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Fidelma Healy Eames at it again. Claims SSM might mean that Mother's Day is banned!

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,745 ✭✭✭Macavity.


    I hope it is banned, pointless celebration that exploded due to it's commercialisation by card companies. Getting pregnant and having a child does not entitle you to a yearly day of gratitude. If someone wants to show their appreciation for one of their parents they can do it on any given day of the year.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,372 ✭✭✭reprise


    hoodwinked wrote: »
    civil partnership for life is offensive imo, it was a step in the right direction, but lets go further, make things equal and have a Marriage,

    keep it simple, you meet a person you love and want to spend the rest of your life with, lets make it a marriage,

    so there can be a wife and wife, husband and husband or husband and wife.

    everyone is therefore equal.

    Right, gonna park it there before we get overly mawkish or disappear down the rabbit hole of polygamy and all other currently illegal permutations of marriage. Later.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    reprise wrote: »
    Nothing that can't be achieved in Civil Partnership.


    The flaws in civil partnership are well known, so why do you drag this up again?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,348 ✭✭✭irishgrover


    Macavity. wrote: »
    I hope it is banned, pointless celebration that exploded due to it's commercialisation by card companies. Getting pregnant and having a child does not entitle you to a yearly day of gratitude. If someone wants to show their appreciation for one of their parents they can do it on any given day of the year.

    bah humbug......you don't need to commercialise it. My wife had a lovely day yesterday, our four children (and me) made a fuss of her and she had a lovely day.....
    your right, we could do it on any other day and sometimes do, but nothing wrong with it in principle.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 833 ✭✭✭Riverireland


    Misrepresenting stuff and then lieing to try get out of it is not giving your honest opinion.

    No clue what you're talking about there.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 38,227 ✭✭✭✭Guy:Incognito


    No clue what you're talking about there.

    So what are you posting about exactly? Because this thread ( at least in the beginning ) is about a woman who either deliberately misrepresented a story or else didn't bother reading it at all but somehow felt qualified to give her thoughts on it, then when shown she was wrong (not a difference of opinion , factually wrong ) thought that people would just acept another bull**** answer without question.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,821 ✭✭✭floggg


    I'm no too familiar with fidelma other than seeing her mentioned here. From what I'm reading though she at least appears to be giving her honest opinion openly. Does anyone actually believe that all the politicians in the country who's parties are supporting this referendum are going to vote yes! I personally don't and the older media set will be in the same boat. You can hear it in what they don't say in interviews.

    Again, why do people think the fact she believes the **** she says make it somehow better?

    If anything it makes things worse, because it means she really is that thick.

    I'd think more highly of her if she was manufacturing controversy to generate attention. Sure, she'd be a vain pathetic person if she was doing that, but that would better to my mind than being as thick as she actually appears.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Music Moderators, Politics Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 22,424 CMod ✭✭✭✭Dravokivich


    I'm no too familiar with fidelma other than seeing her mentioned here. From what I'm reading though she at least appears to be giving her honest opinion openly. Does anyone actually believe that all the politicians in the country who's parties are supporting this referendum are going to vote yes! I personally don't and the older media set will be in the same boat. You can hear it in what they don't say in interviews.

    It's ignorance at first, then generally arrogance afterwards on any topic she gives an "honest opinion" on.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    That woman is ill informed and spouts some serious half baked cack.

    She'd do well to hire a researcher that can explain things in laymans terms because she is clearly out of her depth.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,821 ✭✭✭floggg


    reprise wrote: »
    For the love of God. Who the hell do you think is going to inherit anything, if not the children.

    Lol. If anything our inheritance laws evidence evidence the view that marriage is a commitment for and between adults - not a child centric institution.

    Under inheritance law you are legally obligated to make provision for your spouse but have no absolute obligation to provide for your children.

    Therefore, for inheritance tax purposes at least, the support and maintenance of children is clearly not viewed as the primary purpose of the institution. The support and maintenance of your spouse is.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    circadian wrote: »
    That woman is ill informed and spouts some serious half baked cack.

