5 Year Old Boy Invoiced for no show at friends party

Leinsterblue · 19-01-2015 11:40AM #1

In Torpoint UK a 5 year old has been sent an invoice for failing to show up to another childs party, and leaving the other childs parents out of pocket to the tune of £16 the other side will go to the smalls claims court if unpaid.... silly people be silly.... no sleepovers allowed in that house.

I can't provide a link cos im a newby"

Quote from BBC site "A five-year-old boy has been billed for failing to attend a friend's birthday party - resulting in legal action.

Alex Nash, from Cornwall, was invited to the party just before Christmas.

An invoice for £15.95 was sent by his schoolfriend's mother Julie Lawrence, who said Alex's non-attendance left her out of pocket and his parents had her details to tell her he was not going.

Alex's father Derek said he had been told he would be taken to the small claims court for refusing to pay"

Meathlass · 19-01-2015 11:42AM

While I wouldn't have sent an invoice I can understanding the parents frustration.

They booked a venue and activities for the numbers who confirmed attendance and were out of pocket as a result of no-shows. Why didn't Alex Nash's parents have the decency to ring and say he couldn't make it?

bruce wayne · 19-01-2015 11:42AM

they should send the boys parents an invoice for £20 for administrative services to process their invoice

qo2cj1dsne8y4k · 19-01-2015 11:43AM

Haha Id say that party was a barrell of laughs. Still very rude to rsvp then not bother to show up

ScumLord · 19-01-2015 11:44AM

I predict that in 12 months time there will be a story about a 6 year old boy that had no friends at his birthday party.

eamonnq · 19-01-2015 11:45AM

How are they out of pocket, if he had showed up it would still have cost the same amount as if he did not show up ?

eviltwin · 19-01-2015 11:46AM

Are they for real? It's only 16 quid. It's not worth that.

DoYouEvenLift · 19-01-2015 11:46AM

I'd understand if it was something expensive that left them paying like >£50 but £15 lol, c'mon. Where's their pride. Do they realise how kids are, their child could get teased or even bullied about that.

grundie · 19-01-2015 11:47AM

I think the parents sending the invoice don't get what it's like to organise a childs birthday party. There are going to be no-shows, it's normal and should be expected.

I've been in s similar situation and I've learned to set a budget and accept that not every child is going to turn up. If you can't afford to take a hit in those situations then maybe you shouldn't be arranging expensive parties.

vektarman · 19-01-2015 11:47AM

Here's the link....

http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-cornwall-30876360

Leinsterblue · 19-01-2015 11:48AM

MORE -

'Understand she's upset'

Alex's parents, from Torpoint, had accepted an invitation to the party at a dry ski slope in Plymouth, Devon, just before Christmas.

However, they realised their son was double-booked and due to spend time with his grandparents, which he did.

His parents said they had no contact information for Ms Lawrence at that time.

They found the invoice in a brown envelope in his schoolbag last week.
Mr Nash said: "It was a proper invoice with full official details and even her bank details on it.

"I can understand that she's upset about losing money. The money isn't the issue, it's the way she went about trying to get the money from me.

"She didn't treat me like a human being, she treated me like a child and that I should do what she says."

In a short statement, Ms Lawrence said: "All details were on the party invite. They had every detail needed to contact me."

Mr Nash said he had been told he was being taken to the small claims court because he was refusing to pay.

anncoates · 19-01-2015 11:49AM

Anytime I've booked places for a kid's party, you just give a rough number, then they just do a headcount at the start of the party and charge based on attendance.

To be fair, anybody with kids knows a set of pushy parents that take grievous offence if there's not a big turnout to their little darling's soiree.

Still no excuse for not RVSPing

jamesbere · 19-01-2015 11:50AM

Oh those parents must be great fun. I pity that child growing up.

"Trent, your playtime today is between the hours of 4pm and 5pm, Not a minute before or a minute after and your only allowed 2 friends to play with and not that boy up the street, he's owes us £16".

DoYouEvenLift · 19-01-2015 11:51AM

Leinsterblue wrote: »

MORE -

'Understand she's upset'

Alex's parents, from Torpoint, had accepted an invitation to the party at a dry ski slope in Plymouth, Devon, just before Christmas.

However, they realised their son was double-booked and due to spend time with his grandparents, which he did.

His parents said they had no contact information for Ms Lawrence at that time.

They found the invoice in a brown envelope in his schoolbag last week.
Mr Nash said: "It was a proper invoice with full official details and even her bank details on it.

"I can understand that she's upset about losing money. The money isn't the issue, it's the way she went about trying to get the money from me.

