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How old is too old to be chasing 18 year olds?

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  • #62
    Daveysil15
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,301 ✭✭✭Daveysil15


    Femme_Fatale wrote: »
    Are you talking about f'ucking calves or what? If women are not single or not into you (a way of addressing that might be to stop... you know, thinking of women as pieces of meat?) it's perhaps time to stop taking it personally and feeling you're being denied your "entitlement".

    Now hold on a second. I never once referred to them as a piece of meat. I was merely pointing out that there are not as many single women my age. Jesus... keep your hair on.


  • #63
    TheMilkyPirate
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,114 ✭✭✭TheMilkyPirate


    Femme_Fatale wrote: »
    Calling 18-year-old girls "a bit of fresh" makes you look bad-ass.

    Bless.

    It wouldn't even enter the head of the vast majority of 18-year-old girls to shag a fella older than his early 20s, so all the "being familiar with shagging 'dirty little eager' 18-year-olds" stuff here is mostly... lies. :)

    From what I've observed, girls in their late teens who'd get involved with a much older guy, whether it be a relationship or just sex, tend to be really mature for their age, and the guy tends not to be a brainless gimp basing his life on what "the lads" think.

    Bullshit. Maybe that was the case when you were a young one but it's far from the truth now.

    Why is it so hard to believe that a man can get a girl of 18?


  • #64
    Femme_Fatale
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,628 ✭✭✭Femme_Fatale


    baraca wrote: »
    Bullshit. Maybe that was the case when you were a young one but it's far from the truth now.

    Why is it so hard to believe that a man can get a girl of 18?
    I'm not saying it doesn't happen at all - it does. But there is no way for a second I believe it's a very common occurrence.
    Just all talk. ;)


  • #65
    batistuta9
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,535 ✭✭✭batistuta9


    Femme_Fatale wrote: »
    I'm not saying it doesn't happen at all - it does. But there is no way for a second I believe it's a very common occurrence.
    Just all talk. ;)

    why do you not believe it?


  • #66
    GalwayGuy2
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,269 ✭✭✭GalwayGuy2


    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Femme_Fatale viewpost.gif
    I'm not saying it doesn't happen at all - it does. But there is no way for a second I believe it's a very common occurrence.
    Just all talk. ;)

    why do you not believe it?

    Think it's her own personal opinion tbh. In other words, "All talk" ;)


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  • #67
    Femme_Fatale
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,628 ✭✭✭Femme_Fatale


    batistuta9 wrote: »
    why do you not believe it?
    Why are you so eager to believe it's a regular occurrence?


  • #68
    amg-slurp
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 141 ✭✭amg-slurp


    I'm a 28 year old male. It is a regular enough occorunce.

    And the ones that are into older guys blame the fact that younger guys are immature.

    So maybe it's the girls who mature quicker, are into older guys. Some see it as a challenge tho, just to get an older guy. Plus you have to be very careful, 18 is young, but a 16 year old lookin older is worse!


  • #69
    Daveysil15
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,301 ✭✭✭Daveysil15


    amg-slurp wrote: »
    Plus you have to be very careful, 18 is young, but a 16 year old lookin older is worse!

    She told me she was 18 Garda, I swear.


  • #70
    batistuta9
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,535 ✭✭✭batistuta9


    Femme_Fatale wrote: »
    Why are you so eager to believe it's a regular occurrence?

    I'm not, i couldn't care if it never happened

    I just want to know why your coming on here acting like a know it all for all 18/19 year old girls as if you have the knowledge of their thinkings on men & knowledge of the age of their sexual partners


  • #71
    TheMilkyPirate
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,114 ✭✭✭TheMilkyPirate


    Femme_Fatale wrote: »
    Why are you so eager to believe it's a regular occurrence?

    Because it is.


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  • #72
    bodice ripper
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭bodice ripper


    I was born too old for chasing 18 year olds....


  • #73
    Royal Irish
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,401 ✭✭✭Royal Irish


    I used to have a 5 year rule. I wouldn't shag anyone 5 years younger or 5 years older than me. Now that am 30 this rule has gone out the window and my last ride was with a 19 year old.


