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Someone says I love you. You don't feel the same. It's awkward

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  • #32
    omgitsthelazor
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 186 ✭✭omgitsthelazor


    I don't think I'll ever have this problem. :(


  • #33
    Shryke
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,199 ✭✭✭Shryke


    bluewolf wrote: »
    I love spending time with you too

    You're stone cold! Malicious intent, bun go bar.

    Best to cut the person out if you don't feel it OP, for them not you. If they do feel strongly then they'll only be a mess inside while you're around them.
    Please though, get yourself a blog or something.


  • #34
    1ZRed
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    mikemac1 wrote: »
    Commitment issues?

    Aren't you a secondary school student and living with your parents? You have so many threads I feel I know your life story by now

    You make it sound as if you're about to settle down with someone

    You're young OP, relax a bit

    I was being light hearted there but I mean I don't like getting close to guys, emotionally. I'm not comfortable with that.
    bluewolf wrote: »
    I love spending time with you too

    He didn't even get that sort of love out of me. I told him "I like spending time with you" :o
    shopaholic01 wrote: »
    OP, it's a pity EdenHazard isn't gay, you two would really be the perfect couple.

    Haha fuck sake give me some credit, I'm not that gay! :pac:


  • #35
    marshbaboon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,184 ✭✭✭marshbaboon


    I had a girl tell me she loved me after knowing her for a week.

    She asked me to marry her 6 months later... Daddy issues eh :o


  • #36
    NegativeCreep
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,351 ✭✭✭NegativeCreep


    Been in the same position as you OP (although not with another bloke)
    People are too quick to say those three words in my opinion. :o
    Best thing to do is, straight away, say that you don't love him. And if you're not intent on having a relationship with him then make that perfectly clear aswell. Say you want to stay friends but also make it clear that you mean JUST friends and not f*ck buddies (unless that's what you're after) :pac:


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  • #37
    CavanCrew
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 337 ✭✭CavanCrew


    Hardonraging wrote: »
    And if i might .. "To burn with desire and keep quiet about it is the greatest punishment we can bring on ourselves"


    Sure HardOn is in Lurve, ARNT YA!


  • #38
    Hardonraging
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,641 ✭✭✭Hardonraging


    CavanCrew wrote: »
    Sure HardOn is in Lurve, ARNT YA!


    In love with life ? buy a big diamond ring for me ??


  • #39
    CavanCrew
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 337 ✭✭CavanCrew


    Hardonraging wrote: »
    In love with life ? buy a big diamond ring for me ??

    No.


  • #40
    Vicar in a tutu
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 901 ✭✭✭Vicar in a tutu


    Haha OP I do that all the time, I'll text someone going hello wanker etc :pac: , It just means I like them :pac:

    Yeah the whole loving someone after 2 months though is kinda over the top, very needy:eek:


  • #41
    1ZRed
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    Hardonraging wrote: »
    In love with life ? buy a big diamond ring for me ??

    Any particular song stuck in your head today? :p


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  • #42
    paddy147
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 15,824 ✭✭✭✭paddy147


    Lesson 4-"Interpersonal Skills"

    ......."you dont sweat much for a fat bird".........:D




  • #43
    Teyla Emmagan
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,638 ✭✭✭Teyla Emmagan


    paddy147 wrote: »
    Lesson 4-"Interpersonal Skills"

    ......."you dont sweat much for a fat bird".........:D



    Are you in the wrong thread, love?


  • #44
    Cee-Jay-Cee
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,234 ✭✭✭✭Cee-Jay-Cee


    I think the only sensible way to sort it out is to make him prove it by setting him all sorts of difficult tasks sort of like on big brother (you could video them too) The first thing you should get him to do is fuck off and never ever ever ever speak to you again, ever! If he can manage that then he really does love you and you two crazy kids should hook up.


  • #45
    1ZRed
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    We were texting there just now and he said he watches Jersey shore and Geordie shore sometimes.


    He needs to be cut out of my life.


  • #46
    marshbaboon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,184 ✭✭✭marshbaboon


    1ZRed wrote: »
    We were texting there just now and he said he watches Jersey shore and Geordie shore sometimes.


