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Anyone else fed up with being single right now?

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  • 24-04-2014 9:07pm
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    Pissy Missy
    Registered Users Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭


    Anyone ever get a bit peed off with being single? Maybe I'm just bored but when it seems impossible to meet someone nice or someone that wants more than an easy ride over three years, it does kind of get to you a little.

    I have tried dating sites and I'm not saying all guys are the same, but the guys I met were just looking for the one thing. I socialize and put myself out there but in vain it seems. I have lovely friends and family so I'm grateful for that. Before you say anything, I am focusing on myself, trying to keep myself busy but can't help feeling a bit lonely sometimes. Anyone in the same boat?


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    Sh1tbag OToole
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,973 ✭✭✭Sh1tbag OToole


    Pissy Missy wrote: »
    Anyone ever get a bit peed off with being single? Maybe I'm just bored but when it seems impossible to meet someone nice or someone that wants more than an easy ride over three years, it does kind of get to you a little.

    I have tried dating sites and I'm not saying all guys are the same, but the guys I met were just looking for the one thing. I socialize and put myself out there but in vain it seems. I have lovely friends and family so I'm grateful for that. Before you say anything, I am focusing on myself, trying to keep myself busy but can't help feeling a bit lonely sometimes. Anyone in the same boat?

    Tis even more terrible now that the weather is good


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    Cantremember
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,305 ✭✭✭Cantremember


    I don't like water sports. Blast it.


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    monflat
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    Im not in the same boat but i did go out recently first time in yrs ! Have two smalll children n im married.

    But i thought oh jesus christ it must be so hard to meet someone half decent .
    My friend done all the dating site thing too she said if you wanted sex 24/7 you could get it on those sites.

    Have you tried any hobbies/associations
    Supposodly hillwalking is a great way to meet people was at a weddin last yr two of them met hillwalking


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    mikom
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,391 ✭✭✭✭mikom


    Pissy Missy wrote: »
    it seems impossible to meet someone nice or someone that wants more than an easy ride over three years

    http://static.giantbomb.com/uploads/scale_medium/0/8107/1480161-chris_hansen_watching_you.gif


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    Muise...
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,512 ✭✭✭Muise...


    Cantremember wrote: »
    I don't like water sports. Blast it.

    Blast it with... ?

    :D


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    Pissy Missy
    Registered Users Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy


    monflat wrote: »
    Im not in the same boat but i did go out recently first time in yrs ! Have two smalll children n im married.

    But i thought oh jesus christ it must be so hard to meet someone half decent .
    My friend done all the dating site thing too she said if you wanted sex 24/7 you could get it on those sites.

    Have you tried any hobbies/associations
    Supposodly hillwalking is a great way to meet people was at a weddin last yr two of them met hillwalking

    Sounds like an idea. I may look into some activities but I guess Portlaoise is so tiny, I'm sure there must be a few things out there. Thanks ;)


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    AnonoBoy
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    Muise... wrote: »
    Blast it with... ?

    :D

    regret.


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    Worksforyou
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 556 ✭✭✭Worksforyou


    PM sent to the OP. I'm not looking for an easy ride, honest.


    I want a hard ride. :D


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    SEPT 23 1989
    Registered Users Posts: 43,024 ✭✭✭✭SEPT 23 1989


    why dont you want sex?

    i hear its great fun


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    Daveysil15
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,301 ✭✭✭Daveysil15


    Pissy Missy wrote: »
    it seems impossible to meet someone nice or someone that wants more than an easy ride over three years

    Three years? I can only last 15 minutes. :(


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    Artful_Badger
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,339 ✭✭✭Artful_Badger


    At least you have options OP. Try being a guy with literally nothing at all to offer a woman. I'm in line behind the guys your dismissing waiting for a chance to get dismissed.


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    Pissy Missy
    Registered Users Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy


    Daveysil15 wrote: »
    Three years? I can only last 15 minutes. :(

    Haha, I can't have sex without feelings. I know, I'm a weirdo but I'm comfortable with that :P


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    Pissy Missy
    Registered Users Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy


    Artful_Badger wrote: »
    At least you have options OP. Try being a guy with literally nothing at all to offer a woman. I'm in line behind the guys your dismissing waiting for a chance to get dismissed.

