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Wheelchair user refused entry to Dublin Nightclub.

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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,279 ✭✭✭kidneyfan


    DeanAustin wrote: »
    Aha so you are on the wind up or one of this guy's friends.
    I am no more on the wind up than anyone else and don't know the young wheelchair bound man who wanted to enjoy an evening out with friends. Friends who were mocked by a physically fit able legged bouncer.

    The bouncers should have carried this young man down the stairs and should have known how to do that.

    The chap that lost his job is from the bad old days of bouncers and not the new style professional security association vetted professionals.

    There has been a marked improvement in door standards over the past three years which makes this instance of rudeness so disappointing.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 381 ✭✭Gorilla Rising


    kidneyfan wrote: »
    The bouncers should have carried this young man down the stairs and should have known how to do that.

    The chap that lost his job is from the bad old days of bouncers and not the new style professional security association vetted professionals.

    Yes. They should've closed the doors in order to carry him down the stairs even though there are questions on whether they're insured to do so or not.

    How professional.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,030 ✭✭✭Amalgam


    kidneyfan wrote: »
    The chap that lost his job is from the bad old days of bouncers and not the new style professional security association vetted professionals.

    You're making assumptions there..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,960 ✭✭✭DeanAustin


    kidneyfan wrote: »
    I am no more on the wind up than anyone else and don't know the young wheelchair bound man who wanted to enjoy an evening out with friends. Friends who were mocked by a physically fit able legged bouncer.

    The bouncers should have carried this young man down the stairs and should have known how to do that.

    The chap that lost his job is from the bad old days of bouncers and not the new style professional security association vetted professionals.

    There has been a marked improvement in door standards over the past three years which makes this instance of rudeness so disappointing.

    I don't believe you. You've repeatedly mentioned his attractive young friends, made reference to their legs and behinds, and even said he might have been crying.

    Come off it mate, you're either a WUM or one of those girls.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 689 ✭✭✭Mr Whirly


    kidneyfan wrote: »
    The bouncers should have carried this young man down the stairs and should have known how to do that.
    .

    Why? Have you ever carried a stranger in a wheelchair? If I was asked to do it I wouldn't.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 304 ✭✭The Road Runner


    veep wrote: »
    I absolutely agree he shouldn't have lost his job and the club are using him as a scapegoat but I'm not seeing how that is Graham's fault. He couldn't have known they would do that.

    To be fair, I'm willing to consider that he may have been pissed that he was refused entry to the club, went home and gave them a piece of his mind on their facebook page. Then the whole thing blew up and went beyond any control he had and into the hands of the baying rent-a-mob.

    I think the knee jerk sacking of the bouncer was wrong too. It says more about the times we live in, that you can't look like you are discriminating a minority, and they went way overboard in trying to head off any perceived backlash at the pass.

    The thing that just isn't sitting well with me is the further stoking of this. You asked, was there more? I don't know as I'm only getting my info from this thread.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,442 ✭✭✭✭Grayson


    kidneyfan wrote: »
    I am no more on the wind up than anyone else and don't know the young wheelchair bound man who wanted to enjoy an evening out with friends. Friends who were mocked by a physically fit able legged bouncer.

    The bouncers should have carried this young man down the stairs and should have known how to do that.

    The chap that lost his job is from the bad old days of bouncers and not the new style professional security association vetted professionals.

    There has been a marked improvement in door standards over the past three years which makes this instance of rudeness so disappointing.

    So Graham. Busy day?


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Music Moderators, Politics Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 22,424 CMod ✭✭✭✭Dravokivich



    What did you honestly expect?

    They'd already been convicted by a bunch of complete and utter morons on FB.

    It's hardly in an establishment's interest to argue back and have the issue escalate even further. God knows what they'd be branded then.

    It was purely an exercise in damage limitation.

    There was that hotel in Waterford that had a great way to handle damage limitation. By throwing out the toerags chasing a nusicne and when pestered, called it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,972 ✭✭✭orestes


    veep wrote: »
    I absolutely agree he shouldn't have lost his job and the club are using him as a scapegoat but I'm not seeing how that is Graham's fault. He couldn't have known they would do that.

    I'd be willing to bet that he wanted it to happen. He got refused and decided to show the bouncer who's boss by acting petty.

    It's a perfect formula.

    A big, bad, mean bouncer refuses a poor, innocent disabled person. It's a media frenzy winner, in peoples minds it's the ultimate arsehole against the ultimate victim.

    This guy even works in media, he knew exactly what he was doing when he started his campaign, and even after he got it he kept on going.


  • Moderators, Regional East Moderators Posts: 23,257 Mod ✭✭✭✭GLaDOS


    I know it's been covered several times in the thread, but they'd be mad to carry him down or have his friends carry him down. He'd be ****ed if there was a fire. If the place truely isn't wheelchair accessible, it was the right call to not let him in.

