one I've got with.

    Maybe that was where I fcuked up lol!

    I've often wondered is that better or worse....like I've never got to the stage of beyond dating/ not being single for one reason or another

    Wouldn't mind a few dates...my head was a bit messed for a bit there...but nearly around there now :)


    Would you ever go in for a LDR....or is it worth the hassle??
    I've never known them to work out....but then again....most relationships don't!!


  • #850
    heyday30
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,877 ✭✭✭heyday30


    eternal wrote: »
    You should try to maybe meet more varied people then.

    Meeting people full stop is the problem.


  • #851
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    Nothing wrong with people living a bit away. Heyday why do you have a problem meeting people, didn't you meet us?!


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  • #852
    tomwaterford
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,768 ✭✭✭✭tomwaterford


    heyday30 wrote: »
    Meeting people full stop is the problem.

    :/
    This is the big problem....esp if your not s huge drinker
    So online it is.....as in all fairness there's no young wan going to find me randomly where I do be living :/


  • #853
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    tomwaterford wrote: »
    :/
    This is the big problem....esp if your not s huge drinker
    So online it is.....as in all fairness there's no young wan going to find me randomly where I do be living :/

    Don't you drive. Can't you go to them? Open your horizons.


  • #854
    Pissy Missy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy


    eternal wrote: »
    Don't you drive. Can't you go to them? Open your horizons.

    depends on how far it is and if ur ok with long distance relationships


  • #855
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    Pissy Missy wrote: »
    depends on how far it is and if ur ok with long distance relationships

    Ireland is small. Cork is near to Waterford, Kerry, Limerick. It's within reason depending on your job.


  • #856
    heyday30
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,877 ✭✭✭heyday30


    tomwaterford wrote: »
    I've often wondered is that better or worse....like I've never got to the stage of beyond dating/ not being single for one reason or another

    Wouldn't mind a few dates...my head was a bit messed for a bit there...but nearly around there now :)


    Would you ever go in for a LDR....or is it worth the hassle??
    I've never known them to work out....but then again....most relationships don't!!

    LDR'S can work i think depends on the people. Like if both people r very busy during the week. Or if both persons don't want to feel smothered by spending too much time together.

    Johnny Vegas and his missus were in LDR for years and are married!


  • #857
    tomwaterford
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,768 ✭✭✭✭tomwaterford


    eternal wrote: »
    Don't you drive. Can't you go to them? Open your horizons.

    I am...meeting wans me ownish age is the issue....

    Though would you ever be afraid you'd go a date and they just wouldn't make out a word your saying???
    Not great for the oul confidence that....though fcuk it I'm going to give it a go anyway!!!

    Would you be put off by someone who depsnt have any up to date photos....though I've a big night out coming up soon...may have to break the habit of a lifetime and get me photo taken !!!!


  • #858
    Pissy Missy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy


    heyday30 wrote: »
    LDR'S can work i think depends on the people. Like if both people r very busy during the week. Or if both persons don't want to feel smothered by spending too much time together.

    Johnny Vegas and his missus were in LDR for years and are married!

    id have to be very enthusiastic to be willing to do LDR


  • #859
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    Tom you worry too much. I don't mind driving to someone if they are decent to me.


  • #860
    Pissy Missy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy


    tomwaterford wrote: »
    I am...meeting wans me ownish age is the issue....

    Though would you ever be afraid you'd go a date and they just wouldn't make out a word your saying???
    Not great for the oul confidence that....though fcuk it I'm going to give it a go anyway!!!

    Would you be put off by someone who depsnt have any up to date photos....though I've a big night out coming up soon...may have to break the habit of a lifetime and get me photo taken !!!!

    yeah i wud like up to date photos personally as i wudnt want to waste the persons time if i wasnt attracted to them


  • #861
    Trebor176
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,435 ✭✭✭Trebor176


    Maybe I'm pessimistic, but I can't see LDRs working out in the long-term. Maybe they do work for some, but I couldn't see myself getting involved in one. I would be willing to travel around Ireland to see someone, should things go well. At least I'd see more or her than I would, if she lived in another country.


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  • #862
    tomwaterford
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    eternal wrote: »
    Tom you worry too much. I don't mind driving to someone if they are decent to me.

    I dunno....I think myself at times that people in LDR could be inclined to string the other person along and that's not very nice either..


  • #863
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    There's long distance and short distance. I don't know anyway it's not like I'm succeeding enough to give advice.


  • #864
    tomwaterford
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    Pissy Missy wrote: »
    yeah i wud like up to date photos personally as i wudnt want to waste the persons time if i wasnt attracted to them

    Ya....though myself I'd rather kinda more natural photos as in not staged....I dunno if that comes across right??

    Though why would anyone date someone there not attracted to....that's not too much to ask??


  • #865
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    tomwaterford wrote: »
    Ya....though myself I'd rather kinda more natural photos as in not staged....I dunno if that comes across right??

    Though why would anyone date someone there not attracted to....that's not too much to ask??

    Most people wouldn't. I know I couldn't but I have strange taste anyway.


  • #866
    Pissy Missy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy


    tomwaterford wrote: »
    Ya....though myself I'd rather kinda more natural photos as in not staged....I dunno if that comes across right??

    Though why would anyone date someone there not attracted to....that's not too much to ask??

    some ppl dnt care about looks, but i do (aswell as personality of course) it may make me shallow but id rather be single than be with someone im not attracted to, wouldn't be fair on either party imo


  • #867
    Trebor176
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,435 ✭✭✭Trebor176


    Question: What do you all look for in a person?


  • #868
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    Trebor176 wrote: »
    Question: What do you all look for in a person?

    Kind, funny, easy going and wants to have sex no excuse.


  • #869
    heyday30
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,877 ✭✭✭heyday30


    If your just meeting someone tbh there has to be looks involved to some extent.

    There Deffo needs to be chemistry. Or it just won't last.


  • #870
    tomwaterford
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,768 ✭✭✭✭tomwaterford


    Pissy Missy wrote: »
    some ppl dnt care about looks, but i do (aswell as personality of course) it may make me shallow but id rather be single than be with someone im not attracted to, wouldn't be fair on either party imo

    I couldn't see how wanting to be attracted to someone your with is shallow :confused:
    Surly it should be an absolute minimum requirement

    Though a really good looking person with a vile personality I dunno....I couldn't handle it....but I haven't it in me to handle stress I'm bad enough without bringing hassle/ horribleness into my life....I dunno if ye can follow that?? :/


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  • #871
    Pissy Missy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy


    Trebor176 wrote: »
    Question: What do you all look for in a person?

    Genuine, caring, kind, respectful, has a goal in life (ambitious), intelligent, generous, has a sense of humour, disciplined and is strong minded but cn be sensitive too, a guy who looks after himself (something i need to find handsome/sexy about him physically)


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