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The Stations

  • 27-04-2012 08:20AM
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,231 ✭✭✭podgemonster


    I have to take a half day from work today on my mothers request to drive for 5 hours to West Cork and attend our "Stations", where the priest and neighbours come to our house and mass is held and the house is blessed.

    It is suppose to occur every 6 years. There are some positives to it, plenty of sandwiches, cakes, cups of tea and cans of Heineken to be had afterwards. My Dad said he like getting the neighbours round.

    Does anywhere else in the country still carry on with this Catholic tradition? Is it pointless or does it help develop a sense of community?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,041 ✭✭✭Seachmall


    We just have orgies around here, develops a great sense of community.


  • Moderators, Entertainment Moderators Posts: 10,464 Mod ✭✭✭✭xzanti


    Seachmall wrote: »
    We just have orgies around here, develops a great sense of community.

    Kumbaya :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,583 ✭✭✭mconigol


    Mass in your own house? :cool:

    Somebody has been looking after the priest I'd say :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,450 ✭✭✭✭El Guapo!


    Money making racket. I bet you have to slip the priest a few bob.

    But if it makes your Ma happy then do it. Plus as you said, you'll get off work and get free sambos. Win-win


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,037 ✭✭✭Plazaman


    Haven't seen it done or heard of it be done locally in about 20 years. Been to many in my youth. Good way to (a) snoop around neighbours house (b) massive amounts of sandwiches and biscuits (as already said), think Mrs Doyle times ten (c) always got a slug of wine at a station that you wouldn't get at mass - probably turned me in to the raging non-practicing catholic alcoholic I am now.

    I remember one station in our house, confessions were usually heard before the mass. An uncle of mine was last in the queue. After he went 15/20 minutes past and no sign of him to come back out. There were nervous looks from my aunt wondering was his soul that damned it was taking him that long to confess. 30 minutes in, still no sign and this is 10 minutes after the mass was due to start, all the neighbours had gathered. The gossip mill started, "Paddy is in there confessing for over half an hour now". 40 minutes in, my mother sensing my aunts mortification, sent me down to the room to tell the priest the time. I knocked on the door and went in and the lads were deep in discussion about the local GAA club, how bad they were doing that year and had forgotten about the time.

    They were oblivious to the commotion when they went out. Even though I knew it was just general chat, I never told anyone that and the fact I came back looking stunned, close to tears and shaking my head only added fuel to the fire. Paddy was bundled out the door by his wife as soon as the station was over without so much as a "drop of tay or a sangich".


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,209 ✭✭✭CardBordWindow


    Plazaman wrote: »
    Paddy was bundled out the door by his wife as soon as the station was over without so much as a "drop of tay or a sangich".
    The worst penance to ever result from a confession!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,808 ✭✭✭FatherLen


    i have never heard of this tradition.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,391 ✭✭✭✭mikom


    I have to take a half day from work today on my mothers request to drive for 5 hours to West Cork and attend our "Stations", where the priest and neighbours come to our house and mass is held and the house is blessed.

    "The power of Christ compels you"


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,391 ✭✭✭✭mikom


    FatherLen wrote: »
    i have never heard of this tradition.

    Used to be a regular thing in the West anyway.
    My ould wan had them about 6 years ago.


  • Posts: 81,308 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Benjamin Melodic Somebody


    I read about this in a paper a while back, some very rural places take turns doing it. It does seem to be a big community gathering


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,231 ✭✭✭podgemonster


    Dean09 wrote: »
    Money making racket. I bet you have to slip the priest a few bob.

    But if it makes your Ma happy then do it. Plus as you said, you'll get off work and get free sambos. Win-win


    You do have to pay the Priest. I'm not sure how much it is or if the figure is disclosed but there probably a rule of thumb same as wedding or christening.

    There's another element to it is that for the last three months my mother has wore herself out redoing the house. She has repainted the kitchen, hung new curtains, weeded the driveway, had my father powerhose the entire house etc....