  • #74
    Vito Corleone
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,753 ✭✭✭Vito Corleone


    April O Neill wrote: »
    IME, 18-19 year old women hooking up with men 25 and over is quite common actually.

    I've just completed my LC and out of all the girls I know only one is going out with someone significantly older. She's nearly 20, he's about 25 and they've been going out for 2 years. A lad in his 3rd year in college (21 y/o probably) hooked up with a girl in my school (she'd be about 17) and he got a lot of slagging for it. It's not half as common as you make out at all.


  • #75
    Femme_Fatale
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,628 ✭✭✭Femme_Fatale


    Vito Corleone wrote: »
    I've just completed my LC and out of all the girls I know only one is going out with someone significantly older. She's nearly 20, he's about 25 and they've been going out for 2 years. A lad in his 3rd year in college (21 y/o probably) hooked up with a girl in my school (she'd be about 17) and he got a lot of slagging for it. It's not half as common as you make out at all.
    Especially when you hear so often how teenage girls are annoying and idiotic.
    It is a peer thing, to fit in with "the lads", to go on about how you like chasing after young ones... all that matters is that "the lads" high-five you. :pac:
    God forbid just having your own mind and just going for whomever you find attractive, whatever age. :)


  • #76
    April O Neill
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,305 ✭✭✭April O Neill


    Vito Corleone wrote: »
    I've just completed my LC and out of all the girls I know only one is going out with someone significantly older. She's nearly 20, he's about 25 and they've been going out for 2 years. A lad in his 3rd year in college (21 y/o probably) hooked up with a girl in my school (she'd be about 17) and he got a lot of slagging for it. It's not half as common as you make out at all.

    In my circle, it was. :) Experiences are going to differ on this.


  • #77
    mitosis
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,996 ✭✭✭mitosis


    When they are no longer interested, that is when you are too old. Wayne Dundon too old, Silvio Berlusconi not too old :pac:


  • #78
    moc moc a moc
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,298 ✭✭✭moc moc a moc


    pablomakaveli wrote: »
    "Well im shagging an 18 year old and your not".

    How about we change this (including grammatical corrections) to:
    pablomakaveli wrote: »
    "Well, I'm shagging a 16-year-old and you're not".

    Not a great response, is it? They should both sound pretty much the same to a man in his late 20s who wants to consider himself mature.


  • #79
    huey1975
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 494 ✭✭huey1975


    Royal Irish wrote: »
    I used to have a 5 year rule. I wouldn't shag anyone 5 years younger or 5 years older than me. Now that am 30 this rule has gone out the window and my last ride was with a 19 year old.

    Probably 10 years ago


  • #80
    Legs.Eleven
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,987 ✭✭✭Legs.Eleven


    I remember my brother (who's twelve year older than me) had a few creepy friends back in the day who must've had a thing for me back then. These were fellas approaching 30 and they'd stare (gawk) at me in my local whenever I was there and tried to flirt with me and all I saw was a bunch of creepy auld fellas hitting on me and I was more repulsed than anything.

    They remind me of a few of the guys posting on here referring to young women as fresh meat and "dirty little eager 18 year olds" (ugggh shudder!!). I was well aware of their intentions and just because I was young didn't mean my "Creep-O-Meter" was on the blink. In fact, I'd say it was in overdrive back then.


    People score younger people all the time (my own boyfriend is ten years older than me) but creepiness at any age is always a turn off. Be careful fellas.


  • #81
    lefthooker
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,763 ✭✭✭lefthooker


    If you can balance the self gratification/self loathing are ya ever to old for shagging an 18 yr old.

    Cos who's going to complain too much over a fit 18 ye old coming onto them. Not me anyway


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  • #82
    Daveysil15
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,301 ✭✭✭Daveysil15


    Legs.Eleven wrote: »
    I remember my brother (who's twelve year older than me) had a few creepy friends back in the day who must've had a thing for me back then. These were fellas approaching 30 and they'd stare (gawk) at me in my local whenever I was there and tried to flirt with me and all I saw was a bunch of creepy auld fellas hitting on me and I was more repulsed than anything.

