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  • #32
    B.A._Baracus
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,240 ✭✭✭✭B.A._Baracus


    Cydoniac wrote: »
    Starting to get fed up of the casual homophobia around here day in day out...

    How tho?
    Last time I checked its socially unacceptable to discriminate homosexual people in any sort of way. Not only on boards, but in life.

    Unless you are mistaking jokes?


  • #33
    Lyaiera
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,818 ✭✭✭Lyaiera


    I was drunk and held a friends hand and felt tingly and thought about cuddling with her.


  • #34
    repsol
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    NegativeCreep wrote: »
    Any males in here ever had a gay experience?
    From having a guy compliment the size of your penis to having sexual acts performed on you by a man.

    What's the furthest you've gone with a man?
    I got complimented on my penis size by a man tonite. I thought it was wierd.

    Any stories?

    Where exactly was your penis when you received this compliment?:eek: In answer to your question ,I think the furthest I have gone with a man is Liverpool to watch a match.


  • #35
    flanum
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,107 ✭✭✭flanum


    newmug wrote: »
    Are you for real? Its the other way around! Every second thread is gay this, and gay that, legalise hash, forget the North, free abortions! Its like living in San Francisco!

    Ah, it's a bit much for me, father. "Feck" this and "feck" that.
    "You big bastard". Oh, dreadful language! "You big hairy arse", "You big fecker". Fierce stuff! And of course, the f-word, father, the bad f-word, worse than "feck" - you know the one I mean.


  • #36
    fasttalkerchat
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,652 ✭✭✭fasttalkerchat


    repsol wrote: »
    Where exactly was your penis when you received this compliment?:eek: In answer to your question ,I think the furthest I have gone with a man is Liverpool to watch a match.

    No shopping?


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  • #37
    repsol
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 754 ✭✭✭repsol


    fasttalkerchat wrote: »
    No shopping?

    The shops were closed by the time he decided what to wear!:D


  • #38
    1ZRed
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    I have heard lots of stories from straight lads who feck around while drunk, like one where a few guys started messing around while drunk after a stag night. Thing is though you'll never ever get told if you ask, it'll get denied and brushed off.

    Sure I think for a lot of guys who do mess around a bit, it means **** all. Like just getting your rocks off instead of doing it on your own sometimes. Harmless and I don't get the big deal about tbh.


  • #39
    suicide_circus
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,802 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    I was in a gay bar waiting for a friend and a lad starts chatting to me. He offers to buy me a pint which i politely decline. He was pretty drunk and whispers to me that he wants to give me the "best blowjob of my life", which.i somewhat reluctantly declined.

    Another time i was at a rave and was, as the French say, "off my biscuit". A chap engage me in conversation, we sat down and within seconds this guy goes for the lunge. I told him he was barking up the wrong tree and went on my way.


  • #40
    J_E
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    B.A._Baracus wrote: »
    How tho?
    Last time I checked its socially unacceptable to discriminate homosexual people in any sort of way. Not only on boards, but in life.

    Unless you are mistaking jokes?
    Lads who do the whole 'I'm straight back away!!!' routine. There's nothing wrong with a bit of harmless messing between friends, you don't just suddenly become attracted to men from a bit of playing around. It's like straight guys are afraid they'll contract The Ghey if they even entertain the idea.


  • #41
    Hippies!
    Closed Accounts Posts: 555 ✭✭✭Hippies!


    Cydoniac wrote: »
    Lads who do the whole 'I'm straight back away!!!' routine. There's nothing wrong with a bit of harmless messing between friends, you don't just suddenly become attracted to men from a bit of playing around. It's like straight guys are afraid they'll contract The Ghey if they even entertain the idea.

    :confused: what are you on about?!

    Maybe some straight lads are repulsed by the idea of themselves with another lad. Jaysus, don't force the ghey down peoples throats butt f*ck it sure, whatever you're into ;)


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  • #42
    leggo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,061 ✭✭✭leggo


    Messing with a few mates (lads and women) a few years back. We got bored in the pub (no, this isn't going where you think) so started playing spin the bottle for the craic. Ended up landing on a lad and we both went in, joking, then didn't chicken out until we touched lips. Cue shock from me while he laughed. That's pretty much it. Exciting, huh?

