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Man discovers wife used to be male after 19 years of marriage

  • 28-11-2012 01:26PM
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,753 ✭✭✭


    London, Nov. 27 (ANI): A man from Belgium wants to have his marriage annulled after discovering that his Indonesian wife of 19 years had originally been a man and had undergone a sex change.

    The man, only named as Jan, married Monica, his family's former au pair, in 1993 despite legal difficulties posed by the Belgian immigration authorities.

    "I feel I've been assaulted," the Telegraph quoted him as telling the Het Nieuwsblad newspaper.

    "I brought her to Belgium. That was not easy. The Belgian courts had serious doubts about the authenticity of her birth and her identity papers, but eventually they accepted it anyway.

    "I thought she was an attractive woman, all woman. She had no male traits," he said.

    The couple decided not to have kids as Jan, 64, had two from his previous marriage and she fooled him by pretending to menstruate, using sanitary towels, "to conceal the truth," the paper said.

    "Even during sex, I never noticed anything," he said.

    Jan, who is undergoing psychiatric treatment following the discovery, has started legal proceedings to have the marriage annulled.

    After 19 years could ye really give a fcuk?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78 ✭✭JamieKCCO


    No. That's the problem


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 15,515 ✭✭✭✭admiralofthefleet


    she was a 'doofer' for 19 years then he must have gotten fed up


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 893 ✭✭✭danslevent


    I wonder how he find out? Would love to have been a fly on the wall for that confrontation!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,234 ✭✭✭✭Cee-Jay-Cee


    Does that make him gay?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,626 ✭✭✭✭My name is URL


    In before the 40 pages of circular arguments


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 109 ✭✭Zippy1991


    Clear cut case of Male fraud








    :o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,796 ✭✭✭KungPao


    danslevent wrote: »
    I wonder how he find out? Would love to have been a fly on the wall for that confrontation!

    My guess is when the missus decided to show her support for Movember!

    Or when he finally realised his wife has massive man hands.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,420 ✭✭✭Lollipops23


    Ah that's not nice. He had a right to know something like that. I think most guys would feel a bit violated if hey found out their missus used to be a man.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,921 ✭✭✭Remmy


    That's fcuked up.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,702 ✭✭✭squod


    "I feel I've been assaulted,"

    Says it all


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 976 ✭✭✭Kev_2012


    Either your man had never seen a fanny before, or the surgeon did a ridiculously good job if he didn't notice!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 937 ✭✭✭swimming in a sea


    every hole has been an own-goal for this poor bloke:(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,872 ✭✭✭Skid


    Ah that's not nice. He had a right to know something like that. I think most guys would feel a bit violated if hey found out their missus used to be a man.

    Understatement of the year!

    You would want to know if your car ever had a serious refit, never mind your 'woman'.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,540 ✭✭✭Giselle


    Its possible he just wants a divorce, and it'd be a lot cheaper to have the marriage declared invalid so he doesn't have to pay up.

    19 years is a long time to be deceived though, especially when the Belgian authorities flagged her papers like that.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,436 ✭✭✭c_man


    davet82 wrote: »
    After 19 years could ye really give a fcuk?

    He's been lied to for at least 19 years, I think he should be pissed off.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,915 ✭✭✭cursai


    Did he not get suspicious when they used the pub urinals together.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,649 ✭✭✭Luap


    Am I the only one who finds this hilarious?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,012 ✭✭✭kincsem


    Leaving the seat up and having an interest in football should have been a hint.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,391 ✭✭✭✭mikom


    It's an awful feeling when you drop the clutch only to find the handbrake up.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,295 ✭✭✭✭Duggy747


    The grey moustache must have been a giveaway


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,753 ✭✭✭davet82


    c_man wrote: »
    He's been lied to for at least 19 years, I think he should be pissed off.

    half jokin there, i just find its funny cause its not me...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,810 ✭✭✭✭sbsquarepants


    Sounds like bullshít to me. I'm not all that knowledgeable about the exact mechanics of sex changes and i accept some of them are very hard to tell with their clothes on and all that - but surely she was missing a clit for starters - 19 fúcking years and he didn't notice that?
    Shenanigans your honour:eek:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,269 ✭✭✭GalwayGuy2


    He had a right to know that she used to be a man, and he could have made his own mind up after hearing it. But to wait 19 years is a bit shady. Yeah, she's obviously at fault.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 139 ✭✭Air_Bass


    Would have been so much funnier if her name was Sheena


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,310 ✭✭✭✭the_syco


    http://uk.news.yahoo.com/belgian-man-discovers-wife-used-male-19-years-070815588.html
    Sounds like bullshít to me. I'm not all that knowledgeable about the exact mechanics of sex changes and i accept some of them are very hard to tell with their clothes on and all that - but surely she was missing a clit for starters - 19 fúcking years and he didn't notice that?
    Shenanigans your honour:eek:
    Which part of sex change do you not understand? The man becomes a woman, including getting boobs, and swapping the dick with a clit, amongst other things.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,173 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    Most people are probably thinking about this from the "eww" and "OMG does this mean I'm gay" perspective, but after 19 years and assuming he loved her, I'm sure the worst thing about this for him is the emotional betrayal more than anything else.
    Sounds like bullshít to me. I'm not all that knowledgeable about the exact mechanics of sex changes and i accept some of them are very hard to tell with their clothes on and all that - but surely she was missing a clit for starters - 19 fúcking years and he didn't notice that?
    Unless you're a gynecologist or Charlie Sheen, are you really going to make comments about how your wife looks "down there"? Vaginas are as varied as penises, so unless she mentioned that something was "wrong" down there, he probably assumed that this was normal, for her.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,952 ✭✭✭aujopimur


    A few pics would be handy, then we could judge for ourselves.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,716 ✭✭✭LittleBook


    She was always a good mother to my children, and also a fantastic cook, though she wasn't that great at cleaning and ironing - and now I know why!

    :pac: :pac: :pac:


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    LittleBook wrote: »
    :pac: :pac: :pac:

    No need for the laughter everyone knows women are terrible cooks but at least they can clean and iron.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 276 ✭✭Wade in the Sea


    "Even during sex, I never noticed anything,". I just thought RESULT when she said she preferred it that way :p


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