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Just when i thought the catholic church couldn't get any worse

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  • Posts: 81,308 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Johnathan Lemon Thriller


    In fairness I think a lot of people feel pressured into these events. I wouldn't necessarily want my child baptised but if it limits the schools he/she can attend in a couple of years i suppose I should.

    I wouldn't want my child to have communion but if you have chosen to send the kid to a school(based on quality of education) that includes this as part of their curriculum so to speak and all the other kids are doing it I don't want my child to feel left out.

    I dont really want to get married but the probability is my future wife will probably want a big "traditional" wedding as it is a huge thing for a lot of girls (not all)

    And on top of this family pressure to keep up these traditions.

    Plenty of children opt out of communion.

    Marriage is a legal thing and does not have to have the slightest little thing to do with a church if you don't want it to.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 925 ✭✭✭say_who_now?


    meoklmrk91 wrote: »
    People seem to pick and choose what they like about the catholic church, they want the wedding, communion, christening etc. but many of those people wouldn't agree that homosexuals are all going to hell, that women shouldn't use birth control and a good deal would also be pro-choice as its called. But that stuff usually isn't thrown in your face at usual mass, but in all fairness everyone knows what the church stands for, just because you don't like hearing it because you only wanted the nice bits.

    I agree it shouldn't have been done in front of children, thats a fuppin disgrace. But this is what the Catholic Church preaches, it's not like it's come as some big surprise to people. For instance say I decided to join a Neo Nazi organisation really liked some parts of it but whenever anyone said anything anti-Semitic I would get really pissed off. It is exactly the same thing, to me anyway.

    Maybe the parents should take some responsibility as well, they chose to bring their child to mass, to christen them etc. knowing well what the Catholic Church preaches.


    I don't blame you personally for perpetuating a popular opinion du Jour, but speaking as a Roman Catholic myself, the original ideals and beliefs of the Catholic Church have been twisted and corrupted beyond all recognition by centuries of abuse of power and authority within the hierarchy of the Catholic Church. The desperation of the Vatican to cling to power over people has turned them into nothing but merely a spectacle of ridicule and derision, and rightfully so, but by all means aim your criticism at the hierarchy, not at the Catholic Church itself, as for many Roman Catholics, the Vatican's outdated and ignorant preachings do not represent the views of their congregation.

    Many modern day Roman Catholics no longer take their instruction from the Vatican and have no interest in being preached to from the pulpit, but they use their intelligence to be able to read Church doctrine and interpret it for themselves and extract their own meaning from it, which of course means they're going to pick and choose what suits them. Is this not the very foundation of a belief system? To always question your beliefs and interpret scripture as it relates to you, and may mean something completely different to the person beside you?

    However the intrinsic belief remains the same- tolerance and understanding of those around you, and I can see why people deride the Catholic Church for what they see as intolerance and ignorance displayed by them. However, as I've previously mentioned, save your scorn for the hierarchy, and not the Roman Catholic Church as a whole in and of itself.


    If you think I'm just talking out my àrse, then have a look at the atheism movement and see how now there is yet a new movement called "atheism+", which derides atheists for not holding the same opinions they do on matters stretching way beyond just a lack of belief in a deity. Now they want to incorporate other social constructs in their mantra and if you don't go along with them, then you are derided as an ignorant and beneath their superior enlightened intellect. It's a good thing though that atheists too are intelligent enough that they can pick and choose what from the atheism movement and rightly ridicule this nonsensical extension of what it is to be an atheist, the very same as the Roman Catholic hierarchy should be held up for ridicule and derision for their corruption of the original doctrines of the Roman Catholic Church.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,041 ✭✭✭Penny Dreadful


    meoklmrk91 wrote: »
    People seem to pick and choose what they like about the catholic church, they want the wedding, communion, christening etc. but many of those people wouldn't agree that homosexuals are all going to hell, that women shouldn't use birth control and a good deal would also be pro-choice as its called. But that stuff usually isn't thrown in your face at usual mass, but in all fairness everyone knows what the church stands for, just because you don't like hearing it because you only wanted the nice bits.

    I agree it shouldn't have been done in front of children, thats a fuppin disgrace. But this is what the Catholic Church preaches, it's not like it's come as some big surprise to people. For instance say I decided to join a Neo Nazi organisation really liked some parts of it but whenever anyone said anything anti-Semitic I would get really pissed off. It is exactly the same thing, to me anyway.

    Maybe the parents should take some responsibility as well, they chose to bring their child to mass, to christen them etc. knowing well what the Catholic Church preaches.

