Have you ever cheated?

Ashbx · 25-04-2014 03:05PM

Banjo String wrote: »

I used to use the invincibility cheat on sonic the hedgehog on the Sega mega drive.

^^ >> << A on the opening credits while holding in the start button activated the cheat.

That Dr robotnik used to hate me.

Kudos for actually remembering that cheat!!

25-04-2014 03:05PM

Senor Fancy Pants wrote: »

If you want to ride someone and they want to do it too.....then just do it.

Life's too short. Even shorter if you are a midget.

and if you're in a supposedly monogamous relationship, break up first

TeddyTedson · 25-04-2014 03:12PM

Maximus Alexander wrote: »

Nope. Just break up with your partner if you feel like cheating.

But then you wouldn't be cheating...?

Sorry!

Personally no, never. Never will.

KTRIC · 25-04-2014 03:16PM

Once while in a relationship many many many moons ago. In fairness it was with a model and my gf at the time resembled Shrek (well she does now) so it was justified. Haven't done it since.

Penny Tration · 25-04-2014 03:23PM

KTRIC wrote: »

Once while in a relationship many many many moons ago. In fairness it was with a model and my gf at the time resembled Shrek (well she does now) so it was justified. Haven't done it since.

How is it justified? Someone being more attractive than your partner isn't justification.

Never cheated on anyone. I don't see why I would. If I want to fcuk other people, I'd dump the person I'm with. Been cheated on 4 times though.

Maximus Alexander · 25-04-2014 03:30PM

TeddyTedson wrote: »

But then you wouldn't be cheating...?

Sorry!

Personally no, never. Never will.

That would sorta be the objective, yeah. :P

Irishcrx · 25-04-2014 03:39PM

I was awful for cheating when I was younger , probably not one girl did I go out with that I didn't end up cheating on, I was actually beginning to think there was something wrong with me , lack of empity for other people or something , never really cared when they got upset, dumped anything! I just moved on to someone else and continued the trend , jesus I even ended up not only cheating but going out with 2 people at the same time on 2 seperate occasions.

But I was young and didn't care tbh plenty of time to ponder that later in life, my actions did result in a hurley to the balls once when one girl found out about the other and me affectionetly being known as '**** face' and 'asswipe' amonst others for a number of years , even people who I never met who knew 'of' me would automatically think I was an absolute wanker...even more strange some girls found this a turn on??

Then I met my partner and we've been together 10 years , I cheated on her once 10 years ago , I actually told her to her face and she slapped the **** outta me but gave me another chance and that was it I never did it again, I wouldn't even think about it now I guess she was the first one I ever cared about and actually liked/loved.

bogwalrus · 25-04-2014 03:59PM

Once when I was 22. Had been seeing a girl for 6months or so. Scored with a girl i sort if knew on a nights out. Was really hammered when it happened and woke up with extreme guilt next morning.

Karma caught up because two months later she kissed some lad in a club. I dumped her. Great thing is I never told her I cheated on her two months earlier.

I was some dick in my early 20's=)

blastman · 25-04-2014 04:53PM

I haven't, but I was seeing someone who was, does that count?

FullblownRose · 25-04-2014 06:18PM

The lack of value people put on their partners is disgusting. ''My girlriend looked like Shrek in fairness''

You fucing make me feel sick to my stomach for the lack of humanity in you. You're not a man.

Aphex · 25-04-2014 06:28PM

No, and never will. It's a horrible thing to do to someone. I know a few lads who brag about it and are still with the other half. Idiots.

Piliger · 25-04-2014 06:28PM

Most people stray at some point in life. It's natural. It is how you handle it and how you deal with it that matters.

LizzieJones · 25-04-2014 06:29PM

Never. Not even once and I had good reason to (when I was married).

Wibbs · 25-04-2014 06:32PM

FullblownRose wrote: »

The lack of value people put on their partners is disgusting. ''My girlriend looked like Shrek in fairness''

Going beyond the insulting nature of the whole thing, what I can't figure is why someone would choose to go out with "shrek" in the first place. Like deliberately ordering food you don't like in a restaurant and then complaining to the chef. Maybe this happens to people with zero options or something?

Nope never cheated. Have been cheated on though. A couple of times. Then again looking back what the hell was I doing with those who did. Needy, self centered neurotics. The cheating was but an end symptom.

Though I've never cheated on someone, I have been the "other man" a few times. Sometimes I knew I was, mostly I didn't. In the majority of cases they were the type of people who have to be in a relationship, can't be on their own for any length of time, so rather than be single, will stay in a stale relationship with one eye open for the next victim boyfriend to come along. Test the newbie for a time while keeping the original partner in the frame just in case the newbie doesn't work out. I think the scientific term for them is Tossers.

