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Woman uploads abortion video - goes viral

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,534 ✭✭✭gctest50


    ryan101 wrote: »
    Since your're not able to explain why a human has the right..............

    Because its legal ( in a nearby country and a good few more - t&c apply tho )


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,671 ✭✭✭ryan101


    gctest50 wrote: »
    Because its legal ( in a nearby country and a good few more - t&c apply tho )

    sex with children is also legal in other countries, it does not make it right.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,496 ✭✭✭Boombastic


    gctest50 wrote: »
    Because its legal ( in a nearby country and a good few more - t&c apply tho )

    cannabis is legal in a nearby country and a few more t&c apply
    does that mean it's legal here? by your reasoning It should


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭bodice ripper


    ryan101 wrote: »
    Since your're not able to explain why a human has the right, I don't want to tax you too much.

    I have the right because I am in the Netherlands.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭bodice ripper


    Boombastic wrote: »
    cannabis is legal in a nearby country and a few more t&c apply
    does that mean it's legal here? by your reasoning It should

    I have the right because I am in the Netherlands.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,496 ✭✭✭Boombastic


    I have the right because I am in the Netherlands.

    fair play to you, does that make it legal in ireland?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭bodice ripper


    Boombastic wrote: »
    fair play to you, does that make it legal in ireland?

    Hm? No. Of course not.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭bodice ripper


    Have you any room for Muise, he'd love to kill some dutch babies for you.

    I saw that, ryan101. Thing is, he can't have an abortion...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,671 ✭✭✭ryan101


    I think he'd prefer a job in the clinic


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,534 ✭✭✭gctest50


    Boombastic wrote: »
    cannabis is legal in a nearby country and a few more t&c apply
    does that mean it's legal here? by your reasoning It should

    No, but you can travel there


    http://www.bpas.ie/index.php?view=category&ID=3277


    .


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,496 ✭✭✭Boombastic


    Hm? No. Of course not.
    what's the rate of abortion in nl?
    are they're any restrictions?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,512 ✭✭✭Muise...


    I saw that, ryan101. Thing is, he can't have an abortion...

    Yes I can! :p Unfortunately, I'm not pregnant, so we can't get wasted and have abortions and dance around tulips in our clogs. Shame really, I was looking forward to telling ryan101 to mind his own business.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,496 ✭✭✭Boombastic


    gctest50 wrote: »
    you can travel anywhere but I don't think you'll find legal cannabis at an abortion clinic


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭bodice ripper


    Boombastic wrote: »
    what's the rate of abortion in nl?
    are they're any restrictions?

    Your google is as good as mine. I have had no occasion to require an abortion. I have met people here who have, and are comfortable with saying so. I have never seen that in Ireland.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,534 ✭✭✭gctest50


    Boombastic wrote: »
    what's the rate of abortion in nl?
    are they're any restrictions?
    An estimated 40 million abortions will take place in the developing world in 2012.

    Most of these procedures will be clandestine and unsafe, taking a terrible toll on women's lives. Reducing the number of unsafe abortions is essential for improving public health.





    In 1990, the abortion rate for Netherlands nationals was 5.2 per 1,000 women aged 15‑44
    The Netherlands has one of the the most liberal abortion laws in the world. Yet for a long time, the Netherlands also reported one of the world's lowest abortion rates. That low incidence abruptly began to rise in the mid-1990s. Between 1996 and 2003, the abortion rate in the Netherlands jumped by 31% over seven years.

    What changed? The Guttmacher Institute, the leading source of data on reproductive health worldwide, cites "a growing demand for terminations from women in ethnic minority groups residing in the country." Well over half of all abortions performed on teenagers in the Netherlands are performed on girls of non-Dutch origins.
    .