    Cake, and grief counseling, will be available at the conclusion of the test



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,442 ✭✭✭✭Grayson


    For what it matters. I've probably carried between 50 to 100 people in wheelchairs, even if most of the time it was into a bed.
    It's damn hard. I wouldn't have been able to do it without training, I probably would have hurt them or me. I certainly would never have tried it down a steep set of stairs.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 689 ✭✭✭Mr Whirly


    I'm only speculating but I find it hard to believe that the management did not know what was going on outside. This is supposed to have happened at 11.30, the place only opens at 11, so it couldn't have been too busy. The manager must have made a decision on this and after the backlash they have blamed a bouncer.

    At the end of the day the club, bouncer or the young lad could be to blame. In my opinion it doesn't look great for the club. They should have dealt with it on the night.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 304 ✭✭The Road Runner


    I know it's been covered several times in the thread, but they'd be mad to carry him down or have his friends carry him down. He'd be ****ed if there was a fire. If the place truely isn't wheelchair accessible, it was the right call to not let him in.

    And also, it's all very well letting them carry him down at the start of the night, but a different story getting him back up at the end of the night when everyone's had a few.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 381 ✭✭Gorilla Rising


    Grayson wrote: »
    For what it matters. I've probably carried between 50 to 100 people in wheelchairs, even if most of the time it was into a bed.
    It's damn hard. I wouldn't have been able to do it without training, I probably would have hurt them or me. I certainly would never have tried it down a steep set of stairs.

    And at the risk of seeming sexist, those girls don't look up to lifting much, let alone in short skirts and high heels...down a flight of stairs. Sure it'd be harder to bring him back up!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,327 ✭✭✭Madam_X


    veep wrote: »
    The club hasn't disputed Graham's version of events. Quite the opposite, they have issued a full apology. So why are random people on the internet who have no direct involvement suggesting he is lying about something?
    An apology isn't necessarily an admission of anything. They had to issue it, due to public pressure (by idiots - on Facebook and TheJournal.ie, those who shout the loudest and say the stupidest stuff have the upper hand. People complain about Boards mods, but they are the reason this site isn't like those depressing kips).
    They capitulated to the mob, and in doing so: lied that all are welcome (clearly those in wheelchairs are not, since the venue is not equipped for them) and pinned it all on the bouncer, who was only going by what THEY instructed him.

    In fairness, Graham might be all right - some comments seem a bit harsh IMO. The lynch-mob and the club, for its spinelessness, come out the worst of all IMO.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,186 ✭✭✭✭Galwayguy35


    A guy posted on Bolgers FB page and said he was there when it happened and the bouncers said he wouldn't be insured and that is the reason he was refused.
    Bolgers friends then started screaming at the doormen and this resulted in the entire group being refused according to this guy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,803 ✭✭✭✭Mental Mickey


    A guy posted on Bolgers FB page and said he was there when it happened and the bouncers said he wouldn't be insured and that is the reason he was refused.
    Bolgers friends then started screaming at the doormen and this resulted in the entire group being refused according to this guy.


    Oops


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,727 ✭✭✭skimpydoo


    veep wrote: »
    The club hasn't disputed Graham's version of events. Quite the opposite, they have issued a full apology. So why are random people on the internet who have no direct involvement suggesting he is lying about something?
    Madison sadly took the easy way out as the bouncer is not an employee of the company. If he is not lying why orchestrate the campaign all over again today. He got an apology but I have a feeling he did not expect Madison to roll over so quickly which is why he stated earlier on twitter busy day ahead ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,787 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    Madam_X wrote: »
    An apology isn't necessarily an admission of anything.
    It could be taken as such. They shouldn't have said anything until they fully investigated the incident. I think now they will have discrimination and an unfair dismissal to deal with. I wouldn't like to be one of their employees if the company is prone to kneejerk reactions like that. Unless there is video of the incident that we haven't seen I don't know how they could be so sure so quickly.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 304 ✭✭The Road Runner


    Madam_X wrote: »

    In fairness, Graham might be all right - some comments seem a bit harsh IMO. The lynch-mob and the club, for its spinelessness, come out the worst of all IMO.

    Yeah i think people need to be careful that they don't start a witchhunt on the guy. Thus far it has been a pretty reasonable response to the situation by boards folk, unlike the facebook crowd. I think people calling him names here is out of order. After all no one really knows what went down on the night.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,597 ✭✭✭✭aloyisious


    Mr Whirly wrote: »
    I'm only speculating but I find it hard to believe that the management did not know what was going on outside. This is supposed to have happened at 11.30, the place only opens at 11, so it couldn't have been too busy. The manager must have made a decision on this and after the backlash they have blamed a bouncer.

    At the end of the day the club, bouncer or the young lad could be to blame. In my opinion it doesn't look great for the club. They should have dealt with it on the night.

    I had a read of the report in the Daily Mail covering this incident. According to it, a female manager went out to Graham at the club and apologized to him, offered to have him brought in and he refused the offer. The report also said Graham was considering seeing his solicitor about the incident.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,442 ✭✭✭✭Grayson


    And at the risk of seeming sexist, those girls don't look up to lifting much, let alone in short skirts and high heels...down a flight of stairs. Sure it'd be harder to bring him back up!

