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Asking a guy out

  • 10-10-2013 08:49PM
    #1
    xoxyx
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,811 ✭✭✭


    So... I'm having a bit of indecision. There's a guy that I fancy the pants off. He was a consultant through work, but the project is coming to an end soon and I'm thinking of asking him out - purely for fun and games.

    The thing is, I never ask guys out. I'm a bit nervous about it. I know what I'd say to him, but I'm worried that he'd say no. I'd be looking to hook up with this fella, but nothing long term.

    We have flirted a bit. We get on grand, but I'm purely interested in him physically.


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  • #2
    jester77
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,264 ✭✭✭✭jester77


    Well, if you don't ask then nothing will definitely happen.


  • #3
    Hardonraging
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,641 ✭✭✭Hardonraging


    xoxyx wrote: »
    So... I'm having a bit of indecision. There's a guy that I fancy the pants off. He was a consultant through work, but the project is coming to an end soon and I'm thinking of asking him out - purely for fun and games.

    The thing is, I never ask guys out. I'm a bit nervous about it. I know what I'd say to him, but I'm worried that he'd say no. I'd be looking to hook up with this fella, but nothing long term.

    We have flirted a bit. We get on grand, but I'm purely interested in him physically.


    You'll need a bath of ice set up.. and a pretty sharp knife.. that's assuming you want him physically to steal his kidneys right ?


  • #4
    Howard Juneau
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,901 ✭✭✭Howard Juneau


    How do you know he's gay?


  • #5
    MadYaker
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,347 ✭✭✭✭MadYaker


    Just ask him, if he says no you won't be working with him anymore so you'll probably never see him again anyway.


  • #6
    wazky
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,516 ✭✭✭wazky


    xoxyx wrote: »
    I know what I'd say to him, but I'm worried that he'd say no.

    Ask him out for a friendly drink, worst he can say is no.

    And if he does say no, there is always chloroform.


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  • #7
    okno
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21 ✭okno


    ask him. you have nothing to lose and everything to gain!


  • #8
    iMac_Hunt
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 162 ✭✭iMac_Hunt


    If you tell him straight out that you're only interested in him physically, there isn't a hope in hell he will say no, unless he's gay of course.


  • #9
    ScumLord
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,789 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    xoxyx wrote: »
    We have flirted a bit. We get on grand, but I'm purely interested in him physically.
    Just tell him that, he'll be delighted.


  • #10
    The One Who Knocks
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,301 ✭✭✭The One Who Knocks


    xoxyx wrote: »
    So... I'm having a bit of indecision. There's a guy that I fancy the pants off...


    He wouldn't by any chance go by the name of Senor Fancy Pants now, would he?


  • #11
    sea_monkey
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 755 ✭✭✭sea_monkey


    flash your gash and tell him its open for one night only


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  • #12
    MyPeopleDrankTheSoup
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,761 ✭✭✭MyPeopleDrankTheSoup


    xoxyx wrote: »
    I'd be looking to hook up with this fella, but nothing long term.

    We get on grand, but I'm purely interested in him physically.

    Be sure to mention this to him when asking him out. The lucky bastard!


  • #13
    xoxyx
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,811 ✭✭✭xoxyx


    jester77 wrote: »
    Well, if you don't ask then nothing will definitely happen.

    That is very true, and I know this. Am just being a wuss I guess.
    Howard Juneau wrote: »
    How do you know he's gay?

    I hope he's not!
    wazky wrote: »
    Ask him out for a friendly drink, worst he can say is no.

    And if he does say no, there is always chloroform.


    Flipping chloroform stocks are running low. Anyway, I want him awake for this one. :pac:
    iMac_Hunt wrote: »
    If you tell him straight out that you're only interested in him physically, there isn't a hope in hell he will say no, unless he's gay of course.
    ScumLord wrote: »
    Just tell him that, he'll be delighted.

    Really? I do just want to have a bit of no strings, but is that a weird thing to say to somebody


  • #14
    MonkstownHoop
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,196 ✭✭✭MonkstownHoop


    xoxyx wrote: »
    That is very true, and I know this. Am just being a wuss I guess.



    I hope he's not!