    The sing song after a few beers is usually good fun.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,391 ✭✭✭✭mikom


    bluewolf wrote: »
    It does seem to be a big community gathering

    Not at my ould wans last one.
    She could have held it in a phone box.
    It'll be the last one I reckon.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    bluewolf wrote: »
    I read about this in a paper a while back, some very rural places take turns doing it. It does seem to be a big community gathering

    A girl from the somewhere in the country once told me about this and she said it was used by the local women folk to have a nose around someone else's house and then later make bitchy comments about what was seen.

    Ah good old community spirit!


  • Posts: 81,308 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Benjamin Melodic Somebody


    Well obviously the article I read was doing a favourable take on it :D

    I don't know anything else about it


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,391 ✭✭✭✭mikom


    A girl from the somewhere in the country once told me about this and she said it was used by the local women folk to have a nose around someone else's house and then later make bitchy comments about what was seen.

    And thus was born "Come dine with me".


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,137 ✭✭✭44leto


    I remember it as a Good Friday thing, the priest would take us the congregation around each pictorial or sculptured representation of the passage taken by Jaabus before he got nailed, to save us all.

    Sometimes this ceremony was taken outside the holy catholic church and some weird loon would carry a cross. It was fun for all the family.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,710 ✭✭✭Balmed Out


    44leto wrote: »
    I remember it as a Good Friday thing, the priest would take us the congregation around each pictorial or sculptured representation of the passage taken by Jaabus before he got nailed, to save us all.

    Sometimes this ceremony was taken outside the holy catholic church and some weird loon would carry a cross. It was fun for all the family.

    Thats the stations of the cross. "The stations" is a very different thing.

    It still goes on in a lot of rural areas, I know parts of west cork and north cork where I have relations still do it anyhow. Basically a parish seems to be sub-divided into different areas whereby each house in that area takes turns hosting a mass every know and then. Id imagine its one or two houses a year. Everyone in that area will attend and have a piss up afterwards.

    Its used as the impetus for all home improvements / painting etc to get ready for it. It really only happens these days where there is a strong sense of community. If two many were to drop out it would be too much of a job for the remaining households so its died out in a lot of areas.

    The religous aspect seems to take a back seat to the social gathering . Oh and one other thing it seems the expected norm to invite all those in your staion to family weddings.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,231 ✭✭✭podgemonster


    Balmed Out wrote: »
    Thats the stations of the cross. "The stations" is a very different thing.

    It still goes on in a lot of rural areas, I know parts of west cork and north cork where I have relations still do it anyhow. Basically a parish seems to be sub-divided into different areas whereby each house in that area takes turns hosting a mass every know and then. Id imagine its one or two houses a year. Everyone in that area will attend and have a piss up afterwards.

    Its used as the impetus for all home improvements / painting etc to get ready for it. It really only happens these days where there is a strong sense of community. If two many were to drop out it would be too much of a job for the remaining households so its died out in a lot of areas.

    The religous aspect seems to take a back seat to the social gathering . Oh and one other thing it seems the expected norm to invite all those in your staion to family weddings.

    That is pretty much bang on what it is. Many people in my "townland" are quite elderly farming families thus the Stations is still going for now.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,710 ✭✭✭Balmed Out


    I know of younger people who do it too that arent even religous, the socially acceptable neighbourhood piss up seems popular enough. Good way of binding different generations I suppose.

    To be fair anywhere I know that does it seems to be a great place to live with regards community spirit, volunteerism etc thats lacking in the city.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,069 ✭✭✭✭LordSutch


    I have to take a half day from work today on my mothers request to drive for 5 hours to West Cork and attend our "Stations", where the priest and neighbours come to our house and mass is held and the house is blessed.

    It is suppose to occur every 6 years. There are some positives to it, plenty of sandwiches, cakes, cups of tea and cans of Heineken to be had afterwards. My Dad said he like getting the neighbours round.

