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How old is too old to be chasing 18 year olds?

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  • #92
    Frosty McSnowballs
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    How old is too old?

    I don't understand the question.


  • #93
    The_Kew_Tour
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    I am 30 now. I dont think I could go with someone younger than 25.

    I have not dated a girl younger then me in 5-6 years though.

    Dont think it will change.

    EVENFLOW



  • #94
    Daveysil15
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    jaffacakesyum wrote: »
    This. I'm bisexual and was at pride yesterday and the amount of younger lesbians dressing like they are older is unreal. So I know what guys are talking about. They are dressing more "fashionably" and wearing more make up than we did when we were their age. So it is harder. But it's not half as hard as a lot of guys make it out to be. A few young girls chatted to me yesterday and there was no way I was having any of it. They could have well been 18 year olds who just look young (there's plenty of them too) but they were 16. If you're not sure, stay away. Pretty simple.

    And this is coming from someone who was very horny last night and didn't get the ride :( :pac:

    It depends on the venue too. My local club is very strict about I.D - over 21's. And then there's another club I know which is more like a school dishco. Some places will let anyone in because they need the money.


  • #95
    homerjay2005
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    Cathal Cloch wrote: »
    18 year olds are children in my mind.

    did you think you were a child, when you were 18? some 18 year olds are children, some are more mature than people 10 years older than them but it is a bit rich to be telling 18 year olds they were children, when you probably didnt think you were when you were that age.

    it 100% depends on the person themselves. i was with women who were 31, 32 and 39 when i was 18/19 and it didnt do me any harm!


  • #96
    The_Kew_Tour
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    homerjay2005 wrote: »
    i was with women who were 31, 32 and 39 when i was 18/19 and it didnt do me any harm!

    Legend!!!

    EVENFLOW



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  • #97
    somefeen
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,656 ✭✭✭somefeen


    jaffacakesyum wrote: »
    This. I'm bisexual and was at pride yesterday and the amount of younger lesbians dressing like they are older is unreal. So I know what guys are talking about. They are dressing more "fashionably" and wearing more make up than we did when we were their age. So it is harder. But it's not half as hard as a lot of guys make it out to be. A few young girls chatted to me yesterday and there was no way I was having any of it. They could have well been 18 year olds who just look young (there's plenty of them too) but they were 16. If you're not sure, stay away. Pretty simple.

    And this is coming from someone who was very horny last night and didn't get the ride :( :pac:

    Strange, I reckon gay youngfellas seem to dress younger than they are. :confused:


  • #98
    [Deleted User]
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    Legs.Eleven wrote: »
    I remember my brother (who's twelve year older than me) had a few creepy friends back in the day who must've had a thing for me back then. These were fellas approaching 30 and they'd stare (gawk) at me in my local whenever I was there and tried to flirt with me and all I saw was a bunch of creepy auld fellas hitting on me and I was more repulsed than anything.

    They remind me of a few of the guys posting on here referring to young women as fresh meat and "dirty little eager 18 year olds" (ugggh shudder!!). I was well aware of their intentions and just because I was young didn't mean my "Creep-O-Meter" was on the blink. In fact, I'd say it was in overdrive back then.

    I could have written that. :)

    When I was 18 I thought I knew everything and that I was as mature as someone 10 years older. I'm not even 10 years older now, but I cringe when I think of how worldly I thought I was :) I wasn't worldly, but I knew predators when I met them.

    It was creepy then, its still creepy now that we're all older - because the creepy ones tend to stay creepy and age just makes it worse.

    I don't think they know how repulsive they are to a lot of young girls, or maybe they just don't care.


  • #99
    Legs.Eleven
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    somefeen wrote: »
    Strange, I reckon gay youngfellas seem to dress younger than they are. :confused:

    She's talking about gay women from what I can gather.


  • #100
    jaffacakesyum
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,207 ✭✭✭jaffacakesyum


    somefeen wrote: »
    Strange, I reckon gay youngfellas seem to dress younger than they are. :confused:

    I'm talking about gay/bi women. I don't know about gay men...wouldn't say they dress like young fellas, they just dress, well....gay. The gay looking ones anyway. Did I say the word gay enough? GAY.


  • #101
    Wacker The Attacker
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,473 ✭✭✭Wacker The Attacker


    harry Bailey esq wrote: »
    im 31,my last two flings were with girls in their early 20s.i find there is a severe shortage of single women my age,and the ones that are single seem to want to jump into a serious relationship right from the get go.that's just my opinion though

    I agree. Chicks need to stop treating their box like some sort of national treasure.


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  • #102
    Wacker The Attacker
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    Cathal Cloch wrote: »
    18 year olds are children in my mind.

    They're adults outside your mind. In the strict legal sense at least


  • #103
    Royal Irish
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    The_Kew_Tour wrote: »
    Legend!!!

    When I was 20 I was with a 38 year old lady. She was from Malaysia and she had a willy.

    Does that make me a legend also ?


  • #104
    Legs.Eleven
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    Wacker The Attacker wrote: »
    I agree. Chicks need to stop treating their box like some sort of national treasure.


    How's the wife, Wacker? ;)


  • #105
    Wacker The Attacker
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,473 ✭✭✭Wacker The Attacker


    Legs.Eleven wrote: »
    I remember my brother (who's twelve year older than me) had a few creepy friends back in the day who must've had a thing for me back then. These were fellas approaching 30 and they'd stare (gawk) at me in my local whenever I was there and tried to flirt with me and all I saw was a bunch of creepy auld fellas hitting on me and I was more repulsed than anything.

