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What do men really want look for in a woman

  • 14-02-2013 03:42PM
    #1
    SineadMarie
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 208 ✭✭


    Hi,

    Looking to start a new thread to help me and any other single ladies. Guess feeling a bit down in the dumps lately and being that dreaded V day also doesnt help.

    Basically is it all about the chase with men, do they not want a nice girl that is pretty good to them funny..so confused lately by a certain someone playing hot and cold and would be nice to get peoples opinions on it :D


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  • #2
    howardmarks
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 634 ✭✭✭howardmarks


    breasts


  • #3
    judgefudge
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 915 ✭✭✭judgefudge


    There is a thread on this. Men are different and want different things. End of.


  • #4
    Rabidlamb
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,202 ✭✭✭Rabidlamb


    About 8 years ago my girlfriend at the time went out & bought me beer to while I was watching the British Open golf.
    She's obviously now my wife.


  • #5
    AnarchistKen
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 129 ✭✭AnarchistKen


    PM Sent


  • #6
    Ficheall
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 9,067 ✭✭✭Ficheall


    The old chestnut:

    "Q- What men want in a woman?
    A -Their penis."

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b1qD4LtaRIU


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  • #7
    1ZRed
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    judgefudge wrote: »
    There is a thread on this. Men are different and want different things. End of.

    BS, everyone knows all men are the exact same and look for all the same things. Why else would we have so many threads like this saying so?


  • #8
    THENORTHSIDER
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 206 ✭✭THENORTHSIDER


    personality of course.


  • #9
    SineadMarie
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 208 ✭✭SineadMarie


    judgefudge wrote: »
    There is a thread on this. Men are different and want different things. End of.

    I havent seen it please feel free to close if this has already been discussed!


  • #10
    Kettleson
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,047 ✭✭✭Kettleson


    Men take a lot longer to wise up...try and spot one who isn't a male bollocks and one who has genuine respect for women and the good sense to know how lucky he is to have found you.


  • #11
    mailforkev
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,845 ✭✭✭mailforkev


    As long as you're not a crazy, just be yourself.
    And if you want something say it.

    Mind games = goodbye.


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  • #12
    SineadMarie
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 208 ✭✭SineadMarie


    A wise friend once told me let them miss you...they cant miss what they can have when they want!

    Havent even gotten a vals day text from him i guess its blowing cold week!! :(


  • #13
    SunnyDub1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,439 ✭✭✭SunnyDub1


    SineadMarie wrote: »
    Hi,

    Looking to start a new thread to help me and any other single ladies. Guess feeling a bit down in the dumps lately and being that dreaded V day also doesnt help.

    Basically is it all about the chase with men, do they not want a nice girl that is pretty good to them funny..so confused lately by a certain someone playing hot and cold and would be nice to get peoples opinions on it :D


    You are only gonna get smart arse answers here :rolleyes: it's AH !!

    But what kind of question is that ? :confused:
    not all Men or woman are the same. We all look for different things in a person, and are attractive to different personality's, looks etc.
    Some like a big smile, some like shy, some like slim, some like sexy, some like cute, some like funny, some like serious ... and so on and so on!!!

    Why would you want to be in the company of someone who plays "hot & cold" with you?
    sounds to me that he is di*k that doesn't seem interested in you, and you are just his amusement for when he is bored.
    If he was interested in you - he wouldn't treat you the way he is.
    Sorry to be blunt but that's just how I see it.


  • #14
    smash
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,808 ✭✭✭✭smash


    SineadMarie wrote: »
    Guess feeling a bit down in the dumps lately and being that dreaded V day also doesnt help.

    You should definitely bring Hallmark to court for causing you depression!


  • #15
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    I'd just like to meet a girl who's attractive cool and easy going.


  • #16
    bazza1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,274 ✭✭✭bazza1


    A pulse! :D


  • #17
    howamidifferent
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,819 ✭✭✭howamidifferent


    SineadMarie wrote: »
    Basically is it all about the chase with men, do they not want a nice girl that is pretty good to them funny.

