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MS sufferer rides wheelchair for 2 hours to kill herself

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    MrStuffins wrote: »
    Now you're gettin' it;)

    Seriously what a childish attitude. It's thinking like that that gives people ideas to jump in front of trains and whatnot. No regard for what they put others through.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,483 ✭✭✭Fenian Army


    MrStuffins wrote: »
    And for those (the usual suspects in at least one case) here saying what she did was selfish.............. so what? Good for her! She was living a life of hell and wanted to end it! The decorators that saw it will get over it!

    I doubt she actually thought "Well, I better spend the next 40 years trapped behind 2 eyeballs because if I kill myself, someone might see me and have a few nightmares"
    What if like my friend the decorators had jumped in to save her and drowned?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,650 ✭✭✭✭MrStuffins


    prinz wrote: »
    Seriously what a childish attitude. It's thinking like that that gives people ideas to jump in front of trains and whatnot. No regard for what they put others through.

    It seems this lady weighed up what she was going through and what effects it would have on others and made her decision.

    It's YOU who seems to have no regard for what she was going through.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,650 ✭✭✭✭MrStuffins


    What if like my friend the decorators had jumped in to save her and drowned?

    Well that didn't happen!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    MrStuffins wrote: »
    It's YOU who seems to have no regard for what she was going through.

    Why? Because I have regard for the others she dragged into it? That before I clap her on the back for her bravery and offer my congratulations I comment on how others might be affected for a lifetime? :confused:

    Yes, that obviously means I have no regard for what she was going through.... 2+2=5.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,483 ✭✭✭Fenian Army


    MrStuffins wrote: »
    Well that didn't happen!
    But it easily could have, and stuff like that happens all the time


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    MrStuffins wrote: »
    Well that didn't happen!

    ....but she wasn't to know that was she? Do you think train drivers have an easy time of getting over the sight of a body falling in front of their trains? Or do you spare them a thought at all before you go congratulating the person committing suicide?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,650 ✭✭✭✭MrStuffins


    prinz wrote: »
    Why? Because I have regard for the others she dragged into it? That before I clap her on the back for her bravery and offer my congratulations I comment on how others might be affected for a lifetime? :confused:

    Yes, that obviously means I have no regard for what she was going through.... 2+2=5.

    I'm not saying you should pat her on the back. I for one find the "brave" label a very strange one to be put on this lady by some of the people in this thread.

    But what i'm saying is, if she needed to end her suffering so badly and there were others effected, so be it!

    But it easily could have, and stuff like that happens all the time

    I'm really sorry to hear what happened to your friend, but people also get killed crossing the street all the time too.

    In this case, nobody died trying to save her.
    prinz wrote: »
    ....but she wasn't to know that was she? Do you think train drivers have an easy time of getting over the sight of a body falling in front of their trains? Or do you spare them a thought at all before you go congratulating the person committing suicide?

    I never congratulated anyone my friend.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,483 ✭✭✭Fenian Army


    I'm really sorry to hear what happened to your friend, but people also get killed crossing the street all the time too.

    In this case, nobody died trying to save her.

    Hardly the same ****ing thing.

    Its a natural reaction to try and save someone, especially of you see them in a river, canal or whatever. If you toss yourself in you have a degree of responsibility for what happens to those who do the right thing and try to save you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,650 ✭✭✭✭MrStuffins


    Hardly the same ****ing thing.

    Its a natural reaction to try and save someone, especially of you see them in a river, canal or whatever. If you toss yourself in you have a degree of responsibility for what happens to those who do the right thing and try to save you.

    Well, again, that didn't happen in this case thankfully.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,787 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    Augmerson wrote: »
    As awful as what happened to that woman is, no, I don't think euthanasia should be made legal. I think everything the government touches turns to **** and whatever way they would handle it would just be botched. I do have a lot of sympathy for people with terminal illness, really I do but even if it happened to family or friends of myself, I'd still be against euthanasia.
    So you'd rather they suffer for your peace of mind? Suffering with no release is a horrible existence, I think making them live though that is pretty close to torture.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    MrStuffins wrote: »
    But what i'm saying is, if she needed to end her suffering so badly and there were others effected, so be it!

    So let's say I feel like killing myself this evening. So I head into Dublin City Centre, make my way to the top of the GPO, because I really need to end my suffering, and jump off. And it just so happens person x walks past as I'm falling and I land on top of them and we're both killed. Oops. Shít happens. So be it. I really needed to end my suffering. The fact I caused the death of someone else is meh, collateral damage. People get killed crossing the street too, right. What if I just miss them and they get splattered with my blood and insides? Ah well so be it. Wrong place, wrong time. They might be mentally scarred for life, but my need to end my suffering takes priority... they'll get over it.

