women, who do you chat up in a bar/club?

guest2014 · 12-10-2014 12:10PM #1

just wondering how women think when they are out to pull a guy, for example if the woman is a 7, does she go for another 7 or does she aim higher e.g a 9 or lower say a 5 or 6. hate to use numbers but ye know what i mean.

super_furry · 12-10-2014 12:20PM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nW-bFGzNMXw

4zn76tysfajdxp · 12-10-2014 12:22PM

guest2014 wrote: »

hate to use numbers

Do you?

Sam Kade · 12-10-2014 12:23PM

What's all this guys and bar talk, it's men and pubs this side of the Atlantic

corner of hells · 12-10-2014 12:25PM

guest2014 wrote: »

just wondering how women think when they are out to pull a guy, for example if the woman is a 7, does she go for another 7 or does she aim higher e.g a 9 or lower say a 5 or 6. hate to use numbers but ye know what i mean.

Imagine a 7 had a baby with a 9 , their child would grow up to be a 16.

The One Doctor · 12-10-2014 12:26PM

The fcuk?

Shakespeare's Sister · 12-10-2014 12:30PM

Sam Kade wrote: »

What's all this guys and bar talk, it's men and pubs this side of the Atlantic

People say "guy", "lad", "fella" all the time for young men.

Sam Kade · 12-10-2014 12:37PM

Shakespeare's Sister wrote: »

People say "guy", "lad", "fella" all the time for young men.

I saw a guy with a fella that had a big :eek:

I fcuking hate Americanisms :mad: Americans in general couldn't give a fiddlers fcuk about the Irish in fact they believe the Irish are stupid

dmc17 · 12-10-2014 12:39PM

corner of hells wrote: »

Imagine a 7 had a baby with a 9 , their child would grow up to be a 16.

You'd have to divide the 16 by 2 though. So they'd probably be an 8

Shenshen · 12-10-2014 12:51PM

Well, ideally I'd chat with someone who looks exactly like me.

So I spend a lot of time in the loo in front of the mirror.

Talib Fiasco · 12-10-2014 12:53PM

The numbers rating system has to be the most flawed and retarded thing I've ever come across. First off your 8 could be my 5 and vice versa. I know it serves as a dick measuring tool of sorts as you can brag "aww I pulled a 9 she was class" when in reality most people wouldn't even stop to look at her if she passed. This applies to both genders but men are severely guilty of it.

Secondly rating a man/woman in your mind before approaching them or while talking them is going to effect you negatively. If I decide to rate a woman a 10 I am going to treat her differently and change my attitude and personality based on a tiny little number. I was guilty of this for a while before I copped on. Who cares how hot she is in comparison to other women? If you find her attractive that's all that matters. A simple yes or no label is sufficient in my opinion.

/Rant over

A Neurotic · 12-10-2014 12:54PM

All women meet in secret before entering any given pub or club and allocate the males inside according to the women's preferences and attractiveness rating. This is well known.

Shakespeare's Sister · 12-10-2014 12:55PM

Sam Kade wrote: »

I fcuking hate Americanisms :mad:

Yes we know - obsessively. You also like to use

a lot, passive-aggressively.

Americans in general couldn't give a fiddlers fcuk about the Irish in fact they believe the Irish are stupid

A lie (not a "fact"). There is huge interest in Ireland from America actually, but even so, why SHOULD they give a **** about us? Such insecurity. And where the **** did this suddenly come from?!

There's lots of American TV and exposure to American culture here, there's very little of the Irish equivalent in the US. That's just the way it is - not something to get upset about.

The Backwards Man · 12-10-2014 12:56PM

The only things that should be measured by numbers are eggs and shoes.

jamesbere · 12-10-2014 01:02PM

The Backwards Man wrote: »

The only things that should be measured by numbers are eggs and shoes.

Let's hope you never build a house.

guest2014 · 12-10-2014 01:06PM

Perineum wrote: »

As an I like to challenge myself and chat up nines and tens.

then you woke up.

DeadHand · 12-10-2014 01:09PM

Poll needs "another woman" option.

The Backwards Man · 12-10-2014 01:10PM

jamesbere wrote: »

Let's hope you never build a house.

Why?

Concrete is measured in metres (and newton), blocks are measured in inches (millimetres for the trendies), sand and cement are measured in tons.

I have never heard anyone refer to a 7 out of 10 roof barge, and I've been around a fair while.

TheBeardedLady · 12-10-2014 01:13PM

guest2014 wrote: »

just wondering how women think when they are out to pull a guy, for example if the woman is a 7, does she go for another 7 or does she aim higher e.g a 9 or lower say a 5 or 6. hate to use numbers but ye know what i mean.

Why do you ask?

Shakespeare's Sister · 12-10-2014 01:14PM

guest2014 wrote: »

just wondering how women think when they are out to pull a guy, for example if the woman is a 7, does she go for another 7 or does she aim higher e.g a 9 or lower say a 5 or 6. hate to use numbers but ye know what i mean.

From a much older age group (presumably you're 17?) but I don't really think about it, just talk to a guy who seems attractive to me - always been the way. Thank fuq I don't think in terms of numbers and interact as mechanically as suggested as above. :eek:

Fashionable now in these PUA days to say it's not mechanical bla bla bla... but it is.

DeadHand · 12-10-2014 01:24PM

Perineum wrote: »

As an I like to challenge myself and chat up nines and tens. The difference with nines and tens is they are very blasé and unrecoverable. You have demonstrate two things with through your multi channel communication, that you are an authority in their world and something personal about her to get her attention.

Women generally "congruence test" men, if you fail they completely lose interest, if you pass any their interest is amplified hugely.

So for example if she responds to one of your comments by saying "do you say that to every girl", you pass by being completely unrecoverable. You could say, yea your are the 4th today. You fail by "going into your head" and noticeably becoming uncomfortable.

Tell us more oh wise one! How do we studs tame these feisty she devils?

Always cringe when I see people (almost always single men refering to women) try to simplify human relationships/individuals into tidy "rules" and ratings systems. Human beings and how they relate to each other romantically/sexually is a subject of byzantine complexity and stunning diversity.

Every girl's different, Goddamit, go away and actually talk to a few.

Strong Life in Dublin · 12-10-2014 01:48PM

I'm not sure but I would image that they would go for more of a average looking guy as opposed to a crazy good looking/pretty boy.

corner of hells · 12-10-2014 02:05PM

dmc17 wrote: »

You'd have to divide the 16 by 2 though. So they'd probably be an 8

16 divided by 2 is definitely 8 , no probably about it.

guest2014 · 12-10-2014 02:06PM

Shakespeare's Sister wrote: »

From a much older age group (presumably you're 17?) but I don't really think about it, just talk to a guy who seems attractive to me - always been the way. Thank fuq I don't think in terms of numbers and interact as mechanically as suggested as above. :eek:

Fashionable now in these PUA days to say it's not mechanical bla bla bla... but it is.

why get so worked up about it? its just a bit of craic, i used numbers to get my point across. im in my twenties btw. the pua stuff is a load of bull as well, its cringey.

mickdw · 12-10-2014 02:14PM

The Backwards Man wrote: »

Why?

Concrete is measured in metres (and newton), blocks are measured in inches (millimetres for the trendies), sand and cement are measured in tons.

I have never heard anyone refer to a 7 out of 10 roof barge, and I've been around a fair while.

But ...... But all those units referred to use numbers to quantify. Plus if you want to be technical about it, concrete volume is measured in cubic metres with compressive strength measured in newtons per mm squared.