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Ghost estate claims first victim

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,300 ✭✭✭hairyprincess


    Rest in peace little angel


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 851 ✭✭✭PrincessLola


    People always complain about childhood obesity and coddling parents keeping their children indoors, not letting them roam free like in the old days, and then a tragic accident happens and the very same people complain 'where were the parents??'

    I know the poor boy was only 2 but if he'd been 7/8/9 ect people would still be blaming the parents.

    They aren't superheros and tragic accidents do happen.

    R.I.P


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,176 ✭✭✭TheMilkyPirate


    My son just turned two last week, And he has been able to open our front door and my mothers one since he was 18 months old. We lock it obviously but you never know when you might forget. Trust me you look away for one second and there gone, I've ran out after him so many times after he just bolted.

    Even thinking about that being him, It's horrible.. Feel so sorry for the family. I don't know what i would do. That would really break me.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 309 ✭✭Tim the Enchanter


    I think its disgraceful that the parents are being questioned here. We dont know what happened. Poor kid. Rip


  • Posts: 6,321 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    baraca wrote: »
    My son just turned two last week, And he has been able to open our front door and my mothers one since he was 18 months old. We lock it obviously but you never know when you might forget. Trust me you look away for one second and there gone, I've ran out after him so many times after he just bolted.

    Even thinking about that being him, It's horrible.. Feel so sorry for the family. I don't know what i would do. That would really break me.

    yeah, I think it would break most of us. Couldnt imagine such a loss.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,513 ✭✭✭donalg1


    dolanbaker wrote: »
    Fishooks12 wrote: »
    Probably be lynched for saying this but why was a 2 year old left unsupervised on a building site
    Have you ever had children, they sneak out!

    The "you wouldn't know until you have had kids" line didn't take long to appear


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,562 ✭✭✭✭Sunnyisland


    Tragic accident, RIP little child.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,668 ✭✭✭nlgbbbblth


    Lot of point-scoring on this thread.

    RIP to the little lad and sympathies to his family.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,485 ✭✭✭sh1tstirrer


    amacachi wrote: »
    Fishooks12 wrote: »
    No no, let's blame Bertie and FF, without them the country would have no building sites.

    Scum, hope they all rot etc...

    Nah, you need to go deeper. I blame Isaac Newton for inventing gravity, the puddle wouldn't have existed but for that.
    Your joke sounds good except Newton didn't invent gravity.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,274 ✭✭✭_feedback_


    That is terribly sad. The poor parents will go over this afternoon in their head for a long long time. RIP.


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  • Posts: 1,060 ✭✭✭ Saul Ugly Thinker


    Mistake distracted for two mins whoever was minding that poor mite is paying the highest price for it.

    Anyone who has ever minded kids their own or others and can say they watched them at all times is either a liar or a gob****e.

    It takes only minutes for a child to drown in water .

    my condolences to the childs family .


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 34,567 ✭✭✭✭Biggins


    Terribly sad for the family. They have my condolences.

    Certainly there needs to be questions asked later as regards certain matters, but its not the time or the place right now (for me anyway) to start apportioning blame etc.
    We know very little of the circumstances presently so maybe we would be better not all rushing to judgement till we learn more facts?

    Heartbreaking.
    RIP little child.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,478 ✭✭✭padi89


    Rest in peace little angel

    :confused: Was it yours or someone you know?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 30 Sweetpea101


    The poor little mite - RIP

    But about them sneaking out - it's not so much sneaking, as it is figuring our what they can do - my now four year old, when he was two, got a hold of my keys, about ten or fifteen on the bunch, he found the key to the hall door, unlocked and opened it, bringing him into the porch, found the key to the front door, unlocked and opened it, bringing him into the garden, and when I heard the noises from outside I went running, and he was climbing into the car that he had also unlocked!!!! They do get out without anyone being irresponsible, you just don't think they can do until they do!!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,159 ✭✭✭✭phasers


    Poor little thing, RIP.

    How this can be blamed on a ghost estate is beyond me though, my estate has been finished for years and big puddles still form around drains.

    Tbh this is down to negligence. Two year olds can open doors easily, especially those stupid front doors with handles which all those new houses have. My nephew tried to make a break for it recently, and toddlers are like escape artists when they want to be. They need constant supervision.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,563 ✭✭✭monkeysnapper


    The poor little mite - RIP

    But about them sneaking out - it's not so much sneaking, as it is figuring our what they can do - my now four year old, when he was two, got a hold of my keys, about ten or fifteen on the bunch, he found the key to the hall door, unlocked and opened it, bringing him into the porch, found the key to the front door, unlocked and opened it, bringing him into the garden, and when I heard the noises from outside I went running, and he was climbing into the car that he had also unlocked!!!! They do get out without anyone being irresponsible, you just don't think they can do until they do!!!

