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People who over dramatize for attention

  • 04-07-2013 11:21PM
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,068 ✭✭✭


    These kinda people annoy me

    I came back from break in work today and was told my colleague mary was a bit upset.a few girls were all around her..i thought something right bad had happened

    I asked one of the girls what was her buzz and the said she was upset over a death...turns out a friends mothers sister had died.....she only met the lady once

    I was like wtf...she doesnt even know the lady..

    I dont get it..i reckon she was looking for attension..maybe her period or something

    Was i a bit harsh or on the ball


Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,192 ✭✭✭pharmaton


    probably


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,134 ✭✭✭✭Rayne Wooney


    Attension; uh-ten-shuhn
    Noun
    1. The act of masturbating violently in Shakespearean character.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,186 ✭✭✭BUBBLE WRAP


    Specialun wrote: »
    I asked one of the girls what was her buzz

    Ya, I hate this, like are you trying to be cool?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,250 ✭✭✭✭Iwasfrozen


    *attention
    *dramatise

    OP you're killing me here!


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,463 ✭✭✭Celly Smunt


    Take this,you've earned it bro.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,068 ✭✭✭Specialun


    Ya, I hate this, like are you trying to be cool?


    Are u


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,174 ✭✭✭RhubarbCrumble


    Specialun wrote: »

    I dont get it..i reckon she was looking for attension..maybe her period or something

    Was i a bit harsh or on the ball

    Bit harsh saying it might be her period, but in general I know what you mean. Deleted a friend off Facebook last night because I was sick of her drama queen attention seeking status updates.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,068 ✭✭✭Specialun


    bit harsh tbh, how do you know what was her relationship with her aunt? the death could have been in sad circumstances too



    I asked


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,068 ✭✭✭Specialun


    Iwasfrozen wrote: »
    *attention
    *dramatise

    OP you're killing me here!


    My english teacher was a failure


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,829 ✭✭✭Nemeses


    Specialun wrote: »
    These kinda people annoy me



    I was like wtf...she doesnt even know the lady..



    Was i a bit harsh or on the ball

    Probably inconsiderate.

    Sorry, You were inconsiderate.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,332 ✭✭✭tatli_lokma


    Iwasfrozen wrote: »
    *attention
    *dramatise

    OP you're killing me here!

    Don't mind him - he full well knows how to spell, he just spells things wrong on purpose for attention


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,089 ✭✭✭✭LizT


    Mod

    Lay off the grammar nazism folks.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,320 ✭✭✭Ace Attorney


    Originally Posted by Thatdoesnt looksafe tome AHHHHHHH
    bit harsh tbh, how do you know what was her relationship with her aunt? the death could have been in sad circumstances too
    Specialun wrote: »
    I asked

    i dunno then :pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,070 ✭✭✭Birroc


    Specialun wrote: »
    My english teacher was a failure

    and you've been failing ever since.

    when starting a thread, it's disrespectful to have such poor spelling in the headline.

    you should be banned.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,829 ✭✭✭Nemeses


    Birroc wrote: »
    you should be banned.

    A mod has already told us to play nice..

    I'd recommend you play nice too and apologise for not reading the warning..


    I'd also make sure your apology is done in MS Paint.

    A Picture is worth a 1000 words. That should cover it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,186 ✭✭✭BUBBLE WRAP


    Specialun wrote: »
    Are u

    You can't answer a question with a question...:cool:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,332 ✭✭✭tatli_lokma


    Personally I find your 'on her period' comment just pure w*nkerish but you're not the first and won't be the last stupid fool to make comments like that so I don't really let it bother me

    in the same way if people's drama irritates you then don't participate. You clearly wanted in on the 'drama' initially when you asked what he's 'buzz' (:rolleyes:) was. It was only when you deemed her drama to be of an insufficient level of drama that you opted out.

    Some people are very emotional and don't necessarily mean to be drama queens/kings but can't really help it, and there are people who love the attention, and there are people who hate unnecessary attention.

    So its simple - if you're not interested in the drama, don't participate in it in the first place. It makes so much simpler that way.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 92 ✭✭Whatnuclearsub


    I wasted 5 minutes reading this thread


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,068 ✭✭✭Specialun


    Little Ted wrote: »
    Personally I find your 'on her period' comment just pure w*nkerish but you're not the first and won't be the last stupid fool to make comments like that so I don't really let it bother me

    in the same way if people's drama irritates you then don't participate. You clearly wanted in on the 'drama' initially when you asked what he's 'buzz' (:rolleyes:) was. It was only when you deemed her drama to be of an insufficient level of drama that you opted out.

    Some people are very emotional and don't necessarily mean to be drama queens/kings but can't really help it, and there are people who love the attention, and there are people who hate unnecessary attention.

    So its simple - if you're not interested in the drama, don't participate in it in the first place. It makes so much simpler that way.

    It was kinda hard to avoid..small office.only way i could have avoided her was to go sit on the roof.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,952 ✭✭✭Lando Griffin


    Ag well the removal should be Saturday and the funeral Sunday so she won't be skiving off work so it must be real.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 955 ✭✭✭Scruffles


    people who dislike others so much for being attention seeking or dramatic are usualy resentful of not being the centre of attention themselves,who cares what others get up to if theyre not causing trouble?-if dont like her personality then move on and stop focusing on it otherwise are the one who people will start to see as having attention issues;resenting anyone else for being centre of attention-they wont see her as the problem.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,908 ✭✭✭✭padd b1975


    Ya, I hate this, like are you trying to be cool?
    I suppose you could call it a deadly buzz.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,630 ✭✭✭Zen65


    You can't answer a question with a question...:cool:

    Can you not?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 911 ✭✭✭cbreeze


    I wasted 5 minutes reading this thread

    Me too. Pity Boards.ie does not have an icon for the opposite of 'thanks' - that would save a a lot of time, maybe a thumbs down symbol.

    Going back to the OP - people can get upset for very little reason - there might be an underlying cause and the incident OP referred to could have been the trigger.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,332 ✭✭✭tatli_lokma


    Specialun wrote: »
    It was kinda hard to avoid..small office.only way i could have avoided her was to go sit on the roof.

    So you couldn't have just gone back to your desk and got on with your work? It was a requirement imposed by the size of your office that meant you had to partake in the silliness?

    I've too often worked with silly people who love the drama even to the point of jumping on the coat tails of other people's genuine dramas just so they could get some of the attention. Yes these people are irritating, but no more than you allow them to be. If you don't want to participate in the nonsense then don't. It really is that simple. All you've probably done is added to her drama cos now she can create a drama about how you reacted to her sorry situation, and aren't you horrible?? These people are just best avoided in general - leave someone else to pander to their self absorbed non-issues.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,186 ✭✭✭BUBBLE WRAP


    padd b1975 wrote: »
    I suppose you could call it a deadly buzz.

    Deadly buzz from the gear...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,928 ✭✭✭Renegade Mechanic


    Deadly buzz from the gear...

    Yea boi:D


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