Is sex passionate and meaningful anymore?

Overheal · 21-10-2013 05:16PM

Ihatecuddles wrote: »

I havent had 'lovely' sex in ages. The last time was probably July Im not the biggest fan of it, but when it happens its amazing.

As the name implies!

21-10-2013 05:19PM

Red Nissan wrote: »

Sex is certainly cheaper today than it ever was in Ireland. Ireland has probably gone too far already for a healthy nation.
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Get tested regularly so

:pac:

pundy · 21-10-2013 05:20PM

Lollipops23 wrote: »

Wow, not loving the judgement!

OP, you don't need to be madly in love with someone to have fantastic mind blowing nookie. Sometimes all it takes is some damn fine chemistry.

if you are using the internet (whether its an app or website) to find people to "hook up with locally" or whatever, then chances are you should be judged. it's wrong on so many levels - danger to yourself (you dont know this person from adam), you most likely are engaging in sexual activity with a person that has used the app/site before, used it to get into your pants, and will use it again - it's definitely an addictive thing to be doing id say, you'll end up riddled and passing on your stds to the next fool who you meet off the internet. it's so gross....

basically, put it this way - someday you'll be all grown up and you'll want to have decent memories of your twenties/teens/thirties or whatever... surely you dont want to be sitting there remembering the time that another nameless stranger called over and dropped a load on your face!?!?

Red Nissan · 21-10-2013 05:23PM

bluewolf wrote: »

Get tested regularly so :pac:

Mental and social health rather than STD's, but I take your :pac: and add one more :pac:

Kauto0709 · 21-10-2013 05:24PM

On nights out these days, blokes seem to want to just meet someone to get their h**e with for the night, in fact they seem to expect it, and if a girl says no they can't understand why, they seem to automatically think there's something wrong with you for not wanting to go home with someone you just met and have sex with them! What is the world coming to??!!! What's worse is the girls who do this and give us all a bad name! It's sad but I would have to agree that sex seems to have very little meaning to most people these days. Guys just expect it, there's no getting to know someone first anymore or god forbid exchanging numbers or asking them out on a date.

Zen65 · 21-10-2013 05:24PM

Celly Smunt wrote: »

Even worse when you're trying not to wake up your partner when having sex with your sleeping kids.

See now that's not funny. This is what happens when you take a joke too far. I just threw up in my mouth a little reading that.

theblaqueguy · 21-10-2013 05:25PM

It's always passionate and meaningful whenever I have sex with a girl it could be because of my rather large penis or the fact that I make them squirt every time!

lkionm · 21-10-2013 05:25PM

Ihatecuddles wrote: »

I havent had 'lovely' sex in ages. The last time was probably July Im not the biggest fan of it, but when it happens its amazing.

Haha lovely sex. What an odd way of describing it.

My last 2 times were when I was drunk and it was awful

lkionm · 21-10-2013 05:26PM

Zen65 wrote: »

See now that's not funny. This is what happens when you take a joke too far. I just threw up in my mouth a little reading that.

She must hae thought the same the next morning.

Lollipops23 · 21-10-2013 05:26PM

pundy wrote: »

if you are using the internet (whether its an app or website) to find people to "hook up with locally" or whatever, then chances are you should be judged. it's wrong on so many levels - danger to yourself (you dont know this person from adam), you most likely are engaging in sexual activity with a person that has used the app/site before, used it to get into your pants, and will use it again - it's definitely an addictive thing to be doing id say, you'll end up riddled and passing on your stds to the next fool who you meet off the internet. it's so gross....

basically, put it this way - someday you'll be all grown up and you'll want to have decent memories of your twenties/teens/thirties or whatever... surely you dont want to be sitting there remembering the time that another nameless stranger called over and dropped a load on your face!?!?

I would say you have a very conservative attitude towards sex tbh.

I'm not one for random hook ups myself (just my preference), but I certainly don't judge people who are into it- so long as they're smart about it and use protection/get tested and generally be responsible.

And a lot of people would prefer to look back on their late teens/twenties and remember all the "fun" they had before settling down.

old hippy · 21-10-2013 05:27PM

This topic brings a smile to my face. Is sex meaningful these days? People have been asking that question for decades. It's as meaningful, passionate or run of the mill as you/her/him want/don't want to make it.

old hippy · 21-10-2013 05:29PM

theblaqueguy wrote: »

It's always passionate and meaningful whenever I have sex with a girl it could be because of my rather large penis or the fact that I make them squirt every time!

Hmm. Somehow I doubt that; you sound like you haven't graduated from the schoolyard.

Maximus Alexander · 21-10-2013 05:30PM

BillyMitchel wrote: »

Lets play a game of spot the virgins!

theblaqueguy wrote: »

It's always passionate and meaningful whenever I have sex with a girl it could be because of my rather large penis or the fact that I make them squirt every time!

What do I win!?

pablomakaveli · 21-10-2013 05:38PM

I don't see why sex has to be meaningful. It's sex. Some people put the whole act on a pedestal as some sacred thing.

There's nothing wrong with meaningless sex.

