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Do you talk to yourself?

  • 23-02-2014 11:06AM
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 11,835 ✭✭✭✭


    I find myself doing it more and more these days. Handy to verbalise simple thoughts.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 892 ✭✭✭GenieOz


    I have full conversations in my head but I never say them out loud. I'd be institutionalised long ago if I did


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,590 ✭✭✭jane82


    I live facing the entrance of a park. The amount of people who yap to themselves walking across the park then stop at the gate was staggering to me.
    The amount of people men and women who walk into the park think nobody can see them then start scratching their bits is also staggering.
    Go scratch your bits outside your own sitting room window.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,951 ✭✭✭passatman86


    @jane82 , buy some blinds - your just a nosey neighbour


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,590 ✭✭✭jane82


    @jane82 , buy some blinds - your just a nosey neighbour

    Yes I should sit in the dark.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,360 ✭✭✭Boskowski


    only way I can have an intelligent conversation

    /coat


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,446 ✭✭✭Big Lar


    All the time, the wife laughed at me while I'm chatting away to myself.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,516 ✭✭✭wazky


    Just when the voices in my head talk back.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,987 ✭✭✭Tilly


    I sing and curse but never actually talk to myself.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,824 ✭✭✭vitani


    All the time. Usually quietly but mouthing the words. So only people who can lipread could understand.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,959 ✭✭✭gugleguy


    Personally ok, but I did have an adult acquaintance who behaved and functioned to all intents and purposes normal. BUT if you asked him for a personal opinion about whether or not to take a risk/chance, he always seemed to involk this 'vulnerable 5 year old' inside him and give this opinion in childish fashion which was always 'just play it safe'. Some people talk to themselves like that.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,231 ✭✭✭Hercule Poirot


    I'll be walking along the street with my OH and all of the sudden she'll say "sharing is caring" - at which point I realise I've been muttering to myself under my breath and that I have a stupid grin on my face


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,590 ✭✭✭jane82


    I'll be walking along the street with my OH and all of the sudden she'll say "sharing is caring" - at which point I realise I've been muttering to myself under my breath and that I have a stupid grin on my face
    So thats how you always manage to keep the identity of the murderer secret right up until the end of the episode.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,339 ✭✭✭Artful_Badger


    I only talk to myself inside my head so nobody can hear my secrets.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,301 ✭✭✭Daveysil15


    I often do. Sometimes there's just nobody else to talk to.


  • Posts: 4,824 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Yes. It's better than not having anyone to talk to.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,332 ✭✭✭lau1247


    In my head, yes for composing thought.

    Out loud, no cos that's just make me look like a crazy guy.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,925 ✭✭✭✭anncoates


    Increasingly so


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,244 ✭✭✭✭bnt


    Not out loud, but I do subvocalise things. It's often in advance of saying something out loud - you can "hear" how it "sounds" without actually speaking it.

    Government resting upon the will and universal suffrage of the people has no anchorage except in the people's intelligence.

    — Grover Cleveland



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,893 ✭✭✭✭blueser


    I have to; no one else will listen to me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,071 ✭✭✭keithsfleet


    When I'm asked a question I like to play out every possible answer I could give in my head.

    A lot of the time people will give up waiting for a response and walk off allowing me to get back to my conversation.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,366 ✭✭✭stampydmonkey


    The whole time. Mainly lying in bed and in the van. Forget sometimes when my girlfriend's in the van and ill be muttering away to myself or making stupid engine and tyre screeching noises.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,893 ✭✭✭✭blueser


    I once heard it said that talking to yourself is no bad thing. It's only when you answer back that you know you have a problem!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 71,833 ✭✭✭✭Ted_YNWA


    It only becomes a problem when you give each of the voices a name.


  • Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Sometimes, mouthing rather than talking though. Sometimes whole conversations that I've had but wish went better :)


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators, Paid Member Posts: 9,904 Mod ✭✭✭✭Manach


    To paraphrase Disraeli, one needs someone intelligent to converse with.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,059 ✭✭✭✭osarusan


    I give interviews to journalists who are keen to interview somebody as famous as me, in the alternate life I fantasise about.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,486 ✭✭✭jobeenfitz


    We all talk to ourselves. It's just a matter of whether we do it aloud or not.

    All of the me's do both.

    I think some people talk out loud to themselves and don't know they are doing it. While others do it, know they are doing it and couldn't give two flucks who is watching them, I like these people.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 32,688 ✭✭✭✭ytpe2r5bxkn0c1


    I do it all the time but usually as a pretense of talking to the dog. She doesn't have a clue what I'm on about but it never seems as weird if I'm seen to be talking to her rather than to myself.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,512 ✭✭✭Muise...


    I do, but would you ever listen to yourself? I don't.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,824 ✭✭✭vitani


    osarusan wrote: »
    I give interviews to journalists who are keen to interview somebody as famous as me, in the alternate life I fantasise about.

    I sometimes practice my Late Late Show interview, for when I've written my bestselling novel.


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