    She'd do well to hire a researcher that can explain things in laymans terms because she is clearly out of her depth.


    She'd be better off doing finger painting, lets face it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,438 ✭✭✭TwoShedsJackson


    Everything being on the internet and social networks etc. etc. may be a pain in the arse in many respects, but one thing it's bloody great for is idiots like this individual shooting their mouths off and letting us all see what an ignoramus she is. Keep it up, keep driving away the fence-sitters.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,821 ✭✭✭floggg


    I'm not twisting anything! It is a simple fact that two people of the same gender cannot conceive a child where they both have a genetic relationship with that child, and no amount of "if my aunt had balls she'd be my uncle", or anything else changes that simple fundamental reality.

    I never said that gay people will be stealing the shelter, water or food from children, but they will be depriving a child of the company, upbringing and support of their biological parents, which is what I believe we should be aspiring to in terms of what is the most suitable model that we have for rearing children, notwithstanding the fact that it can happen from time to time that a child cannot be raised by its biological parents through premature death or some other circumstance, I still genuinely believe that we should aspire first and foremost to the best proven model for procreation and raising a family, which is one that provides for children that are reared by their biological parents.

    How does marriage equality prejudice the ability for children to be raised by their biological parents?


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Nodin wrote: »
    She'd be better off doing finger painting, lets face it.

    True. If her antics gather enough pace she'll become a meme, at least I hope. That'd be some meltdown.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,812 ✭✭✭thelad95


    Slightly off topic but I'd just like to say I'd give her one.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 833 ✭✭✭Riverireland


    So what are you posting about exactly? Because this thread ( at least in the beginning ) is about a woman who either deliberately misrepresented a story or else didn't bother reading it at all but somehow felt qualified to give her thoughts on it, then when shown she was wrong (not a difference of opinion , factually wrong ) thought that people would just acept another bull**** answer without question.

    Replied on the thread late, the content had widened somewhat. Be as aggressive as you like it has no impact on me. Might effect the result though seeing as people are sick of hearing about it.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Replied on the thread late, the content had widened somewhat. Be as aggressive as you like it has no impact on me. Might effect the result though seeing as people are sick of hearing about it.

    Huh? What result? The discussion is clearly that this elected representative spouted off some bull then defended it with even more half assed bull.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 38,227 ✭✭✭✭Guy:Incognito


    Replied on the thread late, the content had widened somewhat. Be as aggressive as you like it has no impact on me. Might effect the result though seeing as people are sick of hearing about it.

    Whos being aggressive? All I see from your reply is an attempt to veer away from actually answering about the stuff she said by accusing me of being aggressive .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,437 ✭✭✭dinorebel


    thelad95 wrote: »
    Slightly off topic but I'd just like to say I'd give her one.
    She'd probably take it then lie about getting it while forgetting where she put the receipt.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,278 ✭✭✭Dr. Mantis Toboggan


    dinorebel wrote: »
    She'd probably take it then lie about getting it while forgetting where she put the receipt.

    You don't need a receipt for unvouched expenses. That's why she went out of her way to dodge train fares.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,559 ✭✭✭✭AnonoBoy




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 21,377 ✭✭✭✭Stark


    AnonoBoy wrote: »

    My coffee very nearly ended up everywhere.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,188 ✭✭✭LDN_Irish


    Stark wrote: »
    My coffee very nearly ended up everywhere.

    "There are actually people... spitting coffee... at computers minister... and minister.. can I just ask you minister... have you.. have I... have our children been spitting coffee at the internets minister?"


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,644 ✭✭✭✭lazygal


    LDN_Irish wrote: »
    "There are actually people... spitting coffee... at computers minister... and minister.. can I just ask you minister... have you.. have I... have our children been spitting coffee at the internets minister?"

    I hope .... Your voice
    ... Got higher in pictch..... As you said that......and alluded to......your background in education....which.....you mention.... Ad nauseam....


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,438 ✭✭✭TwoShedsJackson


    She must be some thick. Just had a look at rense.com.

