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I want to ask the bar man out

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  • #242
    BrianG23
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 402 ✭✭BrianG23


    rockbeast wrote: »
    And what's more- they'll respect you for it:D
    It displays confidence in your abilities to pull. I don't get it really, i've just attempted(to talk I mean) on the wrong girls or something.


  • #243
    gowley
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 629 ✭✭✭gowley


    jesus if he wants to get in a row he should go to politics or something. this was a laugh before he ruined it


  • #244
    PhlegmyMoses
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,906 ✭✭✭✭PhlegmyMoses


    The thing about being considered creepy is that it is dependent on whether the girl finds you attractive. Brad Pitt could sit beside a girl, slowly rubbing his thighs whilst telling her that he wants to wear her skin and she'd find him less creepy than the average looking guy who simply asks her if she'd like to have a drink with him. Basically, uggos and slightly less uggos always run the creep-factor risk.


  • #245
    rockbeast
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,548 ✭✭✭rockbeast


    BrianG23 wrote: »
    It displays confidence in your abilities to pull. I don't get it really, i've just attempted(to talk I mean) on the wrong girls or something.

    Try america or germany(only places i've been) - girls like being asked out by sober guys there.

    Although, be warned, it is a strange sensation asking a girl out sober and her saying yes, but when she says yes...you feel great:)


  • #246
    BBDBB
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,899 ✭✭✭✭BBDBB


    Oceanic Nebula wrote: »
    I'll break this down for you "Barney style".

    In general cheetahs are faster than dogs.

    Now, do you think the above statement means every single cheetah is faster than every single dog?

    Well done, you've just been brainwashed by the Internet to think "generalisation"'is a bad word and missed it's true meaning. Not everything is black and white son.

    save it for when Dora the Explorer asks for you opinion sunshine

    Your analogy needs work, your "statement" is neither an accurate portrayal of the original sweeping statement nor a reflection of the point you mistakenly believe I need educating upon. But nice try, seems you've been brainwashed into making assumptions about your own views and their importance. Not everyone thinks like you, get used to it son :)


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  • #247
    starlit
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,349 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    This thread has got too serious use to be fun no fun no more! :(


  • #248
    BBDBB
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,899 ✭✭✭✭BBDBB


    sorry doovdela, you are quite right, my apologies


  • #249
    dark crystal
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,962 ✭✭✭✭dark crystal


    Wait....so, OP handed the ginger barman a note and didn't even stick around to see if he agreed to the date or not?

    This is even more disappointing than when they all turned up in heaven at the end of Lost :(


  • #250
    rockbeast
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,548 ✭✭✭rockbeast


    dark crystal wrote: »
    Wait....so, OP handed the ginger barman a note and didn't even stick around to see if he agreed to the date or not?

    This is even more disappointing than when they all turned up in heaven at the end of Lost :(

    Worse than that, we're the minor characters sitting in the pews...:mad:


  • #251
    gowley
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 629 ✭✭✭gowley


    BBDBB wrote: »
    sorry doovdela, you are quite right, my apologies
    just ignore him and he will go away.


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  • #252
    FizzleSticks
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  • #253
    Chucken
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    dark crystal wrote: »
    Wait....so, OP handed the ginger barman a note and didn't even stick around to see if he agreed to the date or not?

    This is even more disappointing than when they all turned up in heaven at the end of Lost :(

    We dont know if she waited or not!
    If she was home by now she'd be online..maybe?
    So shes still at the pub?
    Lets hope shes with Ginger Philip :D


  • #254
    starlit
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,349 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    dark crystal wrote: »
    Wait....so, OP handed the ginger barman a note and didn't even stick around to see if he agreed to the date or not?

    This is even more disappointing than when they all turned up in heaven at the end of Lost :(

    That sums it up but we still dont know yet what happened after! ;)

    We know soon! Her phone battery was low so be later before we know anything. Did she wait for his answer we wont know till she returns!

    Still not get 'lost'!


  • #255
    BrianG23
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 402 ✭✭BrianG23


    dark crystal wrote: »
    Wait....so, OP handed the ginger barman a note and didn't even stick around to see if he agreed to the date or not?

    This is even more disappointing than when they all turned up in heaven at the end of Lost :(

    Don't worry...it might not end this way...maybe
    Props for doing something at least OP


  • #256
    Oceanic Nebula
    Site Banned Posts: 16 ✭Oceanic Nebula


    BBDBB wrote: »
    save it for when Dora the Explorer asks for you opinion sunshine

    Your analogy needs work, your "statement" is neither an accurate portrayal of the original sweeping statement nor a reflection of the point you mistakenly believe I need educating upon. But nice try, seems you've been brainwashed into making assumptions about your own views and their importance. Not everyone thinks like you, get used to it son :)


    No you are incorrect my analogy is valid.

