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Have you ever made love to a married woman/man?

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,033 ✭✭✭mauzo


    prinz wrote: »
    Yet you go on radio chat shows and here desperate for attention.

    Hahaha dont make me laugh, they asked a question and I answered it.

    I was the only female to admit to it as well.

    Im open, if you see that as looking for attention then thats fine by me. I couldnt give a monkeys what you think. Hope you enjoyed the show, I wont the tickets that night too :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9 Wadi


    LordSmeg wrote: »
    Get yourself a wedding ring.

    And that makes what difference?!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,037 ✭✭✭Nothingbetter2d


    syndeyfife wrote: »
    Hahaha dont make me laugh, they asked a question and I answered it.

    I was the only female to admit to it as well.

    Im open, if you see that as looking for attention then thats fine by me. I couldnt give a monkeys what you think. Hope you enjoyed the show, I wont the tickets that night too :D

    fair play to ya... now all ya need do is send in a cv to rte radio and u might get your own show ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,249 ✭✭✭Scioch


    Wadi wrote: »
    And that makes what difference?!

    Bitches love married men.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,033 ✭✭✭mauzo


    fair play to ya... now all ya need do is send in a cv to rte radio and u might get your own show ;)

    It would be on very late :p


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,037 ✭✭✭Nothingbetter2d


    syndeyfife wrote: »
    It would be on very late :p

    pervert shift eh?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 283 ✭✭tightropetom


    Making love and f*cking are worlds apart OP, as different as night and day.

    Yes, "making love" is what a woman does when a man is f*cking her. :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 725 ✭✭✭Varied


    Lovely people in here.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,705 ✭✭✭Johro


    And they say romance is dead.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 725 ✭✭✭Varied


    Bein cheated by someone who is supposed to love you is the worst feeling in the world.

    I wouldn't wish it on anyone.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,670 ✭✭✭Doc


    I was with a married woman once when I was about 22 she was about 26 I met her in a club and we went back to a friend of her's house I didn't know until after she had a husband. She was smoking hot and I was a horny single young fella I didn't really think about the husband. I didn't have an afar with the girl just a one off tryst so I don’t really fell guilt towards the guy. Obviously there is something wrong with a relationship if someone is cheating. She decided to do it I didn’t force her into it. The one who the married person cheats with is in my opinion far less to blame then the cheater.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 494 ✭✭BeerSteakBirds


    Doc wrote: »
    I was with a married woman once when I was about 22 she was about 26 I met her in a club and we went back to a friend of her's house I didn't know until after she had a husband. She was smoking hot and I was a horny single young fella I didn't really think about the husband. I didn't have an afar with the girl just a one off tryst so I don’t really fell guilt towards the guy. Obviously there is something wrong with a relationship if someone is cheating. She decided to do it I didn’t force her into it. The one who the married person cheats with is in my opinion far less to blame then the cheater.

    I find it interesting how the friend covers up for her. I have seen that many times before. A lot of the time the friend is also having affairs and using the other one as a cover story in the same way.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,770 ✭✭✭Jen Pigs Fly


    DID YA EVER RAAAAPE SOMEONE!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,705 ✭✭✭Johro


    One of my (ex)mates cheats on his missus, I fell out with him over it. She'd do anything for him, thinks he's great. I think it's lousy and I couldn't respect anyone who cheats, male or female.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,705 ✭✭✭Johro


    DID YA EVER RAAAAPE SOMEONE!
    No but I murdered me dinner. Ffs.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,705 ✭✭✭Johro


    syndeyfife wrote: »

    I was the only female to admit to it as well.
    You're so honest.:rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,075 ✭✭✭Wattle


    Yes but never again. Way too much trouble and I lost a few friends over it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,921 ✭✭✭John Doe1


    Only if I really hated the guy she was married to, otherwise could not be bothered with it


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,770 ✭✭✭Jen Pigs Fly


    Johro wrote: »
    No but I murdered me dinner. Ffs.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0dyuxRA2gis


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,033 ✭✭✭mauzo


    Johro wrote: »
    You're so honest.:rolleyes:

    It wasnt this question they asked.....it was something else.

    Which is making me wonder if whoever said they heard me, actually heard me or someone else....


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,962 ✭✭✭✭dark crystal


    Yeah, I had a brief affair with a married man a few years back.

    I was lonely, had bad self-esteem issues after a break up and he was somebody to help me forget how low I was feeling at the time.

    Didn't work, though. I felt guilty as hell throughout the affair and broke it off after a couple of weeks. Went for councilling instead which helped a lot more.

    I certainly didn't do it just for kicks, nor was I proud of it. It was a fukcing shameful thing to do.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,705 ✭✭✭Johro




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,705 ✭✭✭Johro


    Yeah, I had a brief affair with a married man a few years back.

    I was lonely, had bad self-esteem issues after a break up and he was somebody to help me forget how low I was feeling at the time.

    Didn't work, though. I felt guilty as hell throughout the affair and broke it off after a couple of weeks. Went for councilling instead which helped a lot more.

    I certainly didn't do it just for kicks, nor was I proud of it. It was a fukcing shameful thing to do.
    I can see how that could happen, when like you say you're at a low point in your life, or you feel you need some love and attention and it's there on offer, or you get pissed at a party and end up in bed together, it's the people who carry on affairs for ages and think they're real clever or the ones who get their kicks from 'stealing' husbands/wives/boyfriends/girlfriends I really don't care for.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 901 ✭✭✭Vicar in a tutu


    No i wouldnt do it. If you want a thrill have a danger **** :)
    I think it is self esteem. Proving to yourself you can have someone thats unavailable. I would feel absolutely devastated for the guys wife. There are plenty of single men out there.. you can find your '' thrill'' other ways.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 25,004 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    Been there but was never proud of it...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,962 ✭✭✭✭dark crystal


    Johro wrote: »
    I can see how that could happen, when like you say you're at a low point in your life, or you feel you need some love and attention and it's there on offer, or you get pissed at a party and end up in bed together, it's the people who carry on affairs for ages and think they're real clever or the ones who get their kicks from 'stealing' husbands/wives/boyfriends/girlfriends I really don't care for.

    Yeah, I don't understand the mindset of people who specifically seek out other people's partners just for the hell of it.

    If it's no strings sex you're after, there are plenty of available men out there willing to comply. If you're targetting someone with a ring on their finger, it's not just the sex you're after...there's deeper issues going on somewhere there.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,680 ✭✭✭policarp


    It's a fantasy or a fetish for a lot of married people.If you want to do it, do it.But be careful, it can lead to financial ruin. . .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,956 ✭✭✭Doc Ruby


    Yeah, husband was a Honger gangster, I make no apologies.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,033 ✭✭✭mauzo


    Yeah, I don't understand the mindset of people who specifically seek out other people's partners just for the hell of it.

    If it's no strings sex you're after, there are plenty of available men out there willing to comply. If you're targetting someone with a ring on their finger, it's not just the sex you're after...there's deeper issues going on somewhere there.

    Jeez, I have no self esteem issues....no daddy issues, no issues.

    I wish people would stop trying to make excuses for the crappy things i do, because I dont!! Sometimes in life, people are just sh*tty. I must be one of those people.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 228 ✭✭StinkySocs


    One of my mates had an affair with a married man for about 6 months, about 9 years ago...she hated his wife, the opportunity arose :rolleyes: and she took it.
    9 years later...I don't think she'd do it again or else I don't think we'd be friends too much drama that went with it!


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