    He needs to be cut out of my life.

    Can I have his number? I'm not even gay... but I am incredibly desperate.


  • #47
    Miss Lockhart
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,639 ✭✭✭Miss Lockhart


    shopaholic01 wrote: »
    OP, it's a pity EdenHazard isn't gay, you two would really be the perfect couple.

    I couldn't agree more! I often mix the two of them up. Which one loves Justin Bieber again? Or is it one wants to be with him and one wants to be him??


  • #48
    1ZRed
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    Miss Lockhart wrote: »
    I couldn't agree more! I often mix the two of them up. Which one loves Justin Bieber again? Or is it one wants to be with him and one wants to be him??

    Let me clear some things up right here.

    I despise Justin bieber. I do not want to be him nor do I want to be with him.
    I wouldn't even spite fuck him if I was offered money.

    In fairness I don't see how I'm like EdenHazzard. No offence to the guy but he plays up to the stereotype I'm supposed to be more than myself.


  • #49
    Miss Lockhart
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,639 ✭✭✭Miss Lockhart


    1ZRed wrote: »
    Let me clear some things up right here.

    I despise Justin bieber. I do not want to be him nor do I want to be with him.
    I wouldn't even spite fuck him if I was offered money.

    In fairness I don't see how I'm like EdenHazzard. No offence to the guy but he plays up to the stereotype I'm supposed to be more than myself.

    I suppose it's just that you're both young male posters who seem to detail every problem of your lives on boards and constantly look for advice and reassurance here. I lose track of which issue belongs with which poster.


  • #50
    1ZRed
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    Miss Lockhart wrote: »
    I suppose it's just that you're both young male posters who seem to detail every problem of your lives on boards and constantly look for advice and reassurance here. I lose track of which issue belongs with which poster.

    In my defence I post a lot of those threads when I've been drinking. But tbh I couldn't give a fuck either way.


  • #51
    shopaholic01
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,916 ✭✭✭shopaholic01


    Miss Lockhart wrote: »
    I couldn't agree more! I often mix the two of them up. Which one loves Justin Bieber again? Or is it one wants to be with him and one wants to be him??

    EdenHazard is the super good-looking, Justin Bieber one who lacks confidence, and therefore can only pull when girls approach him.

    1ZRed is the one who considered being a gay porn star to pay his way through college, but was unsure if his manhood was up to the task (concerned about girth, length is fine).


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  • #52
    shopaholic01
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,916 ✭✭✭shopaholic01


    1ZRed wrote: »
    In my defence I post a lot of those threads when I've been drinking. But tbh I couldn't give a fuck either way.

    I do find you amusing, sometimes despite myself :D.


  • #53
    dttq
    Closed Accounts Posts: 381 ✭✭dttq


    1ZRed wrote: »
    I got told I love you by somebody recently. That's alright and fine.

    Except it was by text, in full dead on seriousness, after 2 months of knowing this person!:eek:

    Naturally, I immediately threw my phone out of my hand onto the couch once I read the text! I might have a few commitment issues but this was just batshit crazy to me and I didn't know how to react because for a start;

    I only knew him for 2 months
    Wasn't going out with him. AFAIK
    It was said by text and by a man. Still not comfortable with that emotional/feelings crap side of being with a guy

    So In the end I decided to text back saying "alright I'm going bed. Night prick"

    In my defence though, I call him names the whole time. Didn't go down well the first time with him, strangely, but I was just taking the piss and we do it back and forth. I thought of him as a mate not a fucking boyfriend!

    Safe to say I pissed the fucker off big time and the last thing I needed was a big angry gay stalker who was in love with me.

    But ah well wtf else was I supposed to do? New concept for me!:D
    Met up with him in the end and sorted things out. He still feels the same and I'm uncomfortable with the situation but he's a mate to me so I couldn't just ditch him completely.

    I just got thinking this wasn't the best experience at hearing it seriously by somebody. In fact, it was pretty shit.


    But wtf are you supposed to do in these situations?

    Cum on, give them a second chance.


