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How many people's parent here are still together/married.

  • 29-12-2013 03:52AM
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,116 ✭✭✭✭


    I was talking to a friend recently and something came up about someone's parents splitting from our old college class. There was about 30 people in the course and my parents and her parents are the only ones who are still together.
    So are your parents still together/married?

    How many people's parent here are still together/married? 387 votes

    Parents are married.
    0% 0 votes
    Parents are separated.
    75% 294 votes
    Parent are divorced.
    9% 35 votes
    Only ever knew one parent.
    11% 43 votes
    Parents were never married.
    1% 7 votes
    Parents are together.
    2% 8 votes


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Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,051 ✭✭✭jantheman91


    Nope.

    Divorced since I was 12.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,449 ✭✭✭Call Me Jimmy


    Mine are but they shouldn't be. Scream at each every day without fail, and I mean scream. Have done since year dot. But raising kids kept them occupied. Generally don't even seem to get along on a personal level.


  • Site Banned Posts: 1 55 Stephens St


    two of mine are...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,753 ✭✭✭Vito Corleone


    Yes, mine are.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,776 ✭✭✭Jhcx


    Everyone I know is split up. I only have the one parent so I can't say much but least their happily married twice hopefully till the day I die or they die either way hope mine never goes the way of the current world.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,798 ✭✭✭Mr. Incognito


    My Parents weren't married. My father was a milkman on a small island on the west of ireland who used to call to her in the mornings, they had a whirlwind romance.

    He was killed tragically in a milk float explosion on a milk truck that went over 4 miles an hour.

    In fairness though everyone said he was Mustard.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 762 ✭✭✭jebus84


    parents are separated with ten years haven't talked to each other in that time,my wedding is going to be awkward as ****


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,887 ✭✭✭Mariasofia


    Mine split when I was 15 hate arguments since......so my new resolution is not to go to bed after an argument






    Stay up and fight all night :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,639 ✭✭✭Miss Lockhart


    They are married and together but I dearly wish they weren't as he is an abusive scumbag.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,783 ✭✭✭Pj!


    I have absolutely nothing to back this up and forget where I read it but I did read that on current trends over 50% of new marriages in the western world will end in seperation. (Oh and many of the others will be unhappy relationships.)

    Happy times.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,025 ✭✭✭Shane-KornSpace


    Nope. Split up when I was 12.
    And they never married.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,516 ✭✭✭wazky


    All three of mine are still together, including my fathers mistress.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,736 ✭✭✭Irish Guitarist


    My father died in 2000. Before that he and my mother had been married for forty years. There's a video of my parents anniversary party where someone is making a speech about them being married for forty years, my father says "and next year it will be forty one". He died before the year was out. I've only seen the video once.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,744 ✭✭✭diomed


    One dead.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,059 ✭✭✭WilyCoyote


    Together there beyond the blue:

    Dad 1966
    Mom 2009


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 358 ✭✭SPM1959


    Together but living as friends rather than 'husband and wife'.
    Works for them.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,605 ✭✭✭toastedpickles


    My dad left when I was 3 so my mother, like most here maybe, had to play the two roles, I admire the hell out of her for doing that


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,051 ✭✭✭jantheman91


    My dad left when I was 3 so my mother, like most here maybe, had to play the two roles, I admire the hell out of her for doing that

    Mine left at 12 and I still think the exact same as you.

    Any mother that does that deserves a medal.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,096 ✭✭✭Reiketsu


    My parents were married for 22 years before they split up 8 years ago. Divorced now. Can't get along at all. Very few people that I know have parents that are still together.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,695 ✭✭✭December2012


    Married 45 years until one of them died.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,009 ✭✭✭✭osarusan


    Married 44 years last September. Happily so, as far as I can see.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,215 ✭✭✭scrubber72


    Mine are 48 years and a day married. She was engaged at 15. He was 18.
    Hard as nails woman.
    Recovering alcoholic father of 25 years. Love both dearly.
    Can't remember life before he stopped drinking but hope he goes before she does. He adores her still.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,970 ✭✭✭Lenin Skynard


    Mine split when I was 12. Seems like the magic number in this thread.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,046 ✭✭✭martinedwards


    both my parents and my inlaws married the same year.

    they are both (both couples that is) 55 years married, and while they aren't all over eachother like newlyweds each couple is clearly still very much in love.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 444 ✭✭ZzubZzub


    My parents are together 27 years. I can only hope that my marriage turns out like theirs. They are the best of friends and still very much in love. It's lovely!


  • Posts: 53,068 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    My parents had a very short separation when I was in my early teens. They've been through a whole hell of a lot of crap, but they're still together and adore each other.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,284 ✭✭✭Chattastrophe!


    Married for 30 years now, still very happy together as far as I can see. Can't imagine them ever separating.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,802 ✭✭✭beks101


    Together & 33 years married.
    Most of my friends' parents are together too.
    I dont think divorce was an option in my parent's time.
    I think if it had been, they may have gone their separate ways years ago.
    But they stuck it out, for the kids, and now they've got a great love & respect for one another.
    I respect that persistence & will to fight for the marriage though, and that old fashioned view I suppose that marriage really should be for life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 158 ✭✭dockleaf


    Mine were married for 44 years until my mother died over 10 years ago, he still visits her grave every day. I ticked the 'married' box.

    I'm married 11 years myself, all my siblings married for longer, the longest for 20 years, all still together.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,646 ✭✭✭✭qo2cj1dsne8y4k


    My parents were just a month over 20 years married when my mother died, so I ticked the married box too


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