Worst thing you've ever said to someone?

FairytaleGirl · 08-03-2014 10:45AM #1

Title explains all! What's the worst thing you have ever said to someone?

Was having an argument with an ex once, lost my temper and blurted out 'Jaysus, I fcukin hate you sometimes you know that?'
Needless to say she burst into tears and that was the end of the argument. Felt horrible afterwards and still feel shamed when I think on it, but other than that I'm pretty good at having that filter when angry.

A friend of mines mother on the other hand is the most hateful person when angry, told my friend she should have drowned her at birth once! Lovely woman the rest of the time but when angry she's so hateful.

So AHers, worst thing you've ever said to someone?

gugleguy · 08-03-2014 10:47AM

Taunt in school. Over 30 years ago. Won'nt repeat. Why am i posting this?

Daveysil15 · 08-03-2014 10:47AM

You've a great face for modelling balaclavas.

Banjo String · 08-03-2014 10:48AM

"I do" :mad:

LETHAL LADY · 08-03-2014 11:01AM

Told a misogynistic bastard I had seen his mother passing with a plastic bag full of sex toys.

wazky · 08-03-2014 11:03AM

Your sister's one smells worse.

stefan idiot jones · 08-03-2014 11:04AM

Sorry Son, you've had enough tonight.

bluefinger · 08-03-2014 11:05AM

when are you due?
Genuine mistake.
Poor girl ran out of the porterhouse in tears.

Banjo String · 08-03-2014 11:13AM

bluefinger wrote: »

when are you due?
Genuine mistake.
Poor girl ran out of the porterhouse in tears.

I think we've all did this clanger tbh. My mam said it to a shop assistant one day. Poor girl looked up from the till, tearfully eyed, and just replied "I'm not pregnant".

I said it to my best mates sister.

I think best thing now is to keep it zipped. :P

anncoates · 08-03-2014 11:13AM

You think you're the cheese but you're not even the wrapper.

Mr. CooL ICE · 08-03-2014 11:15AM

One drunken saturday night in my home town, after the nightclub, I was chatting to a girl outside. She introduced me to her friend, who was sitting on the kerb and almost passed out. I said "she looks easy" and got a slap, and rightly so. I was unusually belligerent that night and I would never say anything like that.

Thing is, I was so drunk, I can't remember who I was talking to in the first place, so I didn't know who to apologise to. One of my friends said she was someone I knew, but hadn't spoken to in a long time. That could be feckin anybody

padair · 08-03-2014 11:16AM

I one said to someone - your mother smells of elderberry. True as god.. Didnt expect to get a laugh. Not a very good put down if you ask me.

MS.ing · 08-03-2014 11:16AM

FairytaleGirl wrote: »

Title explains all! What's the worst thing you have ever said to someone?

Was having an argument with an ex once, lost my temper and blurted out 'Jaysus, I fcukin hate you sometimes you know that?'
Needless to say she burst into tears and that was the end of the argument. Felt horrible afterwards and still feel shamed when I think on it, but other than that I'm pretty good at having that filter when angry.

A friend of mines mother on the other hand is the most hateful person when angry, told my friend she should have drowned her at birth once! Lovely woman the rest of the time but when angry she's so hateful.

So AHers, worst thing you've ever said to someone?

quite the sheltered life you have all lived

Id say thats a monthly occurence for most

KDII · 08-03-2014 12:36PM

On placement back when I was a nursing student. There was a really sick man who was passing away. The entire family had been camped out for days in his room and we would just pop our heads in when we needed to. All very reverent and respectful.

One morning his son asked if we could help his dad freshen up, change the sheets, have a shave etc. We said grand and gathered supplies. I walked into the room stepping over families members in sleeping bags, extremely awkward and self-concious 18 year old.

The family were filing out to get a cup of coffee and on her way out the daughter quietly asked me how long I thought it would be? I was giving her a real sympathetic "its really hard for us to say" etc etc

The whole family were kind of looking on and she gave me this really affronted look and was like "no love, how long will you be in here with him for?".

