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When I hear girls talking about boys

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  • #32
    Dancing With Myself
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 107 ✭✭Dancing With Myself


    Senor Fancy Pants wrote: »
    Man the **** up and tell her you like her then....fecking 21!

    Balls dropped yet? C'mon man...use them!
    Like I said, I'm not going to make a move in such a way that suggests I'm in love. She's in my course in college, so every poor bloke is friend zoned. However I will chance my arm if the opportunity presents itself


  • #33
    fruvai
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 836 ✭✭✭fruvai


    Is that you Eden? :pac:


  • #34
    thegreatgonzo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,623 ✭✭✭thegreatgonzo


    Dancing With Myself wrote: »
    I don't think I really like her apart from the fact that she's hot. I don't think I'll get the right opportunity to make a move but her since we're not exactly friends. I'm okay with leaving things be. I certainly won't tell her how I feel though! GAY

    Sure if you don't like her what's the problem? What you should do next time is find a woman who can read your mind so you don't have to tell her you like her and you won't have to feel gay. Problem solved.


  • #35
    Dancing With Myself
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 107 ✭✭Dancing With Myself


    Brego888 wrote: »
    So you won't be telling her that you actually feel gay?
    ha ha


  • #36
    A Primal Nut
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,949 ✭✭✭A Primal Nut


    It's a girls way of telling you to piss off and leave her alone. They are quite clever but us guys often miss these "subtle" signals.


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  • #37
    Frosty McSnowballs
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,396 ✭✭✭Frosty McSnowballs


    Dancing With Myself wrote: »
    Like I said, I'm not going to make a move in such a way that suggests I'm in love. She's in my course in college, so every poor bloke is friend zoned. However I will chance my arm if the opportunity presents itself

    Best of luck dude


  • #38
    PucaMama
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,129 ✭✭✭PucaMama


    Op why shouldn't she talk in your presence


  • #39
    Technophobe
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 1,127 ✭✭✭Technophobe


    Junior disco any good?


  • #40
    Dancing With Myself
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 107 ✭✭Dancing With Myself


    PucaMama wrote: »
    Op why shouldn't she talk in your presence
    you mean why "wouldn't" she talk in my presence. Well because she's aware of my presence because whether she likes me or not.. there IS a thing between us.

    Besides.. usually girly chats are meant to be kept private anyway


  • #41
    PucaMama
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,129 ✭✭✭PucaMama


    Dancing With Myself wrote: »
    whether she likes me or not.. there IS a thing between us

    Are you serious? :rolleyes:


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  • #42
    RikkFlair
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,123 ✭✭✭RikkFlair


    Solution. Find your nearest doctor, ask for a bottle of Nobody Gives A Sh1t, take a dose and then a nap. Works a charm.


  • #43
    Dancing With Myself
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 107 ✭✭Dancing With Myself


    RikkFlair wrote: »
    Solution. Find your nearest doctor, ask for a bottle of Nobody Gives A Sh1t, take a dose and then a nap. Works a charm.
    That was more nasty than what Vincent Browne said to Enda Kenny


  • #44
    Sauve
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,646 ✭✭✭✭Sauve


    RikkFlair wrote: »
    Solution. Find your nearest doctor, ask for a bottle of Nobody Gives A Sh1t, take a dose and then a nap. Works a charm.

    Don't be mean, that's not nice :mad:


  • #45
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 1,539 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Dancing With Myself wrote: »
    you mean why "wouldn't" she talk in my presence. Well because she's aware of my presence because whether she likes me or not.. there IS a thing between us.

    Besides.. usually girly chats are meant to be kept private anyway

    You sound like a rapist.


  • #46
    jadun
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 73 ✭✭jadun


    Hug her and then go for the shift is the only option


  • #47
    ahnowbrowncow
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,591 ✭✭✭ahnowbrowncow


    RikkFlair wrote: »
    Solution. Find your nearest doctor, ask for a bottle of Nobody Gives A Sh1t, take a dose and then a nap. Works a charm.

    Ha ha. That was funny. You're a funny guy.


  • #48
    Dancing With Myself
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 107 ✭✭Dancing With Myself


    Deleted User wrote: »
    You sound like a rapist.
    he who points the finger is the rapist


  • #49
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 1,539 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Dancing With Myself wrote: »
    he who points the finger is the rapist

    Had a few beers?


  • #50
    thegreatgonzo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,623 ✭✭✭thegreatgonzo


    jadun wrote: »
    Hug her and then go for the shift is the only option

    Aren't you the lad that has the thread about getting rejected 20 times in one night? ;)


  • #51
    jadun
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 73 ✭✭jadun


    thegreatgonzo wrote: »
    Aren't you the lad that has the thread about getting rejected 20 times in one night? ;)

    Yep, but if random ones have problems hug and shift, sometimes it works other times I need to run 5 miles:o:o


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  • #52
    Rayne Wooney
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,134 ✭✭✭✭Rayne Wooney


    Did anyone ever tell you you look like Zac Efron?