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,496 ✭✭✭Boombastic


    gctest50 wrote: »








    .
    if they didn't have an illegal abortion in the first place, they wouldn't die from the complications. abortions kill people.

    the way you're structured your last post it doesn't quote, but from memory

    Dutch people pay mandatory health insurance, do you expect them to pay extra on top of this? ffs it's dear enough


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,534 ✭✭✭gctest50


    Boombastic wrote: »
    if they didn't have an illegal abortion in the first place, they wouldn't die from the complications. ......

    if they didn't have an illegal unsafe abortion in the first place

    illegal is not the same as unsafe


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,496 ✭✭✭Boombastic


    gctest50 wrote: »
    if they didn't have an illegal unsafe abortion in the first place

    illegal is not the same as unsafe

    ok, if they didn't have an unsafe or any other type of abortion, they wouldn't have died from the complications.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    Boombastic wrote: »
    ok, if they didn't have an unsafe or any other type of abortion, they wouldn't have died from the complications.

    sounds almost like you're saying they asked for it. no empathy or sympathy on your part towards these women or the ones left mourning them?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 10,087 ✭✭✭✭Dan_Solo


    Boombastic wrote: »
    if they didn't have an illegal abortion in the first place, they wouldn't die from the complications. abortions kill people.
    Women can die from complications during childbirth.
    Therefore your logic dictates we should terminate all pregnancies for the mother's safety. :cool:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,534 ✭✭✭gctest50


    Boombastic wrote: »
    ok, if they didn't have an unsafe or any other type of abortion, they wouldn't have died from the complications.


    http://www.notinhershoes.org


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,616 ✭✭✭FISMA


    Grayson wrote: »
    Prove it's a human life.
    What kind of proof would be acceptable to you? Can you give us a few examples which would suffice as proof to you?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,249 ✭✭✭✭B.A._Baracus


    I only made it 1 minute and 10 seconds in to the video and I stopped. Not because I am out-raged. Just because I honestly think she is trying to be famous or something. Why create the video? Honestly people, why did she create the video? if she was getting an abortion thats between herself, partner, family and close friends.

    I wouldn't be suprised to hear that she is an asiring actress or model.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,687 ✭✭✭✭Penny Tration


    I only made it 1 minute and 10 seconds in to the video and I stopped. Not because I am out-raged. Just because I honestly think she is trying to be famous or something. Why create the video? Honestly people, why did she create the video? if she was getting an abortion thats between herself, partner, family and close friends.

    I wouldn't be suprised to hear that she is an asiring actress or model.

    She's a failed actress, so I'd imagine she wanted her few minutes of fame/infamy.

    I'm 100% pro-choice, but she makes it seem as though abortion is a happy, easy solution. It makes it seem less scary, which is a good thing, but from what I can gather, she's just looking for attention.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 769 ✭✭✭Frito


    She's a failed actress, so I'd imagine she wanted her few minutes of fame/infamy.

    I'm 100% pro-choice, but she makes it seem as though abortion is a happy, easy solution. It makes it seem less scary, which is a good thing, but from what I can gather, she's just looking for attention.


    It's possible, I suppose although I'm inclined to give her the benefit of the doubt and believe that she wants to add her own experience to the public record. Lots of women have.

    I didn't watch the clip when I first started posting on this thread, but I have since and I was surprised that other posters have been outraged. I thought she appeared a bit anxious during the abortion, trying to self-pacify.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,337 ✭✭✭Wishiwasa Littlebitaller


    ryan101 wrote: »
    oh that's what calling me a chimp is, instead of debating the topic, i see. rolleyes.png

    The snide ad hominem comments from the pro-choice posters have been made from the get-go. Started with the suggestion that people opposing their opinions were just mere 'dumb fundamentalists' who couldn't understand the use of metaphors and has just gone on from that ever since. They do say that the side of a debate that has to resort to such tactics, only does so when their argument become so weak that they are left with little or no option and I certainly think that is the case here.

    It's a shame as there were some decent posters taking part in the thread at the beginning (male and female) that seem to desert it just when those type of posts began to appear. Not sure I blame them as getting genuine retorts to points put, is as rare as hen's teeth so far. Throwing in expressions like "selfish bitches" and "rapey" seem to be more of a concern for some, rather than any desire to further the discussion. Strawmanning of opinions also seems to be a favourite pastime, to such an obnoxious degree, that nonsensical jokes about women giving birth to OAPs are being passed off as worthy relevant replies, which of course they are anything but.

    Anyway, I shall try endure in spite of the above..
    Dan_Solo wrote: »
    There you go with your respect again. Once more, what makes you think anybody wants, needs, or gives a flying duck about having your respect?

    I was directly replying to a user who talked about what he respected. Maybe I should have just said: 'What makes you think anybody wants, needs, or gives a flying duck about having your respect'.

