Wingmanning: How do?

Lyaiera · 15-07-2012 05:21PM #1

So we've had the cock-blocking thread, the Irish women are awful thread and the small penis thread. I say we put a positive spin on this sudden interest in the mysterious ways of finding someone for your pilot(is pilot the right term for someone you're wingmanning?)

The last bit of real wingmanning I ever did was when I was 15 and you'd just say to someone your pilot had their eyes on, "He's really nice and fancies you, will you score him?) And point in the general direction of him.

However, after a big heart to heart with one of my closest friends he's decided to become determined to get a serious relationship. He's a total boss, really sweet, open to anything, nothing phases him. He'll talk to the most sexy, gorgeous confident girl in the same way he'd talk to a really shy, low self-esteem girl. He's made a serious effort on looking better, and he has amazing tales from travelling and doing awesome stuff. However, he doesn't go in for the kill. I've often had the two of us chatting with some girls and the conversation has been going for 15 minutes and he gets a little shy. Like he doesn't know what happens next. I've tried to get him to "go-fer-it." But I think he needs a sign from the girl that she'd be ok with it. Strangely, I've often ended up going out with these girls he's missed myself (as in I'd run into them in the pub again and we'd be talking and end up drinking for the night, and they do always speak of him nicely.)

So After Hours wisdom bank. Tell me your tales of wingmanning and how it's gone good or bad. I'm looking for those little bits of advice that are only apparent after a full debrief. (But if you go for that pick-up-artist ****e I'm sure most people are just going to laugh.)

Where To · 15-07-2012 05:23PM

I can't wait til the schools go back.

Owen_S · 15-07-2012 05:25PM

Where To wrote: »

I can't wait til the schools go back.

I agree, a lot of these teachers get carried away with themselves during the summer holidays.

leggo · 15-07-2012 05:26PM

You seem like a bad wingman tbh OP.

boomkatalog · 15-07-2012 05:28PM

Will you shift my friend?

Ah_Yeah · 15-07-2012 05:28PM

I think that your story is example one of wingmanning gone bad - Goes out as wingman, dates girl himself.

Lyaiera · 15-07-2012 05:28PM

leggo wrote: »

You seem like a bad wingman tbh OP.

I agree. Hence the "how do?" part.

Sunnyisland · 15-07-2012 05:28PM

I am sorry Op don't understand what you mean ?

hondasam · 15-07-2012 05:29PM

sexist thread.

Lyaiera · 15-07-2012 05:30PM

realies wrote: »

I am sorry Op don't understand what you mean ?

I'm looking for advice on how to wingman someone. (And how to write good OPs I guess.)

southcentralts · 15-07-2012 05:32PM

Posting his details on the internet seems like the way to go. Points for laziness, and attracting the crazies to his door, be sure to keep us updated.

4zn76tysfajdxp · 15-07-2012 05:32PM

boomkatalog wrote: »

Will you shift my friend?

Kote?

Michael Weston · 15-07-2012 05:33PM

Lyaiera wrote: »

So we've had the cock-blocking thread, the Irish women are awful thread and the small penis thread. I say we put a positive spin on this sudden interest in the mysterious ways of finding someone for your pilot(is pilot the right term for someone you're wingmanning?)

The last bit of real wingmanning I ever did was when I was 15 and you'd just say to someone your pilot had their eyes on, "He's really nice and fancies you, will you score him?) And point in the general direction of him.

However, after a big heart to heart with one of my closest friends he's decided to become determined to get a serious relationship. He's a total boss, really sweet, open to anything, nothing phases him. He'll talk to the most sexy, gorgeous confident girl in the same way he'd talk to a really shy, low self-esteem girl. He's made a serious effort on looking better, and he has amazing tales from travelling and doing awesome stuff. However, he doesn't go in for the kill. I've often had the two of us chatting with some girls and the conversation has been going for 15 minutes and he gets a little shy. Like he doesn't know what happens next. I've tried to get him to "go-fer-it." But I think he needs a sign from the girl that she'd be ok with it. Strangely, I've often ended up going out with these girls he's missed myself (as in I'd run into them in the pub again and we'd be talking and end up drinking for the night, and they do always speak of him nicely.)

So After Hours wisdom bank. Tell me your tales of wingmanning and how it's gone good or bad. I'm looking for those little bits of advice that are only apparent after a full debrief. (But if you go for that pick-up-artist ****e I'm sure most people are just going to laugh.)

OP I think you should be his serious relationship.

boomkatalog · 15-07-2012 05:34PM

Cecelia Ambitious Rivalry wrote: »

Kote?

Yeah. He said less tongue this time.

4zn76tysfajdxp · 15-07-2012 05:34PM

boomkatalog wrote: »

Yeah. He said less tongue this time.

What a prude.

15-07-2012 05:35PM

Cecelia Ambitious Rivalry wrote: »

Kote?

Yeah. So...will ya?

Pushtrak · 15-07-2012 05:36PM

Lyaiera wrote: »

However, after a big heart to heart with one of my closest friends he's decided to become determined to get a serious relationship. He's a total boss, really sweet, open to anything, nothing phases him. He'll talk to the most sexy, gorgeous confident girl in the same way he'd talk to a really shy, low self-esteem girl. He's made a serious effort on looking better, and he has amazing tales from travelling and doing awesome stuff. However, he doesn't go in for the kill. I've often had the two of us chatting with some girls and the conversation has been going for 15 minutes and he gets a little shy. Like he doesn't know what happens next. I've tried to get him to "go-fer-it." But I think he needs a sign from the girl that she'd be ok with it. Strangely, I've often ended up going out with these girls he's missed myself (as in I'd run into them in the pub again and we'd be talking and end up drinking for the night, and they do always speak of him nicely.)

