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Asking a guy out

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  • #152
    EmptyTree
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 749 ✭✭✭EmptyTree


    Kirby wrote: »
    Why is that women talk about this "fun" lark?

    It's not a dirty word and it's not shameful, calling it "fun" doesn't make it more or less so. It's sex. You want sex. Say it loud and say it proud.

    Call it a pet peeve but it really grinds my gears.


    Sex?? What??? Where did you get that idea from??? The girl is just looking for FUN....A game of charades or scrabble or something wholesome like that.


  • #153
    sebastianlieken
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,778 ✭✭✭sebastianlieken


    How do we know xoxyx is even goodlooking?!?! I mean, what if she's UGLY?!?!

    also, what's "RainbowKittenBalloon" all about?!?!


  • #154
    BBDBB
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,899 ✭✭✭✭BBDBB


    sebastianlieken wrote: »
    How do we know xoxyx is even goodlooking?!?! I mean, what if she's UGLY?!?!

    also, what's "RainbowKittenBalloon" all about?!?!

    perhaps her S&M "safe word" ???


  • #155
    howamidifferent
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,819 ✭✭✭howamidifferent


    sebastianlieken wrote: »
    How do we know xoxyx is even goodlooking?!?! I mean, what if she's UGLY?!?!

    also, what's "RainbowKittenBalloon" all about?!?!

    Picture sparkles, nails and climactic endings....


  • #156
    L.A.D
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 220 ✭✭L.A.D


    What's Rainbowkittenballoon?


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  • #157
    Kenjataimu
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,429 ✭✭✭Kenjataimu


    L.A.D wrote: »
    What's Rainbowkittenballoon?

    It's similar to the rotating Vietnamese shame wheel.


  • #158
    Khannie
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,485 ✭✭✭✭Khannie


    sebastianlieken wrote: »
    How do we know xoxyx is even goodlooking?!?! I mean, what if she's UGLY?!?!

    I can confirm that she's not ugly.


  • #159
    Khannie
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,485 ✭✭✭✭Khannie


    xoxyx wrote: »
    One word: RainbowKittenBalloon :D

    :D


  • #160
    wirelessdude01
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,445 ✭✭✭wirelessdude01


    Photographic evidence of lack of ugliness is needed :p


  • #161
    Hardonraging
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,641 ✭✭✭Hardonraging


    Kirby wrote: »
    Why is that women talk about this "fun" lark?

    It's not a dirty word and it's not shameful, calling it "fun" doesn't make it more or less so. It's sex. You want sex. Say it loud and say it proud.

    Call it a pet peeve but it really grinds my gears.


    Fun is a bit more 'PC', and it's what women actually want ... things to be fun, Men to be men and be exciting, spontaneous.. etc !! < insert other examples here > the Sex is just a by-product of said fun ...


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  • #162
    chughes
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,740 ✭✭✭chughes


    Hardonraging wrote: »
    Fun is a bit more 'PC', and it's what women actually want ... things to be fun, Men to be men and be exciting, spontaneous.. etc !! < insert other examples here > the Sex is just a by-product of said fun ...

    A deeply philosophical question I know, but does that mean that for males fun is a by-product of sex and for females sex is a by-product of fun?


  • #163
    Muise...
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,512 ✭✭✭Muise...


    chughes wrote: »
    A deeply philosophical question I know, but does that mean that for males fun is a by-product of sex and for females sex is a by-product of fun?

    only insofar as we're all after the big O. :)


  • #164
    Hardonraging
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,641 ✭✭✭Hardonraging


    chughes wrote: »
    A deeply philosophical question I know, but does that mean that for males fun is a by-product of sex and for females sex is a by-product of fun?

    Fun exist's on many level's i've had fun and it not be in the physical sense, and vice versa ..

    It is what ever you make it ... but in the context here, it's related to sex.

    ....altho isnt everything really related to sex...


    Muise... wrote: »
    only insofar as we're all after the big O. :)

    I agree ... kinda ...but you need to build on the before fun .. before you reach the Big FUN ...


  • #165
    Ihatecuddles-old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    Hardonraging wrote: »
    Fun exist's on many level's i've had fun and it not be in the physical sense, and vice versa ..

    It is what ever you make it ... but in the context here, it's related to sex.

    ....altho isnt everything really related to sex...

    We have fun without sex :D


  • #166
    Hardonraging
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,641 ✭✭✭Hardonraging


    Ihatecuddles wrote: »
    We have fun without sex :D


    Damn right we do !!1 and let that be a lesson to you all....


