Have you ever been cheated on?

bear1 · 06-10-2014 11:55AM #1

I was reading the best friend thread and I thought of another similar type of thread.
Before I met my now wife I was in a relationship that lasted about 4 months give or take.
I was a right mug but I learnt my lesson after that.
I knew the girl for a bit before we started seeing each other but she had a boyfriend so nothing ever happened.
Then I found out they broke up so I thought I'd take my chance.
Met up on Paddys night and went back to her place for a bit of err playtime.
Really started to like her and we ended up going on dates, cinema etc. Relationship stuff.
Her birthday was coming up and she was having a party at her place but said that no guys were allowed as she wanted a girly night.
Had no problem with it and so stayed at home and invited some of the lads over for cans.
Around midnight I get a text from her telling me she was sorry but was just after sleeping with her ex. Cow didn't even have the courage to meet me in person.
She told me she'd understand if I never wanted to see her again but I liked her a lot and thought I'll try and forgive it.
Slowly things were getting better until it was now my birthday and we were all going to have a night on the town. The ex said she'd be a bit late as she needs time to get ready etc and then meet my friends girlfriend for drinks. Thought no more of it until who walks through the door of the pub? Said friends girlfriend.
Turned out that my ex was meeting up with her ex every week for their own playtime and was with the guy the same day as my birthday.
Dumped her the next day... in person.
So AH, what are your stories?

u140acro3xs7dm · 06-10-2014 11:58AM

Sure im a fúcking ride, nobody would cheat on me.

bear1 · 06-10-2014 12:03PM

Terrence Fast Wall wrote: »

Sure im a fúcking ride, nobody would cheat on me.

Appropriate username

razorblunt · 06-10-2014 12:25PM

My 5 Kings got beaten by 6 Aces in Texas Hold Em one night.
Still getting over it. Leonard Cohen eases the pain.

cletus van damme · 06-10-2014 12:30PM

convinced ex-wife cheated on me , no real evidence bar my gut instinct and no sex for me at the time.
She denied it to high heaven whenI accused her.

She married now to the fella I was suspicious of.
odd that.

poor him :pac:

Barely There · 06-10-2014 12:30PM

bear1 wrote: »

Thought no more of it until who walks through the door of the pub? Said friends girlfriend.
Turned out that my ex was meeting up with her ex every week for their own playtime and was with the guy the same day as my birthday.

I can't be the only one completely confused by the end of this anecdote?

Czarcasm · 06-10-2014 12:40PM

Barely There wrote: »

I can't be the only one completely confused by the end of this anecdote?

The OP's girlfriend told the OP she was meeting his friends girlfriend, and then the friends' girlfriend walked in the door of the pub, with no sign of the OP's girlfriend.

Taylor Swift explains it better -

cletus van damme · 06-10-2014 12:45PM

Czarcasm wrote: »

The OP's girlfriend told the OP she was meeting his friends girlfriend, and then the friends' girlfriend walked in the door of the pub, with no sign of the OP's girlfriend.

Taylor Swift explains it better -

I guess it's in the way it's told.

sorry OP . It's clear now

krustydoyle · 06-10-2014 12:50PM

Do you need a hug bear1??

bear1 · 06-10-2014 01:22PM

krustydoyle wrote: »

Do you need a hug bear1??

I do

bear1 · 06-10-2014 01:23PM

Barely There wrote: »

I can't be the only one completely confused by the end of this anecdote?

It's a Monday and I'm sick so whatever I post may or may not make sense

sbsquarepants · 06-10-2014 01:29PM

Barely There wrote: »

I can't be the only one completely confused by the end of this anecdote?

I think his girlfriend fúcked his twin, or possibly his reflection - shít I don't know. All you need to know is she's a slut.:mad:

anncoates · 06-10-2014 01:33PM

bear1 wrote: »

and went back to her place for a bit of err playtime.

It's OK, you're allowed t say sex here.

bear1 · 06-10-2014 01:33PM

anncoates wrote: »

It's OK, you're allowed t say sex here.

Giggles *runs away to laugh in the corner*

Miss Lizzie Jones · 06-10-2014 01:37PM

Never. When they tell me that I am wearing THEM out, I have no worries.

bucketybuck · 06-10-2014 01:41PM

bear1 wrote: »

She told me she'd understand if I never wanted to see her again but I liked her a lot and thought I'll try and forgive it.

This is always the bit that people get wrong.

kingtut · 06-10-2014 02:14PM

Hmm I haven't really been cheated on but one girl did pretend to be dying of leukimia in order to break up with me (she said she didn't want me to see her suffering)... does that count? Nope, oh well

krustydoyle · 06-10-2014 02:16PM

kingtut wrote: »

Hmm I haven't really been cheated on but one girl did pretend to be dying of leukimia in order to break up with me (she said she didn't want me to see her suffering)... does that count? Nope, oh well

Jaysus!!!

bear1 · 06-10-2014 02:21PM

kingtut wrote: »

Hmm I haven't really been cheated on but one girl did pretend to be dying of leukimia in order to break up with me (she said she didn't want me to see her suffering)... does that count? Nope, oh well

She sounds fcuked in the head.

