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is porn really that bad for us?

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  • #32
    Son Of A Vidic
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,370 ✭✭✭✭Son Of A Vidic


    carzony wrote: »
    well, is internet porn bad for our minds and will my generation suffer from fewer boners as a result?

    Is polo, pork, port, porn bad for us? Nah...............don't think so.


  • #33
    orangesoda
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,223 ✭✭✭orangesoda


    green_screen wrote: »
    Men are objectified in porn too. Plenty of dom/sub porn with the women as the dominant partner out there.
    .

    that porno is great i think


  • #34
    MS.ing
    Closed Accounts Posts: 680 ✭✭✭MS.ing


    maudflanders.jpg


  • #35
    Amirani
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 12,609 Mod ✭✭✭✭Amirani


    porsche959 wrote: »
    Yes although to be fair to Dworkin, that genre probably barely existed when she was campaigning against pornography.

    That's a fair point.

    There is quite a large amount of "feminist porn" about these days, that generally does porn in a much better way than is traditional: http://www.shedoesthecity.com/2013-feminist-porn-awards-web-nominees
    According to the official website, nominations for an FPA are dependent upon three criteria:

    - A woman had a hand in the production, writing, direction, etc. of the work.
    - It depicts genuine female pleasure.
    - It expands the boundaries of sexual representation on film and challenges stereotypes that are often found in mainstream porn.


  • #36
    J_E
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,734 ✭✭✭J_E


    porsche959 wrote: »
    Yes although to be fair to Dworkin, that genre probably barely existed when she was campaigning against pornography.
    On the contrary, male submission has always been around and very common amongst the likes of businessmen in particular who need a change of control in their lives. I wouldn't necessarily use that as an excuse.


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  • #37
    Vito Corleone
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,753 ✭✭✭Vito Corleone


    I'm an advocate for porn.


  • #38
    SilverScreen
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,113 ✭✭✭SilverScreen


    The only thing that's bad about porn is getting friction burn from fapping off.


  • #39
    orangesoda
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,223 ✭✭✭orangesoda


    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YQcDvaAhY18


  • #40
    GalwayGuy2
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,269 ✭✭✭GalwayGuy2


    According to the official website, nominations for an FPA are dependent upon three criteria:

    - A woman had a hand in the production, writing, direction, etc. of the work.
    - It depicts genuine female pleasure.
    - It expands the boundaries of sexual representation on film and challenges stereotypes that are often found in mainstream porn.

    What does that mean?

    Do they mean the actress is having a real orgasm, or the actress is pretending to have a recognizable orgasm? Or 'we're in the woman's head' so to speak?


  • #41
    Femme_Fatale
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,628 ✭✭✭Femme_Fatale


    Porn in moderation is grand and normal, although a lot of it does nothing for me. Naffness is not erotic.
    In terms of the industry, very hardcore has repugnant elements. And I'd wonder about people who really enjoy the violent/verbally abusive stuff.


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  • #42
    Micky Dolenz
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 44,079 ✭✭✭✭Micky Dolenz


    Porn is for ****.


  • #43
    dar100
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,735 ✭✭✭dar100


    green_screen wrote: »
    'Men use sex to hurt us.'

    Fcuk sake.


    Here's the thing - us women aren't all delicate little flowers that only like missionary position. Sometimes, some of us like being objectified sexually by the person we're with.

    Men are objectified in porn too. Plenty of dom/sub porn with the women as the dominant partner out there.

    Yes, porn can give young people unrealistic expectations. No denying that. It can also be fun, give people new ideas for things to try, and, like anything you see on tv that is fictional, should be taken with a large pinch of salt.

    If a woman or a man doesn't like something, they have the ability to say no.

    Most of my exes were obsessed with the idea of anal, presumably due to porn. I tried it, didn't enjoy kit, so refuse to do it. Only one person has had a problem with me saying no, and he wasn't worth my time anyway.

    Very well stated, I like your style... much


  • #44
    sparksfly
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 551 ✭✭✭sparksfly


    Micky Dolenz wrote: »
    Porn is for ****.

    Has to be the quote of the day. Can be an insult or compliment, depending on the type of wanker you are.


  • #45
    MiloYossarian
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 380 ✭✭MiloYossarian


    Galwayguy35 wrote: »
    Sure who says it is bad for us, let everyone make their own minds up on whether they want to watch porn or not.

    Too many busybodies in the world telling others what to do.

    You shouldn't be saying things like that.