    They remind me of a few of the guys posting on here referring to young women as fresh meat and "dirty little eager 18 year olds" (ugggh shudder!!). I was well aware of their intentions and just because I was young didn't mean my "Creep-O-Meter" was on the blink. In fact, I'd say it was in overdrive back then.


    People score younger people all the time (my own boyfriend is ten years older than me) but creepiness at any age is always a turn off. Be careful fellas.

    Your boyfriend must like it medium rare.


  • #106
    Wacker The Attacker
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,473 ✭✭✭Wacker The Attacker


    Legs.Eleven wrote: »
    How's the wife, Wacker? ;)

    Still checking up on me? Very wifely


  • #107
    [Deleted User]
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    Wacker The Attacker wrote: »
    I agree. Chicks need to stop treating their box like some sort of national treasure.

    It's not that they think their bodies are national treasures. Maybe they just don't want YOU. Ever wonder why that might be?

    Here's a few clues. It's not because you don't drive a Porsche and it's not because you don't look like Brad Pitt/Peter Andre/Whoever.

    This thread is glimpse into the psyche of the terminally romantically unsucessful, and it's a dark, hostile and ugly place.


  • #108
    Wacker The Attacker
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,473 ✭✭✭Wacker The Attacker


    Candie wrote: »
    It's not that they think their bodies are national treasures. Maybe they just don't want YOU. Ever wonder why that might be?

    Here's a few clues. It's not because you don't drive a Porsche and it's not because you don't look like Brad Pitt/Peter Andre/Whoever.

    This thread is glimpse into the psyche of the terminally romantically unsucessful, and it's a dark, hostile and ugly place.

    That bit is clear


  • #109
    Legs.Eleven
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    Wacker The Attacker wrote: »
    Still checking up on me? Very wifely


    :) Yep.


  • #110
    Legs.Eleven
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    Wacker The Attacker wrote: »
    Your boyfriend must like it medium rare.


    He's a vegetarian.


  • #111
    pharmaton
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    Femme_Fatale wrote: »
    I actually don't see anything wrong with a person who's much older having an encounter or relationship with an 18-year-old, provided they don't have a horrible attitude about it, like on this thread. If you genuinely fancy or like someone, age shouldn't be a barrier to giving it a try IMO. It's the using it as a points-scoring exercise with "the gang" or viewing the 18-year-old as "fresh meat"... how pitiful is that?

    All this talk of really dirty, eager 18-year-olds seems more inspired by porn than real life too.
    I'll probably be forever alone but because I have a 19 year old daughter anything in or around that age is off limits for me. I met someone last year who I thought was 25/26, which I thought was pushing it, when I found out they were 22 it all just felt a bit wrong and made my excuses. (I'm on the forty side of 30)


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  • #112
    Wacker The Attacker
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,473 ✭✭✭Wacker The Attacker


    Legs.Eleven wrote: »
    He's a vegetarian.


    Vagatarian


  • #113
    Legs.Eleven
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    Wacker The Attacker wrote: »
    Vagatarian


    That too. ;)


  • #114
    Kidchameleon
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    They be talkin about this thread on FM104 open mic


  • #115
    Thom Merrilin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 83 ✭✭Thom Merrilin


    Kidchameleon wrote: »
    They be talkin about this thread on FM104 open mic

    After Hours is a valuable source of topics for Fm104 lately!


  • #116
    Czarcasm
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    Wacker The Attacker wrote: »
    I agree. Chicks need to stop treating their box like some sort of national treasure.


    I know the answer to this will probably be that you really don't give a shìt what they think, but I've almost filled my dumb fcuk opinion quota for the day so I could entertain another one before I call it a night, so here goes -


    Would you want to sleep with a girl who thought you weren't God's gift and didn't treat your dick like it was the staff of eternal life, your cum like it were droplets of eternal youth essence?

    If the answer is "Hell No! I expect to be treated with respect!", then why would you expect that any girl should think any different to yourself?


  • #117
    Call Me Jimmy
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    Czarcasm wrote: »


    Would you want to sleep with a girl who thought you weren't God's gift and didn't treat your dick like it was the staff of eternal life, your cum like it were droplets of eternal youth essence?

    Em... what's the correct answer to this. thanks


  • #118
    Trebor176
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    Well, I was interested in an 18 year old when I was 23. She was gorgeous, but things didn't go anywhere. I was interested in another 18 year old when I was 25, but the whole thing ended up being a disaster. Things didn't go anywhere there either. Just a messy situation. Now at 27, I will not go below 22/23. The oldest I'd go for, though, would be 30.


  • #119
    ElChe32
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    Alpha Dog 1 wrote: »
    Don't think you can be too old to be chasing 18 year olds, sure who doesn't like a bit of fresh?

    I was with a 19 yo before Christmas and it was the most I've ejaculated in some time.

    Legend.


  • #120
    jaffacakesyum
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,207 ✭✭✭jaffacakesyum


    Kidchameleon wrote: »
    They be talkin about this thread on FM104 open mic

    Woo we're celebrities


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  • #121
    Czarcasm
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    Call Me Jimmy wrote: »
    Em... what's the correct answer to this. thanks


    Well Jimmy (You don't mind if I call you Jimmy, right? :D), it's a question to ask yourself, there is no "right" or "wrong" answer, only what matters to you.

    I wouldn't expect any girl to lower her standards like Wacker suggests, but then his username is quite appropriate as the only person attacking his wacker is probably himself, at least if his posts are anything to go by!


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