Summer wind · 06-10-2014 02:21PM

Yeah but when I look back now I'm so glad it happened. I was spared from so much more misery that would have been on the way down the line.

Kaizersoze81 · 06-10-2014 02:25PM

Summer wind wrote: »

Yeah but when I look back now I'm so glad it happened. I was spared from so much more misery that would have been on the way down the line.

2 different accounts ?!

Gongoozler · 06-10-2014 02:30PM

Miss Lizzie Jones wrote: »

Never. When they tell me that I am wearing THEM out, I have no worries.

Maybe they mean in ways other than sexually.

Miss Lizzie Jones · 06-10-2014 02:37PM

Gongoozler wrote: »

Maybe they mean in ways other than sexually.

Trust me ... the messages were 100% clear.

Summer wind · 06-10-2014 02:40PM

Kaizersoze81 wrote: »

2 different accounts ?!

I was cheated on and when I asked why I got punched. He came back next day and wanted to try again. I said no. So glad I did.

Philo Beddoe · 06-10-2014 02:45PM

Summer wind wrote: »

I was cheated on and when I asked why I got punched. He came back next day and wanted to try again. I said no. So glad I did.

I think it's safe to say you made the right decision there.

redfacedbear · 06-10-2014 03:15PM

First proper grown up relationship finished with her lining up my replacement before giving me the heave-ho. I believe she ended up marrying him and it's only in retrospect that I can see how profoundly incompatible we were. No hard feelings now (but at the time... jaysus I was furious.)

beano345 · 06-10-2014 03:25PM

redfacedbear wrote: »

First proper grown up relationship finished with her lining up my replacement before giving me the heave-ho. I believe she ended up marrying him and it's only in retrospect that I can see how profoundly incompatible we were. No hard feelings now (but at the time... jaysus I was furious.)

I've had this happen to me,usually you'll see the warning signs the new potentials name will keep cropping up in conversations,when I confronted her about my suspicions I got the whole "I can't believe you thought that of me" line and was put in the doghouse for it,meanwhile it was well underway behind my back

Barely There · 06-10-2014 03:36PM

Never really been cheated on exactly, but I suppose it was a borderline case.
I’d been going out with a girl in college for a couple of years.
Looking back now I can’t believe the relationship lasted so long, we seemed to be constantly fighting, breaking up, getting back together. She was a complete drama-queen, very needy and my head was wreaked.
On the upside, she was a very good-looking girl and the sex was incredible.
Anyhow, there was a group of about 20 of us going away to London for the summer and I decided to end the relationship – a clean break for the summer.
About a week before we left, she announced she was coming too (we had a similar circle of friends, so she would have known a lot of the people going over).
I was pissed off, but really I couldn’t stop her.
Anyway, we get over there and she’s all over me from the start. Draping herself over me when we go out, whispering in my ear all the naughty things she wants to do with me.
Of course I’m weak and I crumble and we end up back together again that night. I’ve resolved myself to another few months of a head-wreakingly bad relationship who’s only upside is the mind-blowing sex.
Anyway, the very next night we all head out to a club and she saunters into the place draped around a new guy in the group. She’s all over him and wants to make sure that I can see.
I was so pissed off, with her, but mostly with myself for allowing her to get back under my skin like that.
I resolved from that night onward that I’d never have anything to do with her again.
Of course her relationship with the new guy lasted all of a few weeks and she came sniffing back around me again, but I completely blanked her.
In fact I’ve never really spoken to her again since that night other than a mumbled greeting when we end up at the same social event – which is thankfully quite rare.
Not sure if that counts as being cheated on or not, but at the time it felt like it for me, but in retrospect it was the best thing that ever happened to me.

tinz18 · 06-10-2014 03:41PM

beano345 wrote: »

I've had this happen to me,usually you'll see the warning signs the new potentials name will keep cropping up in conversations,when I confronted her about my suspicions I got the whole "I can't believe you thought that of me" line and was put in the doghouse for it,meanwhile it was well underway behind my back

I went through something similar- guilt-trip, I would nevers and for the last month and a half when we went out to dinner, it was normally out of the city because "he wanted something different" from the old faithfuls- only after I copped he'd told her we'd broken up when he hooked up with her and didn't want to be seen around town with me...fun times! :rolleyes:

Generic Dreadhead · 06-10-2014 03:42PM

Miss Lizzie Jones wrote: »

Never. When they tell me that I am wearing THEM out, I have no worries.

<snip> not worth it

who_me · 06-10-2014 03:43PM

No chance my girlfriend is cheating on me. She can't even find time for me, what with all the evenings she works late on her boss's yacht; never mind anyone else..

Have you ever been cheated on?

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