    Flipping chloroform stocks are running low. Anyway, I want him awake for this one. :pac:





    Really? I do just want to have a bit of no strings, but is that a weird thing to say to somebody

    No!


  • #15
    ScumLord
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,789 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    xoxyx wrote: »
    Really? I do just want to have a bit of no strings, but is that a weird thing to say to somebody
    A woman asking for just sex is one of the most popular mens fantasies.


  • #16
    Larianne
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    Just say you want 'a bit of fun'. It's the code!


  • #17
    canadianwoman
    Closed Accounts Posts: 811 ✭✭✭canadianwoman


    xoxyx wrote: »
    So... I'm having a bit of indecision. There's a guy that I fancy the pants off. He was a consultant through work, but the project is coming to an end soon and I'm thinking of asking him out - purely for fun and games.

    The thing is, I never ask guys out. I'm a bit nervous about it. I know what I'd say to him, but I'm worried that he'd say no. I'd be looking to hook up with this fella, but nothing long term.

    We have flirted a bit. We get on grand, but I'm purely interested in him physically.

    Sounds like it's time for a lap dance. :)


  • #18
    chughes
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,740 ✭✭✭chughes


    Well, stockings and suspenders does it for me.

    Just saying;)


  • #19
    The Big Smoke
    Closed Accounts Posts: 402 ✭✭The Big Smoke


    I don't approach women much myself as a lot of Irish women are harsh, just wait for them to approach me after a few glances etc. There is nothing sexier than a girl asking you out.


  • #20
    returnNull
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,235 ✭✭✭returnNull


    If your just on for a ride,ask him if he wants to go for a drink and try it on then.No more no less.Keep it simples :)


  • #21
    pharmaton
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,192 ✭✭✭pharmaton


    let us know how you got on op, we'll be waiting in anticipation.


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  • #22
    xoxyx
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,811 ✭✭✭xoxyx


    ScumLord wrote: »
    A woman asking for just sex is one of the most popular mens fantasies.

    Yeah, I suppose. Ok, gonna do it. I really would like to hook up with this guy!


  • #23
    xoxyx
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,811 ✭✭✭xoxyx


    xoxyx wrote: »
    Yeah, I suppose. Ok, gonna do it. I really would like to hook up with this guy!

    (I get the impression he'd be very good in bed. :p)


  • #24
    srm23
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,298 ✭✭✭srm23


    his reaction/answer will depend on if you are hot OP


  • #25
    canadianwoman
    Closed Accounts Posts: 811 ✭✭✭canadianwoman


    xoxyx wrote: »
    Yeah, I suppose. Ok, gonna do it. I really would like to hook up with this guy!

    Go for it. I did that back in 2000 with this guy I fancied. We ended up together for 8 years when all I really wanted was a few nights of fun. Good times and I don't regret it once.

    Good luck.


  • #26
    sea_monkey
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 755 ✭✭✭sea_monkey


    srm23 wrote: »
    his reaction/answer will depend on if you are hot OP

    or if hes a minger


  • #27
    Grandeeod
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,318 ✭✭✭✭Grandeeod


    Im not trying to piss on your picnic OP, but i was once in the same position as the object of your desire. I liked the girl in question and was working up to asking her out and looking at things maybe developing into something more than a casual shag. But she got in first with her no strings attatched shag thing. Sent her packing. But maybe he's up for a completely casual experience, just dont assume he is.


  • #28
    Sh1tbag OToole
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,973 ✭✭✭Sh1tbag OToole


    ScumLord wrote: »
    A woman asking for just sex is one of the most popular mens fantasies.

    Also a common wind-up. Like I suspect this thread is


  • #29
    Hardonraging
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,641 ✭✭✭Hardonraging


    Larianne wrote: »
    Just say you want 'a bit of fun'. It's the code!



    That's my line !!! :rolleyes:


  • #30
    FionnK86
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,217 ✭✭✭FionnK86


    Drink drink drink drink drink drink drink drink drink!


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  • #31
    xoxyx
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,811 ✭✭✭xoxyx


    Meeting on Sunday. :)
    sea_monkey wrote: »
    or if hes a minger

    He's very sexy.
    srm23 wrote: »
    his reaction/answer will depend on if you are hot OP

    I plead the fifth. :p


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