Do women pay for sex?

CK73 · 30-03-2014 05:28PM #1

I think it would be fair to say that the majority of people that pay for sex appear to be male. Why do you think that is and if I am wrong, then how are they doing it? Do they pay with something other than cash?

Is there a huge imbalance of ratio between men and women and ages?

Do women have the ability to switch off their sexual urges, or are they just better at covering them up? Is it because they simply don't have to pay, as there is always a willing male there to help them out, regardless of how attractive they are?

Discuss...

Zed Bank · 30-03-2014 05:29PM

CK73 wrote: »

Discuss...

Don't tell me what to do.

A Primal Nut · 30-03-2014 05:29PM

CK73 wrote: »

I think it would be fair to say that the majority of people that pay for sex appear to be male. Why do you think that is and if I am wrong, then how are they doing it? Do they pay with something other than cash?

No cash, prostitutes only accept Mastercard or Paypal.

Is there a huge imbalance of ratio between men and women and ages?

Do women have the ability to switch off their sexual urges, or are they just better at covering them up? Is it because they simply don't have to pay, as there is always a willing male there to help them out, regardless of how attractive they are?

Discuss...

I have heard of women paying, but for the most part they can get it for free, and they don't tend to be as into meaningless sex as men are.

wazky · 30-03-2014 05:30PM

CK73 wrote: »

Do women have the ability to switch off their sexual urges

Yes, right after marriage.

Sir Arthur Daley · 30-03-2014 05:34PM

wazky wrote: »

Yes, right after marriage.engagement

FYP

orangesoda · 30-03-2014 05:35PM

interesting thread

poundapunnet · 30-03-2014 05:36PM

wazky wrote: »

Yes, right after marriage.

I know, right? And mothers-in-law? Right?!

I'm sure some women do pay for sex, but I'd say the main reasons for the imbalance have been nailed already.

1: As a generalisation, we're not quite as into casual sex as men are
2: If we do get a notion for a random shag, it's usually not necessary to pay for it.

Whosthis · 30-03-2014 05:36PM

orangesoda wrote: »

interesting thread

Great contribution.

wazky · 30-03-2014 05:37PM

poundapunnet wrote: »

I know, right? And mothers-in-law? Right?!

Ah no, her sister though.

orangesoda · 30-03-2014 05:38PM

Whosthis wrote: »

Great contribution.

right back at ya son

30-03-2014 05:38PM

Confucius say

' One Pussy, get many cock, no need pay'

D1stant · 30-03-2014 05:38PM

CK73 wrote: »

I think it would be fair to say that the majority of people that pay for sex appear to be male. Why do you think that is and if I am wrong, then how are they doing it? Do they pay with something other than cash?

Women pay for sex by raising the kids. Does your mum know you are posting this? Did you get her flowers today?

Saucy McKetchup · 30-03-2014 05:39PM

A Primal Nut wrote: »

and they don't tend to be as into meaningless sex as men are.

You're either ugly as **** or have not met the right woman yet

mfergus · 30-03-2014 05:41PM

Q: What's the definition of making love?
A: it's the thing a women does when a man is fu*king her!

Sorry for going off topic, just felt the need to tell that joke

A Primal Nut · 30-03-2014 05:43PM

Saucy McKetchup wrote: »

You're either ugly as **** or have not met the right woman yet

Haha I've had plenty of meaningless sex; don't get me wrong. But they still aren't into it the same way as most men who are out looking for it every night. It's a different thing. If it happens for women, and they meet someone they want to do it with, it happens.

On the other hand I've seen some lads go home with some ugly ones because they are desperate for a shag. And then plenty more men pay for it as well, which women don't so much (the original point of this thread).

CK73 · 30-03-2014 05:43PM

A Primal Nut wrote: »

No cash, prostitutes only accept Mastercard or Paypal.

I have heard of women paying, but for the most part they can get it for free, and they don't tend to be as into meaningless sex as men are.

Would free sex out of a relationship be meaningless? Does that mean that most ladies don't do one night stands or have affairs?

kub · 30-03-2014 05:45PM

Men need a shag, women need a reason.

CK73 · 30-03-2014 05:46PM

D1stant wrote: »

Women pay for sex by raising the kids. Does your mum know you are posting this? Did you get her flowers today?

She had a card in the post and a very loooonnnnnggggg phone call.

Thanks!

Tasden · 30-03-2014 05:46PM

A Primal Nut wrote: »

On the other hand I've seen some lads go home with some ugly ones because they are desperate for a shag. And then plenty more men pay for it as well, which women don't so much (the original point of this thread).

But that guy is bringing home a girl who is into casual/meaningless sex. Generally, for every guy having a casual encounter there is a girl having one too, unless he brings home a guy.

poundapunnet · 30-03-2014 05:48PM

CK73 wrote: »

Would free sex out of a relationship be meaningless? Does that mean that most ladies don't do one night stands or have affairs?

If I could weigh in on this. On a very basic level, ONS don't tend to be as satisfying for women as for men. I don't mean on an emotional level or anything, crudely speaking, you can't really just take some random man home and expect to get an orgasm out of it on his first go.

I've mentioned this before on boards but most of the most promiscuous and sex driven women I know would tend to a couple of f-buddies rather than just strings of one-night-stands. And, I'd imagine, they'd be much less backward about coming forward when they're telling people what to do in bed-

And as for 'would free sex out of a relationship be meaningless', I wouldn't use the word meaningless, but it's casual, no-commitment sex, and you can get that for free.

Saucy McKetchup · 30-03-2014 05:50PM

A Primal Nut wrote: »

Haha I've had plenty of meaningless sex; don't get me wrong. But they still aren't into it the same way as most men who are out looking for it every night. It's a different thing. If it happens for women, and they meet someone they want to do it with, it happens.

