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Bullying happens at all ages.

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,262 ✭✭✭✭Joey the lips


    Bull. You need to have gotten bullied to realise how severe it is. If the bullies are bullied its the perfect leson

    "He who lives by the sword....."

    and bear in mind...this is america :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 394 ✭✭RaRaRasputin


    Typical group behaviour, because none of those brats would dare to say something to the woman's face if they were on their own. What makes it worse is that the victim is obviously working on that bus because she really needs the money. Yeah, I'd say those runts need to go through some bullying themselves to learn and maybe even a kick in their faces.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,114 ✭✭✭Pdfile


    only a thread now ?? she was bullied, kids tolds off and she got a holiday.

    everything went better then expected.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    That poor woman, my heart goes out to her.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,808 ✭✭✭FatherLen


    they need the shit beaten out of them. no better lesson.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,680 ✭✭✭policarp


    FatherLen wrote: »
    they need the shit beaten out of them. no better lesson.

    The parents are the ones at fault, IMO. . .


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,073 ✭✭✭Pottler


    policarp wrote: »
    The parents are the ones at fault, IMO. . .
    Jasus, the parents were bullying her as well? But were too sneaky to get caught? You must have the inside story, spill it, spill it now.... UUGh, what the feck was that? Sh1te? You had a load of sh1te? I thought you knew somthing we didn't.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 15,515 ✭✭✭✭admiralofthefleet


    policarp wrote: »
    The parents are the ones at fault, IMO. . .

    my wife was bullied by students and teachers in presentation college, terenure because she is blind in one eye. she was called a twit and dumb on numerous occasions by teachers because she couldnt see the blackboard and was stopped from going on school tours when her vision had no reason to stop her.
    in the end her parents removed her from the school and were considering legal action but they would have been going up against the state and could have lost their home had their case lost. its years ago now but some of them teachers are still there and could be still bullying students


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 15,515 ✭✭✭✭admiralofthefleet


    Kiera wrote: »
    That poor woman, my heart goes out to her.

    likewise. my late nana was a big woman. if anyone had of bullied her like that id have gone through them for a shortcut


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭LETHAL LADY


    Serious lack of empathy shown to that lady. At first I thought it was fake but judging by the cowering nature of those "bullying" they too are under the control of some perhaps controlling sociopathic personality. Well thats my take on it anyhow.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,770 ✭✭✭Jen Pigs Fly


    I feel so sorry for that poor women, didn't watch all of the video, I couldn't.
    She didn't deserve that, I'm glad that she now knows that a lot of people care for her, even people she doesn't know.

    It's times like this that I wish corporal punishment was ok, those kids deserve a punishment :mad:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,035 ✭✭✭uch


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,897 ✭✭✭MagicSean


    They set up a charity fund to help her retire. Last i checked she had over $260k raised


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,059 ✭✭✭Sindri


    policarp wrote: »
    The parents are the ones at fault, IMO. . .

    I think we should blame rap music.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 637 ✭✭✭derb12


    So weird that that girl just droned on and on with her "you f***in fatass" crap for 10 minutes straight - possibly longer.
    I like the idea that such horrible kids are getting a taste of their own medicine, though!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    Poor lady. Sick that the kids mocked her saying that her whole family killed themselves cause they couldn't bear to be near her, when her young son committed suicide 10 years ago and her husband passed away not long after that.

    The lack of empathy is astounding, I can't imagine ever reducing a grown woman to tears and not caring.

    If she were my mother or grandmother I'd probably knock those kids out. Not a reasonable reaction by any means, but that video made me so angry. Poor woman. I hope she enjoys an early retirement with that fund, she deserves it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,190 ✭✭✭Mister Jingles


    Would love to see all those little bastards get a hiding some day and have the word ''scumbag'' tattooed to their heads. What a sick thing to do to somebody. I could only manage to watch the first two minutes of that video before getting pissed off.

    Some people might not agree but I'd be very surprised if anything like that would happen in this country !


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,680 ✭✭✭policarp


    Pottler wrote: »
    Jasus, the parents were bullying her as well? But were too sneaky to get caught? You must have the inside story, spill it, spill it now.... UUGh, what the feck was that? Sh1te? You had a load of sh1te? I thought you knew somthing we didn't.
    Sorry,but my post still stands. . .
    my wife was bullied by students and teachers in presentation college, terenure because she is blind in one eye. she was called a twit and dumb on numerous occasions by teachers because she couldnt see the blackboard and was stopped from going on school tours when her vision had no reason to stop her.
    in the end her parents removed her from the school and were considering legal action but they would have been going up against the state and could have lost their home had their case lost. its years ago now but some of them teachers are still there and could be still bullying students
    Do you think bullying will stop because of one incident?
    It happens every day,everywhere, and if you lose your job, house or livelihood because of bullying , you're going to have to tell someone. . .
    Sindri wrote: »
    I think we should blame rap music.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,499 ✭✭✭✭DEFTLEFTHAND