    Not about the chase with me...
    Think all the game playing is stupid and a waste of time.
    If you like someone let them know. There's a 50% chance they'll be willing to test the water and go out/meet up...

    Also while physical looks are what first attracts most men, its definitely not the most important thing. A few minutes with boring wannabe model and I'd be gone. I find physical attractions grows on you as you begin to find the person more attractive personality wise.
    So yes, a nice girl , meaning normal, no game playing, girl next door type is for me. :D


  • #18
    SineadMarie
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 208 ✭✭SineadMarie


    smash wrote: »
    You should definitely bring Hallmark to court for causing you depression!

    Smartarse!!!!!!!!!!! Havent a clue.....


  • #19
    Sarky
    Closed Accounts Posts: 31,967 ✭✭✭✭Sarky


    What I want look for in a woman is having been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like.


  • #20
    tin79
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,270 ✭✭✭tin79


    SineadMarie wrote: »
    What do men really want look for in a woman

    Basic grammar skills? :)


  • #21
    BBDBB
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,899 ✭✭✭✭BBDBB


    they want the moon on a stick


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  • #22
    SineadMarie
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 208 ✭✭SineadMarie


    tin79 wrote: »
    Basic grammar skills? :)

    Thank you teacher!


  • #23
    smash
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,808 ✭✭✭✭smash


    SineadMarie wrote: »
    Smartarse!!!!!!!!!!! Havent a clue.....
    Well you said you were feeling down because it was V Day...


  • #24
    wonderfulname
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,943 ✭✭✭wonderfulname


    SineadMarie wrote: »
    A wise friend once told me let them miss you...they cant miss what they can have when they want!

    Havent even gotten a vals day text from him i guess its blowing cold week!! :(

    I don't find your friend very wise, I have no time for mind games.

    Did you send him a valentines text? Does he know you have any interest in the day?


  • #25
    SineadMarie
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 208 ✭✭SineadMarie


    smash wrote: »
    Well you said you were feeling down because it was V Day...

    I'm looking for some advice not smart comments think thats fair enough. Sorry for the poor grammer also i'm sending this via my phone and didnt think to proof read it!


  • #26
    Anyone
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,376 ✭✭✭Anyone


    SineadMarie wrote: »
    A wise friend once told me let them miss you...they cant miss what they can have when they want!

    Havent even gotten a vals day text from him i guess its blowing cold week!! :(

    Maybe he doesnt want his wife to see it?


  • #27
    SineadMarie
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 208 ✭✭SineadMarie


    wonderfulname wrote: »
    I don't find your friend very wise, I have no time for mind games.

    Did you send him a valentines text? Does he know you have any interest in the day?

    No i havent and yea i think maybe he knows i don't like the day in general cos its also the day my dad passed away suddenly 5 years ago..just need some advice on how to play this. i am nice pretty we get on but i have no time for games from either side.


  • #28
    smellslikeshoes
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,354 ✭✭✭smellslikeshoes


    Not being an absolute bitch is usually a good start. I've known women who complain about being single then when a guy approaches them that doesn't meet their exact parameters they put him down in the harshest way possible and then laugh about it after.


  • #29
    sfwcork
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,203 ✭✭✭sfwcork


    wrote:
    Snowie

    I'd just like to meet a girl who's attractive cool and easy going.

    why dont the OP and this guy get it on?


  • #30
    SineadMarie
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 208 ✭✭SineadMarie


    sfwcork wrote: »
    why dont the OP and this guy get it on?

    haha matchmaker :)


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  • #31
    tin79
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,270 ✭✭✭tin79


    SineadMarie wrote: »
    Thank you teacher!

    Sarcastic wit eh. I do like that in a woman.

    Also:

    Intelligence to some degree (no Daily Mail or blame the gubbernment types)
    Nice eyes
    A pretty smile
    Sense of humour
    Not an alcoholic or bad drunk
    Breasts (gotta love em!)
    And lastly an accent that does not rile up the blood (Australian, NZ, Norn Iron or D4 for example would drive me mad)


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