Picking up women on a night out , tips?

SoundFella · 18-09-2012 04:11PM #1

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tmc86 · 18-09-2012 04:12PM

Make sure your back is straight and knees are bent

castletownman · 18-09-2012 04:12PM

Rule #1: If you can't lift her, don't shift her.

Myrddin · 18-09-2012 04:13PM

SoundFella wrote: »

before we were together I pulled more women than Hugh Hefner

I doubt that

L.Jenkins · 18-09-2012 04:13PM

Rophynol, works everytime.

kfallon · 18-09-2012 04:13PM

SoundFella wrote: »

Ok so here's the situation me and long term girlfriend broke up about 6months ago and before we were together I pulled more women than Hugh Hefner but since we broke up, on nights out my game is non existent , I still pull one or two on a night out but I'm not working for it , it just happens , I'm not a bad looking lad but I feel I've lost a awful lot of confidence on approaching women that I don't know , so what's your approach on a night out (a girls opinion would also be great!)
Thanks in advance

That's not enough, no?

CardBordWindow · 18-09-2012 04:13PM

Drink til you vomit.

Dravokivich · 18-09-2012 04:14PM

Use a cart myself. They're easier to push than to lug her around over yer shoulder like.

mikom · 18-09-2012 04:14PM

SoundFella wrote: »

Picking up women on a night out , tips?

Just the tip............. that's what I always tell 'em

Gee Bag · 18-09-2012 04:15PM

SoundFella wrote: »

Ok so here's the situation me and long term girlfriend broke up about 6months ago and before we were together I pulled more women than Hugh Hefner but since we broke up, on nights out my game is non existent , I still pull one or two on a night out but I'm not working for it , it just happens , I'm not a bad looking lad but I feel I've lost a awful lot of confidence on approaching women that I don't know , so what's your approach on a night out (a girls opinion would also be great!)
Thanks in advance

I'd suggest not talking,

that way they won't find out about your childish need to boast until its too late.

Vicar in a tutu · 18-09-2012 04:15PM

Just go up to various women and dance really hard at them. watch a night at the roxbury for some tips.

SoundFella · 18-09-2012 04:16PM

EnterNow wrote: »

SoundFella wrote: »

before we were together I pulled more women than Hugh Hefner

I doubt that

Haha was a joke tbh , point is I was better with women a few years ago than I use to be .

Hardonraging · 18-09-2012 04:16PM

Be you're self ... ahh i'm just kidding,

Be a complete ****, the cockier the better, show no interest in who she is or where she's from.. just basically tell her out right, you wanna tap it...

Guaranteed winner or your money back

PCPhoto · 18-09-2012 04:16PM

what exactly do you mean by "pull" ... normally its the woman doing the pulling !!

Akrasia · 18-09-2012 04:17PM

Maybe after getting to know a woman as a person and not just something to dip parts of your body into, you're finding it psychologically more difficult to treat them as objects

Don't worry, this will pass.

My prescription, 2 copies of Nuts magazine (after meals) and a 'weekly sport' before bed. You'll soon be back to your meaningless casual degradation of other human beings (with real feelings)

SoundFella · 18-09-2012 04:17PM

Vicar in a tutu wrote: »

Just go up to various women and dance really hard at them. watch a night at the roxbury for some tips.

Does dancing hard not scream "CREEP" ? Lol

PCPhoto · 18-09-2012 04:17PM

Seriously though if you are talking about just kissing - you need to seriously learn about life as an adult - if you are talking about getting a roide (Yes I spelled it like that for effect) then I doubt you are getting one or two in a night out !!

Gran Hermano · 18-09-2012 04:17PM

By the ears if they are considerably shorter than you.

Hardonraging · 18-09-2012 04:18PM

mikom wrote: »

Just the tip............. that's what I always tell 'em

I get you're ref chief !!

SoundFella · 18-09-2012 04:19PM

PCPhoto wrote: »

Seriously though if you are talking about just kissing - you need to seriously learn about life as an adult - if you are talking about getting a roide (Yes I spelled it like that for effect) then I doubt you are getting one or two in a night out !!

