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Skipping the DJ - any experiences?

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 54 ✭✭Mobile Dj


    I have only on my time as a Dj seen two hotels that have fitted large sound systems into the function room, (Cavan and Wicklow)

    The basic Hotel system will not be able to manage the bass frequencies at high volume, this will lead to sound distortion or the amp will cut out if fitted with overload protection.

    This idea has been going around for many years and gets the same response all the time.

    Wedding Djs are not expensive for the service they provide.

    Full evening Djs €350 - €450

    After band Djs €200 - €300

    Fees up or down depends on playing time, travel and amount of equipment required.

    Argument for DJ only savings - Dj only against average wedding band savings would be around €1000. (saving of 2K for high end bands)

    Bands and DJ combinations are really down to the couple, some use it to give a varied entertainment experience on the evening.

    When looking at the Dj only option.

    Experience of the DJ is essential

    Sound and lighting, 2 speakers,2 lights in a room of 200 - 300 people would not be suitable
    (Bass bins and tops with enough lighting to give good atmosphere and a stage presence).

    Back up equipment for all essential parts of the system.

    A bit off topic I know but a DJ is there to create a party atmosphere by selecting and playing tracks that will work at the right time of the night, a pre recorded set or preset/preloaded playlist do not have the option to change direction if music is not working.

    After a day of attention to detail to WOW the guests eg. Dress,cars,flowers,Dinner, singers etc, the last thing your guests will experience will be the DJ, so a bad one could ruin the memory of your wedding.

    Food for thought,

    Mobile DJ

    (This is post is not an advertisement for my services nor is it intended to be as there are no
    website links,email address or numbers listed, All points listed are from personal
    experience)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,470 ✭✭✭pooch90


    We skipped ceremony musicians and it wasn't noticed in the slightest, I found that that cost more than the DJ.
    If your iPod idea turns out badly, your guests will go to bed at 12.30. Nobody wants that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,915 ✭✭✭clint_silver


    Mobile Dj wrote: »
    I have only on my time as a Dj seen two hotels that have fitted large sound systems into the function room, (Cavan and Wicklow)

    The basic Hotel system will not be able to manage the bass frequencies at high volume, this will lead to sound distortion or the amp will cut out if fitted with overload protection.


    Cabra castle in cavan I think has one as they run dances and need it? where in wicklow?

    old setanta house in celbridge used to have one but thats gone a while, Near the end of their existence I had a gig there, manager told me I had to play through their sound system as he didnt trust any DJ to manage his own levels but then tried to charge me 50e for the privilege. :D:D:D

    2 months later they were gone.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 266 ✭✭nearzero


    We are hiring a PA system for €150 cause our wedding is small - only 60 people & doing a virtual DJ with laptop. I have about 4/5 mates who are DJs, while I didnt want to ask them to DJ at our wedding cause they are guests, they have offered to set up the system for me, get all my music into playlists & can take over if the dancefloor dies! They will have everything broken up into playlists so they switch between them easily without having to actually DJ themselves!! Perfect :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 54 ✭✭Mobile Dj


    Cabra castle in cavan I think has one as they run dances and need it? where in wicklow?

    old setanta house in celbridge used to have one but thats gone a while, Near the end of their existence I had a gig there, manager told me I had to play through their sound system as he didnt trust any DJ to manage his own levels but then tried to charge me 50e for the privilege. :D:D:D

    2 months later they were gone.

    Forgot about Setanta.

    It's been a while since I've been to Cabra Castle, from memory there was Bose 802 speakers and again where under powered for the room (may have changed since I've been there)

    Cavan Crystal & Amber springs were the two I remember , Wicklow hotel even had moving heads installed.

    @color_girl The key points in your post

    "I have about 4/5 mates who are DJ's, while I didn't want to ask them to DJ at our wedding cause they are guests"

    "they have offered to set up the system for me, get all my music into playlists & can take over if the dancefloor dies!"

    The fact is they will be there and more than likely they will step up and help if playlist is failing, this is not an option available to all couples getting married.

    Our fee for a local wedding with 60 guests would be €250, so a saving of €100 would have been made here.

    looking at the time spent collecting & setting up equipment,checking levels,compiling playlists,talking equipment out at end of night and returning it to the hire company, it is not a huge saving.Also is there a back up amp or speaker should the unthinkable happen.

    HTH's


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 266 ✭✭nearzero


    I know - I'm very lucky :) My chief witness (not doing bridesmaids or bridal party) is also a sound engineer!! Since she has no other bridesmaid-y style duties, her main duty was get a PA suitable & hook it up!