    Seriously? How self-centred and selfish can you get.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,483 ✭✭✭Fenian Army


    MrStuffins wrote: »
    Well, again, that didn't happen in this case thankfully.

    But it COULD EASILY HAVE, thats my point, saying **** like "fair play" "brave" or whatever encourages others to accept that as a viable step to take, its not, because it effects more than just the person killing themselves, as I and my friends family found out.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,650 ✭✭✭✭MrStuffins


    prinz wrote: »
    So let's say I feel like killing myself this evening. So I head into Dublin City Centre, make my way to the top of the GPO, because I really need to end my suffering, and jump off. And it just so happens person x walks past as I'm falling and I land on top of them and we're both killed. Oops. Shít happens. So be it. I really needed to end my suffering. The fact I caused the death of someone else is meh, collateral damage. People get killed crossing the street too, right. What if I just miss them and they get splattered with my blood and insides? Ah well so be it. Wrong place, wrong time. They might be mentally scarred for life, but my need to end my suffering takes priority...

    Seriously? How self-centred and selfish can you get.


    What the hell are you on about now? Your hypothesis is completely different to what happened in the case of this lady! Why not just throw a dragon into the story there friend?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,650 ✭✭✭✭MrStuffins


    But it COULD EASILY HAVE, thats my point, saying **** like "fair play" "brave" or whatever encourages others to accept that as a viable step to take, its not, because it effects more than just the person killing themselves, as I and my friends family found out.

    Well it was the only viable step for this lady to take. There was no curing her condition. it was die or continue to live a life of torture. She made the choice and nobody else died.


  • Moderators, Entertainment Moderators Posts: 10,464 Mod ✭✭✭✭xzanti


    We should absolutely be allowed to choose to die in dignity when faced with a an undignified and agonizing death..

    It's a mercy that we afford to our pets but not our loved ones.. baffling really :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,483 ✭✭✭Fenian Army


    MrStuffins wrote: »
    Well it was the only viable step for this lady to take. There was no curing her condition. it was die or continue to live a life of torture. She made the choice and nobody else died.

    If, as very easily could have happened, someone else did die, would it have been the "right thing"?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,787 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    If, as very easily could have happened, someone else did die, would it have been the "right thing"?
    So what she's done wrong is kill herself in such a way as to put others at risk trying to recover her body? Simple solution is to give her a legal and humane way of ending her life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,650 ✭✭✭✭MrStuffins


    If, as very easily could have happened, someone else did die, would it have been the "right thing"?

    It's never a good thing for someone to die in a situation like that. Luckily it didn't happen.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,483 ✭✭✭Fenian Army


    ScumLord wrote: »
    So what she's done wrong is kill herself in such a way as to put others at risk trying to recover her body? Simple solution is to give her a legal and humane way of ending her life.

    Yeah, but that option aint there is it? Thus what she did wasn't "brave" or the "right thing" it was supremely self centered and selfish and could have caused great physical harm as well as the probable mental harm it did cause, to innocent third parties.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    MrStuffins wrote: »
    What the hell are you on about now? Your hypothesis is completely different to what happened in the case of this lady! Why not just throw a dragon into the story there friend?

    ..and that's the best you can come up with? My hypothesis differs only in the method of committing suicide. So perhaps you could try again?

    This lady threw herself into a canal, instead of off a building, she had no way of knowing if somebody else would be hurt/die trying to get to her? Or how affected the workmen or the PC or the ambulance staff etc would be... and the best you can come up with is 'so be it'?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,483 ✭✭✭Fenian Army


    MrStuffins wrote: »
    It's never a good thing for someone to die in a situation like that. Luckily it didn't happen.

    You going to answer the question or dance around the issue? I cant stand people who are purposefully obtuse.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,207 ✭✭✭The King of Moo


    Yeah, but that option aint there is it? Thus what she did wasn't "brave" or the "right thing" it was supremely self centered and selfish and could have caused great physical harm as well as the probable mental harm it did cause, to innocent third parties.

    So you suggest she should have carried on suffering for the rest of her life, just to adhere to the law?

    Obviously any suicide causes some degree of suffering or even on rare occasions, danger, to others, but someone who is suicidal is probably well aware of that but suffering so much that they see no other way out.

    At least this woman waited till there was no-one around who might try to rescue her.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,650 ✭✭✭✭MrStuffins


    prinz wrote: »
    ..and that's the best you can come up with? My hypothesis differs only in the method of committing suicide. So perhaps you could try again?

    This lady threw herself into a canal, instead of off a building, she had no way of knowing if somebody else would be hurt/die trying to get to her? Or how affected the workmen or the PC or the ambulance staff etc would be... and the best you can come up with is 'so be it'?

    It really isn't the same thing. You gave absolutely no information as to what the reasons were for your commiting suicide, what your other options were, it's quite frightening that you think this lady's suicide and you "feeling like killing myself this evening" are the same thing.

