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The death of which famous person upset you most?

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25 Idobai


    A little shocked that no one has mentioned it yet, but for me it was most certainly Seamus Heaney.


  • Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 2,163 Mod ✭✭✭✭Oink


    Gil Scott-Heron.

    I went to see him in Crawdaddy, and it was quite an intimate gig. I got to see him up close. I remember thinking it was such a waste, he was just putting his life back together. I didn't get depressed or anything, but I remember thinking, well feck that anyway.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,706 ✭✭✭sadie06


    Amy Winehouse for me, I think maybe it's because I'd followed her music since the beginning before she got into the drugs and I was always rooting for her to get clean and get back to that healthy woman she was. I always try to wonder why people turn to drugs the way she did. And how she couldn't see how much better she was than that.

    I couldn't agree more. I was so sad when she died, but actually felt pain at her passing even more recently. I fell asleep on the couch one night, and when I woke up one of her concerts was on Sky Arts. In my sleepiness I forget she was gone momentarily, and when I remembered I just burst into tears. I think it was because there is embarrassment around showing emotion upon the death of a stranger, so I didn't at the time, but that night, all alone, it just came out. :-(


    It also really saddened me when Levon Helm died, especially as we had planned a trip to one of his Midnight Rambles in the next couple of years. I'll never get to see him now. Go see your heroes while you can….don't put it off.

    Jeff Buckley's death was a very communal grieving experience for me. A huge group of us just sang his songs and talked about him at every gathering for a long time.

    God help me when Joni goes…...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,539 ✭✭✭jca


    Gerry Ryan even though I'd never met the man.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,194 ✭✭✭eviltimeban


    I was only 5 at the time, but the death of John Lennon has had the most impact on me - from the point of view of what could've been. The Beatles would've no doubt reformed, but then you could say would the Beatles be as revered had Lennon not died? Would they just be another (big) 60s band? So much hinges on the fact that he died.

    At the time, I was amazed Kurt Cobain died. I wasn't exactly upset about it, even though I was a big Nirvana fan. But it was a "wow!" moment.

    Maria de Villota was a recent one that made me sad, she was a test driver for the Marussia Formula 1 team and was in an accident where she lost an eye. She seemed to make a recovery and even become known for her strength and inspiration and so on, but she died as a result of the accident a year later, last October. It was the first F1 death since Ayrton Senna.

    I haven't really been "upset" at a famous person dying. Maybe more so on reflection, or when you see those documentaries; like the George Harrison one. I had tears rolling down my face during the part where Ringo is talking about the last words he shared with George. But I wasn't bawling crying when he died.

    Same with Syd Barrett - was sad that he never "got better" or made some kind of comeback. That would've been weird and looking at it now, certainly impossible.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8 freda on the hill


    I have to mention John Thaw - I really liked him in all his shows, especially Morse.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,574 ✭✭✭whirlpool


    Michael Jackson - but only because I had bought tickets to see him in London a few months later, and it had been extremely difficult to get them on Ticketmaster that morning!! :(

    Other than that he wasn't a huge loss to me. No celebrity really has been, that I can think of right now...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,574 ✭✭✭whirlpool


    Oh I was actually pretty sad about Brittany Murphy dying. She's the only one that springs to mind right now.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,915 ✭✭✭✭Eeden


    Ella Fitzgerald. It just made me actually sad when I heard of her death (1996). Don't usually get sad when famous people die, but I did that time.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,333 ✭✭✭deise08


    Colm Murray.
    had a particular fondness for him. :(
    The week that's in it too


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  • Posts: 4,824 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I've never been overly upset about a celebrity's death but hearing that James Gandolfini had died did startle me a bit.

    Also reading about Nico's death made me quite sad (it happened the year before I was born, so obviously I don't remember it!) She'd spent many years as a heroin addict but had finally kicked the habit. Then, while on holiday with her son (a few months before her 50th birthday) she was riding a bike, fell off and banged her head. When she was brought to hospital they treated her for what they thought was heat stroke but never examined her head; it turned out that the fall had caused a brain haemorrhage, which killed her a few hours later.

    To have overcome an addiction like that and begin to get your life back together, only to have it ended so suddenly......it just seems so cruel. :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,280 ✭✭✭Davarus Walrus


    Rob Pilatus from Milli Vanilli.

    Now there was someone who could sing.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,437 ✭✭✭redbaron_99


    Kurt Cobain. I was 15 years old at the time, idolised lots of grunge bands like Soundgarden and Pearl Jam, but Nirvana were by far my favourites. Was gutted.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,515 ✭✭✭zcorpian88


    Cliff Burton - Metallica - not so much upset me, but shocked me, as I had walked around Dublin with him a week or two earlier.

    Wow. You were in the presence of greatness there. Seemed like a real nice bloke to a lot of people. Would have killed to see him live with the the lads in their heyday, absolute lunatic onstage and hugely talented. Too young to have even seen them with Newsted!

    I was born in the wrong decade!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,077 ✭✭✭Tipsy McSwagger


    Michael Jackson, but for a strange reason maybe.
    He died two days after my brother died.
    This sounds completely irrational, but it upset me that everywhere everyone was talking about Jackson's death, and why weren't people making a big deal because my brother was dead, and that was so important for me (I know this is because of the grief and the shock). I don't know if I'm explaining it clearly!