"She didn't treat me like a human being, she treated me like a child and that I should do what she says."

In a short statement, Ms Lawrence said: "All details were on the party invite. They had every detail needed to contact me."

Mr Nash said he had been told he was being taken to the small claims court because he was refusing to pay.

He should send her a £50 note with a note saying "keep the change, you must need it."

Leinsterblue · 19-01-2015 11:56AM

the mother of the other kid sounds charming ---

"I left the school and went to see [the birthday boy's mother] as her address was on the invoice.

"When she answered the door I told her I had found the invoice in my son's school bag and that I wasn't happy about it.

"I told her I would not be paying her the money.

"I told her she should have spoken to me first and not put the invoice in my son's school bag.

"I would have sympathised with her about the cost of Alex not showing up, but I just can't believe the way she has gone around it."

The unnamed mother has since threatened the family that she would take the case to a small claims court, while the birthday boy will no longer play with Alex at school."

Wang King · 19-01-2015 11:56AM

Onus is on the people booking the party to make sure of numbers beforehand.
People drop out all the time, perhaps the bday boy is as big a turd as his parents and his guest decided not to go on that basis alone

jimgoose · 19-01-2015 11:57AM

Gobshítes.

kfallon · 19-01-2015 11:57AM

DoYouEvenLift wrote: »

He should send her a £50 note with a note saying "keep the change, ya filthy animal."

FYP

Grayson · 19-01-2015 12:01PM

ScumLord wrote: »

I predict that in 12 months time there will be a story about a 6 year old boy that had no friends at his birthday party.

Poor kid. This story will follow him through school. His parents are idiots.

DoYouEvenLift · 19-01-2015 12:14PM

kfallon wrote: »

FYP

Haha that'd just give her a laugh though. If he did what I said it'd linger in her head, even if she initially thought "haha he's trying to be a smart arse but sweet, an extra £34, jokes on him!". After she's spent that she'd still have it in her head that he regards her as some type of poor and bitter charity case.

The Backwards Man · 19-01-2015 12:28PM

I'd send the parents an invoice for badness tbh. Far too many people are way to lackadaisical when it comes to things like other people's time and money.

Larbre34 · 19-01-2015 12:33PM

The parents parents have a lot to be answerable for.

I have come to conclusion that the common sense and fortitude of the previous two generations was as a result of the scarcity and resilience brought about by the second world war.

I know a third world war would be unpleasant, but I firmly believe we need to reset the brains and the priorities of the type of numbskulls involved in this exchange.

Oh and conscription for skobies as well.

Hoop66 · 19-01-2015 12:37PM

OK, it's rude not to turn up, but the mother who sent the invoice seems like a right waggon.

Who in their right mind sends an invoice in a situation like this?

coffeepls · 19-01-2015 12:41PM

Poor kids! This is what's bringing them up.... it's just sad. I guess we'll see them all on Jeremy in years to come!

jimgoose · 19-01-2015 12:41PM

coffeepls wrote: »

Poor kids! This is what's bringing them up.... it's just sad. I guess we'll see them all on Jeremy in years to come!

Pow-AAAH!! :pac:

bjork · 19-01-2015 12:43PM

I'm suprised the wedding crowd haven't thought of this.......................yet!
Just you wait

Wabbit Ears · 19-01-2015 12:54PM

the smart thing to have done would have been to simply bin the invoice and never speak of it again unless the other parent brought it up , and even then pretend you know nothing about it.

KatW4 · 19-01-2015 12:56PM

They are children! The parents should realise that children won't always attend a party because of things cropping up, fights in the playground or illness. What if it was one of those reasons instead of visiting the child's grandparents. Would she send an invoice then?

It was a bit rude not to let them know but it's easy enough for something like that to slip your mind.

I feel sorry for the birthday boy, he's forever going to be remembered for this. His silly mother didn't think before she acted!

shruikan2553 · 19-01-2015 12:56PM

It would probably cost more than £16 to get the money back.

Yellowblackbird · 19-01-2015 01:05PM

The family should go into receivership leaving a scatter of unpaid bills and unanswered party invitations. Then the same management and members of staff should begin trading as a new family with just a name change and they can deny and renounce any connection to the ski slope contract.

Greenmachine · 19-01-2015 01:06PM

bjork wrote: »

I'm suprised the wedding crowd haven't thought of this.......................yet!
Just you wait

Lol. Boardsies I will need all your bank details, in advance of the big day, failure to provide detail will result in legal pursuit.
Name...
Account number
something...
something...

....

$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

5 Year Old Boy Invoiced for no show at friends party

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