    What makes you think you have nothing to offer?:confused:


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    Daveysil15
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,301 ✭✭✭Daveysil15


    Pissy Missy wrote: »
    Haha, I can't have sex without feelings. I know, I'm a weirdo but I'm comfortable with that :P

    I actually live near Portlaoise if you want to meet up for a drink. Are ye daycent looking?


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    Gongoozler
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,263 ✭✭✭Gongoozler


    Artful_Badger wrote: »
    At least you have options OP. Try being a guy with literally nothing at all to offer a woman. I'm in line behind the guys your dismissing waiting for a chance to get dismissed.

    You know what's not attractive... ?


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    Pissy Missy
    Registered Users Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy


    Daveysil15 wrote: »
    I actually live near Portlaoise if you want to meet up for a drink. Are ye daycent looking?

    :cool: Oh very hot!!! Haha:D


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    Artful_Badger
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,339 ✭✭✭Artful_Badger


    Pissy Missy wrote: »
    What makes you think you have nothing to offer?:confused:

    Well maybe nothing was a bit over the top. I've got a pretty nice bike and several pairs of pants. But ya get what I mean.


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    Artful_Badger
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,339 ✭✭✭Artful_Badger


    Gongoozler wrote: »
    You know what's not attractive... ?

    Ugliness ?


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    Fr_Dougal
    Registered Users Posts: 9,167 ✭✭✭Fr_Dougal


    Muise... wrote: »
    Blast it with... ?

    :D

    Oscar Pistorius?


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    Pissy Missy
    Registered Users Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy


    Artful_Badger wrote: »
    Well maybe nothing was a bit over the top. I've got a pretty nice bike and several pairs of pants. But ya get what I mean.

    What kinda bike we talking here...?


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    major bill
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,421 ✭✭✭major bill


    Im getting into my late 20's now where single life goes from been fun to ''ah we will have to find you a lady'' :(


    forever alone


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    Kelly06
    Closed Accounts Posts: 509 ✭✭✭Kelly06


    Daveysil15 wrote: »
    I actually live near Portlaoise if you want to meet up for a drink. Are ye daycent looking?

    In like Flynn............... !!!


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    Artful_Badger
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,339 ✭✭✭Artful_Badger


    Pissy Missy wrote: »
    What kinda bike we talking here...?

    All right I lied about the fcukin bike. But I swear I've got the pants !


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    #25
    pragmatic1
    Registered Users Posts: 5,573 ✭✭✭pragmatic1


    Nope. I still remember the amount of effort I had to put in and lack of personal time I had in my last relationship.


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    Gongoozler
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,263 ✭✭✭Gongoozler


    Artful_Badger wrote: »
    Ugliness ?

    A downtrodden personality. Lack of confidence. Self pitying


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    SCOOP 64
    Registered Users Posts: 5,213 ✭✭✭SCOOP 64


    Is it really that bad being single?


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    Stavros Murphy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,442 ✭✭✭Stavros Murphy


    Artful_Badger wrote: »
    At least you have options OP. Try being a guy with literally nothing at all to offer a woman. I'm in line behind the guys your dismissing waiting for a chance to get dismissed.

    Buy a toaster -they're cheap. At least then you can offer toast. Girls love toast.


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    #29
    Pissy Missy
    Registered Users Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy


    Artful_Badger wrote: »
    All right I lied about the fcukin bike. But I swear I've got the pants !

    No Dice


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    kowloon
    Registered Users Posts: 13,300 ✭✭✭✭kowloon


    I bring a selection of cheeses and a pair of microwavable socks to the table.


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    Hell Ram
    Closed Accounts Posts: 57 ✭✭Hell Ram


    Artful_Badger wrote: »
    At least you have options OP. Try being a guy with literally nothing at all to offer a woman. I'm in line behind the guys your dismissing waiting for a chance to get dismissed.

    That's the spirit!


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