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Priest says priests are often seduced by children?

  • 01-09-2012 11:37PM
    #1
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,019 ✭✭✭


    Roman Catholic spiritual leader says ‘youngsters’ often to blame for priest’s sexual abuse

    Read more: http://www.irishcentral.com/news/Roman-Catholic-spiritual-leader-says-youngsters-often-to-blame-for-priests-sexual-abuse-168201806.html#ixzz25G8hG9kq


    So it was the children all along seducing the poor priests.

    “Suppose you have a man having a nervous breakdown, and a youngster comes after him,” 79-year-old Fr Groeschel, said in the interview. “A lot of the cases, the youngster — 14, 16, 18 — is the seducer."


    What the ****?, the priest who said that counsel's child molestor priests, and going by his word's I'd say he was seduced by a kid or 2 himself, maybe he's being seduced and molested right now because he seems to be having some sort of breakdown.

    Ohh actually there is a reason he said that:
    The Rev. Glenn Sudano, another founder of the Friars of the Renewal, whose adherents take vows of poverty and work extensively with the poor, said the remarks might have been the result of Father Groeschel’s advancing age and failing health, as well as the aftereffect of a near-fatal 2004 car accident in Orlando, Fla.

    So a near death experience made him say this:
    "A kid looking for a father and didn’t have his own — and they won’t be planning to get into heavy-duty sex, but almost romantic, embracing, kissing, perhaps sleeping but not having intercourse or anything like that.”
    http://www.nytimes.com/2012/08/31/nyregion/in-interview-the-rev-benedict-groeschel-says-abuse-victims-can-be-seducers.html


    Maybe it was the kids that didn't have a daddy were the easiest to molest as there was no daddy around to kick the bollox out of the dirty bastards.


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Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,689 ✭✭✭Tombi!


    I feel something nice should be said since it'll be filled with hate:
    He has a nice beard.

    That being said: he's a muppet.
    At first I thought: maybe he's on about how girls about 10-14 "flirt" with older guys in the same way lads try to impress the older girls and just trying to get attention (but in a completely innocent way).
    Then I read the article and wish I didn't ever read it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,431 ✭✭✭M cebee


    true
    i used to get awful horny at mass when i was a kid


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,266 ✭✭✭3rdDegree


    "Damn sexy children! "


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Education Moderators, Paid Member Posts: 27,498 CMod ✭✭✭✭spurious


    Ahah, asking for it.
    I see.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,857 ✭✭✭Reloc8


    Damn those sexy priests.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 6,162 ✭✭✭Augmerson


    Pedo's often say this. Wasn't me, the kid wanted it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,073 ✭✭✭Pottler


    Oh, but some people need a slapping, a really hard slapping. I could say "he wanted it your honour, he seduced me into giving him a ferocious slap in the puss, repeatedly. Enjoyed it he did. I am the victim here...I know he's a priest, but I could'nt resist, he was gagging for it, led me on" To me, this gives a glimpse of what the RCC are like when they accidentally let their guard down.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,610 ✭✭✭ArtSmart


    author, counsellor to priests and has a tv show. hardly a crazy old man. unforgivable


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,486 ✭✭✭✭For Forks Sake




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11 insu1


    stuar wrote: »
    Roman Catholic spiritual leader says ‘youngsters’ often to blame for priest’s sexual abuse

    Read more: http://www.irishcentral.com/news/Roman-Catholic-spiritual-leader-says-youngsters-often-to-blame-for-priests-sexual-abuse-168201806.html#ixzz25G8hG9kq
    “Suppose you have a man having a nervous breakdown, and a youngster comes after him,” 79-year-old Fr Groeschel, said in the interview. “A lot of the cases, the youngster — 14, 16, 18 — is the seducer."

    Are they still writing the press release with why they f**k 5 year olds ?






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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,969 ✭✭✭hardCopy


    3rdDegree wrote: »
    "Damn sexy children! "

    Leading cause of pedophilia don't ya know


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,610 ✭✭✭ArtSmart


    insu1 wrote: »



    Are they still writing the press release with why they f**k 5 year olds ?




    your point?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,971 ✭✭✭Orim


    Jesus those poor priests. I never realised they had it so hard.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,689 ✭✭✭Tombi!


    NSW
    You got warned, link is Not Safe For Work/Kids
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7yMXvsMPsJ8

    It explains why it's okay to abuse kids.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,029 ✭✭✭✭Chuck Stone


    'The child seduced me'.

    The peado's pathetic defence.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 408 ✭✭PC CDROM


    'The child seduced me'.

    The peado's pathetic defence.

    Those new "super short wearing" jailbiat..

    Their parents should be ashamed etc etc


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,370 ✭✭✭✭Son Of A Vidic


    “A lot of the cases, the youngster — 14, 16, 18 — is the seducer."


    Surely they're all a bit overage for the average pedo priest?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 804 ✭✭✭round tower huntsman


    reminds me of the joke by that lad boyle off mock the week


    he goes on about peados how they all look the same, beards, anoraks,glasses etc.... then says "what is it about that look that children find so sexy":ee

    the church is still full of active peados and sadists imo.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,689 ✭✭✭Tombi!


    'The child seduced me'.

    The peado's pathetic defence.

    Technically speaking, it's true.
    Most kids know how to "flirt". Not in the same way a man or a woman would flirt. But kids do it a lot to impress guys/girls.
    It's obviously different to a hot girl/guy trying to chat you up.

    I'm not condoning anything child molestors do or anything like that.
    I've already had enough experience with one as a kid.
    But I do understand where they're coming from.
    To a lot of child molestors what kids do is actually flirting, in the same manner you or I would call someone throwing themselves at you as flirting.

