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Should I wish my ex a Happy birthday

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,829 ✭✭✭Nemeses


    I'd say the birthdays been and gone..

    To the pub!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,717 ✭✭✭✭JonathanAnon


    OP, dont just text her ... Dress up in your Sunday best, buy her a present and head over to her house with it... Because if she only gets a text, she may be left in some ambiguity as to whether you are still pining over her or not.... And you wouldnt want to do that to her, not on her birthday..

    (Also, DO NOT even consider texting her.. leave it the hell alone..)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,610 ✭✭✭irishgirl19


    Its sunday now.what did u do


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,646 ✭✭✭✭qo2cj1dsne8y4k


    Tenner says she got the text and a birthday ride!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 35,514 ✭✭✭✭efb


    2) isn't really going to happen, ever... Now is it...


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,324 ✭✭✭Alter-Ego


    If you have snap chat, just send her a picture of your testicles to let her know what she's missing and then get back together because you're clearly still into this chick...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 38,227 ✭✭✭✭Guy:Incognito


    Jockey Jamie Spencer was being interviewed after a race by his ex-wife, reporter Emma. At the end of the interview she said it was his birthday, so she wished him a Happy birthday. He replied "Thanks, but I'm still not as old as you" Best put down ever!

    And considering they got divorced because he was having an affair he was clearly occupying the moral high ground to begin with., oh wait......


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,641 ✭✭✭bgrizzley


    6541 wrote: »
    My feelings to her most of the time is that she was a cheating money grabbing Bit*h. The odd time I miss her.

    you should grow a beard...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,310 ✭✭✭✭the_syco


    6541 wrote: »
    she was a cheating money grabbing Bit*h.
    Keep on walking, and don't look back!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,227 ✭✭✭gifted


    6541 wrote: »
    Okay folks, thanks for your replies, some of them are brilliant.
    The birthday I speak off is on Sunday, as I am going on a lads weekend away filled with booze two things may happen

    1) Wake up Sunday morning feeling depressed and lonely and text !!!
    2) Wake up Sunday morning with a smoking hot babe in my hotel room take a picture of us and send it with title screw you x !!

    Only joking, but from the advice here I do see it is resounding no do not text, I won't text. I will also provide an update on Monday.

    Also any smoking hot babe's in Dingle this weekend care to help me not text !!!! Well I have to get over her ;)

    Ain't no smoking hot babes in dingle dude, used go down there most weekends in my 20's, meet up with a few lads and head to the hillgrove to go Hogging..plenty of hogs down there...:D...can't beat a good hog :D...god I miss hogging


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,389 ✭✭✭mattjack


    OP , put her number up here and let us text her , sheesh some of you Boardsie's
    should know better.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,462 ✭✭✭✭WoollyRedHat


    And considering they got divorced because he was having an affair he was clearly occupying the moral high ground to begin with., oh wait......

    Neck like a jockey's bollox.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,015 ✭✭✭6541


    Okay here is my update, Drove down to Dingle, it was a long reflective drive. Went to pub for the weekend basically. Had a massive time and guess what, the birthday is today and as off 9:22 pm I have not texted her. Looks like I have held tough !!! Thanks AH for your advise. I actually hope she is p*ssed that I ignored her !!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,829 ✭✭✭Nemeses


    6541 wrote: »
    Okay here is my update, Drove down to Dingle, it was a long reflective drive. Went to pub for the weekend basically. Had a massive time and guess what, the birthday is today and as off 9:22 pm I have not texted her. Looks like I have held tough !!! Thanks AH for your advise. I actually hope she is p*ssed that I ignored her !!!

    Now go get yourself the ride.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,802 ✭✭✭beks101


    6541 wrote: »

    My feelings to her most of the time is that she was a cheating money grabbing Bit*h.

    Because of this, NO.

    There are exes who I have nothing but respect and good will for, who I will treat accordingly. And then there's the one who I wouldn't p1ss on if he was on fire.

    Only wish the ones that you actually hope have a happy birthday, a happy birthday.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,324 ✭✭✭JustAThought


    6541 wrote: »
    Okay here is my update, Drove down to Dingle, it was a long reflective drive. Went to pub for the weekend basically. Had a massive time and guess what, the birthday is today and as off 9:22 pm I have not texted her. Looks like I have held tough !!! Thanks AH for your advise. I actually hope she is p*ssed that I ignored her !!!


    Were you hoping she would wish you one & that it would mean she still " cared". There are a lot of manipulative users out there who unfortunately are female. Don't lumber yourself with this one because she once seemed decent, but really wasn't.

    Happy Birthday. Hope this year will be great for you & that you fall on your feet with a fantastic new girlfriend who is not only hot but also a great person . You're worth it !


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 740 ✭✭✭junior_apollo


    Were you hoping she would wish you one & that it would mean she still " cared". There are a lot of manipulative users out there who unfortunately are female. Don't lumber yourself with this one because she once seemed decent, but really wasn't.

    Happy Birthday. Hope this year will be great for you & that you fall on your feet with a fantastic new girlfriend who is not only hot but also a great person . You're worth it !

    I think you may need to read the OP's opener... :rolleyes:


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