    Their radio hosts include David Duke, an apparent serious anti-Zionist (and isn't he the guy who was also in the Klan?), and the delightful Don Black of Stormfront :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    She must be some thick. Just had a look at rense.com.

    Their radio hosts include David Duke, an apparent serious anti-Zionist (and isn't he the guy who was also in the Klan?), and the delightful Don Black of Stormfront :rolleyes:


    ex-Head of the Klan. Jew hater, general scum bucket.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,648 ✭✭✭desertcircus


    This is the kind of aggression I've alluded to in my first post on this thread, that is now directed at anyone who disagrees with the "we are all equal" position of the gay lobby in Ireland. Because you adopt a position that is at variance with the gay community and their increasingly aggressive lobby in this country, you get told that your views are "absurdities", etc, just like those of us who called out the property crash before it happened, were ridiculed in the exact same way, then a crash happens and low and behold, you were right all along.

    As I've already said, I haven't decided how I'm going to vote, most probably against if I'm being honest, but what I take serious exception to at this stage, is being told that my views are absurd. What is absurd is being told that you have to vote one particular way and any discussion to the contrary is not allowed. I don't think the gay lobby in Ireland actually realise how much they are starting to píss off people like me who are intelligent reasoned people, who are starting to get a bit sick of being shouted down by them and being told to vote a certain way.

    This is much bigger than 2 people who want to get married, this is also about the welfare and rights of children. This is the first time I can recall in this country where the most basic and fundamental human rights of young children are getting completely shoved aside, in the furtherance of the rights of some other party.

    Wait, you called the property crash correctly therefore gay marriage is wrong because biological parents?

    No child who would have been raised by their biological parents will be taken from those parents and given to a same-sex couple if and when SSM passes. So every nonsensical word you've said is irrelevant, unless you think being raised by anything other than both biological parents is worse than never existing. In which case: go to hell.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,143 ✭✭✭LordNorbury


    Nodin wrote: »
    Children that are up for adoption are obviously not going to be raised by their biological parents. Are you against adoption entirely?

    Nope, I have no issue with adoption for a small minority of children, where it will not be possible that they will be raised by their biological parents. However the vast vast majority of children are raised by their biological parents, and this is what I think we ought to protect and aspire to as an inter generational model of best practice when it comes to how we pro create, and if there are to be any changes, then we should be able to discuss them without those who hold genuine concerns in this area being ridiculed, patronised and hissed and sneared at by what is clearly an increasingly aggressive gay lobby movement in this country, who now believe that any view that is not in communion with their own, is somehow backward, unequal, unjust or homophobic.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,648 ✭✭✭desertcircus


    Nope, I have no issue with adoption for a small minority of children, where it will not be possible that they will be raised by their biological parents. However the vast vast majority of children are raised by their biological parents, and this is what I think we ought to protect and aspire to as an inter generational model of best practice when it comes to how we pro create, and if there are to be any changes, then we should be able to discuss them without those who hold genuine concerns in this area being ridiculed, patronised and hissed and sneared at by what is clearly an increasingly aggressive gay lobby movement in this country, who now believe that any view that is not in communion with their own, is somehow backward, unequal, unjust or homophobic.

    Completely absent from the above: any explanation of what makes the two-biological-parent default better in any meaningful or measurable way.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 38,227 ✭✭✭✭Guy:Incognito


    Nope, I have no issue with adoption for a small minority of children, where it will not be possible that they will be raised by their biological parents. However the vast vast majority of children are raised by their biological parents, and this is what I think we ought to protect and aspire to as an inter generational model of best practice when it comes to how we pro create, and if there are to be any changes, then we should be able to discuss them without those who hold genuine concerns in this area being ridiculed, patronised and hissed and sneared at by what is clearly an increasingly aggressive gay lobby movement in this country, who now believe that any view that is not in communion with their own, is somehow backward, unequal, unjust or homophobic.

    And how will whether gay people can marry each other or just live together change anything to do with the kids?


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