    Does anywhere else in the country still carry on with this Catholic tradition? Is it pointless or does it help develop a sense of community?

    Fascinating, never heard of this before, then again I'm not a Roman Catholic.
    Maybe this topic should be in the Christian forum?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,137 ✭✭✭44leto


    I never heard of it in Dublin, but it sounds nice, a communal gathering and bonding around worship.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 14,962 ✭✭✭✭JupiterKid


    I remember mass being said in our house a couple of times back in the 80s when I was a kid. But this was suburban Dublin and not down the country. I also remember going to a neighbour's house about a block away to hear mass. Funny thing was that the priest who said mass (who was the brother of our neighbour) was married.

    Once, again back in the 1980s, a priest said mass on our boat on the Shannon!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,391 ✭✭✭✭mikom


    JupiterKid wrote: »
    But this was suburban Dublin and not down the country.
    JupiterKid wrote: »
    I also remember going to a neighbour's house about a block away to hear mass.
    !

    Dublin, USA ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,025 ✭✭✭grindle


    Never heard of it.

    Can the religious stuff be avoided for extra eating/drinking time, or do you have to pretend to care for the parents' sake?

    Having to take holiday hours, drive for five hours... There'd want to be a banquet of whores included for me to go.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 14,962 ✭✭✭✭JupiterKid


    mikom wrote: »
    JupiterKid wrote: »
    But this was suburban Dublin and not down the country.
    JupiterKid wrote: »
    I also remember going to a neighbour's house about a block away to hear mass.
    !

    Dublin, USA ?

    No, Dublin Ireland. Our estate was in the shape of a letter P with a few cul de sacs off it and anywhere on the opposite side of that "P" was referred to by everyone as "round the block."


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 543 ✭✭✭rgmmg


    JupiterKid wrote: »
    I remember mass being said in our house a couple of times back in the 80s when I was a kid. But this was suburban Dublin and not down the country. I also remember going to a neighbour's house about a block away to hear mass. Funny thing was that the priest who said mass (who was the brother of our neighbour) was married.

    Once, again back in the 1980s, a priest said mass on our boat on the Shannon!


    No he wasn't Dougal :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,395 ✭✭✭✭mikemac1


    Doesn't sound all that strange OP
    Not uncommon in rural areas to have the priest out to bless a new build house or even bless the premises of a new start-up business

    If business owners did this more maybe we wouldn't have such huge unemployment :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,944 ✭✭✭✭4zn76tysfajdxp


    mikemac1 wrote: »
    Doesn't sound all that strange OP
    Not uncommon in rural areas to have the priest out to bless a new build house or even bless the premises of a new start-up business

    If business owners did this more maybe we wouldn't have such huge unemployment :)

    Now we're in for it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,808 ✭✭✭FatherLen


    mikemac1 wrote: »
    Doesn't sound all that strange OP
    Not uncommon in rural areas to have the priest out to bless a new build house or even bless the premises of a new start-up business

    If business owners did this more maybe we wouldn't have such huge unemployment :)

    *insert piccard facepalm meme here*


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,231 ✭✭✭podgemonster


    grindle wrote: »
    Never heard of it.

    Can the religious stuff be avoided for extra eating/drinking time, or do you have to pretend to care for the parents' sake?

    Having to take holiday hours, drive for five hours... There'd want to be a banquet of whores included for me to go.

    In fairness this is the hourses 3rd Stations so from what I remember mass is about 20-30mins including communion followed by the tae, followed by a few drinks with the last guest leaving around 2am. Its also been seen in other stations that women and men socialise in seperate rooms though I've never seen that.

    I guess i was a little cranky about it this morning as I had to drive into work at 7am to get a parking space and while it'l be 6pm or after before i reach home the lads in work will be on the 3rd or 4th pay-day pints. I am slightly looking forward to it, though i will have to put aside my atheist views and do a reading for my parents sake at least.


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