What does he think of the ones he'd talk to? Is there a case of wishing he knew them better? If its anything like me, its a kind of wariness about relationships and their tendency to not go so great. Which I'm thinking likely as there are some parallels to me.

A lot of that stuff sounds fairly similar to me. I kinda prefer to know a particular lass before starting, as I'm looking for more than an attraction, and looking for something more. As in, we'd click, get along.

As for one night stands, there is a "is she looking for a one night stand? I can't really ask that.." and crap running through your head.

4zn76tysfajdxp · 15-07-2012 05:38PM

Deleted User wrote: »

Yeah. So...will ya?

Spread 'em, boy. You're about to get the tongue lashing of a lifetime. In the anus.

1ZRed · 15-07-2012 05:38PM

Lyaiera wrote: »

I'm looking for advice on how to wingman someone. (And how to write good OPs I guess.)

"Get a gay guy! They're surprisingly brilliant at it plus no danger in losing the catch;)"

Said loser friend that couldn't score in a whore house if I wasn't there to break the ice and get things going for him:rolleyes:

AgileMyth · 15-07-2012 05:40PM

hondasam wrote: »

sexist thread.

Close but I reckon the one about spying on his sister in the bath is probably the sexiest thread

4zn76tysfajdxp · 15-07-2012 05:40PM

hondasam wrote: »

sexist thread.

This certainly is the sexiest thread.

jackthelad321 · 15-07-2012 05:43PM

It's easy being a wing man when you are in a relationship. The most important thing, if you actually want your mate to do well, is to not make him look like a tool by dropping in the time he shat himself at school or other stories that don't put the boy in the best light. He's well capable of making himself look stupid, perhaps it's the wingman's job to counteract this?? I don't know

Lyaiera · 15-07-2012 05:43PM

Pushtrak wrote: »

What does he think of the ones he'd talk to? Is there a case of wishing he knew them better? If its anything like me, its a kind of wariness about relationships and their tendency to not go so great. Which I'm thinking likely as there are some parallels to me.

A lot of that stuff sounds fairly similar to me. I kinda prefer to know a particular lass before starting, as I'm looking for more than an attraction, and looking for something more. As in, we'd click, get along.

As for one night stands, there is a "is she looking for a one night stand? I can't really ask that.." and crap running through your head.

That seems on the ball. He's happy for one-night stands, but he isn't pursuing them. I guess he's looking for a relationship more than anything. A woman who actually likes him and likes to do things with him. Neither of us are in the clubbing phase of our life.

I guess it's the way of the pub, especially with popular good pubs. Everything seems so full on, 100% all the time. You start talking to a lot of people and it's like you're in a pinball machine, so much going on and stuff bouncing all over the place. It's hard to get a read on someone. Especially as all the people we both hang around with are far more chilled and prefer a more chilled setting than high-octane pubs. But pubs are one of the places you get to meet new and interesting people.

mattjack · 15-07-2012 05:45PM

Lyaiera wrote: »

That seems on the ball. He's happy for one-night stands, but he isn't pursuing them. I guess he's looking for a relationship more than anything. A woman who actually likes him and likes to do things with him. Neither of us are in the clubbing phase of our life.

I guess it's the way of the pub, especially with popular good pubs. Everything seems so full on, 100% all the time. You start talking to a lot of people and it's like you're in a pinball machine, so much going on and stuff bouncing all over the place. It's hard to get a read on someone. Especially as all the people we both hang around with are far more chilled and prefer a more chilled setting than high-octane pubs. But pubs are one of the places you get to meet new and interesting people.

OP by the sounds of things you and your mate need a squadron not a wingman.

Jimoslimos · 15-07-2012 05:47PM

Lyaiera wrote: »

That seems on the ball. He's happy for one-night stands, but he isn't pursuing them. I guess he's looking for a relationship more than anything. A woman who actually likes him and likes to do things with him. Neither of us are in the clubbing phase of our life.

Yeah, I also found it difficult to gain entry to clubs when I was 15.

Lyaiera · 15-07-2012 05:48PM

mattjack wrote: »

OP by the sounds of things you and your mate need a squadron not a wingman.

I suppose we could join the navy. I've heard lots of stuff happens in the navy.

hondasam · 15-07-2012 05:49PM

AgileMyth wrote: »

Close but I reckon the one about spying on his sister in the bath is probably the sexiest thread

Cecelia Ambitious Rivalry wrote: »

This certainly is the sexiest thread.

Cecelia Ambitious Rivalry wrote: »

Spread 'em, boy. You're about to get the tongue lashing of a lifetime. In the anus.

I can see this is a sexy thread. I need to get comfortable.

boomkatalog · 15-07-2012 05:54PM

Cecelia Ambitious Rivalry wrote: »

Spread 'em, boy. You're about to get the tongue lashing of a lifetime. In the anus.

See OP? I'm an awesome wingman :cool:

Sauve · 15-07-2012 06:06PM

Cecelia Ambitious Rivalry wrote: »

boomkatalog wrote: »

Will you shift my friend?

Kote?

Oh!
Me me me!

Blondini · 15-07-2012 09:41PM

Would ya all go and stop with the fcuking cock-blocking and wingman boll*x ... Go and get yourself a fcuking bf or gf like normal people do ...

Sauve · 15-07-2012 09:44PM

Blondini wrote: »

Would ya all go and stop with the fcuking cock-blocking and wingman boll*x ... Go and get yourself a fcuking bf or gf like normal people do ...

What's it to you how people conduct their sex lives?

Wingmanning: How do?

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