    I'm assuming you'd prefer to pick them up?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,727 ✭✭✭skimpydoo


    He was immediately given an apology and the bouncer was let go, why hasn't he accepted the apology and tried to calm down the hate campaign? Why hasn't he given any details about what happened?

    So far the only accounts are that he was refused entry, that he was drunk and abusive, and that the club's liability insurance didn't cover the bouncers carrying him down.

    Those are the only accounts I've read so far, the first from the OP, the second purportedly from the second bouncer and the third from a supposed witness.

    I guarantee that he or one of his mates will be on the Adrian Kennedy Phone Show tonight.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,442 ✭✭✭✭Grayson


    aloyisious wrote: »
    I had a read of the report in the Daily Mail covering this incident. According to it, a female manager went out to Graham at the club and apologized to him, offered to have him brought in and he refused the offer. The report also said Graham was considering seeing his solicitor about the incident.

    Do you have a link?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,597 ✭✭✭✭aloyisious


    Grayson wrote: »
    Do you have a link?

    No, sorry. I read the report in the paper at a local cafe and googled for the daily mail online. The online mail does not have the story as related in the printed-version, just most of the facebook story, which doesn't mention the female manager and her reported actions.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,727 ✭✭✭skimpydoo


    aloyisious wrote: »
    I had a read of the report in the Daily Mail covering this incident. According to it, a female manager went out to Graham at the club and apologized to him, offered to have him brought in and he refused the offer. The report also said Graham was considering seeing his solicitor about the incident.

    I think I found his lawyer


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    kidneyfan wrote: »
    I am no more on the wind up than anyone else and don't know the young wheelchair bound man who wanted to enjoy an evening out with friends. Friends who were mocked by a physically fit able legged bouncer.

    The bouncers should have carried this young man down the stairs and should have known how to do that.

    The chap that lost his job is from the bad old days of bouncers and not the new style professional security association vetted professionals.

    There has been a marked improvement in door standards over the past three years which makes this instance of rudeness so disappointing.

    Have you read this thread at all? The club was not insured to have their bouncers carry someone down the stairs. I completely believe this is true because the club I work in has the same policy and requires the customer to sign a release form to allow the security team to carry
    them up the stairs. This form waivers any responsibility from the club if the customer gets injured.

    What if one of the bouncers got injured? Or his friends, who were offered the chance to carry him? Who would be responsible then?

    Depending on the weight of Mr Bolger it could take anything from 3-4 bouncers to carry him, and anything from an extra 5-6 bouncers to do crowd control to ensure the stairs was cleared of regular customers so they didn't get in the way. How many clubs have a spare 10 bouncers to do this?

    Also, did you know that legally there has to be a certain amount of bouncers spaced out on a premises based on the capacity?
    And that if a bouncer leaves his stationed position for any reason (say, I don't know, to carry a moaning man in a wheelchair down the stairs cause he's kicking up a fuss) and an incident occurs, that bouncer is liable to not only lose his job, but also his license, because he left his position and wasn't there to stop a fight or whatever?

    I know I've already said it and I know some bouncers are asshóles, I'd have been the first to say it before working in a club but they're under waaaay more pressure than you'd think.

    They have to answer for every little incident, every slip, fall, fight, broken glass or prohibited item can cost them their job if they don't respond quick enough or in the right manner. Everyone is capable of panicking and making a rash decision.

    I think Bolger is lying, I think he's kicking up a fuss for no reason and I think he's a nasty person for costing that bouncer his job, not to mention the countless bar staff who will be let go in the coming weeks due to the amount of people who say they'll never go near the club again.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 12,720 ✭✭✭✭fullstop


    aloyisious wrote: »
    I had a read of the report in the Daily Mail covering this incident. According to it, a female manager went out to Graham at the club and apologized to him, offered to have him brought in and he refused the offer. The report also said Graham was considering seeing his solicitor about the incident.

    Can't find a link for the Daily Mail article, but in the link below (comments section) he's not getting much support, even from fellow wheelchair users

    http://www.dailyedge.ie/madison-nightclub-apology-wheelchair-827149-Mar2013/


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    kidneyfan wrote: »
    I read the whole thread and apart from one reposted page from facebook in which another bouncer alleges that the young wheelchair bound man and his attractive friends are liars there is no evidence to go against Mr Bolger. Bouncers because of the sort of job it is tend to stick together. If someone might stick a knife in your back you like to know that someone else is watching it!

    What I do see here is the sort of vile bullying that welcomes the opportunity to attack someone for being in a wheelchair.

    The weak, the lazy and those who cannot make a go of their own lives love to attack the marginalised. That's what is driving the attacks on Mr Bolger.

    I have no connection to the young man in a wheelchair at all and rarely go out to nightclubs but I feel that they should have the same rights as everyone else.

    By the way the offer to allow Mr Bolger's two female high heel wearing friends is insulting and dismissive of his right to enter the night club.

    *sniff sniff*

    yup, Sex Troll, made from bits of real troll, 60% of the time it reels people in every time.


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