    I'm not gonna play this silly game with you. Youv'e already lost anyway!
    You going to answer the question or dance around the issue? I cant stand people who are purposefully obtuse.

    I've already said it's never a good thing if someone dies in that situation. What more do you want from me? And why are we all talking in hypothesis? What if this and what if that? The details as to what happened are written down. Concern yourself with what happened and not with what might've happened.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,787 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    Yeah, but that option aint there is it? Thus what she did wasn't "brave" or the "right thing" it was supremely self centered and selfish and could have caused great physical harm as well as the probable mental harm it did cause, to innocent third parties.
    While that's a logical way of looking at it, logic goes out the window when your life is just suffering. You simply can't expect people to put up with that if they can help it. It's a fact of life that people will take this option if they can see no other solution and expecting them to just not to do it is as futile as expecting it not to rain because you've got plans for the day.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    MrStuffins wrote: »
    It really isn't the same thing. You gave absolutely no information as to what the reasons were for your commiting suicide, what your other options were, it's quite frightening that you think this lady's suicide and you "feeling like killing myself this evening" are the same thing..

    What a willful and pig ignorant attempt at twisting my words. You know full well what I meant and how I meant it. I made not attempt to equate my hypothetical to this woman's condition and suicide. You really had to scrape low to appear smart on that one.
    MrStuffins wrote: »
    I'm not gonna play this silly game with you. Youv'e already lost anyway!..

    It's frightening that you think this lady's suicide is a game. See what I did there? It's a bit sad and telling you think there is winning and losing to it anyway.
    MrStuffins wrote: »
    I've already said it's never a good thing if someone dies in that situation. What more do you want from me? And why are we all talking in hypothesis? What if this and what if that? The details as to what happened are written down. Concern yourself with what happened and not with what might've happened.

    Life is about "what might've happened". Then again if you don't give a toss about the possible consequences of your actions, I'll stick by the selfish assertion.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,483 ✭✭✭Fenian Army


    So you suggest she should have carried on suffering for the rest of her life, just to adhere to the law?

    Obviously any suicide causes some degree of suffering or even on rare occasions, danger, to others, but someone who is suicidal is probably well aware of that but suffering so much that they see no other way out.

    At least this woman waited till there was no-one around who might try to rescue her.

    You obviously struggle with comprehending things... I said nothing about the law, I dont give a fcuk about the law, I said she, and the "fair play" brigade should take into account the effects of what throwing yourself into a river or whatever can have on others, like my friend who died after he jumped in to try and save someone he saw in the water.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,650 ✭✭✭✭MrStuffins


    prinz wrote: »
    What a willful and pig ignorant attempt at twisting my words. You know full well what I meant and how I meant it. I made not attempt to equate my hypothetical to this woman's condition and suicide. You really had to scrape low to appear smart on that one.

    Well, if you'd have bothered putting any sort of thought into your hypothesis then you wouldn't have appeared so silly!

    It's frightening that you think this lady's suicide is a game. See what I did there? It's a bit sad and telling you think there is winning and losing to it anyway.

    Wow, so when I said "game" you thought I meant the lady's suicide was a game........ even though I said "I'm not gonna play this game with you"........... riiiiiiiiiiight!

    Life is about "what might've happened".

    Lol. it certainly is not!
    Then again if you don't give a toss about the possible consequences of your actions, I'll stick by the selfish assertion.

    I DO give a toss. i really do. But i give a toss about both sides. Apparently you equate this lady's decision to end her life after lifelong suffering and decades of potential suffering to "So let's say I feel like killing myself this evening"

    Amazing!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,207 ✭✭✭The King of Moo


    You obviously struggle with comprehending things... I said nothing about the law, I dont give a fcuk about the law, I said she, and the "fair play" brigade should take into account the effects of what throwing yourself into a river or whatever can have on others, like my friend who died after he jumped in to try and save someone he saw in the water.

    Not generally, no.

    I assumed you meant she should obey the law as you pointed out that she had no legal way to kill herself, or be euthanised.

    If you don't think she should have continued suffering, what should she have done then? She was immobile and didn't have anyone to help her; she wasn't blessed with options.

    I'm also sure she was aware of the potential hazard to others, but don't you realise that she was suicidal and that was the dominant factor in her thinking?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,650 ✭✭✭✭MrStuffins


    You obviously struggle with comprehending things... I said nothing about the law, I dont give a fcuk about the law, I said she, and the "fair play" brigade should take into account the effects of what throwing yourself into a river or whatever can have on others, like my friend who died after he jumped in to try and save someone he saw in the water.

    What other options did she have Fenian Army?

    if you think what she did was wrong, what would you suggest she should've done instead?


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