Obviously not having sex with 2 people on a night out

Vicar in a tutu · 18-09-2012 04:19PM

SoundFella wrote: »

Vicar in a tutu wrote: »

Just go up to various women and dance really hard at them. watch a night at the roxbury for some tips.

Does dancing hard not scream "CREEP" ? Lol

Na not at all... Make sure you have a very intense look in the eye and have beads of sweat on your forehead too!

PCPhoto · 18-09-2012 04:20PM

SoundFella wrote: »

Obviously not having sex with 2 people on a night out

so you lied to us !!! ...first the lie about being better than heff ..and now this !!

liar liar pants on fire !! :rolleyes:

Timothy Bryce · 18-09-2012 04:21PM

Be a cnut. *All* women love cnuts.

davet82 · 18-09-2012 04:21PM

smell her bum, it works for dogs

SoundFella · 18-09-2012 04:22PM

PCPhoto wrote: »

SoundFella wrote: »

Obviously not having sex with 2 people on a night out

so you lied to us !!! ...first the lie about being better than heff ..and now this !!

liar liar pants on fire !! :rolleyes:

No no you assume I meant getting the ride , who's to say I'm not a 12 year old

(I'm not btw)

SoundFella · 18-09-2012 04:23PM

Timothy Bryce wrote: »

Be a cnut. *All* women love cnuts.

That is actually true :P

SoundFella · 18-09-2012 04:25PM

And I think a lot of you are picking me up wrong , my last relationship ended badly and my confidence with women is rock bottom as well as on a personal level so I'm actually asking for some genuine advice on women (and not cocky responses)

SunnyDub1 · 18-09-2012 04:27PM

Man up and approach a girl by saying Hi and maybe offer her a drink.

One thing that really bugs me about Irish men is they feel the need to be sh*t faced to approach a woman and the majority of them make an absolute twat out of them selves :rolleyes:

I'm sure a lot of other woman will agree with me when I say that a simply "Hi, how are you etc" (small talk) is the simple, best and nicest way to get any ones attention.

No one wants a messy drunk blabbering pure s*it to you - Big turn off !!

summerskin · 18-09-2012 04:27PM

SoundFella wrote: »

Ok so here's the situation me and long term girlfriend broke up about 6months ago and before we were together I pulled more women than Hugh Hefner but since we broke up, on nights out my game is non existent , I still pull one or two on a night out but I'm not working for it , it just happens , I'm not a bad looking lad but I feel I've lost a awful lot of confidence on approaching women that I don't know , so what's your approach on a night out (a girls opinion would also be great!)
Thanks in advance

EdenHazard, is that you?

Timothy Bryce · 18-09-2012 04:29PM

SunnyDub1 wrote: »

Man up and approach a girl by saying Hi and maybe offer her a drink.

One thing that really bugs me about Irish men is they feel the need to be sh*t faced to approach a woman and the majority of them make an absolute twat out of them selves :rolleyes:

I'm sure a lot of other woman will agree with me when I say that a simply "Hi, how are you etc" (small talk) is the simple and best and nicest way to get any ones attention.

No one wants a messy drunk blabbering pure s*it to you - Big turn off !!

That may work in whatever 'Sex & the City' world you live in, however, that approach usually ends in something like the following.

Man: Hi there, nice to meet you etc.
Woman: ENGAGE PEPPERSPRAY
Woman: "WHAT A CREEP!"

You'd be better off being a complete cock.

Rachelmhr · 18-09-2012 04:29PM

I dont mean to be rude but...

Saying things like: I pulled more women than Hugh Hefner

That is just so cocky and self centered... So coming from a 26 yr old woman: DROP THAT ATTITUDE!!

It's just a little tip because I dont know any women that would be attracted to a man who comes out with a statement like that!!

Good luck on your quest anyways

Edit: Just saw that you were joking PHEW!!! Haha!

Honestly? Dont use chat up lines, dont be jittery and nervous women can smell fear a mile away!
Even if you're not a good listener PRETEND you are

I notice you said your confidence is shot to pieces as a result of a previous relationship... stop thinking like that! Get you mojo back even if you have to do a few practice runs first!!

Picking up women on a night out , tips?

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