  • #167
    wuzziwig
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 516 ✭✭✭wuzziwig


    Hardonraging wrote: »
    Damn right we do !!1 and let that be a lesson to you all....

    It's difficult to take that as a lesson from someone called Hardonraging!


  • #168
    Hardonraging
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,641 ✭✭✭Hardonraging


    wuzziwig wrote: »
    It's difficult to take that as a lesson from someone called Hardonraging!


    If you'd rather i could school you in a few other lessons in private ?


  • #169
    wuzziwig
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 516 ✭✭✭wuzziwig


    Hardonraging wrote: »
    If you'd rather i could school you in a few other lessons in private ?

    Wouldn't say no.


  • #170
    LizT
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,089 ✭✭✭✭LizT


    Mod

    Keep the flirting to PM.


  • #171
    ScumLord
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,789 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    I was expecting this to end with shame, disappointment, tears and comfort eating. How disappointing to find out I was helpful and it ended better than anybody could have expected. :mad:


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  • #172
    xoxyx
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,811 ✭✭✭xoxyx


    Larianne wrote: »
    xoxyx is a ride, so she's defo getting the ride!
    TeddyTedson wrote: »
    I can confirm this. Had no doubts that he'd be up for it.
    Khannie wrote: »
    I can confirm that she's not ugly.

    You guys!!! :P

    (I've wired your payment to those secret bank accounts that we're not supposed to talk about.) (Although - Khannie - you need to work on your compliments..)


  • #173
    Grandeeod
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,318 ✭✭✭✭Grandeeod


    FIN


  • #174
    D1stant
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,806 ✭✭✭D1stant


    xoxyx wrote: »
    So... I'm having a bit of indecision. There's a guy that I fancy the pants off. He was a consultant through work, but the project is coming to an end soon and I'm thinking of asking him out - purely for fun and games.

    The thing is, I never ask guys out. I'm a bit nervous about it. I know what I'd say to him, but I'm worried that he'd say no. I'd be looking to hook up with this fella, but nothing long term.

    We have flirted a bit. We get on grand, but I'm purely interested in him physically.

    Dermot, You need to cut this sh1t out on a Saturday night man. All these young dudes be creamin


  • #175
    Larianne
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    suicide_circus wrote: »
    Let this be a lesson to all women

    if you fancy a guy and want to enjoy some casual fun, just say so, he WILL say yes.

    What if they would have to travel to a different county?
    Kirby wrote: »
    Why is that women talk about this "fun" lark?

    It's not a dirty word and it's not shameful, calling it "fun" doesn't make it more or less so. It's sex. You want sex. Say it loud and say it proud.

    Call it a pet peeve but it really grinds my gears.

    I thought 'fun' was the code word guys use. Maybe both sexes use the word.


  • #176
    seenitall
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,733 ✭✭✭seenitall


    Kirby wrote: »
    Why is that women talk about this "fun" lark?

    It's not a dirty word and it's not shameful, calling it "fun" doesn't make it more or less so. It's sex. You want sex. Say it loud and say it proud.

    Call it a pet peeve but it really grinds my gears.

    And how do you feel about the word 'slut'? Grind any gears, that one?

    The day the women are not judged and looked down on, if promiscuous or up for casual sex, is the day you will see the euphemisms for sex start to disappear.

    That day is far off yet in the society where the countryside churches are filled to the rafters every Sunday morning.


  • #177
    Ihatecuddles-old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    seenitall wrote: »
    And how do you feel about the word 'slut'? Grind any gears, that one?

    The day the women are not judged and looked down on, if promiscuous or up for casual sex, is the day you will see the euphemisms for sex start to disappear.

    That day is far off yet in the society where the countryside churches are filled to the rafters every Sunday morning.

    I doubt its that far off, whenever it comes up here the majority agree that women can be as promiscuous as men and not be judged!

    Ill be lambasted for this but its mostly other women who judge! In my experience and opinion.


  • #178
    seenitall
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,733 ✭✭✭seenitall


    Ihatecuddles wrote: »
    I doubt its that far off, whenever it comes up here the majority agree that women can be as promiscuous as men and not be judged!

    The majority on a thread like this, perhaps. But if I remember correctly, there was a thread on here a few months ago about "what does the word 'slut' mean to you" and all in all it was a pretty depressing read. Although some of the judgments made were diplomatically couched in some very mealy-mouthed terms, as in "someone who has no respect for themselves" and similar. Still.


  • #179
    Sky King
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,431 ✭✭✭Sky King


    Let he who is without sin cast the first bone.


  • #180
    Aotearoa
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 74 ✭✭Aotearoa


    did the op get her nat king cole?


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