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Formerly Beautiful

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,956 ✭✭✭Doc Ruby


    Giselle wrote: »
    In my experience its a myth perpetrated by middle aged men hoping to pull a younger woman, and accepted by younger men who desperately hope its true.

    For every one George Clooney there's 50 Rowan Atkinsons.

    Sorry. :)
    Mr Bean is HUGE in South East Asia, still daily viewing for many people. If there's anyone that has actually done the Japanese triplets thing, its him.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,387 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    True Rowan Atkinson is an odd one. Hardly conventionally good looking when he was young, but pulled some serious beauties even before he was as well known and rich as he is.

    I'd agree that the notion that men age better is kinda odd. Like bald men name checking Sean Connery, Patrick Stewart, or Bruce Willis. Yea right lads. Those blokes with or without hair, from 9 to 90 or 9 hours dead would have women(and gay chappies) crawling over broken glass to get to them. Not quite the same as Liam from accounts, with no hair, a beer gut and baggy eyes at 30. :D

    I would agree that men have the advantage that age can improve them and that signs of age are less of an issue for them. That's harder for women. There are very few gorgeous women at 25 that look better at 45, whereas G Clooney was a very good looking man at 25 he would be considered better looking in his 50's.

    Still as Giselle said for every one George...

    Many worry about Artificial Intelligence. I worry far more about Organic Idiocy.



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    Middle age has ravaged my looks somewhat. I'm usually considered to be merely handsome these days.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,956 ✭✭✭Doc Ruby


    Wibbs wrote: »
    There are very few gorgeous women at 25 that look better at 45, whereas G Clooney was a very good looking man at 25 he would be considered better looking in his 50's.
    I think regardless of gender if someone has really looked after themselves they are attractive at almost any age. I'd be more attracted to a 40 or 50 year old woman with great muscle tone (indicating discipline, self respect and willpower at a minimum) than to a teenage hottie whose greatest physical achievement was being born. Hell this is a 77 year old I'd have no difficulty with.

    You can't do a whole lot with your face over time, but there's no reason for the rest of your body to become unattractive. It just gets more difficult to maintain the standard over time.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,944 ✭✭✭✭4zn76tysfajdxp


    I used to be really cute it's all gone downhill since I was about four.


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  • Posts: 53,068 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I used to be really cute it's all gone downhill since I was about four.

    Yeh I've put on so much weight since I was born :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,213 ✭✭✭Sea Filly


    A beautiful person inevitably losing their looks means they'll just one day know what it's always been like for the non-beautiful people. :) So, it'll be an adjustment for them but it certainly won't be the end of the world. :) And if said beautiful person has a full life, and doesn't put too much value on their looks (difficult to do, I'm sure, when your looks have celebrated all your life) then that will make it easier again.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,213 ✭✭✭Sea Filly


    Tell that to The boyfriend of Sabrina the teenage witch.

    In fairness, pretty boys never get better with age. It's always the men who weren't that great when they were younger who improve with time.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,213 ✭✭✭Sea Filly


    Wibbs wrote: »
    True Rowan Atkinson is an odd one. Hardly conventionally good looking when he was young, but pulled some serious beauties even before he was as well known and rich as he is.

    Ooh really, who? Celeb goss is my guilty pleasure.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 324 ✭✭Wereghost


    Sea Filly wrote: »
    In fairness, pretty boys never get better with age. It's always the men who weren't that great when they were younger who improve with time.
    This is good to hear. ;)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,213 ✭✭✭Sea Filly


    Scrawny71 wrote: »
    This is good to hear. ;)

    Case in point: Leonardo Di Caprio.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 684 ✭✭✭CL7


    Sea Filly wrote: »
    In fairness, pretty boys never get better with age. I

    What?

    Richard Gere, Robert Downey Jr, Tom Cruise. I'm sure there's thousands more but I don't feel like looking at pictures of good looking men all day.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,710 ✭✭✭Balmed Out


    I used always get served immediately at the bar if there was a female barmaid but now I have to wait like everybody else:(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,213 ✭✭✭Sea Filly


    CL7 wrote: »
    What?

    Richard Gere, Robert Downey Jr, Tom Cruise.

    I wouldn't class them as pretty boys. They were handsome when they were younger. Pretty boy is a class all of its own. :)
    CL7 wrote: »
    I'm sure there's thousands more but I don't feel like looking at pictures of good looking men all day.

    Suuuuurrrrre you don't. ;) :P


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Nah I don't agree being really good-looking when you're very young means you'll deteriorate more noticeably as you age - could mean you'll just get more ravishing. But yes, the former can happen - and it must suck.

    I'd definitely prefer Leo Di Caprio now though to when he was in Titanic! He actually looks like a man rather than a young boy as he did then, despite being in his 20s.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,213 ✭✭✭Sea Filly


    Dudess wrote: »
    I'd definitely prefer Leo Di Caprio now though to when he was in Titanic! He actually looks like a man rather than a young boy as he did then, despite being in his 20s.