    When you lose someone close to you especially a young person you can't understand why people are still just going about doing normal things. You want the world to stop and grieve with you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,548 ✭✭✭BrokenArrows


    Don't want to sound bad but why would the death of someone I don't know personally upset me?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,515 ✭✭✭zcorpian88


    Don't know about upset but a few really saddened me.

    Dermot Morgan, due to Father Ted's significance in my household growing up.

    Jeff Hanneman: guitarist from Slayer, he was out of action from the band for a while, he got some flesh eating disorder on his arm, from what was believed to be a spider bite, as far as I knew he was recovering well then I see something on Facebook that he had died aged only 49. Turned out his death was unrelated to the spider bite. He was a bit of a drinker, cirrhosis of the liver. Great metal guitarist, he made sounds like no other, like something from a horror movie.

    Dimebag Darrell: Learned about his death in school the day after. Shocking that a fairly famous guitarist can get shot onstage in this day and age along with 3 others that tried to save Dimebag. One of a kind performer, never got the chance to see him live.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,099 ✭✭✭Dean820


    Owen Hart.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,194 ✭✭✭foxy farmer


    Stuart Adamson lead singer with Big Country. Under rated under estimated but highly respected by those who listened to his music. His death was made all the worse as he died by his own hand.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,845 ✭✭✭py2006


    Don't want to sound bad but why would the death of someone I don't know personally upset me?

    Then why post?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,706 ✭✭✭sadie06


    Stuart Adamson lead singer with Big Country. Under rated under estimated but highly respected by those who listened to his music. His death was made all the worse as he died by his own hand.

    I can't believe this! I never knew he died. I wasn't a devoted fan but appreciated their music. On reading into it, he died during a year of my life where I had switched off, as I was grieving myself. I really am shocked.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,567 ✭✭✭Red Pepper


    Michael Jackson


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 403 ✭✭Mensch Maschine


    kfallon wrote: »
    None tbh, I don't see how I could grieve over somebody I never had any personal contact with just because they were famous.

    I would say the only times I shed tears for anybody I didn't know was in tragic instances like watching 9/11 unfolding and the poor people deciding that jumping from the twin towers was the better option of a quick death....heartbreaking! :(

    It's not grieving over someone "just because they're famous"...
    People grow attached and have bonds with people they've "grown up with" through entertainment...

    For example, I was very upset over the death of MCA (Adam Yauch of the Beastie Boys) I grew up with his music since I was 12. His music was the soundtrack to many a great time I've had in my life. Same with Michael Jackson. He was always there in since I was born. I've never had personal contact with MCA but his music touched me personally. It provided hours of happiness, laughter and entertainment.

    Watching someone commit suicide for me is sad...and I can say your comment back...how can you grieve over some stranger you never met!? But I know it's not so black and white. Personally, I've had more of a bond with musicians than I've had with strangers jumping off buildings to put it frankly.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,526 ✭✭✭Slicemeister


    Paul Hunter
    James Gandolfini
    Bobby Robson
    Richard Burns
    Gary Speed


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,917 ✭✭✭Washout


    Ayrton Senna...guy was my hero.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,102 ✭✭✭RossFixxxed


    Don't want to sound bad but why would the death of someone I don't know personally upset me?

    Maybe they inspired you in some way. Maybe you went and stuided science like me after being inspired. Maybe you picked up a guitar due to someone's talent. Maybe someone's music/writing/poetry/art/comedy got you through the worst time of your life... Their death would be sad, it would have some impact on you.

    I know what you mean, some people go nuts over celebs they had a passing interest in and so on. But some great people have inspired many people: be it Carl Sagan, Neil Armstrong, Bill Hicks or WHOEVER it may be.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 729 ✭✭✭Kazooie


    Dimebag Darrell.

    As a metal fan this had a huge effect on me. One of the greatest guitarists of all time, murdered on stage.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,041 ✭✭✭Penny Dreadful


    Maybe they inspired you in some way. Maybe you went and stuided science like me after being inspired. Maybe you picked up a guitar due to someone's talent. Maybe someone's music/writing/poetry/art/comedy got you through the worst time of your life... Their death would be sad, it would have some impact on you.

    I know what you mean, some people go nuts over celebs they had a passing interest in and so on. But some great people have inspired many people: be it Carl Sagan, Neil Armstrong, Bill Hicks or WHOEVER it may be.

    Its this for me. Some people have been involved in "WOW" moments and while we don't know them personally their death makes you stop to think of the impact they had on all of us whether we're aware of it or not.
    I feel very sad and humbled on Remembrance Sunday for example. It makes me realise how much so many people gave and how I live a free and liberated life because of what they did. I don't know any of these people but they had an impact on my life.
    Neil Armstrong walked on the moon. He didn't get there alone and a lot of people who got him there have gone unrecognised but this man personified a huge achievement for mankind.
    Heath Ledger, Amy Winehouse, etc - their deaths just make you stop to think what a terrible waste. They were talanted, so many people got enjoyment from their existance and yet they couldn't overcome whatever deamons led them down that path of self destruction. I was saddened when I learned of Philip Seymor Hoffman's death for this reason.

    We link our memories of leaving school, getting married, a great first date, celebrating your child's first birthday, etc, etc to music, movies, plays, etc and so when people who were involved with them die it makes you somewhat nostalgic I think.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,363 ✭✭✭Barr


    Michael Jackson for me.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 89 ✭✭Not that one


    Have to say the death of Cormac Mc Anallan (Tyrone GAA player, died in 2004 or 2005) knocked me more than it should have.
    Didnt know him, just seemed to be "role model" material.


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