    I don't think the Catholic Church, for all its misdeeds, has ever stated that it thinks special needs children are a punishment from God. :eek:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,549 ✭✭✭✭cowzerp


    tony81 wrote: »
    Hmm, I feel the need to write a hateful and moronic Catholic-bashing thread. I know, I'll post in AH so maybe if I feign anger or humour I'll get away with it...

    I'm not faking anger, my 1st son has Down's syndrome and for this cretin to make out he is anything to do with god punishing us is a disgrace and 1 of a all the reasons why this church is hated.

    Rush Boxing club and Rush Martial Arts head coach.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,919 ✭✭✭Einhard


    irish-stew wrote: »
    No, its beacuse it does not allow for equal or balanced debate.

    You'd expect the Catholic Church to provide room for debate of one of their most fundamental principles in their own Churches? Why not invite an atheist up as well every Sunday, just to balance things out a bit...

    Apologies if that's a bit sarcastic, but I find your stance really odd.


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  • Posts: 81,308 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Johnathan Lemon Thriller


    Is this not the very foundation of a belief system? To always question your beliefs and interpret scripture as it relates to you, and may mean something completely different to the person beside you?

    No, it's the foundation of being a protestant. It's the complete antithesis of catholic belief. That's why historically you weren't allowed to read the bible for yourself under catholicism.

    If you want to interpret the bible yourself, if you don't like the RCC, then find a christian denomination that suits you.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,496 ✭✭✭Boombastic


    tony81 wrote: »
    I know this is AH and I'm taking this too seriously, however..

    http://www.irishtimes.com/newspaper/ireland/2012/1002/1224324728487.html

    You can celebrate without wearing a dress costing a lot

    "The government is planning to cut the payment to a maximum of €110. Parents are currently able to apply for a payment of between €200 and €305 to help cover the costs of the religious occasions"

    Plenty of dresses in the second hand shop, worn once. In other countries, they just wear their normal clothes with maybe a white top or trousers, others don't wear anything white. No justification for the state handing out money to cover expensive dresses.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,456 ✭✭✭fishy fishy


    Boombastic wrote: »
    Catholic Church preach what they believe in shocker :eek:

    you really think so? I think the CC preaches at will and changes the rules whenever they want. I suppose you may not remember the torture they put mothers through when their babies died before getting "baptized" - where was it they were, LIMBO. How cruel. Only a few years ago they then decided that LIMBO was not real at all and to forget about it. idiots.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 97 ✭✭hurpederp


    If a priest were to walk into a typical mass and outline, clearly, and with no vague language, the tenets of the Catholic Church, what must be believed, what ( and who!) must be obeyed, including abortion, marriage, homosexuality and contraception, people would be shocked.

    In Ireland, many people attend mass as an a la carte Catholic, because they feel it is the right thing to do, even if they disagree with many fundamental beliefs espoused at said mass. Many priests won't challenge this, for fear of alienating those people.

    The truth is, the popular image of Catholic belief is at odds with what is truly Catholic canon. When people are confronted with the true, unminced beliefs they are shocked. They shouldn't be really, it's there in the Bible or the catechism, if one cared to read them.

    So when this woman says her SN child was a punishment form God, it has a sound foundation in Christian belief. Everything is the will of God, and it is the will of God for a reason. God has a very good track record of punishing people. God chose that her child would have special needs. Why is it so illogical, if you agree with the Christian premise outlined above, that the baby was a punishment?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,456 ✭✭✭fishy fishy


    Boombastic wrote: »
    You can celebrate without wearing a dress costing a lot

    "The government is planning to cut the payment to a maximum of €110. Parents are currently able to apply for a payment of between €200 and €305 to help cover the costs of the religious occasions"

    Plenty of dresses in the second hand shop, worn once. In other countries, they just wear their normal clothes with maybe a white top or trousers, others don't wear anything white. No justification for the state handing out money to cover expensive dresses.


    the govt and the church should be separate entities. not tangled up with one another.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 595 ✭✭✭tony81


    cowzerp wrote: »
    I'm not faking anger, my 1st son has Down's syndrome and for this cretin to make out he is anything to do with god punishing us is a disgrace and 1 of a all the reasons why this church is hated.

    If you read the article, it seems her comments were misinterpreted. Mainly, her feelings of guilt made her feel like she was being punished, as she had not recovered from the psychological effects of abortion.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,919 ✭✭✭Einhard


    you really think so? I think the CC preaches at will and changes the rules whenever they want. I suppose you may not remember the torture they put mothers through when their babies died before getting "baptized" - where was it they were, LIMBO. How cruel. Only a few years ago they then decided that LIMBO was not real at all and to forget about it. idiots.