  • #46
    Stretch That Pussy
    Site Banned Posts: 1 ✭Stretch That Pussy


    Like most things it's grand in moderation.


  • #47
    TomoBhoy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 179 ✭✭TomoBhoy


    Porn portrays a unrealistic expectation, plumbers do not answer the call in a few minutes!!


  • #48
    MRnotlob606
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,642 ✭✭✭MRnotlob606


    BASH THE BISHOP TO AN ARGOS CATALOGUE ,


  • #49
    Pawn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 440 ✭✭Pawn


    carzony wrote: »
    well, is internet porn bad for our minds and will my generation suffer from fewer boners as a result?
    In moderation it gives a great boner when the wifey gets horny...


  • #50
    Russ T Banger
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25 ✭Russ T Banger


    Im always dick whacking, porn is great lads


  • #51
    Russ T Banger
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25 ✭Russ T Banger


    MRnotlob606 wrote: »
    BASH THE BISHOP TO AN ARGOS CATALOGUE ,

    Funny you mention that, used to be wánk fodder for me as a kid, especially the inflatable pool section.

    Now what you really need is a national geographic of those aboriginal women that are always topless


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  • #52
    Fox_In_Socks
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,615 ✭✭✭Fox_In_Socks


    Russ T Banger wrote: »
    Funny you mention that, used to be wánk fodder for me as a kid, especially the inflatable pool section.

    Now what you really need is a national geographic of those aboriginal women that are always topless

    One of the tragedies of globalisation is the mass covering of tribal women's chests.:pac:


  • #53
    LizzieJones
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,459 ✭✭✭LizzieJones


    Fox_In_Socks wrote: »
    One of the tragedies of globalisation is the mass covering of tribal women's chests.:pac:

    FYI women can go topless legally in Ontario, Canada if they wish.


  • #54
    Fox_In_Socks
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,615 ✭✭✭Fox_In_Socks


    LizzieJones wrote: »
    FYI women can go topless legally in Ontario, Canada if they wish.

    Well, there's my next holiday destination sorted.:)


  • #55
    Russ T Banger
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25 ✭Russ T Banger


    Fox_In_Socks wrote: »
    One of the tragedies of globalisation is the mass covering of tribal women's chests.:pac:

    I have an insane foot fetish so your username turns me on


  • #56
    Femme_Fatale
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,628 ✭✭✭Femme_Fatale


    Russ T Banger wrote: »
    I have an insane foot fetish so your username turns me on
    She's a smouldering hot lady indeed.


  • #57
    Fox_In_Socks
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,615 ✭✭✭Fox_In_Socks


    Russ T Banger wrote: »
    I have an insane foot fetish so your username turns me on
    Femme_Fatale wrote: »
    She's a smouldering hot lady indeed.

    Oh totally. Each claw on each foot/paw painted strumpet scarlet with nail polish.:pac:


  • #58
    Micky Dolenz
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 44,079 ✭✭✭✭Micky Dolenz


    In Ted Bundy's last interview, the morning before he was executed. He warned of porn and it's dangers, especially porn that focused on violence against women, make belief or not.

    Bit rich coming from him but interesting none the less.


  • #59
    Russ T Banger
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25 ✭Russ T Banger


    Fox_In_Socks wrote: »
    Oh totally. Each claw on each foot/paw painted strumpet scarlet with nail polish.:pac:

    Oh foxy you are giving me an erik shun


  • #60
    zoe 3619
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 634 ✭✭✭zoe 3619


    Nothing wrong with porn.all natural and normal.but do you not end up with unreal exexpectations?for instance,not everyone has a surgically enhanced pornstar body.think the internet has put this in e new category.have two boys,and after watching videos online,sex won't be normal unless it involves tat least three women and a pony.nothing wrong with watching porn, but not only Will they believe their future girlfriends to be inadaquate,they'll believe themselves to be inadaquate as well.


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  • #61
    Russ T Banger
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25 ✭Russ T Banger


    zoe 3619 wrote: »
    Nothing wrong with porn.all natural and normal.but do you not end up with unreal exexpectations?for instance,not everyone has a surgically enhanced pornstar body.think the internet has put this in e new category.have two boys,and after watching videos online,sex won't be normal unless it involves tat least three women and a pony.nothing wrong with watching porn, but not only Will they believe their future girlfriends to be inadaquate,they'll believe themselves to be inadaquate as well.

    I disagree, people dont watch porn for the bodies, just for the acts


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