Sex can be as meaningful or meaningless as the people involved want it to be.

cletus van damme · 21-10-2013 05:38PM

Savoir.Faire wrote: »

If you meet someone who you find physically attractive and if there exists that mysterious chemistry between the pair of you, then a good long porking session is still as enjoyable as ever. The passionate embrace of lovers entwined in each other, the ecstasy of la petite mort, sharing a cigarette post coitus, watching her naked form walk across the room to the bathroom, silently congratulating oneself on another top-class tupping.

I don't smoke

Red Nissan · 21-10-2013 05:40PM

Lollipops23 wrote: »

And a lot of people would prefer to look back on their late teens/twenties and remember all the "fun" they had before settling down.

And the insecurity of one's partner who may or may not have these fun memories and wondering if, while doing the act, their partner is not in fact actually thinking of those fun times and not of you.

And was he better? Bigger? "Why are you smiling ... "

Ihatecuddles-old · 21-10-2013 05:41PM

pablomakaveli wrote: »

I don't see why sex has to be meaningful. It's sex. Some people put the whole act on a pedestal as some sacred thing.

There's nothing wrong with meaningless sex.

Sex can be as meaningful or meaningless as the people involved want it to be.

Nothing wrong with sex with no meaning, but you cant make it meaningful either. It has to just happen, and when it does, its mind blowingly better than 'just sex'.

In my opinion!

LoonyLovegood · 21-10-2013 05:42PM

It's as passionate and meaningful as your relationship with the other party is. As long as it's consensual by both parties, what's the problem with casual sex though?

Nodin · 21-10-2013 05:45PM

pundy wrote: »

if you are using the internet (whether its an app or website) to find people to "hook up with locally" or whatever, then chances are you should be judged. it's wrong on so many levels - danger to yourself (you dont know this person from adam), you most likely are engaging in sexual activity with a person that has used the app/site before, used it to get into your pants, and will use it again - it's definitely an addictive thing to be doing id say, you'll end up riddled and passing on your stds to the next fool who you meet off the internet. it's so gross....

basically, put it this way - someday you'll be all grown up and you'll want to have decent memories of your twenties/teens/thirties or whatever... surely you dont want to be sitting there remembering the time that another nameless stranger called over and dropped a load on your face!?!?

.....amazing the nation hasn't been wiped out by its shagging mad STD ridden population........

I think sitting there remembering sexual activity you had is considerably up on sitting there realising that time is gone and all opportunities that came with it also.....

Zubeneschamali · 21-10-2013 05:47PM

Sex without love is an empty experience, but as empty experiences go, it's one of the best - Woody Allen

theblaqueguy · 21-10-2013 05:53PM

old hippy wrote: »

Hmm. Somehow I doubt that; you sound like you haven't graduated from the schoolyard.

I beg to differ I have graduated with a masters in sex from college I just think your jealous of my exploits with the many different women I have bedded

Red Nissan · 21-10-2013 05:55PM

Zubeneschamali wrote: »

Sex without love is an empty experience, but as empty experiences go, it's one of the best - Anonymous

That name brings degenerating dirt and incestuous flit into this thread.

okno · 21-10-2013 06:40PM

if it wasn't for sex none of us would even exist. if people like sex and enjoy it and it's consensual then it's really nobodys concern.

in my opinion for sex to be passionate and meaningful then you need to know your body and what you want to do or have done to maximize enjoyment. be open and communicate. sex is not dirty.

Sh1tbag OToole · 21-10-2013 06:48PM

Apparently you dont get the real passionate sex until you get to around 35-45.

Until then its just puppy love and casual shags to "empty the bag"

It wasn't me! · 21-10-2013 07:00PM

"Sex without love is merely healthy exercise." Sounds like a good advocacy to me. Yes, sex without the emotional connection is nowhere near as good as when you're mad about the person and things just click, but it's still pretty damn good!

Tangatagamadda Chaddabinga Bonga Bungo · 21-10-2013 07:01PM

Zen65 wrote: »

I just threw up in my mouth a little reading that.

In a sexual way?

jimb43 · 21-10-2013 07:08PM

You almost have the answer in your post, there are lots of types of sex,
sex, passionate sex, and meaningful sex, as well as safe sex unsafe sex, quick sex, and many more, but im sure if you are doing ot right , no matter which one your doing SHE WILL ENJOY IT

carzony · 22-10-2013 12:37AM

I see sites like instigram and tagged, there basically meet up and **** sites really.. I find it strange why men go to prostitutes when sex seems to be everywhere anyway???

solas111 · 22-10-2013 01:00AM

There would be none of this trouble if it wasn’t for that Gay Byrne and his Late Late Show and that awful Sunday World.

There was no sex in Ireland ‘till they started talking about it on television and putting pictures in the papers of girls with big breasts that had lost their brassieres. You’re all going to burn in hell for putting sinful thoughts in people’s heads. Let’s go back to the old days I say, when there was no sex and it was all Immaculate Conception in Ireland.

qo2cj1dsne8y4k · 22-10-2013 01:17AM

If its not, then you're having the wrong kind of sex

Is sex passionate and meaningful anymore?

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