Scarlefied, to this day.

irish_goat · 08-03-2014 12:41PM

"The value will only go up".

FortuneChip · 08-03-2014 12:43PM

I don't usually same bad things.
I guess one that comes close. A girl in college asked me; "I'm going to the greyhounds. Have you got any tips?"

"Yeah, chase the hare"

The Backwards Man · 08-03-2014 12:44PM

Not repeatable.

Not proud of it.

Not telling.

Tzardine · 08-03-2014 12:44PM

Tell any woman she is over-reacting. Thats about as bad as it gets folks.

Mr McBoatface · 08-03-2014 12:48PM

My dad once told me I was a good **** until my ma got in the way

Lawrence1895 · 08-03-2014 12:51PM

'I love you'

humbert · 08-03-2014 12:52PM

Has to be breaking up with someone you care about. Not going to lose any sleep over mean things I've said to people I didn't like.

wexie · 08-03-2014 12:53PM

Once told a girl that I wouldn't piss in her mouth if her teeth were on fire and if she didn't leave right then I'd be ringing the guards.

In my defence this was after about 2 years of unwanted romantic attention from her and me trying to be nice and letting her know I wasn't really all that interested. She showed up drunk at my apartment one night (when I was in bed (asleep) with my girlfriend) demanding to see me and wouldn't leave.
Not proud of it but was seriously fed up with her and she was starting to cause stress in my relationship.

My friends to this day refer to her as 'she who shall not be named'.

Aint Eazy Being Cheezy · 08-03-2014 12:58PM

bluefinger wrote: »

when are you due?
Genuine mistake.
Poor girl ran out of the porterhouse in tears.

I'm at the stage where I'd rather see a pregnant woman having to stand on the Luas rather than offend another fat girl

Fred Swanson · 08-03-2014 01:04PM

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marozz · 08-03-2014 01:07PM

Extended middle finger and said "Here, smell your mother..

holystungun9 · 08-03-2014 01:09PM

GF (showing old pictures of herself) : This is me on my eighteenth birthday.

Idiot : Wow, you used to be gorgeous! Erm, I mean you still are now. Like, I mean you are even better now. You look great for your age. No, no, no, I'm not saying you are old but obviously you aren't as young as you were in this picture. Don't cry!

caustic 1 · 08-03-2014 01:12PM

After being bullied in school for quite a while the opportunity arose when the lead girl was alone in the toilets with me. Of course she was quiet when she had no entourage to back her up. She washed her hands as did I in silence then as she was about to leave I pushed her into a cubicle pinned her against the wall and told her what I would do to her if she continued to bother me. I called her a few unpleasant names and walked out. I was never bothered by her again. Now in school I was as meek as a mouse and was bricking it but glad in the end I did it. I regret the names I called her but not the taking her to task.

MonstaMash · 08-03-2014 01:35PM

OH "does my ass look big in this?"

Me "yeah...I love your ass!"

Walks out slamming door in anger...

Me "I love watching you walk away babe"

Conmaicne Mara · 08-03-2014 01:50PM

Worst thing, was in primary school and said it to a then good friend of mine, won't be repeating it but that was it for the friendship.

I don't tend to get in rows etc. like someone said up there when my buttons are pushed then all bets are off on what's said.

Kilgore__Trout · 08-03-2014 01:51PM

I don't mind your showing me your legs. They're very swell legs and it's a pleasure to make their acquaintance. I don't mind if you don't like my manners. They're pretty bad. I grieve over them during the long winter nights.

Delivered this line to a belligerent dame I encountered on a case a few years back... honest...

NegativeCreep · 08-03-2014 01:54PM

I regularly tell people to kill themselves if they're annoying me and back it up by saying you'd be doing me and everyone who knows you a favour. It's terrible really. I might accidentally say it to an actual suicidal person one day. I really need to get out of the habit.

Worst thing you've ever said to someone?

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