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Would you go travelling on your own?

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,495 ✭✭✭✭Billy86


    Andrewf20 wrote: »
    If you in Sydney for new years I might be walking past you in the street. If you stop me, asking for directions I probably wont have a clue. : )
    If you're both in Sydney at New Years, you WILL NOT see each other. Either get a little outside the city (Rose Bay will get you a great view and far less packed - we went there) or literally begin camping around the Opera House on the morning of Dec 30th. Anything else and you'll be stuck in a literal three-mile mosh pit with no view of anything, no phone coverage, with it being almost impossible to get food, drink (even water) or access to bathrooms.

    In 2011, ALL the hostels and hotels were sold out by July from Dec 23 - Jan 2. I stayed in a friends who went home for the holidays (wound up living next door to that Braxton fella from Home & Away, didn't know who he was at the time though as I never watch it, ha!).

    Nothing to get stressed over though, people do drop out at the last minute so make friends with the staff in hostels and they'll let you know before anyone else. I do know a few people who slept rough for 2-3 nights, but it's not as bad as you would think - left all their belongings in hostels for €20 a day or so, slept on the beach and had access to public showers, bathrooms etc. A number of people were doing the same, so it wasn't like they were stranded alone - dozens and dozens will be sleeping (getting a late night power nap, really) from Dec 30 - Jan 2 there. Do remember it never goes under 18-20 celcius (at 3-4am, daytime you're talking 30s and up) at that time of year, and it's humid without being too oppressive.

    Just a heads up!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,563 ✭✭✭dd972


    Not another Traveller thread :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,122 ✭✭✭BeerWolf


    Yup.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 526 ✭✭✭OnTheCouch


    I travelled all over the world in my twenties, where pretty much on every occasion I journeyed alone. At times I met friends of mine in the destination countries but that was rare enough.

    Obviously some clear advantages, you decide your own schedule, your budget, you will never have any added stress about falling out with people which can ruin holidays. I found that it was very difficult to organise long exotic trips away with friends, especially after the age of 21 or so, when many become far more conservative/busy/inflexible/would rather go with their partner and so on.

    However, unless you're particularly gregarious or out-going (which I am not), travelling on your own can sometimes get a bit lonely. A lot of it is down to luck with who you meet when you arrive in your hostel and so on. Many people are quite welcoming to strangers in these environments, but there are also those who are not, which can make it hard, if you get stuck in a dorm with a closed group. The worst thing is when you actually start counting the hours until you can go to bed for instance, which doesn't happen often, but can occur in certain circumstances.

    In addition, if something goes wrong, you have no one to share the anxiety with. Say you lost your passport, the simple fact of having a personal friend with you for support would be infinitely more reassuring than having to go through the whole process of getting it back in a strange country alone. Same with arriving at a dodgy train station late at night, if you are with one or two others, the whole experience can seem far less intimidating that it would be for a solo traveller.

    So now I always try to go with people to places, even though these are usually to much closer destinations and for considerably shorter periods.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,678 ✭✭✭I Heart Internet


    Travelling on your own is absolutely fine OP. It's liberating and often more relaxed than with someone else.

    Once you get there you'll find social skills you never knew you had. You'll be chatting to people and make good friends.

    I traveled for some time around Europe on my own and actually felt sorry for people travelling as couples or groups because they just stuck in there little groups and everyone thought that was what they wanted. But, when you're on your own people will chat to you and you'll have a great time.

    Enjoy!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,980 ✭✭✭limklad


    I have done both in my early years, Traveled with groups and traveled alone. I prefer to travel alone. It rare for me to travel with someone unless we are going to a wedding or an event out foreign together, but even still I like to disappear by myself to see the sights and see nature/cities town and locations without someone yapping in my ear..

    Most of my holidays are full traveling holidays. When I head out of the country I do travel. Other people think I walk and drive too much. While I like to window shop and brows the goods. I am always moving to see the next thing. So much so I rarely eat in restaurants as they waste too much of my time. I eat on the go. I do not stay too long on one spot in one shop or cluster of shops unlike most women I previously travel with. Most men I previous travel with want to head to the nearest pub/bar.

    So I prefer to go alone and to see the sites and do activities unless I am in a group that share the same interest.

    I get bored and at times agitated when stuck in one spot when I know there is more to see. I love the freedom of moving around when traveling abroad.
    I see far more and meet more local people and get their views and information than I would if I am in a group. There is always one member who spoils the trip for others which is why I prefer to travel alone. I can set or adjust my own timetable and change it without hearing the whining and complaints when plans or expectation are not been met.
    I can relax and take in the atmosphere and be happy when traveling alone.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,787 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    I nearly always travel alone, if I was waiting around for other people to go with me I'd never go anywhere.

    It's also a hassle if they do come with you, you're always waiting for them to make sure they have everything they need to cross a continent just to go out for dinner.

    Once you get to the place you always run into someone, if you stay at a hostel you'll have people in your face every hour of the day. It's pretty much impossible to be completely alone no matter where you go and if you don't have one of your old time friends with you talking about what they're getting up to at home you'll have time to talk to other more interesting people, like the Nazi medic I meet on a train to Prague. He told me his life story about how he lost an eye and a leg and then escaped to India to live a life of peace. I didn't really believe him he looked more like a nazi scientist. He was probably looking to turn me into some sort of nazi cyborg soldier.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,698 ✭✭✭tricky D


    Avoids the snoring roommate trauma.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 89 ✭✭sparklyEyes111


    Has anyone ever travelled by them selves? Im not talking about a day trip to Dublin. But travelling to other countries. How was it?