On the other hand I've seen some lads go home with some ugly ones because they are desperate for a shag. And then plenty more men pay for it as well, which women don't so much (the original point of this thread).

God I must be awfully good looking or else I know a lot of women into meaningless sex so

CK73 · 30-03-2014 05:51PM

A Primal Nut wrote: »

Haha I've had plenty of meaningless sex; don't get me wrong. But they still aren't into it the same way as most men who are out looking for it every night. It's a different thing. If it happens for women, and they meet someone they want to do it with, it happens.

On the other hand I've seen some lads go home with some ugly ones because they are desperate for a shag. And then plenty more men pay for it as well, which women don't so much (the original point of this thread).

I think I get what you mean. If a woman finds a guy she wants to have sex with, she would rather continue having sex with the same guy (even as a buddy) rather than continue to play the field, while a guy is not fussed about having a buddy, as much as continuing to have sex regardless of who with?

Whosthis · 30-03-2014 05:53PM

orangesoda wrote: »

right back at ya son

Whoosh!

CK73 · 30-03-2014 05:54PM

poundapunnet wrote: »

If I could weigh in on this. On a very basic level, ONS don't tend to be as satisfying for women as for me. I don't mean on an emotional level or anything, crudely speaking, you can't really just take some random man home and expect to get an orgasm out of it on his first go.

I've mentioned this before on boards but most of the most promiscuous and sex driven women I know would tend to a couple of f-buddies rather than just strings of one-night-stands. And, I'd imagine, they'd be much less backward about coming forward when they're telling people what to do in bed-

And as for 'would free sex out of a relationship be meaningless', I wouldn't use the word meaningless, but it's casual, no-commitment sex, and you can get that for free.

You make some good points to do with the quality of sex in regards to a one night stand. If the guy is not pressing the right buttons, then it is going to feel a bit deflating and if he is pressing the right buttons, you are going to want to do it again.

The Backwards Man · 30-03-2014 05:58PM

A Primal Nut wrote: »

On the other hand I've seen some lads go home with some ugly ones because they are desperate for a shag.

What fine upstanding gents they are to provide such a noble gesture to poor unfortunates..:rolleyes:

Tasden · 30-03-2014 05:59PM

poundapunnet wrote: »

If I could weigh in on this. On a very basic level, ONS don't tend to be as satisfying for women as for me. I don't mean on an emotional level or anything, crudely speaking, you can't really just take some random man home and expect him to get an orgasm out of it on his first go.

I've mentioned this before on boards but most of the most promiscuous and sex driven women I know would tend to a couple of f-buddies rather than just strings of one-night-stands. And, I'd imagine, they'd be much less backward about coming forward when they're telling people what to do in bed-

And as for 'would free sex out of a relationship be meaningless', I wouldn't use the word meaningless, but it's casual, no-commitment sex, and you can get that for free.

This is probably the main reason. Then there's the whole "women should only "give it up" for the right person" view of sex that a lot of people still have. Even on the relationship issues forum you constantly see people advising women not to sleep with someone before a certain number of dates, or telling the OP it seems like the guy just wants sex.

People still assume that men only ever want sex and that women should only "put out" after he proves he is worthy. So some women have this skewed perception that guys can have casual sex and its no big deal because of course that's all men ever want, but if a woman does then the guy isn't going to respect her. So then to even suggest paying for it is just a bizarre concept :pac:

beano345 · 30-03-2014 06:01PM

Enuff said

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5JJFBtHcBnM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gxyySRgrYsU

CK73 · 30-03-2014 06:05PM

Tasden wrote: »

This is probably the main reason. Then there's the whole "women should only "give it up" for the right person" view of sex that a lot of people still have. Even on the relationship issues forum you constantly see people advising women not to sleep with someone before a certain number of dates, or telling the OP it seems like the guy just wants sex.

People still assume that men only ever want sex and that women should only "put out" after he proves he is worthy. So some women have this skewed perception that guys can have casual sex and its no big deal because of course that's all men ever want, but if a woman does then the guy isn't going to respect her. So then to even suggest paying for it is just a bizarre concept :pac:

Yes but better to do the using than be used? No fear of rejection, as it is not meant to any further.

I do know men who would never date a lady that 'puts out' on the first date. It's almost like a challenge and any woman who gives in too easy and they lose interest. Now if she isn't in to him (relationshipwise) then nothing to lose, but if she likes him...

It is a messed up world we live in really isn't it? I mean you wait, because you like the person and can see yourself being with them and when it finally happens and you discover they are crap at sex, well... what do you do then?

poundapunnet · 30-03-2014 06:08PM

CK73 wrote: »

I do know men who would never date a lady that 'puts out' on the first date. It's almost like a challenge and any woman who gives in too easy and they lose interest. Now if she isn't in to him (relationshipwise) then nothing to lose, but if she likes him...

No offence but any woman is better off without them. They're giving in pretty easy themselves by actively pursuing sex from her like

shopaholic01 · 30-03-2014 06:08PM

Are there many male prostitutes?

Tasden · 30-03-2014 06:09PM

CK73 wrote: »

Yes but better to do the using than be used? No fear of rejection, as it is not meant to any further.

I do know men who would never date a lady that 'puts out' on the first date. It's almost like a challenge and any woman who gives in too easy and they lose interest. Now if she isn't in to him (relationshipwise) then nothing to lose, but if she likes him...

It is a messed up world we live in really isn't it? I mean you wait, because you like the person and can see yourself being with them and when it finally happens and you discover they are crap at sex, well... what do you do then?

Well then you teach them.

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