    ..but you see, I'm here to have a discussion, not throw abuse at people.
    eviltwin wrote: »
    Why do you have such a distinction between a first and second trimester fetus?

    Simple. First trimesters are when the vast majority of miscarriages take place. Growth during second trimester is rapid (babies in the womb can now choose to move of their own accord, makes faces, suck their thumbs etc) and so I could never in good conscience support abortions at that stage, let alone support post-viability abortions, where babies have been shown to have a chance of surviving if they are born premature (such as the twins in the video which I posted in an earlier post) .
    StudentDad wrote: »
    Fascinating. You have missed the point entirely. Well done. Whether or not I agree with abortion is irrelevant. What I am saying is that you or I do not have the right to impose our beliefs on another human being without just cause. The woman in this case has acted entirely within the law and does not have to answer to you or anyone else for her actions.

    You accuse me of missing your point (which I didn't.. at all) and then repeat the very same thing you already said. I'm not sure why you keep saying she didn't break the law for anyway? Did someone say she did?
    You seem to think you have the right to dictate to another human being whether or not they have control over their own bodies. In that regard you are attempting to impose your will on others, again without just cause.
    Again you just repeat yourself and so sure I might as well: I have no issue with what she does with her body. It's the life of unborn child within her womb that I am concerned with. The growing human fetus, that has it's own specific genetic mutations, that has inherited genomes from the father as well as the mother and most importantly, that has the ability to to move independently. This is why I feel it should not be referred to as "a woman's body" they are merely WITHIN it.
    Your beliefs are yours and yours alone.
    Many share my beliefs as I am sure many share yours.
    You do not have the right to impose them on others who do not agree with you. Your rights end when they conflict with the rights of others. Sorry but that's the way it is.
    Rubbish. Late term abortions were once legal in many counties. Why did that change? Because the majority of people in each country imposed their will on the minority and so it will continue an so you are incorrect to say that others do not have the right to impose their beliefs on others, as they do, each and every day.
    As things currently stand as far as I'm aware abortion is legal up to 24 weeks in the UK. This is a choice many women make. This is their legal right and as such whether or you agree with it is irrelevant.
    Who said it wasn't? And why are you talking about the UK? This is Ireland and the video was in the USA.

    However, seeing as you brought up the UK: I think it is barbaric to have an abortion as late as 22 weeks, let alone 24, unless for medical reasons. If a 24 week pregnant woman traveled to UK for an abortion and went into labour on the way to the clinic and the baby was born premature, there is a chance that that child could survive. Could the mother plead with the doctors to switch off the incubator because she actually doesn't want it? Of course not and it would be considered murder if she chose to do so herself. Not saying a woman would, but don't you find it strange how many human rights a 22 week old fetus suddenly has, just because the umbilical cord is no longer attached.
    Whether or not I agree with it is irrelevant.
    This is a discussion forum. Whether or not you agree with it or not, is very much relevant.
    It always comes down to the choice of the woman. What she chooses to do is paramount. It is her body, her choice. To impose a 'choice' on another human being without just cause is frankly barbaric.
    If it was all as simple as you suggest, no country in the world would bother putting restrictions on the point in a pregnancy at which women could have an abortion. It would just be a case of.. 'ah well her body, her choice' ..but thankfully, almost every country in the world has banned late term abortions and for the simply reason, that most reasonable people understand that abortion is not just about a woman being able to do what she wants with her body and that there is much more at stake here, not least, the developing human fetus within her.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,337 ✭✭✭Wishiwasa Littlebitaller


    Czarcasm wrote: »
    .. your argument that an incubator is the same thing as a human being ignores the emotional aspect of the pregnancy for the woman, so it is indeed by your own doing that you are trying to dismiss the emotional aspect of the discussion. I've yet to see a Playstation that can empathise with a human being. The Japanese are good, but incubators with empathy? You're right, that IS a daft comparison. You probably shouldn't have made it then.

    Classic strawman argument. I don't think anything of the sort.

