Turn ons/offs in the opposite sex

IvaBigWun · 16-12-2013 07:08PM

I think I might be developing a scary obsession of Alison Brie.

So yes, Turn On: if you look like this

Czarcasm · 16-12-2013 07:16PM

IvaBigWun wrote: »

I think I might be developing a scary obsession of Alison Brie.

So yes, Turn On: if you look like this

Wouldn't kick her out of bed for eating strawberries -

GalwayGuy2 · 16-12-2013 08:11PM

Turn on: When she puts the tip of the strawberry into her mouth and looks up a little.

Renegade Mechanic · 16-12-2013 08:16PM

A girl with a good sense of humour, and I mean the kind of regard for "Political correctness" that the Americans have for the French would go all the way in my books!:D

RedFormanFITA · 16-12-2013 08:18PM

GalwayGuy2 wrote: »

Turn on: When she puts the tip of the strawberry into her mouth and looks up a little.

You forgot the cream....

ivytwine · 17-12-2013 09:58AM

IvaBigWun wrote: »

I think I might be developing a scary obsession of Alison Brie.

So yes, Turn On: if you look like this

Jesus IvaBigWun, she's gorgeous! (And I'm a woman!)

17-12-2013 10:05AM

I wouldn't like someone full of "moral objections" to stuff. Many times I've started to talk to someone and then find out they're completely anti-drugs or something along those lines. No thanks.

GalwayGuy2 · 17-12-2013 10:06AM

Jesus IvaBigWun, she's gorgeous! (And I'm a woman!)

I got Iva's name mixed up with yours and I though Niceee.

ivytwine · 17-12-2013 10:15AM

GalwayGuy2 wrote: »

I got Iva's name mixed up with yours and I though Niceee.

Hahahahahahahahahaha I laughed way too hard at that!

IvaBigWun · 28-12-2013 08:34PM

ivytwine wrote: »

Jesus IvaBigWun, she's gorgeous! (And I'm a woman!)

She makes me feel all funny

Chazz Michael Michaels · 28-12-2013 08:40PM

Turn on: Looking like Emily Ratakowski

Turn off: Not looking like Emily Ratakowski

shruikan2553 · 28-12-2013 08:49PM

Redheads. Cant be beat.

IvaBigWun · 28-12-2013 08:52PM

shruikan2553 wrote: »

Redheads. Cant be beat.

Not legally anyway.

Montroseee · 28-12-2013 08:53PM

I know it's unlikely but I've yet to come across a girl with bad personal hygiene.

Mint Aero · 28-12-2013 09:14PM

Montroseee wrote: »

I know it's unlikely but I've yet to come across a girl with bad personal hygiene.

I've came across one and it's beyond gross. I didn't have sex with another woman for a year after her such was my trauma. My fault though for having low standards in the first place.

I can't abide stingy women. Some have a sense of entitlement that would put a dole sponger to shame.

SV · 28-12-2013 09:42PM

Mint Aero wrote: »

I've came across one and it's beyond gross. I didn't have sex with another woman for a year after her such was my trauma. My fault though for having low standards in the first place.

I can't abide stingy women. Some have a sense of entitlement that would put a dole sponger to shame.

I know a girl who didn't go on a second date with a guy because he put her in a taxi home at the end of the night (having paid for cinema, dinner and a few drinks) and didn't give the taxi guy the money to pay for her trip home.
Stingy bítch.

Said she had her hours cut so if she's going to be going out with someone they'll have to put in more of an effort than that.
Are the women who do this aware they're practically making themselves prostitutes at worst and escorts at best?

blacklilly · 28-12-2013 09:48PM

Mint Aero wrote: »

I can't abide stingy women. Some have a sense of entitlement that would put a dole sponger to shame.

I cannot abide when I hear women talk about men having to pay for this and that, really annoys me and I think it's more common than we think as well.

I've head women comment on things like a man not paying for say the cinema and I always ask them did they leave their wallet at home that day. We (women) have strived for independence for so long and yet there are some who still expect to be taken care of as if they're little precious princesses.

Yes it's nice to be treated to nice things etc but it's also a two way thing!

Rant over /

retroactive · 28-12-2013 09:55PM

I'm not a project.

I'm in my twenties and I live on my own. If you want a "project" or someone to train please look elsewhere. It's not like it isn't obvious that I'm a selfish so and so that is set in his ways. What makes it shocking is that you knew this and yet the moment we slept together you somehow thought I was going to begin fawning over you.

So, to add to my previous post - Turn offs
1. Wanting to "correct" my "bad" behaviour e.g Don't call over to your friends house. I don't like him and you shouldn't be friends.
2. Developing a sudden sense of entitlement e.g You need to start cleaning more and I want to be taken out for dinner next week.

I understand that compromise is part of a relationship but it seems lately that girls assume a very autocratic role once you sleep with them more than once.

blacklilly · 28-12-2013 09:58PM

retroactive wrote: »

I'm not a project.

I'm in my twenties and I live on my own. If you want a "project" or someone to train please look elsewhere. It's not like it isn't obvious that I'm a selfish so and so that is set in his ways. What makes it shocking is that you knew this and yet the moment we slept together you somehow thought I was going to begin fawning over you.