    They remind me of a few of the guys posting on here referring to young women as fresh meat and "dirty little eager 18 year olds" (ugggh shudder!!). I was well aware of their intentions and just because I was young didn't mean my "Creep-O-Meter" was on the blink. In fact, I'd say it was in overdrive back then.


    People score younger people all the time (my own boyfriend is ten years older than me) but creepiness at any age is always a turn off. Be careful fellas.

    It's nice that you emphasised the 'a few' part. That's very important. :)


  • #83
    pablomakaveli
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,752 ✭✭✭pablomakaveli


    moc moc a moc wrote: »
    How about we change this (including grammatical corrections) to:



    Not a great response, is it? They should both sound pretty much the same to a man in his late 20s who wants to consider himself mature.

    And being a grammar nazi is a sign of maturity then?


  • #84
    Royal Irish
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,401 ✭✭✭Royal Irish


    Femme_Fatale wrote: »
    all that matters is that "the lads" high-five you. :pac:

    Yep its all about the high five with the lads. Get in there!!


  • #85
    clairefontaine
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,390 ✭✭✭clairefontaine


    Legs.Eleven wrote: »
    I remember my brother (who's twelve year older than me) had a few creepy friends back in the day who must've had a thing for me back then. These were fellas approaching 30 and they'd stare (gawk) at me in my local whenever I was there and tried to flirt with me and all I saw was a bunch of creepy auld fellas hitting on me and I was more repulsed than anything.

    They remind me of a few of the guys posting on here referring to young women as fresh meat and "dirty little eager 18 year olds" (ugggh shudder!!). I was well aware of their intentions and just because I was young didn't mean my "Creep-O-Meter" was on the blink. In fact, I'd say it was in overdrive back then.


    People score younger people all the time (my own boyfriend is ten years older than me) but creepiness at any age is always a turn off. Be careful fellas.

    When I was 18 I looked like I was 14. Talk about a creepo meter.


  • #86
    Daveysil15
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,301 ✭✭✭Daveysil15


    clairefontaine wrote: »
    When I was 18 I looked like I was 14. Talk about a creepo meter.

    It can be so hard to tell these days. And girls are maturing a lot quicker now too.


  • #87
    mattjack
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,389 ✭✭✭mattjack


    Daveysil15 wrote: »
    It can be so hard to tell these days. And girls are maturing a lot quicker now too.

    No , its not difficult , if you're not sure .. stay away.


  • #88
    dobman88
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    Jail bait


  • #89
    Royal Irish
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,401 ✭✭✭Royal Irish


    mattjack wrote: »
    No , its not difficult , if you're not sure .. stay away.

    Or just ask to see ID.


  • #90
    jaffacakesyum
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,207 ✭✭✭jaffacakesyum


    mattjack wrote: »
    No , its not difficult , if you're not sure .. stay away.

    This. I'm bisexual and was at pride yesterday and the amount of younger lesbians dressing like they are older is unreal. So I know what guys are talking about. They are dressing more "fashionably" and wearing more make up than we did when we were their age. So it is harder. But it's not half as hard as a lot of guys make it out to be. A few young girls chatted to me yesterday and there was no way I was having any of it. They could have well been 18 year olds who just look young (there's plenty of them too) but they were 16. If you're not sure, stay away. Pretty simple.

    And this is coming from someone who was very horny last night and didn't get the ride :( :pac:


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  • #91
    audman
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 817 ✭✭✭audman


    jaffacakesyum wrote: »
    This. I'm bisexual and was at pride yesterday and the amount of younger lesbians dressing like they are older is unreal. So I know what guys are talking about. They are dressing more "fashionably" and wearing more make up than we did when we were their age. So it is harder. But it's not half as hard as a lot of guys make it out to be. A few young girls chatted to me yesterday and there was no way I was having any of it. They could have well been 18 year olds who just look young (there's plenty of them too) but they were 16. If you're not sure, stay away. Pretty simple.


    And this is coming from someone who was very horny last night and didn't get the ride :(
    :pac:

    PM sent ;)


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