  • #54
    1ZRed
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    shopaholic01 wrote: »
    EdenHazard is the super good-looking, Justin Bieber one who lacks confidence, and therefore can only pull when girls approach him.

    1ZRed is the one who considered being a gay porn star to pay his way through college, but was unsure if his manhood was up to the task (concerned about girth, length is fine).

    I actually sent my photos on and I heard back from 3 studios. Not going to do it but I did get nicely complimented on my dick so that builds the confidence on that front!

    But eh yeah, thanks for the summary. Great to know I'm seen only as the wannabe pornstar but that's something different I suppose


  • #55
    shopaholic01
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,916 ✭✭✭shopaholic01


    1ZRed wrote: »
    I actually sent my photos on and I heard back from 3 studios. Not going to do it but I did get nicely complimented on my dick so that builds the confidence on that front!

    But eh yeah, thanks for the summary. Great to know I'm seen only as the wannabe pornstar but that's something different I suppose

    Well I could say more, you're like an old friend now. Loved that thread btw, but I thought you decided to stop posting in AH?


  • #56
    Colmustard
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,836 ✭✭✭Colmustard




    OP I wrote a song about your predicament you wouldn't believe who i got to perform it,


  • #57
    Mr Benevolent
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,433 ✭✭✭✭Mr Benevolent


    I respect gay people, but there's one thing that gay men are missing out on - the female form. Mother of god is it good. Boobs - fantastic. Legs - wow. Everything else - utterly amazing.

    Yet gay guys don't appreciate it. That's criminal. I have a cock, I appreciate it and enjoy it, but it's a cock. Big deal. But women - sweet holy mother of all that's slippery and warm they're good.

    TL;DR: Gay men are missing out big time. To clarify, I understand that being gay is not a choice.


  • #58
    1ZRed
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    shopaholic01 wrote: »
    Well I could say more, you're like an old friend now. Loved that thread btw, but I thought you decided to stop posting in AH?

    Ah that thread. Got the absolute piss ripped out of me.
    I figured it wasn't the worst around here and I've nothing better do :D


  • #59
    fasttalkerchat
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,652 ✭✭✭fasttalkerchat


    1ZRed wrote: »
    I actually sent my photos on and I heard back from 3 studios. Not going to do it but I did get nicely complimented on my dick so that builds the confidence on that front!

    But eh yeah, thanks for the summary. Great to know I'm seen only as the wannabe pornstar but that's something different I suppose

    But you're gay... would a big dick not be a bad thing?


  • #60
    1ZRed
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    Confab wrote: »
    I respect gay people, but there's one thing that gay men are missing out on - the female form. Mother of god is it good. Boobs - fantastic. Legs - wow. Everything else - utterly amazing.

    Yet gay guys don't appreciate it. That's criminal. I have a cock, I appreciate it and enjoy it, but it's a cock. Big deal. But women - sweet holy mother of all that's slippery and warm they're good.

    TL;DR: Gay men are missing out big time. To clarify, I understand that being gay is not a choice.

    Well look at it this way. It works both ways. I get to appreciate a man and get with them, there's actually a lot of power in it.

    I know it's very hard for straight guys to understand the appeal of another man and they don't readily get it but two muscled strong guys having sex is very masculine and a massive turn on because you're conditioned not to do it because it's 'wrong' so there is a massive thrill in it, plus it's rough and rugged. It's not just the individual bits of a guy but the sum of the parts and the whole idea of it that's appealing to me, that's your point with women. You'll never fully get it but it's unreal.

    And I am attracted to women enough to have sex with them and enjoy it and a lot of gay guy's do find women very attractive and get drawn to them but not enough to have sex usually. I'm sure some straight guys can appreciate another man sometimes too but not necessarily in a fully sexual way at all if you get me.

    I think you could play it both ways definitely and say that gay guys and straight guys are missing out equally.


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  • #61
    guitarzero
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,425 ✭✭✭guitarzero


    "Night prick"?

    Trying to see what he sees in you and I'm getting nothing. Maybe it was a joke, it had to have been a joke.


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