    Actually, the Catholic Church has been remarkably consistent in their teachings for over a millenia. They're possibly the most conservative organisation on the planet. If there's one charge that can't be laid against the Vatican, it's changing its minds about things in a willy nilly fashion. I think it's a tad unfair for people to condemn the Church for being out of step, and then condemn it even more when they finally, eventually take a small progressive step.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 595 ✭✭✭tony81


    the govt and the church should be separate entities. not tangled up with one another.

    On one hand, you have a Church saying "do not spend too much money"

    And on the other, we have people looking for state support so they can spend a lot of money on communion dresses and a party.

    Where's the entanglement? There's just greedy people and a government trying to keep every idiot happy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,293 ✭✭✭✭Mint Sauce


    Einhard wrote: »
    You'd expect the Catholic Church to provide room for debate of one of their most fundamental principles in their own Churches? Why not invite an atheist up as well every Sunday, just to balance things out a bit...

    Apologies if that's a bit sarcastic, but I find your stance really odd.

    Whilst I dont expect someone from a prochoice group to get up on the alter, my stance was that I thought it was a misuse of the alter, and not nessesarly their teachings or believes.

    Its possible that it was my own thoughts on the prolife/choice debate that caused my reaction, the fact that I havn't been to a church service for a while other than the examples I named, and maybe probably never paid much attention for the few years up until when I did stop going, I just was not expecting such a presentation on a Saturday evening.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,496 ✭✭✭Boombastic


    you really think so? I think the CC preaches at will and changes the rules whenever they want. I suppose you may not remember the torture they put mothers through when their babies died before getting "baptized" - where was it they were, LIMBO. How cruel. Only a few years ago they then decided that LIMBO was not real at all and to forget about it. idiots.

    No they didn't.
    Media reports that by the document "the Pope closed Limbo"[29] are thus without foundation. In fact, the document explicitly states that "the theory of limbo, understood as a state which includes the souls of infants who die subject to original sin and without baptism, and who, therefore, neither merit the beatific vision, nor yet are subjected to any punishment, because they are not guilty of any personal sin. This theory, elaborated by theologians beginning in the Middle Ages, never entered into the dogmatic definitions of the Magisterium. Still, that same Magisterium did at times mention the theory in its ordinary teaching up until the Second Vatican Council. It remains therefore a possible theological hypothesis" (second preliminary paragraph); and in paragraph 41 it repeats that the theory of Limbo "remains a possible theological opinion".


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,456 ✭✭✭fishy fishy


    Einhard wrote: »
    Actually, the Catholic Church has been remarkably consistent in their teachings for over a millenia. They're possibly the most conservative organisation on the planet. If there's one charge that can't be laid against the Vatican, it's changing its minds about things in a willy nilly fashion. I think it's a tad unfair for people to condemn the Church for being out of step, and then condemn it even more when they finally, eventually take a small progressive step.

    would differ on everything you stated above.
    the catholic church is a business - a business that preys on the vulnerable in the most tortuous way (sp), by exploiting their emotional wellbeing in order to gain "followers". absolutely nothing to do with living "right" or living "wrong". Their teachings have been consistent alright - consistently anti-women, and cruel. Thank goodness people have woken up to them and now they HAVE to come in line with modern times to keep the money rolling in. While their are "teaching" and "preaching" to the "flock" they seem to think they can do whatever they want themselves, again preying on the vulnerable and making sure about the "secrecy". Vultures.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,456 ✭✭✭fishy fishy


    Boombastic wrote: »
    No they didn't.
    Media reports that by the document "the Pope closed Limbo"[29] are thus without foundation. In fact, the document explicitly states that "the theory of limbo, understood as a state which includes the souls of infants who die subject to original sin and without baptism, and who, therefore, neither merit the beatific vision, nor yet are subjected to any punishment, because they are not guilty of any personal sin. This theory, elaborated by theologians beginning in the Middle Ages, never entered into the dogmatic definitions of the Magisterium. Still, that same Magisterium did at times mention the theory in its ordinary teaching up until the Second Vatican Council. It remains therefore a possible theological hypothesis" (second preliminary paragraph); and in paragraph 41 it repeats that the theory of Limbo "remains a possible theological opinion".


    they actually did - I was there and I heard it right from the horses mouth. Just one of their backtracks in recent years.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,496 ✭✭✭Boombastic


    they actually did - I was there and I heard it right from the horses mouth. Just one of their backtracks in recent years.