    The thing is though, they're generally messed up to actually think that the playful "flirting" (again, I'm using it very loosely) is a sign they want to actually engage in something physical.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,019 ✭✭✭stuar


    “A lot of the cases, the youngster — 14, 16, 18 — is the seducer."

    And to try fend off the young seducers, the priest says "If only you we're 10 years younger".


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,029 ✭✭✭✭Chuck Stone


    Technically speaking, it's true.

    What's true?
    Most kids know how to "flirt". Not in the same way a man or a woman would flirt. But kids do it a lot to impress guys/girls.
    It's obviously different to a hot girl/guy trying to chat you up.

    I'm not condoning anything child molestors do or anything like that.
    I've already had enough experience with one as a kid.
    But I do understand where they're coming from.
    To a lot of child molestors what kids do is actually flirting, in the same manner you or I would call someone throwing themselves at you as flirting.

    The thing is though, they're generally messed up to actually think that the playful "flirting" (again, I'm using it very loosely) is a sign they want to actually engage in something physical.

    I'm out of my depth here ^^.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,938 ✭✭✭mackg


    Technically speaking, it's true.
    Most kids know how to "flirt". Not in the same way a man or a woman would flirt. But kids do it a lot to impress guys/girls.
    It's obviously different to a hot girl/guy trying to chat you up.

    I'm not condoning anything child molestors do or anything like that.
    I've already had enough experience with one as a kid.
    But I do understand where they're coming from.
    To a lot of child molestors what kids do is actually flirting, in the same manner you or I would call someone throwing themselves at you as flirting.

    The thing is though, they're generally messed up to actually think that the playful "flirting" (again, I'm using it very loosely) is a sign they want to actually engage in something physical.

    Oh yeah look at him there being far too small and weak to stop me raping him. Just no.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,017 ✭✭✭EZ24GET


    He (this priest)also had great empathy for convicted child molester Jerry Sandusky. I believe he apologised said he was getting older and was confused, sort of tried to make it sound as if He were suffering from senility. I hope he is removed as any sort of spokes person If you are that confused perhaps you need to be under someone's care, Obviously you are losing your grasp.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,019 ✭✭✭stuar


    Technically speaking, it's true.
    Most kids know how to "flirt". Not in the same way a man or a woman would flirt. But kids do it a lot to impress guys/girls.
    It's obviously different to a hot girl/guy trying to chat you up.

    I'm not condoning anything child molestors do or anything like that.
    I've already had enough experience with one as a kid.
    But I do understand where they're coming from.
    To a lot of child molestors what kids do is actually flirting, in the same manner you or I would call someone throwing themselves at you as flirting.

    The thing is though, they're generally messed up to actually think that the playful "flirting" (again, I'm using it very loosely) is a sign they want to actually engage in something physical.

    Your statement is a bit confusing.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 514 ✭✭✭alphabeat


    sweet motherfcuking jesus , this is the best excuse yet.

    unreal.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,689 ✭✭✭Tombi!


    mackg wrote: »
    Oh yeah look at him there being far too small and weak to stop me raping him. Just no.

    No, not what I was getting at.
    A lot of child molestors do actually believe this kind of stuff.
    You ever have a little girl come up and "flirt" *basically just try to get you to notice her) and all that that kids do?
    Well it's the same thing with pedophiles except they really do see it as a sign of "they want me sexually*
    stuar wrote: »
    Your statement is a bit confusing.

    I was the one abused and not the abuser :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 148 ✭✭MusicalMelody


    ****ing ridiculous they will actually try anything to try and sound less like monsters, which at the end of the day is all they are. They stole the innocence from these young children... Gained their trust and then abused their power.. they should all be locked up for what they did. If they weren't in the priesthood they'd be locked up! Protected by the very institution they shamed! Ugh makes me sick!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,073 ✭✭✭Pottler


    No, not what I was getting at.
    A lot of child molestors do actually believe this kind of stuff.
    You ever have a little girl come up and "flirt" *basically just try to get you to notice her) and all that that kids do?
    Well it's the same thing with pedophiles except they really do see it as a sign of "they want me sexually*



    I was the one abused and not the abuser :)
    Keep it that way.:) You know what they say, history repeating and all that. Glad you are ok and are breaking the cycle. Sorry for what you suffered, abusers have a lot to answer for. I still think Fr Grossfeck needs a serious slap and hereby voulenteer to be Irelands emmisary in the queue.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,689 ✭✭✭Tombi!


    Pottler wrote: »
    Keep it that way.:) You know what they say, history repeating and all that. Glad you are ok and are breaking the cycle. Sorry for what you suffered, abusers have a lot to answer for. I still think Fr Grossfeck needs a serious slap and hereby voulenteer to be Irelands emmisary in the queue.

    Ah no, it wasn't by a priest or anything. TBH it was some random fella that just well... had his way with me :pac:
    I just laugh about it now. I got over it I think since I did tell someone I was really close to and I know the fact I'm joking about it probably does disgust some people but I think in my own little mind, that it's my way of getting over it, you know?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,073 ✭✭✭Pottler


    Ah no, it wasn't by a priest or anything. TBH it was some random fella that just well... had his way with me :pac:
    I just laugh about it now. I got over it I think since I did tell someone I was really close to and I know the fact I'm joking about it probably does disgust some people but I think in my own little mind, that it's my way of getting over it, you know?
    Shit happens. It's how we deal with it that makes the difference. You were probably flirting wildly anyway, according to Fr Grubscrew.:D


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