    Im due to go in a few weeks and im scared. I did go to England on my own and thats the furthest I ever been.

    This time im going to Australia. Thats 17200km away. There's no going back. Im a bit excited but feel so sick even thinking about it. It seemed like a great idea when booking the flights and visa and now that the time is getting closer, its not such a good an idea.

    What's your plan when you get there?? Because if you're planning to do East coast and that go with a group. You'll meet tonnes of people by doing that. . Tonnes. I came on my own too to oz.. I've been all over, I still haven't properly settled! You just get used to it :) I too freaked out at the start but don't be worried. :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 81,060 ✭✭✭✭biko


    Once some mates went to south India and I travelled down to see them after a couple weeks to continue travelling together.
    Flew in to Mumbai via Karachi and took the train down to Kerala and found them on a beach. Whole trip took about 4 days, alone, but meeting so many interesting people along the way.
    Would do it again, an adventure it was!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 3,273 ✭✭✭Hoop66


    Jake1 wrote: »
    id go off travelling alone in the morning if I could. family seem to get insulted tho if I mention traveling without them :)

    Yeah. I'd love to go travelling on my own.

    The wife wouldn't have it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,495 ✭✭✭✭Billy86


    tricky D wrote: »
    Avoids the snoring roommate trauma.
    One of my friends that I went over to visit in Perth is such a loud snorer that he would wake himself up. Huge guy, about 6'5 and just a massive slab or person. He'd go to sleep kind of breathing loud, then you'd hear a slight crackle/ripple of a snore. Over the next 10 minutes it would build and build until it was literally as loud as someone shouting (not at, but not too far off, the top of their lungs), followed by a kind of flustery/panicked noise as he woke up... then back to sleep to repeat the cycle. Bloody annoying but bloody irritating as well - we were in a hostel at the time, and through the mattress from the bunk below I must have punched him in the back of the head 10 times a night.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,473 ✭✭✭Wacker The Attacker


    I always prefer travelling alone.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,315 ✭✭✭Reventon93


    I went to NZ this summer on my own, and it was my first solo trip and I was 19. The only thing i'd say to llook out for is getting searched for drugs and explosives. Brisbane was for explosives and Sydney was for both and they made everyone on their own go through those full body scanners.

    Other than that the travel time is a pain. The smaller flights are fine but I think that the 14+ ones are a killer.

    But once you do it, it will feel like a great accomplishment. I only know one other person who did a long journey and that was to Adelaide.

    Good luck!


  • Site Banned Posts: 51 ✭✭Tom M


    I'm not sure if I would but I know a few people who have. I've huge respect for anyone who does though.

    So have you or would you go travelling on your own?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,109 ✭✭✭LadyMayBelle


    Yes. Ive gone travelling alone and would go again. I know a lot of people who do.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 712 ✭✭✭SweepTheLeg


    There was a thread a couple of days ago about it.

    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2057025867

    It's a good read!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,819 ✭✭✭Aglomerado


    Have done and will do again. No point in waiting for other people to come with you to see the places you want to see, life is short.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 287 ✭✭rambutman


    Have done a few times. Once in Mexico and twice in S.E. Asia.

    best way to do it............first time i went to S.E. Asia with a friend kept getting stuck in places as he'd hooked up with local chicks.

    Going solo is the only way


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭hoodwinked


    i would, if i wanted to go somewhere and nobody else did, id go alone, i am not going to miss out on life!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,787 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    There's clearly a bunch of people on here that want to go traveling but are too scared to go alone. Why don't you all just meet up and all go together. You can all hold each others hands and cry on each others shoulders when you miss mammy too much.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 71 ✭✭s14barnes


    it tests friendships travelling in groups.. I'm just back from 15 months of travel and I split ways from the people I went with.. Much easier on your own..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 981 ✭✭✭Stojkovic


    Yes done it loads of times, Thailand, Oz, US etc.

    Just back from San Francisco on my own.

    Best way, you can do your own thing and see and do everything you want and not rely and wait on your idiot friends. And lets face it one of your idiot friends always brings another idiot friend.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,678 ✭✭✭I Heart Internet


    OP, you musn't like doing anything on your own. There was a thread two days ago asking the very same question:

    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2057025867&page=3


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 120 ✭✭PaudyW


    on your own is the only way to travel, you tend to see a lot more, meet more people and do things you d never do while travelling with friends, sometimes can work out slightly more expensive, but tends to be far better.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 825 ✭✭✭Timistry


    Like the poster above, I have been to Thailand for a week on my own. The freedom is great since you do whatever you please without having to accommodate the needs and aspiration of other people. I enjoyed walking around for hours in the shops, markets and temples. However i must say that I did not have half the fun i would have had with mates. there is also the security that mates provide, ye can go out on the piss as a group safely enough but on your own its un-nerving and boring at times. You pten hear people advising you to travel and "find yourself". There is no better way of doing it. You have to be social and interact with people otherwise it will be incredibly boring!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,103 ✭✭✭mathie


    rambutman wrote: »
    Have done a few times. Once in Mexico and twice in S.E. Asia.

    best way to do it............first time i went to S.E. Asia with a friend kept getting stuck in places as he'd hooked up with local chicks.

    Going solo is the only way

    Thats what she s....

    No come on now mathie you're better than this.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 25,002 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    Have done in the past and loved it. Would love to do it again but hardly fair on the wife and kids!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,548 ✭✭✭BrokenArrows


    Yes I have and probably will do again in the future.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    Yup, will be again soon, love it, nobody making you late, nobody else to babysit or argue with about what to do, brilliant way to experience other countries.


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