So, to add to my previous post - Turn offs
1. Wanting to "correct" my "bad" behaviour e.g Don't call over to your friends house. I don't like him and you shouldn't be friends.
2. Developing a sudden sense of entitlement e.g You need to start cleaning more and I want to be taken out for dinner next week.

I understand that compromise is part of a relationship but it seems lately that girls assume a very autocratic role once you sleep with them more than once.

Nope, bunny boilers will wreck your head if you sleep with them once / more than once.
There are many women who are quite happy sleeping with a guy and not trying to control him or have any input into his life outside the bedroom

retroactive · 28-12-2013 10:12PM

blacklilly wrote: »

Nope, bunny boilers will wreck your head if you sleep with them once / more than once.
There are many women who are quite happy sleeping with a guy and not trying to control him or have any input into his life outside the bedroom

Completely agree, but forr the purposes of this thread I would say:
Turn ons - Not being a bunny boiler.
Turn offs - Being a bunny boiler.

ivytwine · 29-12-2013 12:38AM

retroactive wrote: »

I'm not a project.

I'm in my twenties and I live on my own. If you want a "project" or someone to train please look elsewhere. It's not like it isn't obvious that I'm a selfish so and so that is set in his ways. What makes it shocking is that you knew this and yet the moment we slept together you somehow thought I was going to begin fawning over you.

So, to add to my previous post - Turn offs
1. Wanting to "correct" my "bad" behaviour e.g Don't call over to your friends house. I don't like him and you shouldn't be friends.
2. Developing a sudden sense of entitlement e.g You need to start cleaning more and I want to be taken out for dinner next week.

I understand that compromise is part of a relationship but it seems lately that girls assume a very autocratic role once you sleep with them more than once.

Hang on, am I missing something there?what's wrong with someone introducing you to their friends and can people not be friends with the opposite sex?

Everything else is eminently reasonable!

From a woman's perspective I hate when girls put down their boyfriends in public. Really common I think and horrible!

jantheman91 · 29-12-2013 12:39AM

Fish. Cannot stand the smell of fish.

wazky · 29-12-2013 12:42AM

jantheman91 wrote: »

Fish. Cannot stand the smell of fish.

Stop fucking the mackerel would be my advice so.

jantheman91 · 29-12-2013 12:45AM

wazky wrote: »

Stop fucking the mackerel would be my advice so.

Advice is usually given from experience.

Dirty bastard.

retroactive · 29-12-2013 01:41AM

ivytwine wrote: »

what's wrong with someone introducing you to their friends and can people not be friends with the opposite sex?

Everything else is eminently reasonable!

Nothing in my OP referenced introductions to friends. I did use an example where a girl actually thought that if she made me choose between her and my best friend, that I would choose her.

Agree with your common point though. Something about not anonymously airing your dirty linen that is so classless

lufties · 29-12-2013 03:40AM

wazky wrote: »

Stop fucking the mackerel would be my advice so.

If you are having sex in the doggy style position and get a waft of something unsavoury. It happened me once or twice, instant turn off:o

We're all humans at the end of the day, but poor hygiene speaks volumes.

ivytwine · 29-12-2013 11:04AM

retroactive wrote: »

Nothing in my OP referenced introductions to friends. I did use an example where a girl actually thought that if she made me choose between her and my best friend, that I would choose her.

Agree with your common point though. Something about not anonymously airing your dirty linen that is so classless

Ahhhh I totally misread your post. Yes totally agree, even my friends have friends I don't like, I just don't hang out with them, but would never dream of stopping them from seeing them....

I was thinking more of the girls who put their boyfriends down as a 'joke'. One of my friends used to roll her eyes behind her boyfriend's back when he told us a story. Hate that kind of stuff and it's humiliating, borderline abuse. You would never dream of treating a friend like that so why is it ok for a boyfriend??

MARTYRYAN · 29-12-2013 11:35AM

Montroseee wrote: »

I know it's unlikely but I've yet to come across a girl with bad personal hygiene.

Is that a turn on or turn off?:)

positron · 29-12-2013 11:44AM

Smoking and any other bad odours in general, including body odour, coffee breath etc.

Penny Tration · 29-12-2013 12:11PM

blacklilly wrote: »

I cannot abide when I hear women talk about men having to pay for this and that, really annoys me and I think it's more common than we think as well.

I've head women comment on things like a man not paying for say the cinema and I always ask them did they leave their wallet at home that day. We (women) have strived for independence for so long and yet there are some who still expect to be taken care of as if they're little precious princesses.

Yes it's nice to be treated to nice things etc but it's also a two way thing!

Rant over /

My best friend does this, and I always pull her up on it.

She's happy to bring money on a date, but if she has to buy the guy one drink, she won't see him again. She's well off too, so it's not a case of her being broke.

Actually, most women I know expect the guy to pay. Its ridiculous.

My bf insists on paying quite a lot of the time, but I get him back by buying him things he needs or wants so it evens out. Actually I've probably spent more on him but I don't count, I pay for some stuff and he pays for some. Pretty simple.

Although it's a very nice thing for them to do, a turn off - guys who never let you pay for anything on a date, and get offended when you try. I'm not broke, so let me paymy way!!

Turn ons/offs in the opposite sex

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