    When someone says x group of people has y quality they typically mean on average or in comparison to other groups of people. Pointing out that it is a generalisation is pointless, it is supposed to be a generalisation.

    Do you actually think different groups of people can't be different?


  • #257
    gowley
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 629 ✭✭✭gowley


    Chucken wrote: »
    We dont know if she waited or not!
    If she was home by now she'd be online..maybe?
    So shes still at the pub?
    Lets hope shes with Ginger Philip :D

    maybe shes busy with him at home. waiting for her to let us know how she got on. it could be a long wait


  • #258
    rockbeast
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,548 ✭✭✭rockbeast


    anyhoo, I just did some minor stalking there and it turns out that itwasntme post a while back that she thinks that gingers are hot.

    So, was she looking for a ginger tonight and the barman was the first she met OR was it just a random "love at first sight"?

    Open to the floor...


  • #259
    starlit
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,349 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    Could be either possibility or she just has a thing for gingers! :)


  • #260
    rockbeast
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,548 ✭✭✭rockbeast


    Oceanic Nebula wrote: »
    No you are incorrect my analogy is valid.

    When someone says x group of people has y quality they typically mean on average or in comparison to other groups of people. Pointing out that it is a generalisation is pointless, it is supposed to be a generalisation.

    Do you actually think different groups of people can't be different?

    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=328

    You should probably have a word over there. Semantics and what not.


  • #261
    Chucken
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    gowley wrote: »
    maybe shes busy with him at home. waiting for her to let us know how she got on. it could be a long wait


    Its not closing time yet so hes still at work!
    rockbeast wrote: »
    anyhoo, I just did some minor stalking there and it turns out that itwasntme post a while back that she thinks that gingers are hot.

    So, was she looking for a ginger tonight and the barman was the first she met OR was it just a random "love at first sight"?

    Open to the floor...


    Hmmmm. Right, she said its her favourite pub but obviously didnt know Philip before so it must have been random.

    Its fate!!!!


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  • #262
    from_atozinc
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,784 ✭✭✭from_atozinc


    rockbeast wrote: »
    anyhoo, I just did some minor stalking there and it turns out that itwasntme post a while back that she thinks that gingers are hot.

    So, was she looking for a ginger tonight and the barman was the first she met OR was it just a random "love at first sight"?

    Open to the floor...

    Think she said at the start of the thread that she has known this bar lad a while from going to the bar etc.


  • #263
    starlit
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,349 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    If it late bar wont close til nearly 2 or later when it bank hol and sat night and a city.


  • #264
    starlit
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,349 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    Id like to know the name of this pub maybe been in it!?


  • #265
    oryxandcrake
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24 ✭oryxandcrake


    rockbeast wrote: »
    anyhoo, I just did some minor stalking there and it turns out that itwasntme post a while back that she thinks that gingers are hot.

    So, was she looking for a ginger tonight and the barman was the first she met OR was it just a random "love at first sight"?

    Open to the floor...

    Yeah but there was an element of risk involved in asking this ginger out. If he said no, she would be embarrassed to return to this bar that she likes.

    He must be SOMEWHAT special. Or maybe it's just that he's better looking than the average ginger guy and that's that.


  • #266
    rockbeast
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,548 ✭✭✭rockbeast


    Chucken wrote: »

    Its fate!!!!

    It's late(!!!!) and there's no time like closing time!


  • #267
    starlit
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,349 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    Closing time best time often hook ups start there or chat ups.


  • #268
    Chucken
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    oryxandcrake wrote: »
    Yeah but there was an element of risk involved in asking this ginger out. If he said no, she would be embarrassed to return to this bar that she likes.

    He must be SOMEWHAT special. Or maybe it's just that he's better looking than the average ginger guy and that's that.

    The colour of his hair is nothing to do with it.

    I think she was smitten :)


  • #269
    rockbeast
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,548 ✭✭✭rockbeast


    oryxandcrake wrote: »
    Yeah but there was an element of risk involved in asking this ginger out. If he said no, she would be embarrassed to return to this bar that she likes.

    He must be SOMEWHAT special. Or maybe it's just that he's better looking than the average ginger guy and that's that.

    We should have asked her who he looks like...

    Two of the best looking girls i've ever gone out with were reds. Stunning. so i'm sure there's an equal for good looking bloke reds out there. somewhere. anyone?


  • #270
    dark crystal
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,962 ✭✭✭✭dark crystal


    oryxandcrake wrote: »
    Yeah but there was an element of risk involved in asking this ginger out. If he said no, she would be embarrassed to return to this bar that she likes.

    He must be SOMEWHAT special. Or maybe it's just that he's better looking than the average ginger guy and that's that.

    He had a beautiful mouth apparantly. I keep picturing Glen Hansard with Damien Lewis' mouth now.

    Damien Lewis is a pretty hot ginger.


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  • #271
    gowley
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 629 ✭✭✭gowley


    so is that girl in love hate. mmmmmmm


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