FullblownRose · 25-04-2014 07:42PM

Wibbs wrote: »

Going beyond the insulting nature of the whole thing, what I can't figure is why someone would choose to go out with "shrek" in the first place. Like deliberately ordering food you don't like in a restaurant and then complaining to the chef. Maybe this happens to people with zero options or something?

Nope never cheated. Have been cheated on though. A couple of times. Then again looking back what the hell was I doing with those who did. Needy, self centered neurotics. The cheating was but an end symptom.

Though I've never cheated on someone, I have been the "other man" a few times. Sometimes I knew I was, mostly I didn't. In the majority of cases they were the type of people who have to be in a relationship, can't be on their own for any length of time, so rather than be single, will stay in a stale relationship with one eye open for the next victim boyfriend to come along. Test the newbie for a time while keeping the original partner in the frame just in case the newbie doesn't work out. I think the scientific term for them is Tossers.

I don't now, ether. I know girls who are unconventionally pretty or cute or have ecellent, lovely personalities and I see their partners adore them, and I think that's how it should be. It's lovely to see. The wrong partner might ust dismiss them as Shrek, though.

I think I might be becoming the other woman to someone. I have been cheated on and I only now thanks to the internet. In the initial stages my partner an his female friend got this weird respect for me thing out of the way. I will never forget reading it. She said '' FBR (or my name) is a knockout@@ he said ''yes and she's very funny@@.

And that was that. I suppose it would have hurt a damn sight more if I had found out he had refered to me as Shrek, though.

I think dump them and let them hurt from that rather than decieving them and wasting their life on an illusion of love. Better in the long run.

Holsten · 25-04-2014 07:51PM

Never have, never would.

GenieOz · 25-04-2014 08:09PM

I cheat on my diet regularly. On my girlfriend? No I could never do that to her. Lust doesn't come close to love.
I guess at the start of a relationship it could be a real possibility or temptation but not now.

candy-gal1 · 25-04-2014 09:57PM

Never have, and I can safely say I never will - one of the few things I can be 100% sure of in life :P, I just dont see the point tbh!

I mean if you soberly cheat then obviously your relationship doesnt mean that much to you, so why are you in it?!

If you drunkenly cheat then you mustnt have been that drunk if you still remember cheating so you obviously knew even a teeny bit what you were doing

Thats just imho anyway, each to their own as long as it doesnt badly affect me, I just couldnt happily or even normally live with the guilt of it, could never keep it secret!

mrty · 01-09-2014 10:54PM

Never have but have been on the receiving end very recently and its not nice i can tell you.

01-09-2014 11:00PM

Nope. Never have, never will! Such an awful thing to do.

kowloon · 01-09-2014 11:07PM

Impulse 9.

Peist2007 · 01-09-2014 11:27PM

Alcohol is never an excuse. People seem to misunderstand the effects of alcohol, which surprises me given how alcohol seems to dominate life in Ireland. Alcohol removes inhibitions ie it will help you do what you want. It aint LSD

Reggie. · 02-09-2014 07:16AM

Nope never did but was on the receiving end of it tho

Putins Assassin · 02-09-2014 07:23AM

Peist2007 wrote: »

Alcohol is never an excuse. People seem to misunderstand the effects of alcohol, which surprises me given how alcohol seems to dominate life in Ireland. Alcohol removes inhibitions ie it will help you do what you want. It aint LSD

People don't choose what they want to do, it makes no sense to be ashamed about what you want to do.

TGJD · 02-09-2014 07:53AM

Putins Assassin wrote: »

People don't choose what they want to do, it makes no sense to be ashamed about what you want to do.

But acting on that at the expense of other people is something to be ashamed of.

deseil · 02-09-2014 07:57AM

Yes I cheated a number of times in the early years of my relationship,
I never confessed, I feel bad about it sometimes but Im really happily married and so is my other half. I haven't cheated in years and don't intend to again.

GLaDOS · 02-09-2014 08:06AM

Nope, and I like to think I never will.

Putins Assassin · 02-09-2014 08:06AM

TGJD wrote: »

But acting on that at the expense of other people is something to be ashamed of.

Indeed

Baron Kurtz · 02-09-2014 08:07AM

pundy wrote: »

nope. would never do it.

the actions of a true utter scumbag.

We have a Pious Peter here. Na'r did nowt t'noboday, Sir!

Also, everything is always scumbag this, scumbag that. Favoured word on Boards to describe anything from moderately irritating to properly detestable.

Peist2007 · 02-09-2014 12:32PM

Putins Assassin wrote: »

People don't choose what they want to do, it makes no sense to be ashamed about what you want to do.

My point is that saying to your partner "i was drunk" is not an excuse. You were drunk. You did exactly what you wanted to do. The alcohol didnt make you lose your autonomy.

Have you ever cheated?

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