    I think he was bi-sexual as he asked me to join him and his missus for a threesome not too long afterwards. I politely declined, crossing swords isn't for me. And I didn't particularly want to bang the missus either.

    I also went through a phase (again...not going where you think) where I had a lot of gay men approaching me. Doesn't happen anymore. Either I was particularly fashionable during that period or I'm just a minger these days. Either way, it's ever so slightly sad not to get that attention now. It's an ego boost if nothing else! :(


  • #43
    1ZRed
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    Cydoniac wrote: »
    Lads who do the whole 'I'm straight back away!!!' routine. There's nothing wrong with a bit of harmless messing between friends, you don't just suddenly become attracted to men from a bit of playing around. It's like straight guys are afraid they'll contract The Ghey if they even entertain the idea.
    Nothing at all wrong with it. Most guys wouldn't be up to it, but there are a few guys who get a thought every once in a while, or even the odd predominantly straight lad that does it for a laugh when messing with mates while drunk.

    I read somewhere (think a Kinsey study) that a bit over 30% of guys have some form of a male/male sexual experience, whether it's nothing but a jerk off or full on sex. Thing is though, they'd never admit to it and swear themselves to secrecy over something that was nothing.

    Makes me wonder in years and years time when the sigma about being gay or having any sort of attraction to other men is gone, and people think nothing of it anymore, if guys would experiment once or twice in their lives just to see and check it out without any backlash.


  • #44
    brummytom
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    1ZRed wrote: »
    I read somewhere (think a Kinsey study) that a bit over 30% of guys have some form of a male/male sexual experience

    That must be bollocks, it must be. Nearly 1 in 3 men has at the very least, wanked with another bloke?

    Nah, I can't believe that at all.


  • #45
    1ZRed
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    brummytom wrote: »
    That must be bollocks, it must be. Nearly 1 in 3 men has at the very least, wanked with another bloke?

    Nah, I can't believe that at all.

    What about young guys growing up and messing around with each other harmlessly. I've never had any of those experiences growing up but it happens.

    Around my age now there's quite a lot of straight/curious guys that feck around with their mates, more then you'd think. I've messed around with one or two. The only thing common about all these experiences is that it will never get said unless in trusted company while pure locked.

    I don't blame them either. It's like you being drunk or high and watching porn with a mate and ye might slag one another and end up **** each other off. I doubt you'd be quick telling people even though it'd mean fuck all and wouldn't make you any more "gay" when it was just getting off and nothing more.


  • #46
    DEFTLEFTHAND
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,500 ✭✭✭✭DEFTLEFTHAND


    I'm straight but I don't mind a bit of action with two men on a woman. I had threesomes in college and enjoyed them, I like to compete with another male whether it be for cock size or sexual prowess. My current girlfriend is fcuking oldschool when it comes to that kind of thing, she doesn't like the kinky sh1t, but hell regular sex gets boring, I'd like to mix things up more.


  • #47
    1ZRed
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    DEFTLEFTHAND wrote: »
    I'm straight but I don't mind a bit of action with two men on a woman. I had threesomes in college and enjoyed them, I like to compete with another male whether it be for cock size or sexual prowess. My current girlfriend is fcuking oldschool when it comes to that kind of thing, she doesn't like the kinky sh1t, but hell regular sex gets boring, I'd like to mix things up more.

    I've had a threesome but I'd actually be mad for trying out a bi/straight one and tag teaming a girl. I'd think it hot and the competitive element would be a rush in it.

    What I don't get most is why some people are so uptight about some things. Sex is a laugh and a bit if fun. It doesn't have to mean anything more then getting off no questions asked.


  • #48
    asherbassad
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,869 ✭✭✭asherbassad


    NegativeCreep wrote: »
    Any males in here ever had a gay experience?
    From having a guy compliment the size of your penis to having sexual acts performed on you by a man.

    What's the furthest you've gone with a man?
    I got complimented on my penis size by a man tonite. I thought it was wierd.

    Any stories?

    I'm a hetero male (I suppose) but I've spent my entire life trying to suck cock (my own).

    Haven't made it yet, but dammit I'm gonna die trying.


  • #49
    Kerplunk124
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    Shifted a few of my friends for the laugh
    Not gay though


  • #50
    DEFTLEFTHAND
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,500 ✭✭✭✭DEFTLEFTHAND


    1ZRed wrote: »
    I've had a threesome but I'd actually be mad for trying out a bi/straight one and tag teaming a girl. I'd think it hot and the competitive element would be a rush in it.