    He looks really bloated, IMO.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,476 ✭✭✭2rkehij30qtza5


    My body goes to **** every time I get pregnant, and it takes over a year to get it back again.
    It's really hard and frustrating.
    Other than that, I look the same as I did 10+ years ago.
    Age hasn't gotten me yet.


    I kinda think I fall into this bracket too!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 699 ✭✭✭Table Top Joe


    Doc Ruby wrote: »
    Hell this is a 77 year old I'd have no difficulty with.


    Holy shi*t!......thats some going(but then as the fella says "black dont crack",look at Obama or Will Smith to just name two off the top of my head,the black folk age remarkably well in fairness.......presuming they were good looking to begin with of course)


    I agree with the rest of your post,looking after yourself is essential from about your late 20s on i think,your body cant do it as effortlessly anymore
    I was only discussing this with a mate recently,how hard it must be to go from being a beautiful or good looking woman to just....average after the years pile up,not nearly as bad for men i reckon,men can get away with a lot more(dont blame me!)smoking is big part of people losing their looks,i always shake my head when i see a hottie smoking,shes gonna regret that down the line,Irish diet is a disaster too of course

    "The problem with beauty is that it's like being born rich and getting poorer" Joan Collins

    On the plus side for myself i finally grew out of my baby face over the last couple of years(yeaah!).......but my hair is now slowly(but surely:()receding......ffs,cant win


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,161 ✭✭✭af_thefragile


    ^Obama looks really old since he became the president...


    Also was it Marilyn Monroe who said no matter how hard you try gravity will eventually pull you down...


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 449 ✭✭Pantsface


    Sea Filly wrote: »
    Case in point: Leonardo Di Caprio.

    Oi! Leo is still a massive big ride


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,903 ✭✭✭Napper Hawkins


    Sorry folks but the reality is if you were good looking to begin with, you'll remain good looking if you look after yourself.

    That "getting better looking as you get older" ****e only really applies to people who were easy on the eye in the first place, but is designed to make the not so pretty among us feel better about themselves.

    Like bbw or curvy is used as a nicer way of saying "lazy fat arse".

    Sucks for some but c'est la vie, if you get hung up on this **** at all then your looks or anyone elses looks are the least of your problems.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,161 ✭✭✭af_thefragile


    Pantsface wrote: »
    Oi! Leo is still a massive big ride

    I do think Leo looks better now than he did in his Titanic days. He's doing more serious roles now and is not just a pretty boy. I've started to like Leo ever since his role in the Departed.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,827 ✭✭✭christmas2012


    everybody gets older,i dont see what the big fuss is,i think there is too much credence given to those with magazine rated looks,if thats how you think and what you work off then you know youre going to be dissapointed.its immature to have such judgement on how someone looks..


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 449 ✭✭Pantsface


    I do think Leo looks better now than he did in his Titanic days. He's doing more serious roles now and is not just a pretty boy. I've started to like Leo ever since his role in the Departed.


    SNAP he's a fantastic actor who sadly does not get the respect he deserves


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,956 ✭✭✭Doc Ruby


    Pantsface wrote: »
    SNAP he's a fantastic actor who sadly does not get the respect he deserves
    He was very good in Blood Diamonds, I think it was. Really brought the role to life, I'd say he'd do well in Indiana Jones type casting.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 699 ✭✭✭Table Top Joe


    ^Obama looks really old since he became the president...



    He's aged yes but id have to disagree that he looks "really old",he looks in great shape for a 50 year old,i dont know any 50 years who look that good! he clearly looks after himself and it shows,he could pass for 10 years younger imo,id be very happy if i was in a similar condition at 50


    From last week

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RG-XAJiho5c&feature=related


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,161 ✭✭✭af_thefragile


    Doc Ruby wrote: »
    He was very good in Blood Diamonds, I think it was. Really brought the role to life, I'd say he'd do well in Indiana Jones type casting.

    He was amazing in Body of Lies, Shutter Island and Inception too.
    He does serious roles really well.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,903 ✭✭✭Napper Hawkins


    Pantsface wrote: »
    SNAP he's a fantastic actor who sadly does not get the respect he deserves

    Agreed, but I think it would require nothing less than a public distancing from his Titanic role if he wanted the kind of respect you think he deserves.

    It'll never happen though, that film made him and now he has to live with that pretty boy girl hair teen fluff image for the rest of his days.
    Think either of the Twilight fags twenty years down the line trying to be taken seriously in more mature roles. Doesn't matter if they become good actors.
    You'll still always be that sparkly little creampuff from that moronic soft porn for teenage girls/creepy oul ones.

    Though I'm sure their vast wealth will ease the pain somewhat.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,213 ✭✭✭Sea Filly


    Pantsface wrote: »
    SNAP he's a fantastic actor who sadly does not get the respect he deserves

    People are always saying that, but I think he does. :confused: He seems well regarded to me and has been since his teens.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 449 ✭✭Pantsface


    Sea Filly wrote: »
    People are always saying that, but I think he does. :confused: He seems well regarded to me and has been since his teens.

    Would love to see him get an Oscar


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