    Delighted to hear that these little sh1ts have had their identities revealed to the world. I expect the threats and abusive phone calls will continue for a couple of months at least, hopefully the twisted little fcuks will learn a lesson. Police should monitor the situation though, I wouldn't rule out some lunatic arriving up to one of their doors with a firearm.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,669 ✭✭✭Riddle101


    My grandmother would never stand for that. If a couple of kids started mouthing off to her, she'd stand up to them, proberly give them a slap too. Poor woman nonetheless. Got to wonder what makes people act like that. Bunch of animals.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭ColeTrain


    Internet justice is what it is, they'll think twice before they harass anyone else


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,184 ✭✭✭✭Galwayguy35


    Real tough aren't they picking on an old woman.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,083 ✭✭✭meoklmrk91


    Horrible little bastards, to firstly abuse someone like that and secondly to have the gall to record it and put it online and expect no repercussions. Thankfully they have been proven wrong although I don't think I would go so far as to condone the death threats, a bit much me thinks.

    The fund was set up to raise $5,000 to send the woman on holidays, it has obviously far surpassed that and she can pretty much retire on it now, better than getting $15k a year to be abused by those little ****s.

    I wonder how the parents reacted, I know that if that was my child I would have to be held back, I would go ****ing mad if my child treated another human being like that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 720 ✭✭✭Fight_Night


    Would love to see all those little bastards get a hiding some day and have the word ''scumbag'' tattooed to their heads. What a sick thing to do to somebody. I could only manage to watch the first two minutes of that video before getting pissed off.

    Some people might not agree but I'd be very surprised if anything like that would happen in this country !

    Oh it definitely would.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,118 ✭✭✭Professional Griefer


    Absolute scum.

    Hope they get the living **** kicked out of them.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 720 ✭✭✭Fight_Night


    Think that this video going viral is enough punishment for them tbh, death threats definitely not needed, these kids are 12 ffs. Likewise all these wishes for violence upon them, shows that you're no better than them. Were they bullies and do they deserve to be punished? Yes. Should they have the shiit kicked out of them? No.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,723 ✭✭✭nice_very


    a neighbours kid (12ish) the other day told me he was being bullied by an older kid (in school I think) a while back, I asked him what happened and he said "I punched him and broke his jaw" I hi-fived him.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,324 ✭✭✭BillyMitchel


    God I've seen some horrible twisted things on the Internet but this is just completely heartbreaking to watch. Imagine if that was your mother, sister or granny and you found out they had to endure that crap. They should be severely punished and a hard slap wouldn't go astray either. If one of them were my kids I'd beat the living **** out of them and get them on their hands and knees and apologise to that woman a million times.

    Hope she keeps getting the money rolling in and enjoys every last cent of it.

    WTF was the driver doing? Surly he heard something? No deserves that treatment.

    God I hate bullying!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,103 ✭✭✭Tiddlypeeps


    Some people might not agree but I'd be very surprised if anything like that would happen in this country !

    The bus driver that drove me to secondary school every day had to put up with similar s**t to that. He had a nervous breakdown and had to retire early a couple of years after I finished school. Kids can be pure as*holes.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,758 ✭✭✭✭TeddyTedson


    We all did bad things as kids. Granted this is pretty rotten, and probably a lost worse than any of us did as kids, but kids can naturally be extremely mean. I remember our entire class making a new student teacher cry, although I don't remember anyone going to this extreme, I don't recall any personal insults, just general messing! We all grow out of it. I imagine these kids would have been horrified even if this wasn't recorded and they though about it 10 years from now.

    Two things I thought of while watching is that,
    perhaps society (in America at least) has gotten too liberal and soft on kids progressively over the years. Maybe it's time to go back a little bit.
    I never appreciated being hit as a child and have even previously said so on boards. But growing up in the 90s it was fairly minimal at least. It wasn't acceptable to go overboard, but still perfectly okay to give a kid a smack in public when they were way out of line. I think this might be a good level of tolerance towards physical punishment of children. Although, I still feel that consistent parenting would be enough without having to smack the child in 99% of cases.

    Another point is that in the age we live in of youtube and smart phones, we are now all judging these kids. I'm sure there are a few awful things each of us have done that perhaps we can't even recall that would get some fairly extreme negative reaction too.
    I read that these kids addresses have been leaked online, and they're receiving death threads. Two wrongs obviously don't make a right as the saying goes.
    It's up to the parents/school to deal with this, despite how uncomfortably mean it all was.

    But yea, it was one of the more shocking videos I've seen on the internet, and that's saying something!


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