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Could you stay with your partner if you found out they used to be a hooker?

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  • #32
    Fizman
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,605 ✭✭✭Fizman


    What I find a little funny is the perception that prostitutes and the like, are perceived to have such gaping love caves. Even Mary-Jane Rottencrotch who has gone long periods of time being voluntarily single, can be labelled as 'well used'!

    Whereas nothing is said about Betsy who has been in long term relationships all her life. Provided she has been having sex regularly, chances are she is having WAYYY more sex than your average single girl who likes to go out on the pull once a week.

    Guys and girls, at a guess, have sex a couple of times a month while on the single scene. (This is being very kind to most cases of singledom!).


    EDIT: I've just noticed that I may have gone a little off topic, and this may very well be a thread in its own right. :o


  • #33
    tripe man
    Closed Accounts Posts: 37 ✭tripe man


    Fizman wrote: »
    Guys and girls, at a guess, have sex a couple of times a month while on the single scene.

    Fixed


  • #34
    davet82
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,753 ✭✭✭davet82


    Could you stay with your partner if you found out they used to be a hooker?

    Meh, I'd see it as a form of extra income in these tough times :)


  • #35
    ShadowHearth
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,911 ✭✭✭✭ShadowHearth


    If you really love your partner, then you won't give a **** about her past.


  • #36
    Cee-Jay-Cee
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,234 ✭✭✭✭Cee-Jay-Cee


    Special Agent Oso wrote: »
    Lets just say for example the hooker that slept with Wayne Rooney up sticks and moved to America/Australia - somewhere that nobody knew who she was and you ended up going out with her or somebody with a similiar past as her and you found out through a mate/the internet whatever that she (or for the girls out there he) was previously a hooker. Could you stay with them? or would it be to much and you would have to leave them?

    Anne...is that you? Has Frank been at the prozzies again???


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  • #37
    Logical Fallacy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,933 ✭✭✭Logical Fallacy


    Zulu wrote: »
    It'd depend when you found out.
    If I found out now, I'd imagine it would be too much. Not because they were previously a hooker, but rather that our relationship was very different to what I thought, ie: open & honest. That'd have been a whopping secret to hold back to be fair.

    The difficulty there is that I would imagine it would require a certain timeframe to build trust...it's not the kind of thing you would find out on the first date.

    Unless you paid her.


  • #38
    Zulu
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,967 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    ShadowHearth wrote: »
    If you really love your partner, then you won't give a **** about her past.
    Even if in their past they did something so abhorrent to your personal belief, it completely, and irreparably changes how you see them as an individual?

    Huummm, maybe all those songs and fairy tales about love are accurate.


  • #39
    Zulu
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,967 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    Logical Fallacy wrote: »
    The difficulty there is that I would imagine it would require a certain timeframe to build trust...it's not the kind of thing you would find out on the first date.

    Unless you paid her.
    :confused: That was kinda my point when I asked "it'd depend when you found out".


  • #40
    later12
    Closed Accounts Posts: 11,298 ✭✭✭✭later12


    I would hope that I'd be logical enough to see beyond it. In fact, I would hope I'd be logical enough to allow her to keep doing it.

    But I wouldn't bet on it.


  • #41
    IM0
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,390 ✭✭✭IM0


    yep, wouldnt bother me at all. It would help explain her 'appetite'


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  • #42
    JohnMarston
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,881 ✭✭✭JohnMarston


    I'd ask her what its like to work from home


  • #43
    Dubhlinner
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 456 ✭✭Dubhlinner


    Used to be seeing a girl who told me after a while she previously did lapdancing/stripping whilst travelling. think it was a major contributing factor for going off her and ending things

    So obviously prostitution would be next step up and a definite no-no.

    Though there may be exceptional circumstances. The girl I was seeing didn't have to do what she did. She just found it preferable to getting sh*t wages in a pub. Basically I saw that as pathetic. Showed she was a slave to money. Reducing herself to the lowest common denominator and taking advantage of pathetic men who have more money than sense. It would be like going out with someone who cold-reads people with dead relatives for 50quid an hour

    Maybe if a girlfriend had previously had no choice. eg her kids starve unless she finds the money or was homeless as a child/teenager and turned to it. that would be completely different.

    However if she's the typical prostitute who does it simply because she wants more money.. then no. definitely no.


  • #44
    stupidusername
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,762 ✭✭✭✭stupidusername


    eek. do men ever get paid for sex by women? cause if he said he'd been a hooker, I'd be a little worried.

    but seriously, as zulu said the only real important thing i can imagine would be when you get told. but at the same time, i could maybe understand someone feeling they couldn't say something like that very early on.


  • #45
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 5,464 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I would have to say no.
    The most i could go for ever is 2 previous owners and nothing more than 100,000 miles.


  • #46
    44leto
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,137 ✭✭✭44leto


    It would not bother me in the slightest.


  • #47
    CL7
    Closed Accounts Posts: 684 ✭✭✭CL7


    44leto wrote: »
    It would not bother me in the slightest.

    Me neither.


  • #48
    Doc Ruby
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,956 ✭✭✭Doc Ruby


    Yeah wouldn't concern me.


  • #49
    up for anything
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,791 ✭✭✭up for anything


    Zulu wrote: »
    It'd depend when you found out.
    If I found out now, I'd imagine it would be too much. Not because they were previously a hooker, but rather that our relationship was very different to what I thought, ie: open & honest. That'd have been a whopping secret to hold back to be fair.

    It would be far more upsetting to find out that she'd been hiding the fact that she'd been a solicitor.
    Gummy Panda wrote: »
    No one wants a fanny like a hippo's yawn

    Considering the vagina is composed of elastic muscle I'd imagine the hypothetical vagina in question would be tighter than that of a woman with a single partner all her life and a few kids under her belt. A false anaology.


  • #50
    Gummy Panda
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    up for anything wrote: »
    Gummy Panda wrote: »
    No one wants a fanny like a hippo's yawn

    Considering the vagina is composed of elastic muscle I'd imagine the hypothetical vagina in question would be tighter than that of a woman with a single partner all her life and a few kids under her belt. A false anaology.

    Hey you're not Wibbs! I only listen to him about the elasticity of fannies! :mad:


  • #51
    up for anything
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,791 ✭✭✭up for anything


    Gummy Panda wrote: »
    Hey you're not Wibbs! I only listen to him about the elasticity of fannies! :mad:

    Please, please, please, call a flange a flange. The word 'fanny' makes me bilious. :(


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  • #52
    Thomas828
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,492 ✭✭✭Thomas828


    If she's not a prostitute any more I don't see what the problem would be, especially if she'd quit years ago.

    Though if she had assured you that she was a virgin on your first night in bed, well, that would put her in a very different light.


  • #53
    funnilenough
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 121 ✭✭funnilenough


    sure it would be great.you could ride her for free and even stick it in trap 2 when its your b'day,so ye could.


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