    What horse would that be?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,456 ✭✭✭fishy fishy


    Boombastic wrote: »
    No they didn't.
    Media reports that by the document "the Pope closed Limbo"[29] are thus without foundation. In fact, the document explicitly states that "the theory of limbo, understood as a state which includes the souls of infants who die subject to original sin and without baptism, and who, therefore, neither merit the beatific vision, nor yet are subjected to any punishment, because they are not guilty of any personal sin. This theory, elaborated by theologians beginning in the Middle Ages, never entered into the dogmatic definitions of the Magisterium. Still, that same Magisterium did at times mention the theory in its ordinary teaching up until the Second Vatican Council. It remains therefore a possible theological hypothesis" (second preliminary paragraph); and in paragraph 41 it repeats that the theory of Limbo "remains a possible theological opinion".



    The fundamental importance, in Roman Catholic theology, of the sacrament of water baptism gives rise to the argument that, because original sin excludes from the beatific vision enjoyed by the souls in heaven, those who have not been freed from it either by the sacrament or by baptism of desire or baptism of blood are not eligible for entry into heaven.


    you forgot this bit in your quote above.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 595 ✭✭✭tony81


    you really think so? I think the CC preaches at will and changes the rules whenever they want. I suppose you may not remember the torture they put mothers through when their babies died before getting "baptized" - where was it they were, LIMBO. How cruel. Only a few years ago they then decided that LIMBO was not real at all and to forget about it. idiots.

    Limbo was never an official doctrine of the church. Theologians dreamt it up to explain what probably happens to babies who have not sinned but who die before they're baptised (stillborn, miscarried or aborted)

    This probably explains why the Catholic Church is so unfashionably "pro-life"


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,913 ✭✭✭✭padd b1975


    the govt and the church should be separate entities. not tangled up with one another.
    How much heed to you think Eamon Gilmore or Ruairi Quinn pay to the Catholic Church?

    The days of Dev and Archbishop McQuaid are long gone.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 595 ✭✭✭tony81


    The fundamental importance, in Roman Catholic theology, of the sacrament of water baptism gives rise to the argument that, because original sin excludes from the beatific vision enjoyed by the souls in heaven, those who have not been freed from it either by the sacrament or by baptism of desire or baptism of blood are not eligible for entry into heaven.


    you forgot this bit in your quote above.

    What about people who aren't eligible but by the grace of God get in anyway? The Pope doesn't actually give out free tickets to heaven, and he doesn't have the final say. In fact, in Catholic teaching it is Jesus Christ himself who decides who's getting in to heaven.

    I think the reason for your irrational hatred is because you are clearly mis-interpreting the teachings of the Church, or you are twisting it to suit your own agenda.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,919 ✭✭✭Einhard


    Einhard wrote: »
    Actually, the Catholic Church has been remarkably consistent in their teachings for over a millenia. They're possibly the most conservative organisation on the planet. If there's one charge that can't be laid against the Vatican, it's changing its minds about things in a willy nilly fashion. I think it's a tad unfair for people to condemn the Church for being out of step, and then condemn it even more when they finally, eventually take a small progressive step.
    would differ on everything you stated above.
    the catholic church is a business - a business that preys on the vulnerable in the most tortuous way (sp), by exploiting their emotional wellbeing in order to gain "followers". absolutely nothing to do with living "right" or living "wrong". Their teachings have been consistent alright - consistently anti-women, and cruel. Thank goodness people have woken up to them and now they HAVE to come in line with modern times to keep the money rolling in. While their are "teaching" and "preaching" to the "flock" they seem to think they can do whatever they want themselves, again preying on the vulnerable and making sure about the "secrecy". Vultures.

    Er, so you don't differ on everything that I stated above. :confused:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,587 ✭✭✭Pace2008



    Many modern day Roman Catholics no longer take their instruction from the Vatican and have no interest in being preached to from the pulpit, but they use their intelligence to be able to read Church doctrine and interpret it for themselves and extract their own meaning from it, which of course means they're going to pick and choose what suits them.
    See this, this doesn't really make any sense at all. I think they should draft up a list of problems they have with Vatican instruction and nail it to the door of their nearest cathedral.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 18,300 ✭✭✭✭Seaneh


    seanah, don't be so naive (no offense). Do you honestly believe anything that the "superiors" have to say on the matter. Have we not learned anything about the abuse the church caused and how it went straight to the top superiors covering up and hiding the fact. The catholic church is a business and a very shady one at that. Everythign they do must be questioned.

    Conspiracy theory much?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,408 ✭✭✭bbam


    would differ on everything you stated above.
    the catholic church is a business - a business that preys on the vulnerable in the most tortuous way (sp), by exploiting their emotional wellbeing in order to gain "followers". absolutely nothing to do with living "right" or living "wrong". Their teachings have been consistent alright - consistently anti-women, and cruel. Thank goodness people have woken up to them and now they HAVE to come in line with modern times to keep the money rolling in. While their are "teaching" and "preaching" to the "flock" they seem to think they can do whatever they want themselves, again preying on the vulnerable and making sure about the "secrecy". Vultures.

