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Public Speaking

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,123 ✭✭✭RikkFlair


    The rick flair dance? WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO



    Shoulda done that at my brothers wedding instead of the mumbling sermon I subjected the room to.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,887 ✭✭✭Mariasofia


    Have done a fair bit of public speaking and not too bad with it now. First one was the hardest though and someone had told me focus on one face and keep returning to it. Only problem was I focused on one face and couldnt leave it I was so terrified. Poor fvuker was mortified as I gave entire speech to him and him alone......


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,324 ✭✭✭BillyMitchel


    RikkFlair wrote: »
    Shoulda done that at my brothers wedding instead of the mumbling sermon I subjected the room to.


    HaHa love it!


    WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO


  • Moderators, Business & Finance Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 51,685 Mod ✭✭✭✭Stheno


    Meangadh wrote: »
    I've no problem public speaking. Quite enjoy it actually. I can understand why people find it daunting but I've been doing it for years now so the more I did it the easier it got.

    Same here


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,963 ✭✭✭Meangadh


    I can't remember a time where I was nervous talking in front of a crowd actually. I used to do debating in school and would get a little nervous then but that was more due to it being a competition rather than having to talk in public.

    I'd definitely encourage parents to get their kids involved in public speaking, debating, drama, reading at mass if your family are into that, just various things like that- I did loads of that in secondary school and that's why I'm ok with it.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,790 ✭✭✭confuseddotcom


    Nothing major - a couple of Presentations in College and used to do an odd Reading at Mass. Would consider returning to Mass-attending if there was a chance of being a Reader to get the experience lol! :D:D Don't mind it but would prefer to know / have some idea what am talking about rather than just winging it or ad-libbing or making it up as ya go along, don't think would be able to do that. Is anyone involved in ToastMasters? What is it all about?


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 12,622 Mod ✭✭✭✭Amirani


    I'm actually far more comfortable speaking to a crowd than speaking to just 1/2 people. I think a large part of it is that public speaking is relatively scripted and formal. I'm absolutely awful at small talk.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,192 ✭✭✭pharmaton


    had to give a brief speech to my class last week, I don't think it's the nerves but it takes a huge amount of effort for me to speak loudly, it's like speaking while running and it just makes me sound breathless, like my lungs are in some kind of vacuum and the pressure to vocalize squeezes my voice to a whisper. I find projecting my voice at an audible level to be straining.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,395 ✭✭✭✭mikemac1


    If a man who stuttered and mumbled can become leader of our country for 11 years you've not so much to be worrying about :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 793 ✭✭✭LadyAthame


    lahalane wrote: »
    Are you comfortable addressing a crowd?

    I had to give a speech yesterday and I didn't look out to the crowd once. Just kept my head down and read as quick as I could. I was shaking a bit when I was on the stand and even for a few minutes after I sat down. Usually when speaking to crowds I kind of stutter but managed to avoid that thankfully. I'm glad I done it now but **** me, it doesn't half scare the crap out of me.
    More comfortable public speaking than speaking with some people. I quite enjoy it. I have thought recently of teaching drama or public speaking coaching in the future. I enjoy it. There would be no money in it I don't think but I could still enjoy it.

    My Dad was always saying I should consider doing coaching in it for people in business. He is in HR. He has had to give a few speeches for various bodies in his area of work and I helped him out.

    I did drama for years and did it full time for a year after Uni.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,635 ✭✭✭Pumpkinseeds


    I've had to do it a few times and didn't particularly enjoy it, although apparently I'm very effective at it:confused: The key thing is to be thoroughly prepared and know all the facts before you start, oh, and take a deep breath.:)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,674 ✭✭✭Dangerous Man


    They say you should picture the crowd naked.

    I disagree with this.

    I view them as pigs. Because that's what they are. ****ing pigs.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,513 ✭✭✭bb1234567


    Hate it. But not doing public speaking isn't an option in my college course..unfortunately. So I have to suck it up, well I tried to and it went horrible. I would go red, stutter, forget my lines, and it never improved week in week out despite every know it all telling me Ill improve my public speaking by practising. Anyway, I went to my GP to get meds to calm me down before speeches. Xanax works, Im now a good public speaker. :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,289 ✭✭✭Howard the Duck


    Done a best man speech a couple of years ago. It was my first time doing a public speech. At the time i thought i wasn't nervous but after i done it it felt like a ton of weight off my shoulders.
    I would never do another best man speech but i think i could do speeches for work i think, so it might have helped me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,455 ✭✭✭✭Birneybau


    If I could say a few words...I'd be a better public speaker.

    Anyway, Zombie thread.


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