    I know its not a huge saving but our budget was penny tight... so €100 was MASSIVE to us plus no one will have the music we like ;) haha!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 54 ✭✭Mobile Dj


    color_girl wrote: »
    I know - I'm very lucky :) My chief witness (not doing bridesmaids or bridal party) is also a sound engineer!! Since she has no other bridesmaid-y style duties, her main duty was get a PA suitable & hook it up!

    I know its not a huge saving but our budget was penny tight... so €100 was MASSIVE to us plus no one will have the music we like ;) haha!

    Point to note to all brides make sure to invite a DJ, sound engineer and the owner of a PA hire shop.(LOL comment not meant to offend)

    "no one will have the music we like" you think... I've had some unique music lists in my time..

    You have my attention, Give us an example of your music tastes


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 266 ✭✭nearzero


    Mobile Dj wrote: »
    Point to note to all brides make sure to invite a DJ, sound engineer and the owner of a PA hire shop.(LOL comment not meant to offend)

    "no one will have the music we like" you think... I've had some unique music lists in my time..

    You have my attention, Give us an example of your music tastes

    haha I know... also handy to make friends with cake makers, dress makers & jewelers right? ;)

    Oh dear I could expose ourselves now with very diverse and strange tastes in music - OH has everything from Clutch, Amon Amarth, Rob Zombie to Curve and Cubenate. While I have stuff like VNV Nation & Combichrist or And One & Assemblage 23 & Covenant. All of our friends like the same music but of course there is still something for everyone on the playlist from Blondie to Neil Diamond!! Its a very small wedding though & everyone has contributed to the playlist so it should be good craic :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,915 ✭✭✭clint_silver


    colorgirl, thats a great example of if youre on a very tight budget, do as much yourself as possible. And if you need to save 100e, then why not and we'll help as much as possible to make it work if you need any help. to save you 150 on the sound, you could spend 500e on 2 decent full range speakers from adverts, they hold their resale value pretty well, sell them on for same price afterwards.

    Im with my Mobile DJ friend on one thing, Youd be surprised what pro guys have in their collection. Any time I hear someone say "ah I bet you wouldnt have a partiuclar song" its kind like asking a professional chef that he wouldnt be able to cook a steak a particular way. I had LCD soundsystem, white stripes and christy moore and tavares requested in a row last saturday night, eclectic crowd, no problem. DJs get a bad rap as theres an image of a guy playing any old songs from a playlist off a laptop, half the couples have friends who've download a free version of PCDJ or a cracked version of traktor and think this is it, Im a DJ. Sort of like saying I can cook a steak at home, Im a chef.

    I was down in amber springs 3 times in the last month, I didnt recollect seeing the house system but I know they run dances and the local DJ brings his own rig in for it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 54 ✭✭Mobile Dj


    Think I have mixed the names up Amber is on the left on the way out of the town,

    The one I am thinking of is further down and had a huge function room with 15 inch tops and moving heads in roof.

    If I think of it and where it is I will let you know, It's been a while since I've been down that direction.

    @color_girl . yip music taste now added to my unique list of music styles.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,915 ✭✭✭clint_silver


    Mobile Dj wrote: »
    Think I have mixed the names up Amber is on the left on the way out of the town,

    The one I am thinking of is further down and had a huge function room with 15 inch tops and moving heads in roof.

    If I think of it and where it is I will let you know, It's been a while since I've been down that direction.

    @color_girl . yip music taste now added to my unique list of music styles.

    That's probably the seafield. They've got the moving heads permanently installed. Was only down there last week and hadn't been there in a couple years. Didn't see the 15s though. Back again next month, must check that out.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 54 ✭✭Mobile Dj


    Yip Seafield.

    Black speakers each side of the room near ceiling with no brand name on them (12/15s), been a while so can't say if they are still there.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,871 ✭✭✭Karen23


    Mobile Dj wrote: »

    Wedding Djs are not expensive for the service they provide.

    Full evening Djs €350 - €450

    We paid double this in 2008, otherwise known as the rip off years :mad:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,862 ✭✭✭✭January


    I'm paying a bit more than that for my full evening DJ. But, he's good at what he does and I know he's not ripping me off. I've heard so many good reports about him.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 54 ✭✭Mobile Dj


    Karen23 wrote: »
    We paid double this in 2008, otherwise known as the rip off years :mad:

    €900, I was never that expensive and I'm sure you were quoted a lot less by other Djs and either went for most expensive DJ bracket as you were probably like many others at the time with the "why are they cheaper" question

    Full day or long playing times & Travel/accommodation costs would be the only reason for high fees at the time.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 539 ✭✭✭Buttercake


    DJ A charges €200, DJ B charges €500, DJ C charges €1000

    They are not all the same! - there are probably many reasons why they charge what they do and its all about supply & demand, that they can charge whatever they want, same with the venue you have your reception in. DJ A is probably young or new on the scene or desperate for a gig, probably doesn't pay any tax and is looking for a quick cash in hand, whereas DJ C probably spent 10k on his setup, is there for the entire day and does x,y and z.

