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Adults who still call their parents mammy and daddy

  • 20-02-2014 07:28PM
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,021 ✭✭✭


    Does anybody else find this weird?

    I hear it all the time but today really made me think about it.

    A woman(30s)was discussing her parents impending divorce on the date of her mothers mothers death on the luas.

    "mammy is so upset, her and daddy haven't spoken in two weeks and when i try and talk to her she snaps and screams at me and im like"mammy whats wrong with you"

    Does anyone else think its weird,like i stopped calling my mother mammy when i was four as its a childs word for a parent...is there any age you should really stop?

    Discuss


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,626 ✭✭✭✭My name is URL


    Who honestly gives a shite?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,890 ✭✭✭SureYWouldntYa


    Id find it even weirder to change what iv called them for 20+ years


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 393 ✭✭PeteEd


    Does anybody else find this weird?

    I hear it all the time but today really made me think about it.

    A woman(30s)was discussing her parents impending divorce on the date of her mothers mothers death on the luas.

    "mammy is so upset, her and daddy haven't spoken in two weeks and when i try and talk to her she snaps and screams at me and im like"mammy whats wrong with you"

    Does anyone else think its weird,like i stopped calling my mother mammy when i was four as its a childs word for a parent...is there any age you should really stop?

    Discuss

    Are you my new Daddy?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,324 ✭✭✭✭bodhrandude


    Who gives a crap about this, what do you do, do you call them by their first name or Mrs Browne or whatever.

    If you want to get into it, you got to get out of it. (Hawkwind 1982)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,811 ✭✭✭Corvo


    If I called my Dad "Sam" he'd break my nose


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  • Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 11,244 Mod ✭✭✭✭humberklog


    I find it almost as annoying as putting the word Discuss at the end of an OP.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,516 ✭✭✭wazky


    I call my parents by their first names, is that weird?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,820 ✭✭✭Sir Osis of Liver.


    Yeah,its fcukin weird,but whats even weirder is a 50 year old colleague of mine who calls his wife mammy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,820 ✭✭✭Sir Osis of Liver.


    Corvo wrote: »
    If I called my Dad "Sam" he'd break my nose

    Son of Sam?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 216 ✭✭burstbuckle


    Ma & Da works fine for me & i'm almost 40


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,720 ✭✭✭Sir Arthur Daley


    Yeah,its fcukin weird,but whats even weirder is a 50 year old colleague of mine who calls his wife mammy.

    That is a bit disturbing.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,489 ✭✭✭Yamanoto


    A woman(30s)was discussing her parents impending divorce on the date of her mothers mothers death on the luas.

    Took me a couple of go's, but I'm with ya now ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,626 ✭✭✭✭My name is URL


    Tbh, I find people who directly address their parents as 'mother' or 'father' to be a bit odd. 'Hello Mother' just sounds creepy as fcuk..

    Something very Norman Bates about it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,650 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    I refer to my parents as Mammy and Daddy when talking about them to my siblings. "Where's mammy/Daddy?" Etc. It's what I've done my entire life, so changing it now isn't happening.

    When talking to other people about them though it's Mam and Dad.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 802 ✭✭✭Roose


    Does anybody else find this weird?

    I hear it all the time but today really made me think about it.

    A woman(30s)was discussing her parents impending divorce on the date of her mothers mothers death on the luas.

    "mammy is so upset, her and daddy haven't spoken in two weeks and when i try and talk to her she snaps and screams at me and im like"mammy whats wrong with you"

    Does anyone else think its weird,like i stopped calling my mother mammy when i was four as its a childs word for a parent...is there any age you should really stop?

    Discuss

    You were an adult by the time you were 5?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,444 ✭✭✭✭Skid X


    Al Jolson calls his Mammy 'Mammy'.

    And I f***ing love Al Jolson, so it's fine by me.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,452 ✭✭✭✭The_Valeyard


    Had the opposite experience. Ever since a young age a friend of mine had always called his parents by their first name. ..found that very odd.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,126 ✭✭✭Santa Cruz


    Reminds me of Johnny Nice Painter from the Fast Show
    "Where are we sleeping tonight Mother?"


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,126 ✭✭✭Santa Cruz


    Tbh, I find people who directly address their parents as 'mother' or 'father' to be a bit odd. 'Hello Mother' just sounds creepy as fcuk..

    Something very Norman Bates about it.

    A female friend of mine told me she was with a fellow one night who after doing the deed with her started sobbing "I'm sorry Mammy, I'm sorry"


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,570 ✭✭✭Mint Aero


    I've called my parents by first name since I was about 8. Generally I don't care what people call their parents. One would assume referring to them by mammy, daddy etc is indicative of a closer relationship?

    I knew a girl once. Yes once, one girl, once, ok. In passing conversation she referred to her father as daddy when discussing his birthday. I found that quite endearing.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,297 ✭✭✭✭Sam Kade


    Does anybody else find this weird?

    I hear it all the time but today really made me think about it.

    A woman(30s)was discussing her parents impending divorce on the date of her mothers mothers death on the luas.

    "mammy is so upset, her and daddy haven't spoken in two weeks and when i try and talk to her she snaps and screams at me and im like"mammy whats wrong with you"

    Does anyone else think its weird,like i stopped calling my mother mammy when i was four as its a childs word for a parent...is there any age you should really stop?

    Discuss
    What I find disturbing is people who listen in to strangers conversations on the luas.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,147 ✭✭✭PizzamanIRL


    Oh Daddy!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,916 ✭✭✭shopaholic01


    Santa Cruz wrote: »
    A female friend of mine told me she was with a fellow one night who after doing the deed with her started sobbing "I'm sorry Mammy, I'm sorry"
    He sounds like a keeper.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,280 ✭✭✭Davarus Walrus


    I'd find calling my parents by their first name to be weird. I still call them Mom and Dad and I'm the wrong side of 30. That is what they are. They wiped your ass as a baby, fed you, and ignored the stains on your sheets as a teenager.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,095 ✭✭✭fineso.mom


    I think it's weird when someone calls their grandmother, 'mother's mother'.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,021 ✭✭✭lifeandtimes


    ok maybe im splitting hairs but i call my mother mam...im referring to mammy and daddy...mam,mum,mom,dad and so forth i consider fine for an adult i mean they have to be called by something and iv known a few people to call them by thier first name as well...but hearing an adult refer to "mammy and daddy" just weirds me out


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,021 ✭✭✭lifeandtimes


    fineso.mom wrote: »
    I think it's weird when someone calls their grandmother, 'mother's mother'.

    i couldnt say on the anniversary of her grannys death,that would confuse the point on if i was talking about the girls granny or her mothers granny so mothers mother


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,652 ✭✭✭I am pie


    mammy/daddy = sap talk.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,635 ✭✭✭Pumpkinseeds


    I've always called them mum and dad. When I was a teenager and I was either in trouble with my mum or looking for money, I'd call my dad 'daddy'. What I find really weird is people who address their parents by their first names.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,650 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    I am pie wrote: »
    mammy/daddy = sap talk.

    Yeah, but you're pie, your opinion doesn't count. You only exist to be eaten.


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