    JEEEZ you have a smart child there.

    but just saying i have a 2 year old and we are very carefull, we have the gates, outside gates and locks on them because she has worked out how to open that, as carefull as you can be there is always times they do something outside your barriers you put in their way to keep them safe, 99 times out of a hundred they come to no harm and you can count yourself lucky and have a laugh with your friends over a coffee next day on how cute they are, then there is the 1 time out of a hundred when something terrible happens,

    my heart goes out to that poor family, rip


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,948 ✭✭✭The Waltzing Consumer


    snubbleste wrote: »
    How many non-ghost housing estates claim children each year?

    Pffftt, shows what you know. Everyone knows puddles do not form in non-ghost housing estates.

    Based on the insane logic of some posters here, puddles only form when FF, developers and Met Eireann get together and cause havoc.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,537 ✭✭✭KKkitty


    Ghost estate or not, FF or not, the parents or whoever was supervising or not is all inconsequential right now. A 2 year old child is dead and is never coming back to its loved ones. No one deserves what this child got or what his or her family is going through and will never get over for the rest of their days. Even if our ghost estates are finished or demolished it may save lives but never bring back this poor little child. R.I.P. little one


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,382 ✭✭✭lastlaugh


    Very sad story and an horrific thing for the family to endure.

    Questions have to be raised about the child's supervision though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 798 ✭✭✭Midnight Sundance


    Kids can escape very easily unknown to anyone.
    A few years ago I thought my eyes were playing tricks when I saw a baby no more than one or one n a half sitting on side of a busy road. I jammed on breaks and looked to find parents, picked child up n brought it into the house which turned out to be neighbours.
    In the meantime a frantic dad n baby's sister were searching next door. I was shaking for ages after thinking how that child could have been killed , the dad reckons he turned his back for a minute and didn't expect child to be outside so was searching all through the house so perhaps this could be the case here.
    No matter the circumstances , that family are without a son, god love them! May the little mite rest in peace!!!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Whoever was minding the child may have taken their eyes off him for a split second - that's all it takes for a child of that age, who is naturally extremely curious and constantly on the move. It's impossible to glue your eyes to them 100 per cent, no matter how hard you try.
    I think too that building sites should be protected - no exposed wires etc, whether it be carried out by the building company or the residents - just in order to prevent accidents, which can happen under supervision or not.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 811 ✭✭✭cassid


    The poor little thing, what an awful tragedy for this little innocent person and his family. I have a 2 year old and was listening to that story coming home in the car and I just hugged and kissed him when I saw him.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,239 ✭✭✭✭WindSock


    Child dies in unfortunate accident...blame the parents, no! Blame ghost estates! No! Blame developers...Fianna Fail?
    Bertie and Cowen looook what you've done. For the love of god, whyyyyy?
    Lenihan is ok though coz he dead.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,490 ✭✭✭Fluorescence


    What a heartbreaking story. Poor kid. I feel terrible for the family as well - you just know this is going to haunt them til their dying day.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 409 ✭✭john reilly


    Fishooks12 wrote: »
    No no, let's blame Bertie and FF, without them the country would have no building sites.

    Scum, hope they all rot etc...

    if there where no building sites there would be no houses and everybody would die from hypothermia


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,537 ✭✭✭KKkitty


    Anyone who has blamed FF for this just think for a second, will any of FF actually care or feel any guilt. Simple answer no they won't.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,298 ✭✭✭Namlub


    padi89 wrote: »
    :confused: Was it yours or someone you know?

    It? Seriously?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,497 ✭✭✭billybudd


    A terrible tragic thing to happen i hope the poor child rests in peace and that the parents will pull through this, sadly these things happen and to speculate blame at this stage is very poor humanity.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 10,056 ✭✭✭✭SeanW


    Jake1 wrote: »
    If the child had been killed on the road, would the car and driver be blamed?
    Actually, the way motorists are treated these days, the driver would probably be thrown in jail for pre-meditated murder and new laws would be passed demanding big fluffy pillows be put on every car bumper. Or 10kph speed limits. Or something equally bizarre.

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    billybudd wrote: »
    and to speculate blame at this stage is very poor humanity.

    I guess the blowhards just gotta blow.

    The rest of us non-perfect people just get on with feeling sorrow for the child and parents.


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