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Asking a guy out

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  • #32
    pharmaton
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,192 ✭✭✭pharmaton


    xoxyx wrote: »
    Meeting on Sunday. :)



    He's very sexy.



    I plead the fifth. :p
    is it a date then?


  • #33
    xoxyx
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,811 ✭✭✭xoxyx


    Grandeeod wrote: »
    Im not trying to piss on your picnic OP, but i was once in the same position as the object of your desire. I liked the girl in question and was working up to asking her out and looking at things maybe developing into something more than a casual shag. But she got in first with her no strings attatched shag thing. Sent her packing. But maybe he's up for a completely casual experience, just dont assume he is.

    Yep - understand that completely. I'm not looking for anything other than casual, but I know a lot of people want more.


  • #34
    Poor Uncle Tom
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,547 ✭✭✭✭Poor Uncle Tom


    xoxyx wrote: »
    Yeah, I suppose. Ok, gonna do it. I really would like to hook up with this guy!

    Oh stop begging, I'll do it so......:pac:


  • #35
    kowloon
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,741 ✭✭✭✭kowloon


    The love doctor is in clinic.

    The best move would be not to make a move, just put out subtle hints that you might be interested, the more imperceptible the better. We're naturally tuned to pick these things up and always love the chase. Up the difficulty as much as possible, no challenge = no interest. Find out his hobbies and avoid those topics at all cost, that way he can enjoy learning about new things he would normally have no interest in whatsoever.


  • #36
    Grandeeod
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,318 ✭✭✭✭Grandeeod


    Hey love doctor

    I think this one is already under starters orders. Its now down to whether the bloke in question is agreeable to no strings sex. Most likely will be.


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  • #37
    Zed Bank
    Closed Accounts Posts: 504 ✭✭✭Zed Bank


    Is this the next feeky McGee/ esso ciara thread?


  • #38
    Larianne
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    Hardonraging wrote: »
    That's my line !!! :rolleyes:

    Do you also use the code of "cuddles" for something else?!

    :pac:


  • #39
    DonkeyStyle \o/
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,144 ✭✭✭DonkeyStyle \o/


    xoxyx wrote: »
    I'm worried that he'd say no.
    Why? What would happen?


  • #40
    xoxyx
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,811 ✭✭✭xoxyx


    Poor Uncle Tom wrote: »
    Oh stop begging, I'll do it so......:pac:

    FINALLY!!!!
    kowloon wrote: »
    The love doctor is in clinic.

    The best move would be not to make a move, just put out subtle hints that you might be interested, the more imperceptible the better. We're naturally tuned to pick these things up and always love the chase. Up the difficulty as much as possible, no challenge = no interest. Find out his hobbies and avoid those topics at all cost, that way he can enjoy learning about new things he would normally have no interest in whatsoever.

    Jaysus - that's way too much for a hook up!!


  • #41
    xoxyx
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,811 ✭✭✭xoxyx


    DonkeyStyle \o/ wrote: »
    Why? What would happen?

    I'd feel bad. :P


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  • #42
    pharmaton
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,192 ✭✭✭pharmaton


    meh


  • #43
    Hardonraging
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,641 ✭✭✭Hardonraging


    Larianne wrote: »
    Do you also use the code of "cuddles" for something else?!

    :pac:


    Nooo Cuddles are cuddles .. I'm totes DTF tho .. but there's nothing like a few cuddles after a hot steamy session ..

    Ya know ure self sure !!!


  • #44
    titan18
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,052 ✭✭✭✭titan18


    I won't say no, ask me out


  • #45
    Larianne
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    Hardonraging wrote: »
    Nooo Cuddles are cuddles .. I'm totes DTF tho .. but there's nothing like a few cuddles after a hot steamy session ..

    Ya know ure self sure !!!

    You're not sticking with the code! Messing everybody up!

    What's DTF?


  • #46
    Hardonraging
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,641 ✭✭✭Hardonraging


    Larianne wrote: »
    You're not sticking with the code! Messing everybody up!

    What's DTF?


    Fun is always fun !! it's my middle name sure ..

    DTF = Down to fúck


  • #47
    xoxyx
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,811 ✭✭✭xoxyx


    Ok, fair enough. Took the plunge and asked him for a drink. Gonna do that at the end of the weekend. Gonna just be straight and say I'm not staying out late but he's welcome back home. Flip it - hopefully will be worth it. Feel like a whoor though laying it out on the line like that.