    Hotel A charges €20 per head, Hotel B charges €50 per head, Hotel C charges €100 per head.

    if someone wants to only spend €200, there are plenty who will do it for that, but it doesn't mean the one who charges €1000 is a rip off. Things are only a rip off when you don't have a choice.

    The same can be applied to anything, dresses, honeymoons, cakes, houses, cars, tins of beans etc


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,644 ✭✭✭✭lazygal


    Our DJ wasn't very expensive but I think with hindsight I wouldn't have bothered having one and would have asked the band to play an extra half hour. We didn't have a hotel wedding so there was no residents' bar planned and I was about ready to call it a night by 1am. DJ was grand but wouldn't have been missed if we'd wrapped the party up earlier with the band alone. I've never been bowled over by a wedding DJ, I'm usually ready for bed after the long day by the time the band finishes up.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 54 ✭✭Mobile Dj


    Buttercake wrote: »
    DJ A charges €200, DJ B charges €500, DJ C charges €1000

    They are not all the same! - there are probably many reasons why they charge what they do and its all about supply & demand, that they can charge whatever they want, same with the venue you have your reception in. DJ A is probably young or new on the scene or desperate for a gig, probably doesn't pay any tax and is looking for a quick cash in hand, whereas DJ C probably spent 10k on his setup, is there for the entire day and does x,y and z.

    Hotel A charges €20 per head, Hotel B charges €50 per head, Hotel C charges €100 per head.

    if someone wants to only spend €200, there are plenty who will do it for that, but it doesn't mean the one who charges €1000 is a rip off. Things are only a rip off when you don't have a choice.

    The same can be applied to anything, dresses, honeymoons, cakes, houses, cars, tins of beans etc

    What happened DJ B @ €500.

    Also spent 10K+ on equipment, experienced, paying tax and matched standard of DJ C leaving the fee being the only difference.

    Lets be clear the text highlighted by Karen23 was for a full evening which would have a playing time 9pm - 2.30am, so no need to be there all day.

    The additional cost could be down to marketing overheads, commission added by booking agent or as said before travel/accommodation costs

    I'm in the DJ B range and am there because I try to keep prices reasonable as possible.

    Question here is simple, when it came down to price does the default setting go to more expensive "must be better"

    way off original topic with this now so signing off with points above.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 539 ✭✭✭Buttercake


    Mobile Dj wrote: »
    Question here is simple, when it came down to price does the default setting go to more expensive "must be better".

    not at all but the same as when you book a room in a 5star hotel compared to a 3star hotel, you will expect more from the provider across the board, and someone charging 1k while technically may not be any better than someone charging less, they charge what he/she does for a reason or maybe a sum of many reasons.

    If they were charging 1k a gig and were terrible, im pretty sure they wouldnt be in business too long.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,915 ✭✭✭clint_silver


    Buttercake wrote: »
    not at all but the same as when you book a room in a 5star hotel compared to a 3star hotel, you will expect more from the provider across the board, and someone charging 1k while technically may not be any better than someone charging less, they charge what he/she does for a reason or maybe a sum of many reasons.

    If they were charging 1k a gig and were terrible, im pretty sure they wouldnt be in business too long.

    most definitely.
    Theres a business principle that exists (has a name that I cant remember) that if something costs more then it must be better but that would only last so long. You'd have to actually be better to justify it.

    same for any of the providors, its mostly word of mouth, they may get some work based on that principle but if they cant back it up, work will dry up until they either start justifying that cost or lower that cost.

    the industry gets hurt by this though, take a guy who hears he can charge 800e for a night, isnt any good but charges 800e, (should be charging 200e) , now anyone who's seen this guy is thinking all DJs are crap and overpriced. If you see a good guy in operation, youll know the difference.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,908 ✭✭✭zoobizoo


    Was at a wedding where there was no dj and no one bothered getting up to dance other than me and my partner. It seemed a bit silly just plugging in an Ipod with no one to alter the music. That's the great thing about a DJ - they can adapt to what's going on on the dance floor.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,383 ✭✭✭Heckler


    Got married in a country house with a small guest list (around 40 or so). Kinda place full of small interconnected rooms (apart from the main dining area) so a band made no sense. We used a fine sound system to play quiet music during the meal and ramped it up when things got going all through an ipod.

    Everyone seemed to have a great time and years later was still getting compliments on how much people enjoyed it, that it was different to the usual hotel function room/band/dj. Not that theres anything wrong with that. We just had a limited budget and this worked for us. Even if we could have afforded a band we wouldn't have had one i'd say because the venue didn't suit.