    What I don't get most is why some people are so uptight about some things. Sex is a laugh and a bit if fun. It doesn't have to mean anything more then getting off no questions asked.

    You've summed it up, I think a lot of Irish people are still sexually repressed. I view my sex life as an adventure, I want to experience as much as I can.


  • #51
    asherbassad
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,869 ✭✭✭asherbassad


    BillyMitchel wrote: »
    Yeah he swallowed his teeth!


    Until Phil came along any yew was all 'umble and the loike, wasn't ya, eh? kannt!


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  • #52
    1ZRed
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    DEFTLEFTHAND wrote: »
    You've summed it up, I think a lot of Irish people are still sexually repressed. I view my sex life as an adventure, I want to experience as much as I can.

    Pretty much my take on it as well. That's why I've nothing against jumping borders and playing with guys or girls or taking a shot at anything at least once.

    You mightn't be going that far or interested in that :D but if I can feck around with girls I fail to see how I could turn more straight no more then a straight guy could turn gay for just getting off with another guy.


  • #53
    asherbassad
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    1ZRed wrote: »
    I've had a threesome but I'd actually be mad for trying out a bi/straight one and tag teaming a girl. I'd think it hot and the competitive element would be a rush in it.

    What I don't get most is why some people are so uptight about some things. Sex is a laugh and a bit if fun. It doesn't have to mean anything more then getting off no questions asked.


    You've never had a threesome.
    Who are you kidding? If you had you'd know what it's all about.

    I've had several threesomes and one foursome....all with one female and the one thing you have to remember is that there's a mutually understood hierarchy in such a tryst. 2 males, 1 female.....the two males are complete equals respectful and in service of the female. Think of it as 2 jacks and a queen. In the 3 male 1 female foursome the males were relegated to an even lower level of sexual servitude.....maybe 9's or 10's in the deck below the queen....but again all equal....the males that is.

    So don't blab on about competitiveness and cock size and tag-teaming. That crap is the realm of gonzo porno movies and rubbish non-reality.


  • #54
    brummytom
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    1ZRed wrote: »
    I've had a threesome but I'd actually be mad for trying out a bi/straight one and tag teaming a girl. I'd think it hot and the competitive element would be a rush in it.

    What I don't get most is why some people are so uptight about some things. Sex is a laugh and a bit if fun. It doesn't have to mean anything more then getting off no questions asked.
    You've had a threesome? Aren't you still at school? And still in the closet?


  • #55
    1ZRed
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    brummytom wrote: »
    You've had a threesome? Aren't you still at school? And still in the closet?

    Been out of school a year and only closeted to my parents and most of my family. My friends know the deal though.

    I don't necessarily see what age would have to do with anything though.


  • #56
    suicide_circus
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,802 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    1ZRed wrote: »
    What about young guys growing up and messing around with each other harmlessly. I've never had any of those experiences growing up but it happens.
    Umm i certainly never fooled around with the lads when i was a kid and the notion of it horrifies me. have never heard of it happening. Not saying it dosnt happen, just never eard of it


  • #57
    ToddyDoody
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    If someone is genuinely worried about a sexual misadventure I always say go tell a priest in confession or just after mass and you'll be fine


  • #58
    Trigger13222
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    Did the whole Tgirl thing in Thailand.


  • #59
    suicide_circus
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,802 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    ToddyDoody wrote: »
    If someone is genuinely worried about a sexual misadventure I always say go tell a priest in confession or just after mass and you'll be fine
    i'd be more worried about sexual misadventure in the confessional !!! or something


  • #60
    NegativeCreep
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    This is what happens when you let your friend use your laptop. :o


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  • #61
    Gummy Panda
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    1ZRed wrote: »

    I don't blame them either. It's like you being drunk or high and watching porn with a mate and ye might slag one another and end up **** each other off. I doubt you'd be quick telling people even though it'd mean [COLOR="Black"]fu[/COLOR]ck all and wouldn't make you any more "gay" when it was just getting off and nothing more.

    I think you've been watching too much queer as folk lol. I can imagine it now "here the tits on your one in this... let us pull the mickey off ya!"


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