  • #48
    Miss Behaviour
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 39 ✭Miss Behaviour


    I'd never be able to ask a guy out. I'm a confident sort of lady in my own way, but would never approach a guy out of the blue to chat him up or ask him out. It's just the way it is for me. Don't know what it is recently, but I'm not even getting chatted up much anymore when out! Don't know what has changed in 6 months! Must be my perfume.


  • #49
    Hardonraging
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,641 ✭✭✭Hardonraging


    xoxyx wrote: »
    Ok, fair enough. Took the plunge and asked him for a drink. Gonna do that at the end of the weekend. Gonna just be straight and say I'm not staying out late but he's welcome back home. Flip it - hopefully will be worth it. Feel like a whoor though laying it out on the line like that.

    We'll expect a full report, inc Positions, ranked out of 10 for presentation, and effectiveness...

    Here's hoping it's not a minute man ...


  • #50
    xoxyx
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,811 ✭✭✭xoxyx


    Hardonraging wrote: »
    We'll expect a full report, inc Positions, ranked out of 10 for presentation, and effectiveness...

    Here's hoping it's not a minute man ...

    He better be good after all of this! Poor fecker. If he only knew there was a thread on Boards about him.


  • #51
    Hardonraging
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,641 ✭✭✭Hardonraging


    xoxyx wrote: »
    He better be good after all of this! Poor fecker. If he only knew there was a thread on Boards about him.


    Maybe he does* ;)







    *Clearly tho he doesn't


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  • #52
    DonkeyStyle \o/
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,144 ✭✭✭DonkeyStyle \o/


    xoxyx wrote: »
    I'd feel bad. :P
    You don't avoid job interviews because you'd feel bad if you didn't get the job. Or maybe you do, I don't know. I avoid them because I don't like people looking at me.

    Try taking yourself less seriously, and approach your rejection with sarcasm. "Oh boo hoo, nobody likes me", then smear lipstick all over your face and give yourself a bad haircut while crying and laughing in the shower. Then get drunk and write some poetry. Then post it back here.


  • #53
    kowloon
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,741 ✭✭✭✭kowloon


    I desperately want this to become a Feeky level thread, but I also wish xoxyx the best of luck in getting the ride. The confusion!


  • #54
    tuxy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,983 ✭✭✭✭tuxy


    xoxyx wrote: »



    I plead the fifth. :p

    You are into weird **** if you are bringing the catholic church into this.
    He may not be interested in this.
    The Fifth Amendment of the Constitution of Ireland removed from the constitution a controversial reference to the "special position" of the Roman Catholic Church as well as recognition of certain other named religious denominations


  • #55
    Grandeeod
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,318 ✭✭✭✭Grandeeod


    xoxyx wrote: »
    Ok, fair enough. Took the plunge and asked him for a drink. Gonna do that at the end of the weekend. Gonna just be straight and say I'm not staying out late but he's welcome back home. Flip it - hopefully will be worth it. Feel like a whoor though laying it out on the line like that.

    If its crap sex will you come back and tell us the truth. Serious horniness can lead to serious let downs.


  • #56
    kowloon
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,741 ✭✭✭✭kowloon


    tuxy wrote: »
    You are into weird **** if you are bringing the catholic church into this.
    He may not be interested in this.

    Maybe he likes the missionary position.

    I should have unhooked my coat a couple of posts ago.


  • #57
    Celly Smunt
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,463 ✭✭✭Celly Smunt


    kowloon wrote: »
    Maybe he likes the missionary position.

    I should have unhooked my coat a couple of posts ago.

    missionary is sooo booooring.


    And aches the arms.


  • #58
    Hardonraging
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,641 ✭✭✭Hardonraging


    Celly Smunt wrote: »
    missionary is sooo booooring.


    And aches the arms.


    You need to do more pushups !!


  • #59
    Celly Smunt
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,463 ✭✭✭Celly Smunt


    Hardonraging wrote: »
    You need to do more pushups !!

    Even Hercules wouldn't be able to hold himself up on the springy beds we have these days.


  • #60
    Hardonraging
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,641 ✭✭✭Hardonraging


    Celly Smunt wrote: »
    Even Hercules wouldn't be able to hold himself up on the springy beds we have these days.


    Hard mattress is the way to go in fairness, stop the old knee's sinking in between the springs ...


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  • #61
    Larianne
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    kowloon wrote: »
    I desperately want this to become a Feeky level thread, but I also wish xoxyx the best of luck in getting the ride. The confusion!

    xoxyx is a ride, so she's defo getting the ride!


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