    I appreciate that this is your opinion, but that's all it is. You believe that it's a business with less than positive effects and goals.
    Many many people believe very differently and many could care less.

    The incident in question was an awful mistake. This poor woman has obvious issues which are unresolved and I'd expect is being used by those who wish to oppose abortion. It also sounds like this priest is guilty of not being sure what would be said before letting her speak in public. Some of the things said were dreadful and very hurtful but would not reflect the teachings and beleifs of the RC Church as a whole.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,456 ✭✭✭fishy fishy


    some of the posters on here seem quite young and have no idea what was preached in the churches of Ireland before they were born. Wikipedia seems to be the new "bible", but in reality, as in, when people were here before wikipedia, the reality was quite different. Ask your mammys and daddys about limbo - see what they have to say, if it was preached or not. And the church and state in Ireland was intermingled long after the time of dev etc. Life didn't start with the celtic tiger.

    catholic church will be long gone in the next 100 years and people then will be scratching their heads at the stupidity of people believing the lies. :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,496 ✭✭✭Boombastic


    some of the posters on here seem quite young and have no idea what was preached in the churches of Ireland before they were born. Wikipedia seems to be the new "bible", but in reality, as in, when people were here before wikipedia, the reality was quite different. Ask your mammys and daddys about limbo - see what they have to say, if it was preached or not. And the church and state in Ireland was intermingled long after the time of dev etc. Life didn't start with the celtic tiger.

    catholic church will be long gone in the next 100 years and people then will be scratching their heads at the stupidity of people believing the lies. :D

    Would the Catholic News Service be a good enough source for you?

    "Many Catholics grew up thinking limbo -- the place where babies who have died without baptism spend eternity in a state of "natural happiness" but not in the presence of God -- was part of Catholic tradition.

    Instead, it was a hypothesis -- a theory held out as a possible way to balance the Christian belief in the necessity of baptism with belief in God's mercy.

    Like hypotheses in any branch of science, a theological hypothesis can be proven wrong or be set aside when it is clear it does not help explain Catholic faith."


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 595 ✭✭✭tony81


    irish-stew wrote: »
    Whilst I dont expect someone from a prochoice group to get up on the alter, my stance was that I thought it was a misuse of the alter, and not nessesarly their teachings or believes.

    Its possible that it was my own thoughts on the prolife/choice debate that caused my reaction, the fact that I havn't been to a church service for a while other than the examples I named, and maybe probably never paid much attention for the few years up until when I did stop going, I just was not expecting such a presentation on a Saturday evening.

    It's doubtful she was misusing the altar.. more likely she was speaking at the lectern.

    However, I do have a problem myself with lay people being invited to speak. In my opinion, only ordained people should be allowed to speak at mass, while lay people can participate by doing the readings, prayers of the faithful and singing. Personally I don't think the woman should have been invited to speak in the first place.

    That's not to say the priest should pussyfoot around issues for fear of offending people. It's his job to get the teachings of the church across to the congregation.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 925 ✭✭✭say_who_now?


    bluewolf wrote: »
    Is this not the very foundation of a belief system? To always question your beliefs and interpret scripture as it relates to you, and may mean something completely different to the person beside you?

    No, it's the foundation of being a protestant. It's the complete antithesis of catholic belief. That's why historically you weren't allowed to read the bible for yourself under catholicism.

    If you want to interpret the bible yourself, if you don't like the RCC, then find a christian denomination that suits you.


    Again though IMO, questioning one's beliefs is not the antithesis of what it is to be a Roman Catholic as I understand it from my own interpretation of what it is to be a Roman Catholic. Certainly I agree with you though bluewolf that what is needed is a reformation of the Catholic Church to shake off the trappings of wealth and corruption, ignorance and depravity, and desperation to cling to power and authority that has infiltrated the HIERARCHY of the Catholic Church, but I choose to interpret the teachings of the Catholic Church as it relates to me personally, and I have no wish to force my beliefs on others. I firmly believe that when there are enough people that think like I do, a second reformation WILL happen, but I personally would prefer if the few bad apples were kicked out of the barrel rather than the majority of good apples being forced out and the corrupt few that are left being allowed to further ruin the image of the Roman Catholic Church! Protestantism just isn't for me, and having said that, my religion isn't all I am as a person either. If that's what I wanted, I would convert to Islam and become a Muslim as my sister has done.


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