    Our style of wedding probably wouldn't have worked in a large hotel environment but it was perfect for where it was.

    Separated now but thats incidental. She still agrees the venue was brilliant :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,915 ✭✭✭clint_silver


    most definitely.
    Theres a business principle that exists (has a name that I cant remember) that if something costs more then it must be better but that would only last so long. You'd have to actually be better to justify it.

    .


    spent a while looking for this: :)

    The Veblen effect or conspicuous consumption

    Abnormal market behavior where consumers purchase the higher-priced goods whereas similar low-priced (but not identical) substitutes are available. It is caused either by the belief that higher price means higher quality, or by the desire for conspicuous consumption (to be seen as buying an expensive, prestige item). Named after its discoverer, the US social-critic Thorstein Bunde Veblen (1857-1929).


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 454 ✭✭EunanMac


    mrs_bosco wrote: »
    Hi all,

    We are considering not having a DJ at our wedding, making a playlist ourselves and just using the venue's sound system.

    Any thoughts? Has anyone done this before/attended a wedding where this was done before? Is it doable or a disaster waiting to happen?

    The rest of the wedding is following the usual traditional format so we'll be having music at the ceremony and a band after the dinner.

    Thanks very much! :)

    There's loads of things i'd skimp/chance/cut back on at a wedding, but music wouldn't be one of them.
    I've never really seen it work out that well, but maybe it can.
    An empty stage, just feels . . empty
    It doesn't have to be a big band / fancy DJ, just someone who can get the craic going, that's all it takes
    Hope you have a great day, and best wishes.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,663 ✭✭✭Milly33


    Heckler wrote: »
    Got married in a country house with a small guest list (around 40 or so). Kinda place full of small interconnected rooms (apart from the main dining area) so a band made no sense. We used a fine sound system to play quiet music during the meal and ramped it up when things got going all through an ipod.

    Everyone seemed to have a great time and years later was still getting compliments on how much people enjoyed it, that it was different to the usual hotel function room/band/dj. Not that theres anything wrong with that. We just had a limited budget and this worked for us. Even if we could have afforded a band we wouldn't have had one i'd say because the venue didn't suit.

    Our style of wedding probably wouldn't have worked in a large hotel environment but it was perfect for where it was.

    Separated now but thats incidental. She still agrees the venue was brilliant :pac:

    Sorry to hear ye are separated hope twasnt nasty or anything....

    Your wedding sounds something similar to our own and after going to a wedding at the weekend and hearing another loud band and DJ I am back to thinking that for something like this there is no need for a band.. Think they would be lost, and I know people enjoy them but half of the people I spoke to recently have said bands are just not worth it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,915 ✭✭✭clint_silver


    Milly33 wrote: »
    Sorry to hear ye are separated hope twasnt nasty or anything....

    Your wedding sounds something similar to our own and after going to a wedding at the weekend and hearing another loud band and DJ I am back to thinking that for something like this there is no need for a band.. Think they would be lost, and I know people enjoy them but half of the people I spoke to recently have said bands are just not worth it.

    have those people that said they're not worth it seen a really top band and seen the level of entertainment they can deliver?

    nothing worse than average entertainment but good entertainment is usually worth it and great entertainment is always worth it. If you cant afford it, that's a different argument.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,383 ✭✭✭Heckler


    Milly33 wrote: »
    Sorry to hear ye are separated hope twasnt nasty or anything....

    Your wedding sounds something similar to our own and after going to a wedding at the weekend and hearing another loud band and DJ I am back to thinking that for something like this there is no need for a band.. Think they would be lost, and I know people enjoy them but half of the people I spoke to recently have said bands are just not worth it.

    Nothing nasty at all. Just didn't work out. Meet up for coffee every now and again. Get on better than ever ! Lifes strange.........Miss her like crazy but wasn't meant to be. She's an amazing woman and will always be the love of my life and I wish her nothing but the best.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,663 ✭✭✭Milly33


    Glad to hear, life works in funny ways alright


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,663 ✭✭✭Milly33


    So went to a wedding recently and have to say all arrows point towards skip the band not the DJ...Although you can DJ yourself if you need to cut down costs.. But defo let the band go before the DJ. Same ding dong, too loud and just really made a downer on the hourish they played even the kids didn't want to dance..


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,494 ✭✭✭Sala


    + 1 on skip the band. I think DJs are more versatile since they can play pretty much anything you like, whereas some bands are only good at one style, if you know what I mean.

    I'd be wary of using the ipod/sound system unless you knew for a fact it worked so you would probably need to ask the hotel can you go in and practice.


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