  • #53
    thegreatgonzo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,623 ✭✭✭thegreatgonzo


    jadun wrote: »
    Yep, but if random ones have problems hug and shift, sometimes it works other times I need to run 5 miles:o:o

    Your nights out sound exhausting.


  • #54
    jadun
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 73 ✭✭jadun


    thegreatgonzo wrote: »
    Your nights out sound exhausting.

    A ride is a ride no matter how much effort is takes. I could try one or two and be rejected and I would probably still be a Vir_gin


  • #55
    The Dom
    Closed Accounts Posts: 236 ✭✭The Dom


    Edit: Thought this was on the music thread for some reason.

    Eh anyway, just tell her some girl has offered you a threesome with her best mate - she'll be all over you, probably.


  • #56
    user2011
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,071 ✭✭✭user2011


    This is what happens when you dance with yourself for too long OP.


  • #57
    Aidric
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    When I was young, it seemed that life was so wonderful,
    A miracle, oh it was beautiful, magical.
    And all the birds in the trees, well theyd be singing so happily,
    Joyfully, playfully watching me.
    But then they send me away to teach me how to be sensible,
    Logical, responsible, practical.
    And they showed me a world where I could be so dependable,
    Clinical, intellectual, cynical.

    full support bro


  • #58
    hatrickpatrick
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,798 ✭✭✭✭hatrickpatrick


    Dancing With Myself wrote: »
    Does it annoy anyone when you hear girls who you fancy talking about boy problems in your presence. Does it make you think or remind you of the fact that they don't even notice you in that way. I once felt saying "hello, did it ever occur to you that maybe I might fancy you too". What's a player supposed to do in this situation.

    I heard a girl recently that I have my eye on talking to another girl in this sort of way. This girl definitely knows I have a thing for her, even though I never showed her. I was hovering about the area for another reason minding my own business and I heard her talking/answering to the other girl in a reluctant sort of way. The other girl was unaware of the situation between us. The girl in question then said "I'll tell you later" which I didn't mind. It means she was aware of my presence. They could have just continued on talking, or worse.. started talking to me about this guy!!!!

    It's a complete myth that if a girl mentions other guys in your presence that it's completely impossible that she might at some stage be attracted to you. An understandable myth, but a myth nonetheless.

    Hell, even from a guy's point of view, I have girl friends who I've talked to about issues I was having with other girls, and then weeks or months later ended up scoring or whatever - it's less unusual than you think.

    tl;dr - A girl mentions guy problems in front of you =/= you have no chance with her ever.

    Interesting point: As a guy, have you ever developed feelings for a girl you initially didn't see that way, or have you ever started out with feelings for a girl and then after a while just ended up feeling nothing for her? I would imagine most guys have, and girls go through that all the time as well.

    This idea that guys fall neatly into perfectly boxed categories in a girl's mind and that a guy can never move from one of these categories into another is fairly bizarre - and considering that a guy's mind doesn't work that way either, you'd have to wonder why so many guys believe it about girls in the first place. Where did the myth come from...? O_o


  • #59
    WilyCoyote
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    Aidric wrote: »
    full support bro

    Breakfast in America, Lunch in London, Luggage in Hong Kong! :D


  • #60
    jadun
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 73 ✭✭jadun




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  • #61
    WilyCoyote
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,059 ✭✭✭WilyCoyote


    hatrickpatrick wrote: »
    It's a complete myth that if a girl mentions other guys in your presence that it's completely impossible that she might at some stage be attracted to you. An understandable myth, but a myth nonetheless.

    Hell, even from a guy's point of view, I have girl friends who I've talked to about issues I was having with other girls, and then weeks or months later ended up scoring or whatever - it's less unusual than you think.

    tl;dr - A girl mentions guy problems in front of you =/= you have no chance with her ever.

    Interesting point: As a guy, have you ever developed feelings for a girl you initially didn't see that way, or have you ever started out with feelings for a girl and then after a while just ended up feeling nothing for her? I would imagine most guys have, and girls go through that all the time as well.

    This idea that guys fall neatly into perfectly boxed categories in a girl's mind and that a guy can never move from one of these categories into another is fairly bizarre - and considering that a guy's mind doesn't work that way either, you'd have to wonder why so many guys believe it about girls in the first place. Where did the myth come from...? O_o

    This explanation is too effing deep for me. I think G&S do an easier pastiche:


    “If you’re anxious for to shine in the high æsthetic line as a man of culture rare,
    You must get up all the germs of the transcendental terms, and plant them ev’rywhere.
    You must lie upon the daisies and discourse in novel phrases of your complicated state of mind,
    The meaning doesn’t matter if it’s only idle chatter of a transcendental kind!”


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