    I mention incubators to merely to show that at a certain stage of pregnancy, it is possible for unborn babies to survive outside the womb and so they should at this stage I feel it unconscionable to have them aborted. Nothing more and nothing less.
    Why do you put "fully developed" in inverted commas? By that sort of rationale, there are many adults born that are not fully developed? Nobody argued that the ability to walk and talk were characteristics of an independent life form. The arguments was solely that the unborn child is dependent on the woman for it's continuing nutrition, development and growth. If you're going to make the argument that an unborn child can survive independently outside the womb, then it must also be able to do so without the aid of medical intervention. Otherwise, that's why the normal gestation period for human beings is 40 weeks, and not 22, 24, or 28.
    First of all. The argument was made that abortions are excusable because development is not complete and so you are actually making my point for me with most of the above. You say to make the argument that an unborn child could survive independent from the mother, then it must also be able to do so without the aid of medical intervention but I fail to see why as I am just making the point that it is now a living entity. Using your logic, people on life support machines are no longer to be considered living entities. Also, isn't funny how when you used the term "unborn child" nobody quoted you with: "THERE IS NO CHILD" as happened another user when they used the term.
    Oh look, you're back to calling the unborn child a foetus now, to make your bullshìt sound all science-like and factual, devoid of emotion, and with no regard to the woman as more than just a biological incubation vessel for the life growing inside her womb that she doesn't want in there.
    Ah more accusations that I am of the opinion that women are just incubators. It's quite clear I am not, but I understand that is easier to dismiss my what I say if you suggest that I do.
    You'd have to have the emotional intellect of an incubator if you fail to empathise with a woman who does not want what feels to her like a foreign body growing inside her own that she doesn't want in there.
    Well, you have already suggested I do believe this, so this comment is just out and out personal abuse. Strange how only one side of this debate has felt the need to resort to personal insults.

    [quote}..you making someone else's choices for them is nothing shy of a God complex. [/quote]

    It is the other side of this debate that support a woman choosing to abort a living, developing fetus, which has the potential to survive outside the womb and yet you accuse me of having the God complex? I really hope the hypocrisy of what you are saying is not lost on you.
    Who the hell are you to judge what another person can and cannot choose for their own body?
    You act as if women can abort the unborn at any stage of their pregnancies. The judgement which you speak of, is not just being made by me by the way, it is being made all the time, by people throughout the world and it is what is at the heart of of abortion legislation. You wouldn't support an non-life saving abortion at 7 months would you? But why not? Who the hell are you to judge what another person can and cannot choose for their own body?
    The unborn child exerts an innate will to be born from the inside, you exert pressure from the outside, and the woman is only incubator in the middle. When a woman chooses to end a life growing inside her, it takes a special sort of righteous cnut to point out the obvious!
    More snide abuse. I wouldn't mind if what I said was anything to close to it. How pointing out that children that have been born premature can survive from outside the womb means that I see women as nothing but incubators is beyond me. That is a strange kind of logic you are using. Take my point or don't but please quit suggesting I feel things which I most certainly do not.
    And a woman's life is not yours to determine either, nor is the life inside her yours to determine what happens to it either. It shouldn't be, but the law as it stands at the moment means that you do get to vote whether a woman has access to abortion in this country, and because you seem to lack any sort of empathy for the woman, you can tell her life is tough, you only care about the life growing inside her being born. You show no concern for the woman's welfare, yet you think you have a right to sit up in judgement of other people and tell THEM they are devoid of any empathy.
    If you spent more time reading the thread than abusing people, you might actually see that I unequivocally support abortions when the life of the mother or child is at stake. Does that sound like someone who shows no concern for a woman's welfare? Of course not, but sure why let the truth get in the way of your sanctimonious starwmanning rant.
    Go look in the reflective glass of an incubator, a pregnant woman's eyes, and tell her you only care about the welfare of the unborn foetus growing inside her, that her welfare is none of your concern.
    Why would I do that when I do care about pregnant women's welfare. Guess you must have missed this post:
    If rape has been involved, health of the mother or child deemed to be at risk, then I have no issue with abortions being carried out.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,056 ✭✭✭_Redzer_


    This should make it all easier for you;

    Don't like abortions? Don't have one.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,678 ✭✭✭I Heart Internet


    _Redzer_ wrote: »
    This should make it all easier for you;

    Don't like abortions? Don't have one.

    Can I have that on an XL hoodie?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 194 ✭✭Freddie Dodge


    _Redzer_ wrote: »
    This should make it all easier for you;

    Don't like abortions? Don't have one.

    I dont like pre-meditated murder either, so I don't do it, further, I support laws made in every society in the world which forbid it.


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