Wedding dilema!

energeticxx · 30-10-2012 09:46PM #1

I have been asked to go to a wedding with a guy that I dont know very well. We met on a nite out and so don't know each other very well and I won't knjow anybody at the wedding as it is another end of the country.

I need advice on whether I should accept or not, I like the guy and he seems very nice but I don't know him at all so it could be a long day

also there is the issue of having to share a room with him that nite

MagicMarker · 30-10-2012 09:47PM

Have you established whether or not you're the bride?

phasers · 30-10-2012 09:47PM

is he good in bed?

HeyThereDeliah · 30-10-2012 09:48PM

Why would you want to go to a strangers wedding with someone you don't know?

MrFrisp · 30-10-2012 09:50PM

HeyThereDeliah wrote: »

Why would you want to go to a strangers wedding with someone you don't know?

Spot on..:cool:

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30-10-2012 09:50PM

Free food, free drink, excuse to dress up (if you're a girl, excuse to wear a nice pair of heels).

Why not?!

If it's going well with him, happy days and a nice hotel room experience.
If it's not going well with him, there'll probably be plenty of other guys there, and if all else fails just get really drunk and pass out in a hotel room.

Fr_Dougal · 30-10-2012 09:50PM

Is he saying mass?

Abi · 30-10-2012 09:52PM

energeticxx wrote: »

I have been asked to go to a wedding with a guy that I dont know very well. We met on a nite out and so don't know each other very well and I won't knjow anybody at the wedding as it is another end of the country.

I need advice on whether I should accept or not, I like the guy and he seems very nice but I don't know him at all so it could be a long day also there is the issue of having to share a room with him that nite

Yeah, that would be a NO. It's a bit of a weird situation to be honest, and a bit cheeky to assume you'd share a room - like him or not. Kindly decline, but offer to meet up again if you feel up to it.

ArtyC · 30-10-2012 09:53PM

when is the wedding? will he be taking you out again before the day?

Canis Lupus · 30-10-2012 09:53PM

Hey ma, I gots me a gurlfriend.... *quietly* she's got a purdy mouth...

squod · 30-10-2012 09:55PM

Ask him if you can bring your Mammy.

validusername1 · 30-10-2012 09:57PM

go for it.. nothing to lose

Plazaman · 30-10-2012 09:59PM

After one night out, "Will you come to a wedding with me?".

Sounds dubious, could be bringing you to a cabin in the woods..... full of hatchets and knives.....

Ah no, I'm sure it'd be alright....... I hope.....

btard · 30-10-2012 10:00PM

3/10

energeticxx · 30-10-2012 10:05PM

These comments are scaring me!!

Ah to explain more I've met up with him 3 times and he seemed very nice, we met through mutual friends and its them that are telling me that he's a gent a would treat me really well, we've been txting alot so I'd feel I know him fairly well, its more that I feel is it a bit much to go to a wedding together and we'll get plauged with questions on whether we're a couple!!! and I do think the sharing of a room isn't ideal but dosn't mean anything will happed:D

Merkin · 30-10-2012 10:10PM

Mmm I'd say go for it on the proviso that he pays for a seperate room for you. It doesn't matter if you want to ride him into next week but at least have a get out clause....he could turn out to be a nightmare and I'd be MASSIVELY put off that he think it is fine to presume that you'll want to share a room with him after three dates

Abi · 30-10-2012 10:14PM

energeticxx wrote: »

These comments are scaring me!!

Ah to explain more I've met up with him 3 times and he seemed very nice, we met through mutual friends and its them that are telling me that he's a gent a would treat me really well, we've been txting alot so I'd feel I know him fairly well,

Slightly contradictory to the OP.. but okay..

its more that I feel is it a bit much to go to a wedding together and we'll get plauged with questions on whether we're a couple!!! and I do think the sharing of a room isn't ideal but dosn't mean anything will happed:D

Book yourself a single room for the night. Maybe he meant well, but at the same time it's a bit cheeky. If you have that single room to spare, at least you have something to fall back on. You said you don't know anyone else there, are the mutual friends not going? I personally wouldn't feel up to going to an event like that with someone I'd just met though..

energeticxx · 30-10-2012 10:19PM

No we met through mutual friends, the wedding is of someone that he works with and there'll be about 5 people from work there that he'll know, thats all, thanks for the advice, I'll be going with having my own room if I do go

TheUsual · 30-10-2012 10:19PM

Enough with all the sensible "do-gooder" advice.
Yuck !! This is After Hours ....

Show up with a fake pregnant belly and half-way through the wedding scream "I'm having your baby you bastard !!!"

30-10-2012 11:25PM

You know what they say: 'That going to a wedding is the making of another'
Go girl!

El Weirdo · 30-10-2012 11:29PM

energeticxx wrote: »

...we've been txting alot so I'd feel I know him fairly well...

Oh well, in that case...

:rolleyes:

Max Power · 30-10-2012 11:33PM

validusername1 wrote: »

go for it.. nothing to lose

I bet he does though.....his virginity.

PC CDROM · 30-10-2012 11:48PM

energeticxx wrote: »

I have been asked to go to a wedding with a guy that I dont know very well. We met on a nite out and so don't know each other very well and I won't knjow anybody at the wedding as it is another end of the country.

I need advice on whether I should accept or not, I like the guy and he seems very nice but I don't know him at all so it could be a long day also there is the issue of having to share a room with him that nite

Really?

If you met him and he blew you away it would be a yes.

Otherwise.... no.

Mr Benevolent · 30-10-2012 11:50PM

OP, he's looking for an excuse to get you drunk and shag you. End of. I'd be very dubious. No-one in their right mind invite someone they've only met to a wedding without an ulterior motive. On second thoughts, he might want to introduce you to the clan to size you up for marriage.

PizzamanIRL · 30-10-2012 11:50PM

You want the D?

If so, go.

TheUsual · 30-10-2012 11:54PM

PizzamanIRL wrote: »

You want the D?

If so, go.

"D" ??

What's a D ? You mean 'P' right, for Pizzaman ?

Run_to_da_hills · 31-10-2012 12:02AM

You have to weigh up the costs of going to a wedding like this to see if it is worth while or not.

I would guess you would be lucky to get out of it for under e300 and that dose not include loss of earnings if you had to take the day or even following day off. :eek:

Cee-Jay-Cee · 31-10-2012 01:45AM

Where is the wedding? There are bound to be a few AH'ers that live nearby that you can use as back up people if he turns out to be a psycho...

Lexe · 31-10-2012 01:57AM

Go! It's a compliment to be asked to a wedding, he's single and didn't have anyone else to ask. Just get yourself a single room, if it's not used what harm but have it there in case! Wedding are always great craic!

lab man · 31-10-2012 02:06AM

GO ffs maybe ye'll hit it off, get the second room tho

Sauve · 31-10-2012 02:42AM

Ara go for it OP - life is short, you'll probably have a great day.

You're more likely to regret the things you didnt do than those you did...

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